Regret blocking my only friend

Whole thread sounds like a sack of shit to me! 🙄

I'll probably get deleted for this, but I'm not sure this is genuine.

your very vulnerable and he knows it, that’s why he picked you in the first place, he sounds narcissistic and you need to keep away from him and be grateful your not his partner… vile man

It's hilarious, you're writing it as if you're a Bond villain.

This is definitely fiction. It's shit fiction too.

Being the daughter of a man who declared his marriage 'open' shortly after contracting it, I've long thought that 'polyamory' is just a fancy name for men doing whatever the fuck they want and pretending that's progressive. Ugh.

You baffle me, OP. I think you're right that the situation of this human turd's (thanks, pp) wife is not a police matter. But to say that she's choosing to stay if she's financially dependent, with a young child, and he sprang this on her late in pregnancy is extremely uncharitable and simply not accurate.

And why, just why, would you want to be 'friends' with this individual? Yes, he takes you out to do nice things, but surely being a friend requires a base level of human decency which he lacks, and some kind of empathetic connection that I wouldn't even want to have with someone so obviously vile.

Just read back what you wrote. He is pressuring you to have babies with him in a 'throuple', clearly without regard for his wife who could probably do with him pitching him parenting their child. He molests waitresses, he boasts of his seductive powers - where's the 'barfing' emoji when you need it? Run, run, run. Better to be lonely than with this cunt, whatever his salary.

You do sound lonely and like you're not sure what you're worth. There's probably a lot to unpack there, but he won't help you do that. Join a club, running, crocheting, whatever, talk to strangers on the tube (joking! but even that would be better than he) - don't settle for this man as a 'friend'. All the best.

Are you bored now GCSEs are over?

Not after engaging in maintaining contact with him well after becoming aware of his marriage.
You have only just cut contact and you’re already moaning about regretting it. You’re more pathetic than she is.

You sound delusional - he's not in love with you. He's looking out for a vulnerable, lonely young woman to groom into his weirdo polyamory lifestyle and he landed on you because you are by yourself with no friends and he thinks you're an easy mark.

"Reminds you of your worst fears" get a grip 😂

another woman's husband is in love with me

He is not in love with you.

You need to get that out of your head.
He is using you because you are vulnerable and lonely and knows you’ll let him walk all over you.

You have no friends? Wonder why.

Pretty sure this is completely made up tbf.

You literally said that you think she was in a hostage situation with regard to the polyamory. Everything you've told us about the bloke suggests that he is a real POS - trying to pressure someone younger to move in and get pregnant, bragging about how he could have anyone, sexually harassing young employees etc. Do you really think he is treating his wife with respect and kindness? He doesn't have to be hitting her for it to be an abusive relationship.

You seem to be completely lacking in social awareness and lacking in empathy.

And yet here you are all this time later still clinging onto this loser who is married and choosing someone else.

Nah OP hes a total wanker. Hes been rude to you,put you down and been an all round fucking cunt.

Ive been alone in a city before when I moved to london. There are quite a few apps with friends and groups arranging meet ups. Have you joined any?
I was young and joined them and made a few friends to go out for a drink with, the gym, visit museums etc. I was young so it was mostly looking for people to get drunk with...! But there are loads with a variety of interests.

Join local groups? Go for a drink by yourself? You would be amazed how many people in a pub are alone.

Dont entertain this clown because you are alone

And, as people keep saying, this unpleasant attitude is why you have no friends, and your only previous friend is a gratuitously awful person.

Wow.

I was feeling sorry for you after reading your first post as you come across as quite vulnerable.

Now I see you are just as nasty as him.

You sound very ignorant about abusive relationships and how hard it can be to leave them. Really sad that you can't find any compassion for this woman.