Any similar child please

Stop trying to diagnose your daughter. She sounds lovely. The best thing you could do for her is get her in to some groups or clubs.

Everyone seems to be missing the key thing which is yes, she’s probably bored witless at home with mum all week. At 3.5 she needs mates and stimulation - home with mum all the time other than park and shops is fine for <1 year old after that they need more. At that age my kids were out every day. Park, museums, galleries, playdates.

You should go to the GP. You are catastrophizing and it’s not normal.

Your child sounds absolutely fine, I have a daughter the same age with similar traits and i’m not remotely concerned about being forced to home school
it might be worth looking for some help for yourself and managing these thoughts rather than worrying about what sounds like a lovely 3 year old girl finding her feet in life

My 5yo doesn’t particularly like to play on his own. He prefers company 🤷‍♀️

I was pushed in to home educating my youngest by her school, I certainly never wanted to or planned to.

However nothing in the op suggests her daughter is neurodiverse and if she is worrying about it so much she needs to keep seeking reassurance on mumsnet it is possible she has OCD.

Why do you think she will struggle in school?

This is the weirdest thread I've ever read. There is nothing that points to neurodiversity or that she will have support needs.

Maybe this poster is a bot as I see no reason for going round and round the same topic over and over again.

All of what might point to ADHD?

You need help for your anxiety, as a pp said you're just finding things to worry yourself about. Time and time again, posters have told you that your child is developing in a way that's typical for her age. Stop trying to find problems that aren't there.

By the way...my Nd niece attended a small, rural primary, there was never any suggestion of her being homeschooled, despite the school not having extra resources or staff. I'm not sure where you got the idea from that nd children are pushed into being homeschooled 🤷‍♀️

Nothing wrong with your child, but I agree you are the sane poster who returns constantly attempting to get everyone to say they have neuro-developmental differences. Get help for yourself.

She sounds like a very normal three-year-old. They won’t even look at diagnosis of ADHD until a child is at least 6 because being talkative and energetic is very normal for that age - as is being quiet and shy, not energetic, and a myriad of things in between. Just relax, accept her for who she is, and stop trying to compare her to what is ‘normal’, because there’s not really any such thing.

Do you catastrophise about other things too?

You have a perfectly ordinary child
She will go to school
There's no indication from anything you've written to suggest she will struggle in school
If, however, she does need any additional support, school will tell you and normal processes will be followed
No one is going to push for you to homeschool her

Seriously, I think you are worrying for worrying's sake. A school won't suggest homeschooling, and in a room with her peers your daughter will fit right in. Enjoy her younger years, they go way too quickly, and it's a long wait for grandchildren!

Get her into pre-k, wait to see if the teacher notices anything. If the teacher doesn’t notice anything, believe her and let this go.

Go to any stay and play group - talk to some other mums and dads.

guarantee you that most who have kids of age 3-4 will complain about the relentless chatter

it is what kids are programmed to do - endless questions / endless ‘why’ , constantly interrupting you to tell you their thoughts on everything and generally talking absolute bollocks about things they’ve seen on tv or seen in real life…

ThiS IS KiDS for you.

toddlers once they get going with chatter just love to do it constantly.

there is nothing wrong with your child.

seen your posts before. You’ve had assessments - everyone thinks there is nothing wrong with your girl.

go and get some help for the obvious issue that is here - you clearly have a major anxiety disorder and that can be helped. See the dr.

Btw, it's ok to tell her to be quiet sometimes. "Mummy needs quiet NOW!!"

Kids need training for being quiet, staying still, being bored. Not just things like getting dressed etc.

So you think it's only ND children that talk constantly, it's not possible that a NT child might be a chatterbox?

Some kids are just motormouths. I have one. I tell him to keep his thoughts in his head once in a while. But then they spill out again 😂

The real question is, do you have a preference for an ND child for some reason? or are you anxious?

I didn't realise this was the same OP as previous similar threads. OP if this is a constant source of concern for you, please go to your GP to talk about your own wellbeing and mental health. This is starting to lean towards munchausen's by proxy. I'm sure you want the very best for your DD, please get help for yourself.

My first thought!!!!

Why would constant talking be a sign of AuDHD? She’s 3.5, kids talk. None of your post points to AuDHD, I haven’t seen a post less likely to be that. I have a dd who has been referred for both ASD and ADHD and she is nothing at all like you describe your dd to be.

There. Is. Nothing. Unusual. About. Your. Child.