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AIBU to question my husband's treatment in a hospital waiting room?

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SadlyNotATroll · 26/06/2026 14:44

Posting here for traffic sorry. DH had a routine blood test on Thursday and was sent straight to hospital after some concerning numbers relating to his kidneys I think. He was there all day Thursday having tests and sent home. Was called at 10:30 on Thursday evening saying he had to go back in the next morning. I don’t want to over share his personal details on the internet but he is being treated with IV antibiotics but isn’t actually being told what for. Last night they had no beds and he slept in a chair in the clinic waiting room. I say slept but he didn’t sleep at all. Today he’s still there and being told he will be needing to stay in over the weekend but they have no beds. He has no privacy and is sat upright in a chair.

I get that the NHS is in dire straits, I really do. But how can he be treated in a waiting room chair and be expected to sleep and recover there? Do we have any recourse at all? Please don’t think this is a nurse/NHS bashing thread. The staff have been wonderful and it’s not their fault at all.

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BillieWiper · 26/06/2026 14:51

No beds means no beds. Presumably he doesn't have broken bones or something where sitting on a chair would actually make his illness worse? It's not good but if he doesn't actually need to lie down medically they'll have to leave him there until a bed becomes free. I hope you can bring him some pillows etc?

gamerchick · 26/06/2026 14:48

I suppose the only thing you can do is take a camp bed in and some confy pillows. Or unhook the bag and go home. Go back for another onem

Batties · 26/06/2026 14:46

He absolutely should have had access to a bed. Unfortunately, if there isn’t a bed there isn’t much the staff can do.

rwalker · 26/06/2026 14:45

Unfortunately it is what it is the other option is no treatment