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AIBU to question Snag Tights using very plus-size models?

210 replies

DallazMajor · 24/06/2026 17:32

Snag Tights have women who are morbidly obese modelling their products.

AIBU to think that this isn’t ok?

OP posts:
BlueFahrenheit · 25/06/2026 17:13

PinkyFlamingo · 24/06/2026 20:16

Well aren't you lucky not to need plus sized tights then. I'm in Tunisia just now and their chub rubs are a godsend under my dresses.

I buy quality, dear.

GreenFootstool · 25/06/2026 16:50

BringBackCatsEyes · 25/06/2026 11:16

It matters because PP said no one would complain if it was thinner models posing in a sexual manner, and I am wondering where I can see examples of this from a mainstream retailer.

I understand that it's Snag's choice to use morbidly obese models in sexual poses to market their products and I stated that I imagine people are getting off on this - it's really not just about 'showing what the products look like on larger bodies'.

What makes you think Snag are a mainstream retailer rather than a niche lingerie company though?

They have no bricks and mortar shops, they aren't advertising on TV etc.

I'd call them an alternative clothing retailer. And many alternative clothing companies use marketing very differently from the big boys of the high street.

I'm not a fan of the company, I abhor their attitude to many things, advertising period pants to men was another nail in the coffin as far as I'm concerned but I'll defend their option to use even the fattest women in society to advertise their wares if they wish.

Having been over 20 stone at my worst, seeing other large women made me feel more comfortable shopping with them because I could see they'd put effort into making things fit bodies like mine.

Clarkeytin · 25/06/2026 16:27

pointythings · 25/06/2026 16:11

I haven't seen any of that locally, so clearly it isn't universal. And I know too many trans people to think they're all the same. Bit like, well, people, really.

You know too many trans people? Are you in the drag business?

Hankunamatata · 25/06/2026 16:14

So fat people should be hidden and not shown clothes that fit them?

People come in all shapes.

Snag has issues. Model size isnt one of them

Pinkissmart · 25/06/2026 16:14

OP, what do you think will happen

pointythings · 25/06/2026 16:11

Clarkeytin · 25/06/2026 14:27

It’s just out of date. Since QT+ hijacked pride it’s been discredited. It’s no longer a ‘ community’ when you’ve been hijacked by terrorists who threaten violence and upset community members with no concern at all.

I haven't seen any of that locally, so clearly it isn't universal. And I know too many trans people to think they're all the same. Bit like, well, people, really.

Clarkeytin · 25/06/2026 14:27

pointythings · 25/06/2026 14:09

Is that a problem?

It’s just out of date. Since QT+ hijacked pride it’s been discredited. It’s no longer a ‘ community’ when you’ve been hijacked by terrorists who threaten violence and upset community members with no concern at all.

pointythings · 25/06/2026 14:09

GoneWithTHeWindJammers · 25/06/2026 13:02

They have got striped "pride" tights

Is that a problem?

Malasana · 25/06/2026 14:08

All body sizes and types need clothes. Everyone would like to see what something may look like on their particular body type. Everyone deserves to be represented.

BabblingBiddy · 25/06/2026 14:06

GoneWithTHeWindJammers · 25/06/2026 13:02

They have got striped "pride" tights

And?

Clarkeytin · 25/06/2026 13:04

FrenchBunionSoup · 25/06/2026 12:09

As mentioned upthread, Snag did a whole thing where they sold patches that said "choke me", and when a number of women (including victims of DV) said that this was inappropriate, Snag labelled them kink-shaming bullies.

There are several Mumsnet threads about it and Snag's absolutely awful response is still on their Instagram the last time I looked.

Omg. I didn’t know this. Bloody hell, what a totally vile, irresponsible , toxic company.
Horrible.

GoneWithTHeWindJammers · 25/06/2026 13:02

They have got striped "pride" tights

Gettingbysomehow · 25/06/2026 12:56

Im size 8 to 10 and the clothing items Ive bought from them supposedly my size didnt fit me at all. The pink jumper that I really fancied would have got three of me in it. I had to send it back. Same with the hoodie...massive.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 25/06/2026 12:40

@Clarkeytin - it isn’t ‘normalising’ obesity - it is acknowledging that obese people exist, and that they’d like to know what clothing will look like on their body type. Do you want us all shut away from the public gaze?

StoptheworldIneedtogetoff · 25/06/2026 12:36

Just looked at their website out of interest.

They also have disabled people modelling their products, is that ok with you OP @DallazMajor ?

LovingTelescopes · 25/06/2026 12:32

FrenchBunionSoup · 25/06/2026 12:09

As mentioned upthread, Snag did a whole thing where they sold patches that said "choke me", and when a number of women (including victims of DV) said that this was inappropriate, Snag labelled them kink-shaming bullies.

There are several Mumsnet threads about it and Snag's absolutely awful response is still on their Instagram the last time I looked.

Thanks @FrenchBunionSoup Disgusting.

TrayBakesAreSweet · 25/06/2026 12:30

I don’t like their advertising strategy at all. But that’s more to do with the fetish element of it. I don’t care what size the models are. Showing an obese woman in tights that fit doesn’t automatically suggest that obesity is somehow being celebrated or glamorised. Obesity is a disease which anyone could tip into, given the right circumstances, and I think it’s important that women feel comfortable in their clothing no matter what size they are.

Clarkeytin · 25/06/2026 12:30

I think it must be funded by mounjaro and wegovy.. this whole ‘ let’s normalise being fat’ movement is closely followed by ‘ let’s normalise spending loads of money not being fat any more’.

load of tripe, isn’t it.

advertising is now brain dead. Have you seen all the lipstick ads showing lip colours for light skinned women, plastered onto very dark lips? It’s Al Jolson. Nobody is going to want to look like that. It doesn’t ’ promote Diversity’ to ridicule dark skin. Bizarre.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 25/06/2026 12:22

DallazMajor · 24/06/2026 22:39

Yes obviously they are doing that. But it’s still wrong when the models are hugely overweight. Same as showing an anorexic model would be wrong.

It shouldn’t be glorified especially when they are clearly over egging the poses etc.

How do you expect larger women to know what clothing will look like on them, if they are only ever modelled on size 10 women, @DallazMajor?

Perhaps you think fat women should be locked away from all public gaze u til they lose weight. Or maybe they don’t deserve to have clothes that fit them and make them feel comfortable and happy? That last one is something that a ‘friend’ once said to me - she did not understand that a happy confident person is more likely to be able to look after their health and weight than a sad, depressed one.

BettyJoanPerske · 25/06/2026 12:18

YABU, simply because when people say the same about ultra skinny models, everyone says that it isn't a problem.

FrenchBunionSoup · 25/06/2026 12:09

LovingTelescopes · 25/06/2026 11:51

How did they support strangulation during sex?

It's not the type of thing that comes up in everyday life like, "I support Brexit" or I support the Green Party".

Did they just come out and say it. In what context? My mind is boggling!

As mentioned upthread, Snag did a whole thing where they sold patches that said "choke me", and when a number of women (including victims of DV) said that this was inappropriate, Snag labelled them kink-shaming bullies.

There are several Mumsnet threads about it and Snag's absolutely awful response is still on their Instagram the last time I looked.

Heronwatcher · 25/06/2026 12:00

DallazMajor · 24/06/2026 22:39

Yes obviously they are doing that. But it’s still wrong when the models are hugely overweight. Same as showing an anorexic model would be wrong.

It shouldn’t be glorified especially when they are clearly over egging the poses etc.

Oh get over yourself.

  • anyone can see the difference between showing that their tights fit fat people and glorifying it as a lifestyle;
  • everyone also knows that being overweight is a health risk. They will probably have been told this by doctors and other health providers repeatedly. A few pretty ladies wearing tights isn’t going to alter that;
  • I am much more concerned by people who are constantly being pushed forwards who have had Botox, various disfiguring surgeries, and clear mental health issues being used to flog shite products;
  • it is refreshing to see people who don’t conform to a near-anorexic body type being used to advertise products for once.

Plus praise be for tights that actually fit! Whatever you think of the advertising the tights are brilliant.

LindorDoubleChoc · 25/06/2026 11:53

I boycott Snag because of their revolting advertising.

LovingTelescopes · 25/06/2026 11:51

GreenFootstool · 24/06/2026 17:41

Snag have done this for years. Even fat women want to be able to buy clothes funnily. And the fat shaming of the women modelling their wares has been done to death.

I'm more concerned about their attitude towards promoting fetishes and the doubling down they did when they were called out for supporting strangulation during sex. Shitty business but not because of the weight of their models.

How did they support strangulation during sex?

It's not the type of thing that comes up in everyday life like, "I support Brexit" or I support the Green Party".

Did they just come out and say it. In what context? My mind is boggling!

Tlittle · 25/06/2026 11:32

Us fatties also wear tights. I myself was more cringed out by the photos sent in by customers of guys wearing snag tights.