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To think that “professional” standards shouldn’t apply during periods of extreme weather?

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toohotforallthis · 24/06/2026 15:38

I live in an area that has a red weather warning for extreme heat for the next two days.

Today the office was sweltering. It’s been 35° minimum all day, but in the office it’s been closer to 40°. We’ve all been unable to function.

We had a “friendly reminder” that the dress code still applies - dresses to mid calf, no shorts, shirts must cover to the mid arm.

AIBU to say fuck it and turn up in a T-shirt and shorts tomorrow? We have no client contact whatsoever, I will not see a single service user tomorrow. The only people I will see are my coworkers.

My line manager has said she’s fine with it, but if the “big bosses” walk in (from their air conditioned office!), we may get in trouble.

Surely the worst they’ll do is send me home, which is a win for me 😂

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TwilightSkies · 27/06/2026 11:25

In a word … Yes. You’re actually being much worse than unreasonable, but let’s just leave it at that. I wouldn’t want to be unprofessional…

Yep cus sitting soaked in sweat all day, unable to think straight because of the unbearable height is sooooo much more professional than being comfortable 🙄

EllysMom · 27/06/2026 08:33

The replies to the OP really surprise me. My bedroom has reached 29 degrees for two evenings and it is very uncomfortable. And all I have to do in there is lie down wearing barely anything. I could not imagine having to try to concentrate and function in a room over 30 degrees. I would feel unwell and wouldn’t be able to think about much other than how miserable I was.
Although I agree that the debate around appropriate attire is almost pointless, because unless you are wearing a bikini and sitting in the shaded end of a swimming pool with swim-up bar and a nice mocktail on the go, you’re going to be horribly horribly uncomfortable.

elephantball · 26/06/2026 22:28

Arcticienne · 26/06/2026 16:27

In a word … Yes. You’re actually being much worse than unreasonable, but let’s just leave it at that. I wouldn’t want to be unprofessional…

So your clothes are what make you professional?

toohotforallthis · 26/06/2026 21:43

Arcticienne · 26/06/2026 16:27

In a word … Yes. You’re actually being much worse than unreasonable, but let’s just leave it at that. I wouldn’t want to be unprofessional…

Well me and my thighs had a great time yesterday.

One colleague was off sick today with heat stroke! Only
place they’ve been is the office, so we know the culprit

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Mackerelfillets · 26/06/2026 17:01

I would go in t shirt and shorts but take a change of clothes just in case

Arcticienne · 26/06/2026 16:27

In a word … Yes. You’re actually being much worse than unreasonable, but let’s just leave it at that. I wouldn’t want to be unprofessional…

Eventmrs · 26/06/2026 10:24

Smart clothes come in a range of materials.
You can get smart clothes that are cool.
Google Italian hot weather outfits suitable for the office.

When the weather gets hot you just change the material of the clothes you are wearing.

elephantball · 26/06/2026 10:09

I think now you don’t really see men in shirt and tie it looks a bit silly, I drove past two men walking up the road this morning in white shirts and ties, I think they were coach drivers but from a distance I assumed they were school children until I got closer and realised they were grown men in what looked like school uniform.

toohotforallthis · 26/06/2026 08:04

It rained last night 😭🙏🏻 we’ve finally got a breeze too, so every window and door is open

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notanotherfootballmatch · 26/06/2026 08:03

I think your workplace sounds genuinely dangerous. Now post-menopause I really can't cope with heat anywhere near as well as I could when younger. If I couldn't keep cool enough I would have to leave. I wouldn't risk heatstroke for any job.

noshade · 26/06/2026 07:19

Postmen weren't allowed to wear shorts until 1992. I'm the 80s they still wore shirt, tie and jacket. Dress standards change and people adapt.

noshade · 26/06/2026 07:11

Caledoniablue · 25/06/2026 20:57

These posts are so odd - what do you think people in hot countries do? I live in southern Europe where it is 35+ degrees for months on end. My son is still at school, they have no air-con. I wfh in my living room, we have no air-con.
Yes its too hot, yes its uncomfortable but the country cant come to a stand still because people are refusing to work or refusing to send kids to school.
Make adjustments and crack on

I'm hot countries where this weather is usual, buildings are designed differently and don't tend to get so hot. Plus most offices do have aircon. OP's office was close to 40C indoors.

Sartre · 26/06/2026 07:10

Sleeves to mid arm is weird, plenty of men where short sleeve shirts and women sleeveless dresses, they’re just arms! I can’t fathom how arms are unprofessional. I understand no shorts though, I don’t think shorts can ever look professional. I’ve been wearing long sleeveless dresses.

noodlebugz · 26/06/2026 07:00

I’m here to know what happens with the complaint about the heat in that office - no current law for upper temperatures is meant to boundaries and glass blowers who are a dying bread not office workers!
My matron was NOT HAPPY when I brought the baby room thermometer in to fight the battle that we needed drinks at the desk because our ward had surpassed 30 degrees - this was some years ago and I was pregnant with my youngest and therefore very feisty! 😂
But we did get to have water only on the ward!
I wish your team every success.

AngelRoja · 25/06/2026 22:43

Cooshawn · 25/06/2026 22:38

Why a floral dress? I fucking hate floral patterns.

Then try stripes 🤣

Cooshawn · 25/06/2026 22:38

AngelRoja · 25/06/2026 19:12

The best clothing to wear in extreme heat is lightweight material and loose styles, not shorts and tight skinny tops. Its what people wear in very hot countries for a reason. A loose lightweight floral cotton dress and sandals for women and light linen shirts and trousers for men are more than appropriate for office wear.

Why a floral dress? I fucking hate floral patterns.

Meeatcheese · 25/06/2026 22:24

You hate your job, you hate your bosses, either go home (where no doubt you have air con?) go off sick, or just bear it, like most of the working population.

worldshottestmom · 25/06/2026 21:55

Weird how everyone suddenly starts sucking up to the man the second one individual complains about something in their workplace. Telling people to "suck it up" in this heat does not make you a martyr. Nobody is impressed. Everybody handles the heat differently, it takes a single brain cell to understand this.

I think dress codes should be relaxed in this heat, too, OP. The capitalists like to forget that the scum working beneath them are also human beings, too. Seemingly, so does everybody else the second you take issue with their unreasonable rules. It's not like it's going to be hot forever, the company is not going to collapse because workers are wearing clothes that don't make them feel like they're going to pass out for like 3 days.

DrJump · 25/06/2026 21:39

Over summer I just wear a linen suit and a long sleeve cotton shirt. I have a few longer cotton dresses which I put a linen blazer over the top.

I try to do good quality matching accessories to make something casual look more professional.

Omgheslikethat · 25/06/2026 21:12

toohotforallthis · 24/06/2026 15:51

You can roll your eyes but I’ve come out of the office dizzy, feeling sick and lightheaded. Just because others have it worse doesn’t mean someone can be uncomfortable and want to work comfortably

Yes, I literally had to lay my head down this afternoon until I felt well enough to stand up. No idea what the temp was but I got home to 30 degrees and it seemed cool and pleasant !

CaptainMyCaptain · 25/06/2026 21:00

KilkennyCats · 24/06/2026 15:40

Will you really be cooler in T-shirt and shorts than a dress? I doubt it.

I agree. I always feel cooler in a dress - more air flow. Keeping cool isn't about exposing more skin.

Caledoniablue · 25/06/2026 20:57

These posts are so odd - what do you think people in hot countries do? I live in southern Europe where it is 35+ degrees for months on end. My son is still at school, they have no air-con. I wfh in my living room, we have no air-con.
Yes its too hot, yes its uncomfortable but the country cant come to a stand still because people are refusing to work or refusing to send kids to school.
Make adjustments and crack on

FFSItsTooHot · 25/06/2026 19:58

KilkennyCats · 24/06/2026 15:50

Working in the heat is uncomfortable, certainly, but you’re not putting your health at risk.
Stop the dramatics 🙄
How do you think firemen feel? They do put their health and lives on the line.
Do you think they’re agitating to be allowed to ditch the protective gear and wear shorts?

Anyone who says very high temperatures don't put your health at risk is deluded.

Cobrakainerd · 25/06/2026 19:55

Retail uniform for us..trousers, polo shirt, dark colours. Bottled water in staff fridge and ice pops in the freezer section. No air con, metal roof to warehouse. Absolutely boiling. Again, strict absence policy so you avoid unnecessary absence. It was a case of crack on and mentally regretting poor decisions when you were young that mean shit jobs for shit pay with companies only interested in profit not staff welfare or retention.

AngelRoja · 25/06/2026 19:12

The best clothing to wear in extreme heat is lightweight material and loose styles, not shorts and tight skinny tops. Its what people wear in very hot countries for a reason. A loose lightweight floral cotton dress and sandals for women and light linen shirts and trousers for men are more than appropriate for office wear.