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Sick of go fund me for idiots who don’t take insurance with them

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Gofundinsurance · 25/06/2026 00:33

Last week or so.

1.man decides to dive head first into a low pool. Immediately paralysed. He’s paralysed , no insurance so go fund me obvs

  1. boy has insurance, insurance said no motorbikes, went on a motor bike, insurance withdrew. Go find me

man dives into pool , shallow end no insurance see above

man goes out gets wankered and gets in a fight, one punch hit and he’s in icu bit no insurance so he’s stuck there

How hard is it to book insurance when you book the holiday to open a second tab and order the insurance?

Just go to Google and type ‘gofud no insurance’ there are thousands.

I just don’t get it I have stage 4 cancer and I get insured by ‘insure with ‘

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Thechaseison71 · 25/06/2026 16:49

Pistachiocake · 25/06/2026 14:34

Don't know your exact situation (and obviously would not ask!) but I do know of several people with serious health conditions who couldn't get insurance at any sort of reasonable price. Yet they felt they wanted a holiday after what they'd been through, and wanted to take the risk-and they were fine. If it had gone the other way, and they'd needed help, I'd have been willing to contribute because it's not their fault they were ill in the first place.
And travel insurance costs extra for a disabled child in our family, even though his condition is one that would NEVER actually mean an insurance company would be expected to pay more. Too outing, but the point is if his condition worsened, it would not be life threatening and he would come back to the UK before treatment was given. So I can see why some people feel it's a swindle.

Yeah I was quoted stupid amounts for having HAD cervical cancer. I had no evidence of disease at a check up the week before I was due to go away so what they were suddenly thinking was going to happen that would need emergency treatment I dont know

And wasn't helped as was still having to declare the appendicitis id had before that , which seeing as it had been removed was less likely to cause issues than someone who actually had an appendix. So why was my policy hiked due to it?

CarlaH · 25/06/2026 15:52

Puzzledandpissedoff · 25/06/2026 13:52

That's what the ombudsman is for, CarlaH; any number of decisions have been overturned when the insurers have gone too far in trying to weasel out of paying, and not just for holiday insurance

Admittedly that doesn't help with the stress at the time if they refuse to cough up, but it can also help to go with the best rated companies who have a better track record than some, and not to assume that "travel insurance" packaged with your bank account will be of the least use for anything but the most straightforward cases

Edited

I have heard that the ombudsman can help which is something but they really shouldn't be allowed to reject claims on such spurious grounds. All they need to say is that if you claim for something which later turns out to be pre-existing they won't be paying out. It might catch the odd person out but there must be so many people who honestly wouldn't even think to mention that they saw the GP a while back for something which came to nothing in the end.

I am ancient and remember well that when I was younger you often just got told to go away and come back if your problem doesn't clear up. There's a real probability that I would then just forget about it.

Still that's no excuse for travelling without insurance.

AnonymityAnonymity · 25/06/2026 15:44

Puzzledandpissedoff · 25/06/2026 13:44

Not sure why you'd be "afraid" of regarding it this way when begging is precisely what it is

I suppose the difference is that with most beggars you can give to organisations which support whatever cause it is instead, but I'm not sure there's an anti stupidity cause ...

The I'm afraid was me just trying to phrase my point of view politely.

Most of the charities I support are either animal charities or children's charities which probably wouldn't need to exist if it weren't for human cruelty or stupidity. Or else charities to do with physical challenges such as blindness which, quite frankly, shouldn't need to be supported by charitable donation because they should have enough support from the state.

Chritrup · 25/06/2026 15:43

igelkott2026 · 25/06/2026 15:15

How does it affect you, OP?

I never understand these threads. Whether other people get travel insurance has no impact on me whatsoever.

And if it were made easier to get, maybe more people would get it - eg being able to carve out your medical conditions but eg be covered if your case gets stolen or you get run over by a tram.

What, threads where someone holds an opinion about something? Do we have to be directly impacted to pass comment?

If a husband hits his wife, it has zero impact on me whatsoever. But I can still hold a negative opinion of him and his actions, and comment to that effect.

Gofundinsurance · 25/06/2026 15:37

igelkott2026 · 25/06/2026 15:15

How does it affect you, OP?

I never understand these threads. Whether other people get travel insurance has no impact on me whatsoever.

And if it were made easier to get, maybe more people would get it - eg being able to carve out your medical conditions but eg be covered if your case gets stolen or you get run over by a tram.

All hail the Queen of Mumsnet igelkott2026 who will now graciously bestow un to us what topics we may start threads on Mumsnet about..

the floor is all yours @igelkott2026

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igelkott2026 · 25/06/2026 15:15

How does it affect you, OP?

I never understand these threads. Whether other people get travel insurance has no impact on me whatsoever.

And if it were made easier to get, maybe more people would get it - eg being able to carve out your medical conditions but eg be covered if your case gets stolen or you get run over by a tram.

Bromptotoo · 25/06/2026 15:06

Chersfrozenface · 25/06/2026 15:03

The policies I've got always have bolt-on options to cover sports and other activities. Though not getting drunk and falling from a balcony, obviously.

Yes, I've added sailing and cycling in the past and ensured that insurer and I had a common understanding of where hillwalking becomes climbing - usually where ropes are involved.

Chersfrozenface · 25/06/2026 15:03

Bromptotoo · 25/06/2026 14:58

The ones from abroad are often things ordinary insurance wouldn't cover like risky sports, riding motorbikes are getting drunk and falling from a balcony.

The policies I've got always have bolt-on options to cover sports and other activities. Though not getting drunk and falling from a balcony, obviously.

Bromptotoo · 25/06/2026 14:58

Nowisthetimeforicecream · 25/06/2026 11:13

A pretty high number of go-fund me seems to be for things that simple insurance would have covered.

"!I couldn't be arsed to insure my dog but now need to spend £3,000 on a treatment. "

"I was to stupid to understand home insurance so now I need money as my house burnt. "

etc etc.

The ones from abroad are often things ordinary insurance wouldn't cover like risky sports, riding motorbikes are getting drunk and falling from a balcony.

Weeellokthen · 25/06/2026 14:42

Gofundinsurance · 25/06/2026 14:31

The most popular one I can think of was the woman who destroyed her hotel room after celebrating her boyfriend’s new teeth.

I remember that 1 😂
Who knew Turkey teeth could be so over-stimulating 😁

Farmwifefarmlife · 25/06/2026 14:41

Totally agree the other one that aggravates me is go fund me for pets when they chose not to insure said pet! My brother got a puppy no insurance and then it broke its leg 7k op, they set up a go fund me! I was horrified. I’ve also seen one for a well of horsey family to buy the child a new pony and a set of jumps, stables ect as they could “only” afford to buy the land.

Weeellokthen · 25/06/2026 14:39

Snippit · 25/06/2026 01:05

My daughter had food poisoning in Mexico and spent just under 24 hours in hospital hooked up to various drips, she was very poorly. This cost $15000 in total, we had to stump up £6500 before the insurance checked her medical records and gave the hospital guarantee of payment. Really pissed off that the hospital said this money would be paid back after the insurance stepped in, that was in April. We’re now having to go through the insurance as an out of pocket expense, robbing gits. The insurance are deducting this amount from their final bill settlement, thank gawd.

So even through you have insurance most hospitals want some money off you until your medical records have been checked. After a previous incident 16 years ago in Egypt we didn’t face this rigmarole, the insurance liaised with the hospital, much less stressful. It’s a nightmare even when you do have insurance, 😳

😮

WhatNextImScared · 25/06/2026 14:38

Pistachiocake · 25/06/2026 14:34

Don't know your exact situation (and obviously would not ask!) but I do know of several people with serious health conditions who couldn't get insurance at any sort of reasonable price. Yet they felt they wanted a holiday after what they'd been through, and wanted to take the risk-and they were fine. If it had gone the other way, and they'd needed help, I'd have been willing to contribute because it's not their fault they were ill in the first place.
And travel insurance costs extra for a disabled child in our family, even though his condition is one that would NEVER actually mean an insurance company would be expected to pay more. Too outing, but the point is if his condition worsened, it would not be life threatening and he would come back to the UK before treatment was given. So I can see why some people feel it's a swindle.

There are lots of companies that provide insurance specifically for families in this situation. They are expensive but not ludicrous. They even offer packages for people nearing the end of life.

WhatNextImScared · 25/06/2026 14:37

YANBU, but just don’t donate.

if you’re dumbass enough to find yourself in this position what choice do you have (unless you’re insanely wealthy) except to try some viral fundraising?

cadburyegg · 25/06/2026 14:37

I am sick of gofundme full stop.

Pistachiocake · 25/06/2026 14:34

Don't know your exact situation (and obviously would not ask!) but I do know of several people with serious health conditions who couldn't get insurance at any sort of reasonable price. Yet they felt they wanted a holiday after what they'd been through, and wanted to take the risk-and they were fine. If it had gone the other way, and they'd needed help, I'd have been willing to contribute because it's not their fault they were ill in the first place.
And travel insurance costs extra for a disabled child in our family, even though his condition is one that would NEVER actually mean an insurance company would be expected to pay more. Too outing, but the point is if his condition worsened, it would not be life threatening and he would come back to the UK before treatment was given. So I can see why some people feel it's a swindle.

Gofundinsurance · 25/06/2026 14:31

The most popular one I can think of was the woman who destroyed her hotel room after celebrating her boyfriend’s new teeth.

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Thechaseison71 · 25/06/2026 14:05

FlipFlopZebra · 25/06/2026 14:04

What about it?

Negates the comment about spending thousands on a holiday and £50 on insurance rather

FlipFlopZebra · 25/06/2026 14:04

Thechaseison71 · 25/06/2026 13:47

What about the £500 holiday with £3k insurance scenerio

What about it?

Puzzledandpissedoff · 25/06/2026 13:52

CarlaH · 25/06/2026 10:52

I would like to see insurers unable to weasel out of paying a claim because somebody has forgotten to tell them about every little thing they have seen a GP for. Fine if it turns out that the claim is related to that ailment but being able to throw out a claim which is completely unrelated should not be allowed.

That's what the ombudsman is for, CarlaH; any number of decisions have been overturned when the insurers have gone too far in trying to weasel out of paying, and not just for holiday insurance

Admittedly that doesn't help with the stress at the time if they refuse to cough up, but it can also help to go with the best rated companies who have a better track record than some, and not to assume that "travel insurance" packaged with your bank account will be of the least use for anything but the most straightforward cases

marcopront · 25/06/2026 13:52

Thechaseison71 · 25/06/2026 13:48

That's a good idea if it actually covers you.

Yes I am not sure if it covers you for the jet skis that seem to be available on every beach.

Thechaseison71 · 25/06/2026 13:48

marcopront · 25/06/2026 12:45

In Zanzibar it is compulsory to buy insurance even if you already have insurance.
It costs $44 and is valid for 92 days.
They check you have it when you arrive.

That's a good idea if it actually covers you.

Thechaseison71 · 25/06/2026 13:47

FlipFlopZebra · 25/06/2026 06:28

Yanbu it amazes me that people will pay £1000s for a holiday but don’t pay the £50 for insurance.

Our last holiday was £62 for our whole family tp be insured and I have a medical condition that makes it a bit more.

What about the £500 holiday with £3k insurance scenerio

Sparrowsandbudgies · 25/06/2026 13:46

Slowdownyouredoingfine · 25/06/2026 12:52

When people are going through probably one of the worst experiences of their life, I’ll happily chuck in a tenner to lighten the burden whilst being extremely grateful it wasn’t me or my family.

But if we all do this there is no incentive for people to actually take charge of their own lives.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 25/06/2026 13:44

AnonymityAnonymity · 25/06/2026 06:11

I'm afraid I regard GoFundMe as begging.

I have monthly standing orders for donations to recognised charities but I would never give money to any one on GoFundMe.

Not sure why you'd be "afraid" of regarding it this way when begging is precisely what it is

I suppose the difference is that with most beggars you can give to organisations which support whatever cause it is instead, but I'm not sure there's an anti stupidity cause ...