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AIBU to be fed up with the heatwave hysteria?

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Freshtona · 23/06/2026 20:14

I'm getting a bit sick of the heat hysteria.

Yes it's going to be very hot for the next few days. So stay hydrated and out of the sun. Be sensible, take precautions. It's not difficult.

Millions of people around the world endure hot temperatures and yes it's uncomfortable for these few days but the crap British weather will be back soon, fear not.

People are acting quite over the top about it imo.

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MrDobbs · 24/06/2026 01:58

I'm fed up with the offhand comments about "people in other countries just get on with it". Anyone who has lived and worked in hot countries knows it's not like that.

You really think people in Mumbai and Cape Town don't moan about the heat when it gets up above 35 Deg C? It's all some people talk about for 2 months.

They don't just go about their normal daily business like it was a breezy 25 degree day. Fruit and veg markets shut during the day and start operating evenings and nights. Construction work starts at dawn and is mostly done by midday. In rural areas, livestock dies. No one really just gets on with it like normal when it's 37-40 degrees.

So people in the UK, feel free to not pretend it's just like a nice spring day with a bit of sun. But give me a month of 28-30 degrees any time, perfect.

Jane379 · 24/06/2026 01:58

MarieAntoinetteQueenOfFrance · 23/06/2026 21:48

Where I grew up we hit 35-38°C for a week or 2 at a time over the Summer months and staying at 27-30°C for those cooler days. Nobody died prematurely, schools stayed open (but we sometimes were allowed to leave an hour earlier) people carried on working.
The only difference to the uk is that we have lots of lakes and outdoor swimming pools to cool down in.

I'm sure people will be just fine as long as they are sensible. (Plenty to drink, stay in shade / indoors and get a cold food bath or shower!)

No other differences? Were schools etc not ventilated better? A lot of UK buildings are not airconned etc or built for the heat.

Also I agree with pp pointing out people in your country would be better acclimatised.

What was this country, if you're happy to say?

Kerry242 · 24/06/2026 01:41

Live and let live.

Some people are struggling with the heat - you're struggling with the people who are struggling with the heat.

It's not hard to give people some grace, afterall, as you say yourself - it's a few days.

KeepDancing1 · 24/06/2026 00:53

MarieAntoinetteQueenOfFrance · 23/06/2026 21:48

Where I grew up we hit 35-38°C for a week or 2 at a time over the Summer months and staying at 27-30°C for those cooler days. Nobody died prematurely, schools stayed open (but we sometimes were allowed to leave an hour earlier) people carried on working.
The only difference to the uk is that we have lots of lakes and outdoor swimming pools to cool down in.

I'm sure people will be just fine as long as they are sensible. (Plenty to drink, stay in shade / indoors and get a cold food bath or shower!)

If those are the usual summer temperatures in your part of the world, of course you won’t see excess deaths when they occur as normal at the usual time of year. It’s a different story when there are periods of abnormally hot weather like this.

Bookbears · 24/06/2026 00:49

Squishymama · 23/06/2026 22:17

I honestly don’t know what all the fuss is about, yes there’s people with cognitive decline putting their jumpers and fires on, but for us “normal” people, is there a risk to life, I mean is there really?

I'm perimenopausal, god damn I’ve been sweating, but closing schools? I feel like people are bending to “everyone else is doing it so we should” and quite frankly it’s silly, a couple of years ago I was sat waiting for my daughter to finish school and according to my car it was 40 degrees, no mention of schools closing. Makes me feel like I’m in some sort of parallel universe.

Some schools need to be closed for the safety of pupils and staff. A local school near me which isn’t very old is supposed to be a eco school that keeps warm in winter and cool in the summer. As a result there is no aircon etc. The temperature inside some of the classrooms today were 40 degrees. Clearly the eco building materials didn’t work so they closed.

Most schools in the UK are not built to withstand these temperatures. Unless they have aircon throughout which alot of the older buildings do not, they have no choice but to close. My son’s school is open tomorrow but I am fully expecting a call to say I need to collect him at some point.

Lifeomars · 24/06/2026 00:47

I love sunshine and summer but not this level of heat, it feels dangerous and the very high pollen count is making me almost blind as my eyes run so much and while the anitihistamines help they do not give total relief. There is a new baby in my family too and temperatures in the high 30's are not good for them. I live in a city so the air feels thick, clammy and grimy, guess it is a lot better close to the coast. I can cope but I would love the temperature to drop by at least 8 degrees and for a storm to clear the air.

Arlanymor · 24/06/2026 00:43

mathanxiety · 24/06/2026 00:27

More like stupid decisions about swimming.

Granted, they mightnt have decided to swim in cooler weather, but maybe they're the French equivalent of Americans who try to deep fry frozen turkeys at Thanksgiving.

15 kids died in the UK swimming in open water in warmer weather this year. Call them stupid if you want and then make a total non-sequitur about cooking.

Guess you're on the side of 'this is hysteria' - rather than wanting to send out messages to try and save just one life from going into a river. But, yes, they are all just stupid. Stupid kids. Stupid, stupid, dead kids. WTAF.

lightreceiver · 24/06/2026 00:32

hairbearbunches · 23/06/2026 20:53

You quite agree, do you? What do you class as a real heatwave then? Because I’m telling you now that 1976’s endless 32 degrees was way more bearable than 39 degrees now, even for just 3 days.

You keep your coat on tomorrow and see what heat stroke feels like.

I think Justine may be taking the piss…..

HoppityBun · 24/06/2026 00:32

lovemelongtime · 23/06/2026 21:05

It's absolutely FKN ridiculous. I am amazed the rest of the world manages to function. God help us if they were all like us. Just crack on and stop moaning.

And yes, I did have to commute to work on a train and yes mum home office is like a cauldron, but we moan for 10 months a year about the cold.

Good for you.

Worldwide, around half a million people die each year because of heat related problems.

NanaNanu · 24/06/2026 00:30

MaybeIamJustABitch · 23/06/2026 22:01

Ooh look at me, surviving the heat!! Fuck right off.

I’m certainly not asking for special dispensation for myself, yet my FIL has COPD (20% lung capacity as it goes and has oxygen 24 hours a day) and my DF has severe Asthma. Stick them on a bus shall we and tell them to carry on regardless because everyone else has to?

Don’t have an air conditioned car? ‘Well that’s your fault’. Late for work? ‘Well leave earlier’.

Old school mentality, end of. No, I’m not talking about ‘well I don’t cope well in the heat’, I’m talking about people who could literally die because of the conditions. So up yours for bowing down and complying.

I care for frail and elderly people and they never drink enough water usually anyway and not drinking enough can be very dangerous in these temperatures as they don't notice that they are dehydrated, making them more prone to UTIs, sepsis, a stroke, heart attack, high blood pressure.... and more.

mathanxiety · 24/06/2026 00:30

XenaBallerina · 24/06/2026 00:04

I can cope with heat. Spent years in a hot country. Much hotter than the UK and loved it.
Over here it’s the humidity that I find unbearable. It’s a killer.

That's why you all need to stop feeling superior and laughing at Americans for having AC, and start exploring your options.

mathanxiety · 24/06/2026 00:27

Arlanymor · 23/06/2026 20:34

Forty people have drowned in France since Thursday due to heatwave-related deaths. I don't think Sébastien Lecornu warning people about this is remotely hysterical.

More like stupid decisions about swimming.

Granted, they mightnt have decided to swim in cooler weather, but maybe they're the French equivalent of Americans who try to deep fry frozen turkeys at Thanksgiving.

PeoplesNet · 24/06/2026 00:22

Helpless0190 · 23/06/2026 20:30

I work in a kitchen. Today it hit 46 degrees in there. Countless people work in jobs where they are stuck in dangerously high temperatures. It is not hysteria.

But do you / those people whinge about it all day, every day or do you crack on?

This isn't going away. We need to get used to it and start planning for it. Where are the water fountains? The sheltered seating outside. The aircon in buildings, especially schools.

Less whinging, more preparation!

SheilaWilde · 24/06/2026 00:21

ZenNudist · 24/06/2026 00:13

It's going to peak at 32C here on Thursday. That's hardly ridiculous. That's summer. I'm sure it's hotter down south but it's back to normal bu the weekend. Most people just looking to skive off.

As I said in an earlier post. Some posters are completely unable to understand IT’S MUCH HOTTER IN THE FUCKING SOUTH. You’re right, 32 isn’t ridiculous but it’s HOTTER IN THE SOUT. If it was only 32 all of us in the red zone wouldn’t be constantly arguing the toss with the stupid people NOT in the red zone.

HoppityBun · 24/06/2026 00:19

XenaBallerina · 24/06/2026 00:04

I can cope with heat. Spent years in a hot country. Much hotter than the UK and loved it.
Over here it’s the humidity that I find unbearable. It’s a killer.

Apparently it literally is, because people don’t sweat in high humidity

margegunderson · 24/06/2026 00:19

TheJuryIsOut · 23/06/2026 22:44

I agree, obviously it's different for the elderly etc, but they're not going out to work or whatever so I don't see why the whole country has to shut down?

I’ve just come back from France. They are giving the same advice there. It’s not just the UK displaying a lack of moral fibre which is what you seem to be suggesting.

ZenNudist · 24/06/2026 00:13

It's going to peak at 32C here on Thursday. That's hardly ridiculous. That's summer. I'm sure it's hotter down south but it's back to normal bu the weekend. Most people just looking to skive off.

XenaBallerina · 24/06/2026 00:04

I can cope with heat. Spent years in a hot country. Much hotter than the UK and loved it.
Over here it’s the humidity that I find unbearable. It’s a killer.

Arlanymor · 24/06/2026 00:03

HoppityBun · 23/06/2026 23:50

I was looking at the amber and red alerts and they’ve reached Cardiff and Swansea. That’s… bizarre!

I'm in Swansea - we're being told to prepare for 34 degrees. Unheard of.

HappyGoLucky16 · 23/06/2026 23:52

Move to the west coast of Scotland, these heatwaves are never a problem for us! 😂

Ownyourchoices · 23/06/2026 23:50

West Australian here - sympathies. Our climate means summers full of high 30s and 40s is not at all uncommon. But our houses are built for heat, air conditioning is often present and our bodies are more used to it. It can still be dangerous even in places like WA.

When its cold - not so bad in WA, might be 0 degrees at night, worse in places like Tasmania or Victoria - it never seems as problematic, you can bundle up, wear your uggboots, buy a cheap heater. Heat is harder as ultimately you generally wear clothes to some extent and you can't strip off any more.

So - solidarity!

HoppityBun · 23/06/2026 23:50

Britneyfan · 23/06/2026 23:44

I can’t understand why so many people on here can’t seem to understand that this is NOT normal historically and we are not just talking about nice ice cream and beach weather. Which yes, is extremely worrying in terms of the climate crisis. These sorts of temperatures were totally unheard of in the U.K. when I was growing up.

Also it’s really not fair to compare to countries where it’s hot all year round and always has been and everything is set up with that in mind. I have several colleagues and friends who grew up in much hotter countries and say it was easier to cope there than here as the U.K. just isn’t set up to cope with it and we don’t get a chance to acclimatise here as it seems to swing wildly between eg actual hail last week and red alert weather warnings this week, it’s ridiculous.

A pp also makes a good point that we are absolutely not all experiencing the same level of heatwave in the UK at all. I’ve been thinking to myself this might be why some people on here are aghast at any sort of concession to the heat, where others of us are genuinely frightened and struggling to cope with it. I am originally from N Ireland where it will peak at 24 degrees for a few hours late Thursday afternoon, but be in the low 20s at most (and much of time less than 20) for the rest of the week. I now live in S England in the zone given the red weather warning and it was about 34 degrees today and predicted to be at least that for another 3-4 days, and some nights not really cooling down much either. It’s a completely and utterly different climate.

Even if we were all experiencing the exact same climate, we have different houses, different access to things like air-con, different work environments and regulations and most of all different medical history. I am perimenopausal, on thyroxine and sertraline which are known to cause more difficulty with temperature regulation, I have asthma and migraine, and I have been diagnosed with an underlying sudden cardiac death syndrome which is known to be potentially triggered by overheating and dehydration.

I also work as a GP in an exceptionally hot building with no air-con (except for the fridges of course!) I genuinely find the heat frightening, feel dizzy and nauseated in it, my asthma starts to play up, I struggle with migraine, am irritable, and my thinking capacity is definitely significantly slowed down in this sort of heat. Which is a problem for the sort of job I do and it’s not like we suddenly have less patients or less complex issues to deal with because it’s hot.

So no, it’s not hysteria. I see every year how many people struggle with all sorts of issues caused by the heat as well as finding it tough myself. We must start taking this seriously. It is a very real problem for health for so many people, let alone the pressure on railway lines, risk of fire etc.

If I were PM I’d want to pass laws meaning any new buildings have to be built to take very hot summers into consideration. I do think public buildings where lots of people gather, particularly if likely to be more vulnerable such as schools, retirement homes, hospitals etc. should be fitted with air con, or at the very least have awnings and shutters and ceiling fans installed etc. I also think there should be central government funding available for people who want to retrofit their own properties for the heat by installing some of these things at their own expense on their own homes, so that some of the money can be claimed back. Like they did for insulation at one point and I think boilers at another point.

I was looking at the amber and red alerts and they’ve reached Cardiff and Swansea. That’s… bizarre!

plumclafoutis · 23/06/2026 23:50

GoneWithTHeWindJammers · 23/06/2026 22:38

I am in my late 60s. I went for a walk this afternoon and didn't die.

So…

ZemblanityZen · 23/06/2026 23:49

@Freshtona It's probably the heat that's making you irritable

LBFseBrom · 23/06/2026 23:47

I agree but it won't last. People will soon be moaning about the cold and saying, "Stay safe", and the like (as if we wouldn't try to stay safe).

Weather is weather.

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