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Change of class request

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LetsgoEspeon · 28/06/2026 06:55

My son will be starting p5 next year (we’re in Scotland). He has an ASD diagnosis. He’s very bright and well-behaved. Although the composition of classes changes each year (depending on that year’s given intake), we have been extremely fortunate in that he has been with a core group of friends each year, thus far. These friends have encouraged him to really enjoy school, boosted his confidence and helped him to participate fully in school life.
Here’s the AIBU….we’ve just received his class allocation for next year and while all his friends are in the P5 class, he’s going to be one of only 6 p5 children in a p5/6 composite class. He isn’t friends with any of them and knows very few of the older children that will make up the vast majority of the cohort. Would I be unreasonable to ask the school whether it would be possible for him to be moved to the p5 class? Does anyone have any experience of a similar situation? I should add that there is no issue with his teacher. We would be very happy with any teacher in the school. Thoughts much appreciated, thanks.

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LetsgoEspeon · 28/06/2026 07:03

Thank you both, that advice is very helpful. I had thought that it may possibly be classed as a reasonable adjustment. I’ll email the school and ask for a meeting…

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ClairDeLaLune · 28/06/2026 06:59

He may have been put in this class because he’s more academically able and better equipped to cope with being taught with p6 children.

But I would say you are definitely reasonable to ask for him to be moved. If he has an official diagnosis the school are required to make reasonable adjustments for him, and if he copes better with his friends around, that could be classed as a reasonable adjustment in my mind.

Also, if you don’t ask you don’t get. No harm in asking.

TeenToTwenties · 28/06/2026 06:59

Not unreasonable to ask.
Maybe ask their reasoning and raise your concern re friends?

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