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To think that “professional” standards shouldn’t apply during periods of extreme weather?

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toohotforallthis · 24/06/2026 15:38

I live in an area that has a red weather warning for extreme heat for the next two days.

Today the office was sweltering. It’s been 35° minimum all day, but in the office it’s been closer to 40°. We’ve all been unable to function.

We had a “friendly reminder” that the dress code still applies - dresses to mid calf, no shorts, shirts must cover to the mid arm.

AIBU to say fuck it and turn up in a T-shirt and shorts tomorrow? We have no client contact whatsoever, I will not see a single service user tomorrow. The only people I will see are my coworkers.

My line manager has said she’s fine with it, but if the “big bosses” walk in (from their air conditioned office!), we may get in trouble.

Surely the worst they’ll do is send me home, which is a win for me 😂

OP posts:
Justveryveryangry · 24/06/2026 20:20

Livpool · 24/06/2026 19:49

Cover up arms and legs?! I don’t think the Taliban rules need apply! Why are bare arms in a short top or legs visible in just above the knee shorts or skirt unprofessional? Are clavicles and ankles ok?!

Glad I wfh! OP - wear what makes you keep comfortable, not like you are going to wear a bikini top and micro shorts!

Indeed, it’s amazing that some women seem to advocate for modesty rules that require arms and legs to be covered.

EgregiouslyOverdressed · 24/06/2026 20:17

toohotforallthis · 24/06/2026 18:13

Were public sector. All air con units are in use across client facing areas, and a lot of them are breaking. They don’t have the budget to supply us with anything else.

If you are public sector you must have a union. I’d genuinely get them involved on this.

Livpool · 24/06/2026 19:49

oviraptor21 · 24/06/2026 16:11

First post nails it.
A loose fitting dress or top/trousers in cotton or linen will be cooler than anything else and ensure that no-one is subjected to someone else's sweaty bare flesh.
Arms are Ok but if the office policy is covered arms that can also be managed very easily. Think about what people in hot countries wear - mostly long loose and totally covered up.

Cover up arms and legs?! I don’t think the Taliban rules need apply! Why are bare arms in a short top or legs visible in just above the knee shorts or skirt unprofessional? Are clavicles and ankles ok?!

Glad I wfh! OP - wear what makes you keep comfortable, not like you are going to wear a bikini top and micro shorts!

Thebigarsedbitch · 24/06/2026 19:06

OutOfApricots · 24/06/2026 17:47

Linen trousers?😂

Has anyone ever actually SEEN what linen trousers look like when you've been sweating buckets and sitting down in them for hours? The creases would be of Olympic standard.

I'd say wear what you like OP, and if the Big Cheeses deign to come over from their air conditioned building and criticise your sartorial elegance, invite them to sit in your office for the rest of the day while you sit in theirs.

I so agree about linen trousers or linen anything come to that. Someone at the Linen Marketing Board has done an excellent job of convincing everyone that linen is something other than a bastard fabric which grimly holds on to every last millimetre of sweat in the folds of its million and one creases, leaving the wearer feeling unpleasantly damp and looking like a bag of rags. If linen is so good at keeping us cool why isn't used for exercise clothes? The fact that it isn't tells you everything you need to know!

Shinyandnew1 · 24/06/2026 18:47

toohotforallthis · 24/06/2026 18:09

No, the shorts would be about mid thigh. Very floaty and I ought

I ought?

I don’t think anything mid thigh is going to be terribly professional-skirt, dress or shorts. Something smart and just below the knee (dress or skirt) is fine.

It does seem bizarre that your office is so particular about women’s dresses being calf length, yet men can wear shorts?! I think if men can wear them, women should be able to as well-but not mid thigh.

moltopianissimo · 24/06/2026 18:39

toohotforallthis · 24/06/2026 16:05

We’ve had a couple of old fans brought in and we got given an ice pop each today. I wish I was joking.

Wow, they really enjoy treating you like school children, don't they?!

impartialusername · 24/06/2026 18:31

I used to work in the Middle East where it would be upwards of 40 degrees in summer. Still had to dress professional and wear a suit jacket. While I understand it’s uncomfortable in this heat realistically it doesn’t matter if you’re wearing a longer dress/ skirt and shirt or shorts and tshirt you will still feel hot.

Walker1178 · 24/06/2026 18:27

I’m with you OP, it doesn’t make a massive difference but we’ve had an internal communication that says if you’re in the office this week to dress comfortably. We’re usually smart/casual but for now flip flops and vest tops are in!

Chritrup · 24/06/2026 18:27

toohotforallthis · 24/06/2026 15:38

I live in an area that has a red weather warning for extreme heat for the next two days.

Today the office was sweltering. It’s been 35° minimum all day, but in the office it’s been closer to 40°. We’ve all been unable to function.

We had a “friendly reminder” that the dress code still applies - dresses to mid calf, no shorts, shirts must cover to the mid arm.

AIBU to say fuck it and turn up in a T-shirt and shorts tomorrow? We have no client contact whatsoever, I will not see a single service user tomorrow. The only people I will see are my coworkers.

My line manager has said she’s fine with it, but if the “big bosses” walk in (from their air conditioned office!), we may get in trouble.

Surely the worst they’ll do is send me home, which is a win for me 😂

I wore loose linen trousers and a similar top today, looked professional, and was perfectly cool.

Prombles · 24/06/2026 18:24

toohotforallthis · 24/06/2026 18:13

Were public sector. All air con units are in use across client facing areas, and a lot of them are breaking. They don’t have the budget to supply us with anything else.

Their lack of budget should not be your problem. The money will be there somewhere, they just don't want to spend it on that.

FirstOneToBlathers · 24/06/2026 18:24

I think the main issue is your office would still be a horrible work environment even if you were naked. My child's school has only stayed open because they have air conditioning.

LakieLady · 24/06/2026 18:23

Honeyhonay · 24/06/2026 17:33

It’s perfectly possibly to dress modestly and in keeping with professional standards in the heat. I’ve commuted in London every summer and there has regularly been days or weeks in the mid to high 30s.
A loose light weight dress to the calf will not be any warmer than shorts and a t shirt.

Totally agree.

I have 4 loose, calf length, linen dresses that I used to wear to work in hot weather and they are fabulously cool.

I'm retired now, so today I've been wearing a loose, thin white cotton nightdress all day, and hoping no-one comes to the door!

MrsOni · 24/06/2026 18:18

Miranda65 · 24/06/2026 18:13

Professional standards should always apply. And shorts and a T shirt are in fact no cooler than a below the knee dress/skirt, or pair of light trousers.

Why should professional standards apply if op has no client contact? Just...why? Especially if those professional standards are incompatible with the heat.

I wear casual clothes to work unless I have client meetings and nobody gives a shit.

toohotforallthis · 24/06/2026 18:13

Prombles · 24/06/2026 18:13

Today the office was sweltering. It’s been 35° minimum all day, but in the office it’s been closer to 40°. We’ve all been unable to function.

That's appalling but to be honest I doubt wearing shorts etc. is going to make very much difference.

I think you should focus on getting them to do something about it, if not now, for next time - hire an aircon unit for example - rather than giving them the excuse of 'well, we did something about it - we let you wear shorts'.

Were public sector. All air con units are in use across client facing areas, and a lot of them are breaking. They don’t have the budget to supply us with anything else.

OP posts:
Prombles · 24/06/2026 18:13

Today the office was sweltering. It’s been 35° minimum all day, but in the office it’s been closer to 40°. We’ve all been unable to function.

That's appalling but to be honest I doubt wearing shorts etc. is going to make very much difference.

I think you should focus on getting them to do something about it, if not now, for next time - hire an aircon unit for example - rather than giving them the excuse of 'well, we did something about it - we let you wear shorts'.

Miranda65 · 24/06/2026 18:13

Professional standards should always apply. And shorts and a T shirt are in fact no cooler than a below the knee dress/skirt, or pair of light trousers.

toohotforallthis · 24/06/2026 18:09

bumptybum · 24/06/2026 18:08

So wear a knee length skirt. Unless you’re choosing boiled wool, I’m not quite sure how a pair of shorts and then you cooler than a skirt

You’re not choosing shorts that are up to your bum are you? Smart tailored shorts I don’t cooler to wear than a lightweight skirt

No, the shorts would be about mid thigh. Very floaty and I ought

OP posts:
OneNewLeader · 24/06/2026 18:09

Could you ask to work in the air conditioned office, hot desk style (pun not intended)?

bumptybum · 24/06/2026 18:09

hecalledmecaptain · 24/06/2026 18:01

But that requires you to have the right clothes - smart linen trousers and shirts, silk vests etc. not everyone has them, in the UK it's rarely hot enough to need a "hot weather smart wardrobe".

Occasionally a bit of leeway is needed.

A local secondary school has completely foregone uniform for the kids and told parents "teachers may be dressed more casually than usual, we believe everyone works better when comfortable".

You can pick up some really inexpensive cotton or linen trousers or a knee length skirt that will be one plenty of summer

bumptybum · 24/06/2026 18:08

toohotforallthis · 24/06/2026 16:08

I don’t want to wear an ankle length skirt (because it’s those or knee length), I want to be cool not feel like I’m boiling alive

So wear a knee length skirt. Unless you’re choosing boiled wool, I’m not quite sure how a pair of shorts and then you cooler than a skirt

You’re not choosing shorts that are up to your bum are you? Smart tailored shorts I don’t cooler to wear than a lightweight skirt

hecalledmecaptain · 24/06/2026 18:01

Hoppinggreen · 24/06/2026 15:39

I disagree, you can look smart and professional AND dress for the weather.
Cool clothes don't necessarily have to show lots of skin

But that requires you to have the right clothes - smart linen trousers and shirts, silk vests etc. not everyone has them, in the UK it's rarely hot enough to need a "hot weather smart wardrobe".

Occasionally a bit of leeway is needed.

A local secondary school has completely foregone uniform for the kids and told parents "teachers may be dressed more casually than usual, we believe everyone works better when comfortable".

Edenmum2 · 24/06/2026 17:58

OP I’m with you all the way. Plus your employers have a duty of care under health and safety laws and one of the stipulations is to relax formal dress codes. Quote them the 1974 health and safety at work act. if they start moaning

JustChillin70 · 24/06/2026 17:58

toohotforallthis · 24/06/2026 16:14

3l consumed so far today, if I drank more I’d burst!

Drinking 3 litres of water is probably what’s made you feel light headed and sick. You’ll have diluted your blood’s sodium levels and need to drinks some electrolytes. Too much plain water is dangerous.

Honeyhonay · 24/06/2026 17:57

whittingtonmum · 24/06/2026 17:53

You need to speak to your union to negotiate better working conditions than that. If you haven't got a union - time to join one.

Get a grip, plenty of workplaces have uniforms.

whittingtonmum · 24/06/2026 17:53

You need to speak to your union to negotiate better working conditions than that. If you haven't got a union - time to join one.