To stay in a hotel for a second night.
DH has been a total pain for months. Complains about the house being messy although he never helps to clean. We both work full time.
Never sees anything I do and picks the one thing I dont do. Eg on Saturday, took DC to buy their uniform, to collect their prescription (in a town 30 mins away), shopping, lunch. Got home and immediately put shopping away, cleaned kitchen, hoovered kitchen and mopped floor.
Got an ice pop and sat outside on paving to have it as was roasting after hoovering and mopping. He comes over and sees some stones on paving and goes mad that I sat down without brushing the paving first.
That type of thing regularly happens. I do so much but the minute I sit down, he'll pick on the one thing I didn't do.
He has an opinion about everything.
So yesterday, I got into my car and booked myself into a hotel. I booked 2 nights.
Youngest DC is very upset without me. Older DC let me know.
So far, he has got them locked out of the house, had to take the day off work to look after DC, broke their pool and had to buy them a replacement, had to go shopping (shock horror - food doesn't magically appear in the kitchen by itself).
DH is still being an arse telling me why choices I made are wrong. I want to stay out again but feel bad for younger DC.
Aibu to stay out for a second night.
He would not let me take DC with me - i would have if it was an option.