My husband has made a few threats in arguments lately that he would leave and my biggest concern is that I think I would miss the kids insanely if he was to have them even every other weekend or for a week in the school hols… I can’t imagine spending a day apart and the only time I’ve been without my oldest is a few nights when giving birth to my youngest (although in the daytime older DC visited me with newborn every day). I’ve never spent more than a few hours without my youngest.
for those that have been in a similar position, how did you adapt?