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Hairdresser asking me to pay in cash

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Sally3490 · 28/06/2026 05:32

I've been going to my hairdressers for about 10 years. It's quite pricey £160 for full highlights and a cut (London). When I was last in they asked if I would pay in cash in future. The ATM is on route so in theory I could, but it adds some level of inconvenience and I'd rather not be carrying that amount of cash with me. But also, I feel it's damn cheeky. They are charging alot of money and should be paying their taxes. AIBU?

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hay5689 · 28/06/2026 12:48

HiZev · 28/06/2026 11:37

Unless you're suggesting we keep thousands of pounds in cash then it's not going to be much help in a total breakdown of financial systems. I have about £300 in cash and about the same in euros in my house. This is because I never use it and occasionally get given it for various reasons.

Are you imagining a scenario where no banking can occur but Tesco still take cash? Who would be there to serve you at the till given nobody at Tesco can now get paid?

It’s happened loads of times in my store. Card machines go down or certain banks have a glitch so it’s cash only. People walk out because they don’t carry cash but there’s nothing we can do if it’s not working. It doesn’t have to be for days, even a few hours causes a massive disruption and it happens a lot more than people realise. I always carry some cash for this very reason, I got caught out once and couldn’t even buy a drink in work so I had to borrow some money from a colleague.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 28/06/2026 11:42

HiZev · 28/06/2026 11:37

Unless you're suggesting we keep thousands of pounds in cash then it's not going to be much help in a total breakdown of financial systems. I have about £300 in cash and about the same in euros in my house. This is because I never use it and occasionally get given it for various reasons.

Are you imagining a scenario where no banking can occur but Tesco still take cash? Who would be there to serve you at the till given nobody at Tesco can now get paid?

My post was exaggerated. If I had a spare 300 untouched laying around for funz it would be better than 100 that it took a few months to build.
My point was that cash is important for many reasons.
I believe the world would be more vulnerable if it became obsolete.
I think Tesco would be long looted if such an event happened so using a card/cash would be a moot point.

HiZev · 28/06/2026 11:37

EmeraldShamrock000 · 28/06/2026 11:25

Everyone will care if the internet collapses or there was a financial cyberattack.
We must keep some cash in circulation.
I have a jar of euro coins. I withdraw €200 weekly for shopping etc and throw the leftovers in my cash jar, there is probably less than a 100 but it’d cover the basics.
The people with the penny jar would be selling the change for a fortune.
Besides the transaction is rang up in the till, a tax auditor would spot the difference, you can’t delete till transactions.

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Unless you're suggesting we keep thousands of pounds in cash then it's not going to be much help in a total breakdown of financial systems. I have about £300 in cash and about the same in euros in my house. This is because I never use it and occasionally get given it for various reasons.

Are you imagining a scenario where no banking can occur but Tesco still take cash? Who would be there to serve you at the till given nobody at Tesco can now get paid?

EmeraldShamrock000 · 28/06/2026 11:25

TamTam5 · 28/06/2026 09:04

Who cares!!!!

If it cuts down on tax evasion, it needs to be stopped. Nobody needs to be using cash.

Everyone will care if the internet collapses or there was a financial cyberattack.
We must keep some cash in circulation.
I have a jar of euro coins. I withdraw €200 weekly for shopping etc and throw the leftovers in my cash jar, there is probably less than a 100 but it’d cover the basics.
The people with the penny jar would be selling the change for a fortune.
Besides the transaction is rang up in the till, a tax auditor would spot the difference, you can’t delete till transactions.

StarlightLady · 28/06/2026 11:23

Amba1998 · 28/06/2026 05:41

Why do people automatically assume that it’s because people want to avoid taxes

Card machine fees are huge for small businesses

But sorting cash takes time and banks do charge businesses for banking cash. It could be a tax issue or it could be that they are near their VAT threshold, which is a slightly different tax issue.

x2boys · 28/06/2026 11:18

So go somwhere else then?
You might be shooting yourself in the foot
Only you can decide

PetulaGordeno · 28/06/2026 11:16

Pearlstillsinging · 28/06/2026 09:43

My hairdresser, who is self-employed, has just asked me to setup bank transfer which will help her to send her tax records to HMRC. I rarely have cash to pay anyone these days.

Yep they’ve just started a Making Tax Digital scheme I do some book keeping for a friend.

Coconutter24 · 28/06/2026 11:15

Did you ask her why she’d prefer cash instead of just assuming it was tax related?

EmeraldShamrock000 · 28/06/2026 11:14

It’s a minor inconvenience.
It doesn’t mean that the hairdresser is not paying tax, a lot still wages in cash, especially for part timers working Friday and Saturday.
It is your money so your choice.
I don’t mind doing it. I have had new doors fitted and floors bought through a reputable company, the subcontractors, the fitters requested cash. It’s normal for some trades.

Fifthtimelucky · 28/06/2026 11:10

I accept that there are costs for a business in handling cash, but I presume that in some circumstances those costs are less than the equivalent costs for using a card. Some shops in my area prefer cash for small transactions and some have signs up asking for cash for purchases under £10. I am always happy to oblige in those cases, but always pay by card for larger amounts. I definitely wouldn’t pay £160 in cash.

It might be worth mentioning another reason some people wasn’t to be paid in cash. 20 or so years ago I had booked a taxi to take me to the airport. I expected to be able to pay by cheque, or possibly card. When we arrived the driver said he wanted to paid in cash. I told him I didn’t have it, which was perfectly true. We had a bit of an argument and he said that the reason he wanted to be paid in cash was that he was overdrawn and if I paid by cheque the money would be kept by the bank, whereas if I paid in cash he would obviously have some money that he could spend and he needed to buy food.

Whether that was true or not I don’t know, but I ended up agreeing and had to go inside the airport to use a cash point machine. Very annoying, especially as I had my 5 and 3 year old with me and lots of luggage.

Ihateboris · 28/06/2026 11:08

LondonRidge · 28/06/2026 11:05

Does she understand why or think she’s hard done by?

Not forgetting also all the self-employed workers who couldn’t get furlough during Covid because they hadn’t been declaring their income.

Oh she absolutely realises she was in the wrong. I'm just highlighting that it does happen. She declares every single penny now and just takes bank transfer. Pisses me right off that so many people do it whilst the rest of us have to pay our taxes.

RVectensian · 28/06/2026 11:05

HoskinsChoice · 28/06/2026 08:11

Aaaaaaaarrrggghhhh!!!!! How many times?!?! This is not true! Processing cash is just as expensive as processing card transactions. They're making a fool of you by influencing you to trot out their lies.

That's not true though.

Our business uses Monzo, a flat fee of £1 per transaction up to £4000 per deposit.

Whereas a card payment fee using Stripe to Xero costs around £2 for a £120 odd transaction.

So I could take 33 £120 transactions in cash for £1, or pay around £66 in card fees.

We don't, because it is is more convenient for us not to, but it isn't true to say universally that cash is as expensive as card.

Unless the OP knows what systems the hairdresser uses you cont know whether it is accounted for. All our jobs are logged on a works management type system that link to Xero, so however they are paid for they go through the books.

Hairdresser asking me to pay in cash
LondonRidge · 28/06/2026 11:05

Ihateboris · 28/06/2026 10:49

A friend of mine who is a cleaner was cash only for years. She only paid enough into her bank account to cover her rent and utilities (which she also declared on her Tax Return). The other cash was used for petrol, shopping, hair etc etc. Unfortunately she was investigated by HMRC who wanted her to explain why there were no bank transactions for purchases of fuel/shopping etc. She couldn't explain and lived alone so it wasn't as if she could say her other half was paying for these. She thinks a misgruntled ex customer reported her to HMRC. She ended up with a massive tax bill with penalties which she is still paying off.

Does she understand why or think she’s hard done by?

Not forgetting also all the self-employed workers who couldn’t get furlough during Covid because they hadn’t been declaring their income.

AImportantMermaid · 28/06/2026 11:02

user9764325677 · 28/06/2026 09:04

Not if everyone has their own card machine. I have been in hairdressers where this happens

You can buy them in Argos or Amazon from about £25. So many businesses lose sales by not offering card payment. I can only assume there’s a good reason they want to avoid it.

LondonRidge · 28/06/2026 11:01

seattlegracemercy · 28/06/2026 09:38

Really? I’d imagine they need cash for other purposes - my hair salon has a little thing where an elderly client can get a taxi home paid for by the salon. The taxis in my town only take cash because the card fees are insane and put people off. The tips are left in coins and they convert them to notes to hand out to the apprentice etc at the end of the week.

The taxis in your town only take cash because they don’t lay their taxes in full and probably scrounge off the benefit system.

Like the hairdressers.

Otherwise why wouldn’t everyone be asking for cash payments?!

I agree with PP above…

.. when asked to pay cash ask what their cash rate is.

Ihateboris · 28/06/2026 10:49

A friend of mine who is a cleaner was cash only for years. She only paid enough into her bank account to cover her rent and utilities (which she also declared on her Tax Return). The other cash was used for petrol, shopping, hair etc etc. Unfortunately she was investigated by HMRC who wanted her to explain why there were no bank transactions for purchases of fuel/shopping etc. She couldn't explain and lived alone so it wasn't as if she could say her other half was paying for these. She thinks a misgruntled ex customer reported her to HMRC. She ended up with a massive tax bill with penalties which she is still paying off.

Viviennemary · 28/06/2026 10:34

Just say no as you don't like carrying cash. Up to them how they handle it. Likely to be a tax dodge.

Besidemyselfwithworry · 28/06/2026 10:21

The lady who does mine and my sisters hair just has a converted room at her house so she’s self employed, not part of a big city centre salon - there is just her and we have always paid her cash as she doesn’t have a card machine. She keeps her prices reasonable and she’s a great hairdresser and she said she’d have to increase her costs to cover the machine fees and she doesn’t need to.
She bank deposits her cash and I know she is honest as during Covid when she couldn’t operate her furlough or whatever it was reflected her average earnings…. Whereas people who weren’t honest didn’t get the full amount.
Honesty is always the best policy I’d say.

SinceYoureGayAndAddictedToHeroin · 28/06/2026 10:20

OneUniqueSquid · 28/06/2026 06:03

Why would you assume she's trying to dodge paying tax?

Every time a business accepts a card payment they pay processing fees. Usually between 1.5-3.5% of the total being paid. That adds up for small businesses.

My local chippy has a sign about it saying 'prefer cash'. Lots of taxi drivers do the same.

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My local chippy has a sign about it saying 'prefer cash'. Lots of taxi drivers do the same.

Haha, yes because they're evading tax too.

CaptainMyCaptain · 28/06/2026 10:14

notacooldad · 28/06/2026 09:38

My hairdresser is cash only and im happy to do this.
I fontbthink £160 is expensive nor that much to carry around, especially if the stm is nearby.

Ok. I've changed my mind if that is the cost. I wouldn't carry that much cash. I used to pay £25 in cash to save my hairdresser the card fees. Now I go to a unisex barber to have my long hair trimmed once a year and it costs £12. No way would I pay £160 in cash (or otherwise).

NormasArse · 28/06/2026 10:08

It’s really depressing how people try to avoid paying tax, yet expect services to run well.

Pearlstillsinging · 28/06/2026 09:43

Sally3490 · 28/06/2026 06:09

If it were an issue with card fees they would offer a bank transfer option surely.

My hairdresser, who is self-employed, has just asked me to setup bank transfer which will help her to send her tax records to HMRC. I rarely have cash to pay anyone these days.

notacooldad · 28/06/2026 09:38

My hairdresser is cash only and im happy to do this.
I fontbthink £160 is expensive nor that much to carry around, especially if the stm is nearby.

seattlegracemercy · 28/06/2026 09:38

Monty36 · 28/06/2026 09:34

on the balance of probabilities I would hazard a guess that is precisely what is going on.

Really? I’d imagine they need cash for other purposes - my hair salon has a little thing where an elderly client can get a taxi home paid for by the salon. The taxis in my town only take cash because the card fees are insane and put people off. The tips are left in coins and they convert them to notes to hand out to the apprentice etc at the end of the week.

4Lightz · 28/06/2026 09:35

I don’t think you were “targeted”. They probably think they have a good relationship with you and felt comfortable asking, it is no secret that small businesses prefer cash. If you like your hairdressers and don’t mind a little extra journey to the cash point before your appointments I’d just do them this favour. If not, just say sorry you don’t pass a cash point on the way. It isn’t a big deal.