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Is it acceptable to travel in shorts and sandals?

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sevenwonde · 27/06/2026 10:47

Help! The friend group is split on this one and it is largely tongue in cheek

We’re off on a girls holiday soon. Half the group thinks it’s fine to travel in shorts and sandals (Birkenstocks), the other half thinks you need to look put together in the airport and dress in a nice outfit (linen, silk trousers etc), in case of an upgrade. They think the nicer you’re dressed the less likely you are to be asked to check your bag at the gate etc.

So, is it acceptable?! They’re not tiny shorts that show my bum cheeks!

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CurlewKate · 27/06/2026 12:32

Have your friends time travelled from the 1960s?

Ablondiebutagoody · 27/06/2026 12:31

I always travel in clothes I'd like to be wearing to escape a burning aircraft wreck. Trainers, often jeans.

TransportNerd · 27/06/2026 12:30

GreekMountain · 27/06/2026 12:15

This is like something people used to do 30 years ago 😂 It was nonsense then and it’s nonsense now.

Dressing up to fly is more like 60 years ago. 30 years ago we already had airlines like Ryanair and easyJet, and flying was a completely normal everyday event.

I don't get this at all. Flying is an uncomfortable, inconvenient faff with a lot of standing around waiting for things. What on earth would possess you to make it an even more uncomfortable experience? No-one cares what you're wearing.

Snufkin88 · 27/06/2026 12:30

No matter what I wear in an airport I always end up feeling gross by the time I reach my destination for some reason

CeeceeBloomingdale · 27/06/2026 12:26

BlindSpotForCats · 27/06/2026 12:00

I once had a debate with my husband about being upgrading. He and I both have dietary requirements that we declare beforehand. I said ruefully when about to go long-haul 'We have lost our chance to be upgraded then' and he said he felt sure that having a special meal did not eman we would not be upgraded, but that our ordered meal might be delivered to us in Business. I feel sure that's just way too much faff for the airline tbh!

In any case, when we travel we wear comfortable clothes- jersey harem pants and long sleeved tshirts for me. But that's mainly because we go to Australia or New Zealand and it has to get us through.

You're right, they wouldn't usually choose someone with a special meal. It's rare they choose anyone though, they will go with empty premium seats instead. Upgrades are only if it benefits the airline such as an over sales issue or similar.

thesealion · 27/06/2026 12:23

Your friends would hate me, I always travel in a cotton tracksuit!

notimagain · 27/06/2026 12:23

GCAcademic · 27/06/2026 12:13

Then why do they make cabin crew dress the way they do?

Customer facing staff.... marketing/brand image trumps pretty much everything else...(and of course these days there's often a trousers option for cabin crew anyway).

For info on the odd occasion our crew used to (might still do) get the slide experience during initial training or recurrent training they put overalls on over their uniforms to protect the uniform and to help avoid slide burns.

Isometimeswonder · 27/06/2026 12:22

I wear trousers because planes get cold. And seats are plastic and I don't want skin to stick!

RampantIvy · 27/06/2026 12:21

Miranda65 · 27/06/2026 12:10

I would wear sandals on a beach, but not in a city....ever. Nothing to do with dogs, but just because they don't feel like city wear.

Why on earth not?
Last year I visited Liverpool when it was 34 degrees. There is no way I would want to be sweating in trainers or other enclosed shoes at those kind of temperatures. It was flat sandals all the way.

LienekeS · 27/06/2026 12:19

Hoping for an upgrade is long gone! It happens occasionally but certainly not for a group.

Weeellokthen · 27/06/2026 12:19

😂

IPM · 27/06/2026 12:17

Comtesse · 27/06/2026 12:13

Your mates are nuts, dressing up for the airport is not a thing. No one gets an upgrade on Easyjet…..

I see it as an embarrassing 'pick me for an upgrade' dance.

I mean some people enjoy the whole airport and flight experience and like to dress up for it, which is fine if that's what they want.

But if it's not, it's just bloody odd to do it in the vain hope they might get upgraded.

estrogone · 27/06/2026 12:15

Miranda65 · 27/06/2026 12:00

I always dress for cooler weather, regardless, because 1) planes are cold and 2) you need something for coming back to the chilly UK.
I do think sandals are inappropriate..... I don't want to see other people's feet on a plane, plus a grubby airport is not a place where I want to expose my feet.
And I'm old, so I don't wear shorts in public (only on a beach, or by a hotel pool, and even that is pushing it 😂).
Long floaty trousers are much more elegant, and equally cool
But the answer to the OP's question is that everyone can dress however they like - why do they all have to look the same?

I am trying but failing to see why sandals are inappropriate footwear. Why?

You would lose your mind in Australia, barefoot is acceptable and quite normal.

GreekMountain · 27/06/2026 12:15

This is like something people used to do 30 years ago 😂 It was nonsense then and it’s nonsense now.

Comtesse · 27/06/2026 12:13

Your mates are nuts, dressing up for the airport is not a thing. No one gets an upgrade on Easyjet…..

GCAcademic · 27/06/2026 12:13

beigetriangle · 27/06/2026 12:10

an airline pilot said to me to always travel in clothes/shoes you can run with and garments that don't melt in case of fire.

Then why do they make cabin crew dress the way they do?

OeufsalaCanicule · 27/06/2026 12:13

beigetriangle · 27/06/2026 12:10

an airline pilot said to me to always travel in clothes/shoes you can run with and garments that don't melt in case of fire.

And you took that seriously? I mean, do you approach car journeys in a similar spirit of ‘Better wear a helmet and body armour in case the airbag doesn’t deploy’?

aCatCalledFawkes · 27/06/2026 12:10

How are you and your friends? Silk trousers are like something my Mum would wear? I go away with friends, we are all in our 50s and 40s. None of us would dream of wearing linen or silk trousers 😂

You can wear what you want, younger me in my 30's once flew in wedges and a short skirt, I have also returned home in shorts and flips flops. Last year was a dress and trainers in which the trainers got switched for flips flops to go straight to the beach. There is no world in which I would wear harem pants either. 😂

beigetriangle · 27/06/2026 12:10

an airline pilot said to me to always travel in clothes/shoes you can run with and garments that don't melt in case of fire.

Miranda65 · 27/06/2026 12:10

SkinnyOatFlatWhiteForMePleaseBarista · 27/06/2026 12:06

A grubby airport is your line?… but you would wear sandals in the street where dog literally pee? 🙄

I would wear sandals on a beach, but not in a city....ever. Nothing to do with dogs, but just because they don't feel like city wear.

Lararoft · 27/06/2026 12:09

I’ve been to Mykonos twice & it’s hot hot hot!!
The airport is tiny & when I last went there were only 2 taxis on the rank for over 100 people queuing in the bright sunshine! I actually got sunburnt waiting.
So wear whatever you will feel coolest (temperature wise) in. I generally don’t wear shorts on a plane as I think the seats can be a bit germy.
Btw regarding beach clubs in Mykonos - when you go to a nice beach, most beaches have large areas of sunbeds & umbrellas owned by various beach bars / hotels, where you pay a fee for the sunbeds, may get towels & water included, & there will be a person serving drinks / food that you pay for separately.
Some clubs also have security to keep the beach sellers away (who can be very persistent - I have seen a seller sit on a woman’s sunbed & refuse to move until she made a purchase!). Although I feel sorry for the beach sellers as they are very poor migrants who need to make a living like everyone else, & they walk around all day in the heat making not much.
Don’t necessarily go to the first beach club you see, as the one next to it could be 10 Euros cheaper!
If you are travelling to Mykonos Town from your accommodation you could either get a bus (everyone starts queuing early but when it arrives it’s a free for all) or a taxi - but book well ahead (hopefully the taxi service has improved by now!!).
Mykonos is a really pretty island, I hope you have a great time!

Natsku · 27/06/2026 12:08

notimagain · 27/06/2026 11:56

I think the man-made fibres advice is mainly applicable to the light aircraft/small aircraft world but even in the airline enviroment it's not utterly daft advice

There's a problem here in that the airline industry pushes how safe scheduled airline flying is, which it really really is, and so any safety advice at all tends to get blown off...When I was working it was hard enough to get some people to listen to the safety briefing.

I doubt many are going to take advice on choice of fibres based on safety grounds but having known and talked to a handful of people (crew) who have been evolved in Evacs I,'d still recommend not flying in anything that isn't going to stay attached to the feet....

Edited

The very very slight risk of having to evacuate a plane is why i always wear a bumbag on the plane, so if it happens I'll at least have our passports and my inhaler with me. And trainers because I'd hate to walk a lot in anything else anyway.

TransportNerd · 27/06/2026 12:07

LittleBearPad · 27/06/2026 10:58

I’m sure BA will happily take their money if they want to pay for an upgrade. On short haul routes they’ll just move the Club curtain back another row! It’s not exactly a game changer in terms of experience

Yeah, all you get is better food and the middle seat is kept empty. Really not worth it at all, especially in a group.

SkinnyOatFlatWhiteForMePleaseBarista · 27/06/2026 12:06

Miranda65 · 27/06/2026 12:00

I always dress for cooler weather, regardless, because 1) planes are cold and 2) you need something for coming back to the chilly UK.
I do think sandals are inappropriate..... I don't want to see other people's feet on a plane, plus a grubby airport is not a place where I want to expose my feet.
And I'm old, so I don't wear shorts in public (only on a beach, or by a hotel pool, and even that is pushing it 😂).
Long floaty trousers are much more elegant, and equally cool
But the answer to the OP's question is that everyone can dress however they like - why do they all have to look the same?

A grubby airport is your line?… but you would wear sandals in the street where dog literally pee? 🙄

Shinyandnew1 · 27/06/2026 12:05

Silk trousers?! I have never even owned them 😂. I look crap in shorts as well to be honest and don’t own any of those either! Nothing wrong with Birkenstocks though!

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