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To think closing schools or making them "optional" during the heatwave is putting pressure on working parents and is just a bit silly?

619 replies

Suchevilforebodings · 23/06/2026 18:42

This doesn't actually effect me directly as neither of my children's schools have closed.
But some of the schools iny area are either closing or are making school optional IE: it won't be marked as absence.
I mean.... Really? Do kids actually need tome off because it's hot?
And is it fair on working parents to send out an email the day before to say school is closed? This heatwave was forecast last week.
Even making it "optional" puts the pressure on as the kids will want to stay off and many of their friends will be.
I just think it's bullshit tbh

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Tulips94 · 23/06/2026 23:17

Asuperblyfeauturedroomandexcellentboiledpotatoes · 23/06/2026 23:12

Not to paid parental leave. Parents need to earn.

School isn’t childcare

Photobot · 23/06/2026 23:14

Tulips94 · 23/06/2026 22:45

You are entitled to parental leave. Whether your employer likes it or not

It's unpaid for most people though. A lot of people will find it very difficult to lose almost a full week's pay.

Asuperblyfeauturedroomandexcellentboiledpotatoes · 23/06/2026 23:12

Tulips94 · 23/06/2026 22:45

You are entitled to parental leave. Whether your employer likes it or not

Not to paid parental leave. Parents need to earn.

Photobot · 23/06/2026 23:02

noblegiraffe · 23/06/2026 21:48

It's probably just as easy to be sanctimonious when your kids are going to a school with air con and not somewhere utterly intolerable.

Eh? My point is that for kids at that school, who have very hot homes,it's almost definitely better to be at school. That might not be true for all schools. But I'd wager that almost all schools will have areas cooler than a 30th floor flat where the windows don't open, even if you keep a cool zone in the hall and a couple of other places.

Do what you like with your own kids, but don't say it's the 'sensible' thing to do for all parents. Which plenty of posters have said.

Cheeseandolivesplease · 23/06/2026 22:47

@Tulips94 Yes absolutely - even if you're a teacher.

Tulips94 · 23/06/2026 22:45

ToffeeCrabApple · 23/06/2026 22:33

Ok do you want to tell that to our bosses though? Not everyone has the freedom to just drop everything and not show up to work. We have to work to keep a roof over our heads & food on the table

You are entitled to parental leave. Whether your employer likes it or not

fashionqueen0123 · 23/06/2026 22:39

It’s pretty ridiculous to expect schools to say what the plan was last week: we all know it can change in a flash! They couldn’t say they were shutting a week ago - can you imagine the uproar.
People are however capable of warning employers there is a possible heatwave coming and they’ll see what happens nearer the time with the schools.

lovecotswoldsliving · 23/06/2026 22:37

ToffeeCrabApple · 23/06/2026 22:33

Ok do you want to tell that to our bosses though? Not everyone has the freedom to just drop everything and not show up to work. We have to work to keep a roof over our heads & food on the table

Then maybe employers need to be held to task and be more considerate?

fashionqueen0123 · 23/06/2026 22:36

Thunderstormsandsunshine · 23/06/2026 18:51

My room is completely in the shade and in an old building with thick walls. We had 4 very large fans going. By 3 pm it was 32 degrees. In the main building it was 37 in some classrooms. Pregnant staff vomiting. Most staff having taught from 8am - most with migraines. There is no air con. None. No breeze. It is unwise and not fair on anyone and not safe. Unions say you should be able to keep your room at 26 degrees. The reality is most classrooms are greenhouses.

That’s awful. Someone needs to send the pregnant women home - they should have a risk assessment

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 23/06/2026 22:34

I think if you drop your kids off in a short walk or air con car it’s a different life to bus or tube commuters

ToffeeCrabApple · 23/06/2026 22:33

Lifealittleboulder · 23/06/2026 22:17

Ok I’m going to get shot for this but here’s my honest opinion

schools exist for our children to get an education, not to look after our kids while we work.

so if the school says they need to close, we look after our kids. It’s not their responsibility

Ok do you want to tell that to our bosses though? Not everyone has the freedom to just drop everything and not show up to work. We have to work to keep a roof over our heads & food on the table

ToffeeCrabApple · 23/06/2026 22:31

Making it optional is the worst, laziest scenario.

Either its safe for kids & teachers to be in, or it isn't.

An optional approach tends to disadvantage the poorest, most vulnerable children, and those who already have weak attendance records. They are kept home & miss out on more learning, while children of working professionals tend to be sent in.

SpareMe · 23/06/2026 22:30

Butt3rButt3r · 23/06/2026 18:59

It’s not an exaggeration!!!! Trust me, it’s just horrendous and I’m staggered some parents want to put their children though it for their convenience.

Convenience? It’s how they pay the bills, keep the lights on. Survive.

People get fired for not working when they are contracted to work.

People die if some professions fail to turn up to work.

JenniferBooth · 23/06/2026 22:22

Frenzi · 23/06/2026 22:06

So when people cant get an appointment with a GP this week because the GP has had to ring in as their childs school is closed and they need to be at home with them the general public will be understanding will they.

I doubt it very much.

Actually i need to see a GP but im leaving it till next week as the heat exacerbates my bowel issues (ive been ill with it for the last week) so going to a stifling GP surgery with no air con is too risky so im leaving it till next week.

Lifealittleboulder · 23/06/2026 22:17

Ok I’m going to get shot for this but here’s my honest opinion

schools exist for our children to get an education, not to look after our kids while we work.

so if the school says they need to close, we look after our kids. It’s not their responsibility

SleeplessInWherever · 23/06/2026 22:07

I don’t know how helpful “have you seen the Met office alert/the temperature/the forecast” is at this point.

Yes. We’re all aware of the alert, the forecast, the temperature outside and inside, we all have phones, and eyes and skin, we’ve seen the news, and the Facebook posts, and the various MN threads.

It is hot. Some kids are better off in school. For others it’s just more convenient. People have jobs they can’t just not do because of the change in temperature, or don’t actually have the facilities to keep their kids as cool as they’d like.

But I think it’s safe to say, yes. We all know what the weather currently is and is expected to be.

Frenzi · 23/06/2026 22:06

So when people cant get an appointment with a GP this week because the GP has had to ring in as their childs school is closed and they need to be at home with them the general public will be understanding will they.

I doubt it very much.

noblegiraffe · 23/06/2026 22:03

sexnotgenders · 23/06/2026 21:49

Erm, my 5 year old was absolutely fine at school today (zone 2 south London). It does not have air con. She skipped out perfectly normally at 3.30 happily talking about her day, seemingly oblivious to the heat.

I’m not sure that fact brings anything to the debate, apart from highlighting that the degree of issues experienced in schools during a heatwave is very building specific and blanket polices (or opinions) aren’t helpful. I don’t doubt some schools are clearly struggling and should close, but closing my kids’s school would be entirely unnecessary (and I say that as someone very happy and willing to keep her at home the second her school tells me it’s necessary).

How do you know that because your 5 year old was ok that all children in all classes at the school were ok?

One of the kids in one of my classes was still wearing a blazer and seemed completely oblivious to the heat but the rest of them were very much affected by it.

sexnotgenders · 23/06/2026 21:49

Parker231 · 23/06/2026 20:52

I very much doubt any child was absolutely fine today in school unless they had air conditioning.

Im assuming you aren’t watching weather reports of red alerts?
The Met Office described it as a rare red warning because of the risk to life and major disruption.

Erm, my 5 year old was absolutely fine at school today (zone 2 south London). It does not have air con. She skipped out perfectly normally at 3.30 happily talking about her day, seemingly oblivious to the heat.

I’m not sure that fact brings anything to the debate, apart from highlighting that the degree of issues experienced in schools during a heatwave is very building specific and blanket polices (or opinions) aren’t helpful. I don’t doubt some schools are clearly struggling and should close, but closing my kids’s school would be entirely unnecessary (and I say that as someone very happy and willing to keep her at home the second her school tells me it’s necessary).

noblegiraffe · 23/06/2026 21:48

Photobot · 23/06/2026 21:42

A lot of children, especially in cities, live in dangerously overheated flats or temporary accomodation. So it's not always 'sensible' to keep them at home where it will be even hotter, as well as overcrowded.

Primary DC's school is fully open (aircon, although not amazing, but have a big field with lots of trees). Secondary is doing a half day although they also have Aircon and DD said it was 'fine' today. Hopefully schools will do as hers has done and let it be known to parents that if it is better to keep the kids in school, they can.

It's easy to be sanctimonious about your Aircon and ability to lay on water play. Not everyone can do that (shades of COVID where lots of us who had to send our children in while we kept everyone else safe were shamed for it).

It's probably just as easy to be sanctimonious when your kids are going to a school with air con and not somewhere utterly intolerable.

Photobot · 23/06/2026 21:42

A lot of children, especially in cities, live in dangerously overheated flats or temporary accomodation. So it's not always 'sensible' to keep them at home where it will be even hotter, as well as overcrowded.

Primary DC's school is fully open (aircon, although not amazing, but have a big field with lots of trees). Secondary is doing a half day although they also have Aircon and DD said it was 'fine' today. Hopefully schools will do as hers has done and let it be known to parents that if it is better to keep the kids in school, they can.

It's easy to be sanctimonious about your Aircon and ability to lay on water play. Not everyone can do that (shades of COVID where lots of us who had to send our children in while we kept everyone else safe were shamed for it).

Looksey · 23/06/2026 21:35

GlomOfNit · 23/06/2026 21:14

Why are so many MNers naively or nastily macho about extreme weather? I don't get it. Red alerts from the Met Office are warning of excess deaths if precautions and changes to routine aren't made. Why would you argue with that - or do you all genuinely think you know better than guidelines laid down by crisis experts and meteorologists?

I'm in the red zone for heat and it's been unbearable at home for the last two days. I can't even imagine the next two. But there's only been 2-4 of us in the house at any one time. 30 kids packed into a classroom with lots of big windows... and blinds don't stop the sun heating up the window glass and radiating it inwards.

Some things have to change. We have to take really stringent measures to limit climate change, we have to build smarter and maybe we have to change our summer school hours.

I'm actually really not trying to be combative but surely you can see this isn't an argument? Crisis experts and meteorologists? Could you have picked 2 more unreliable disciplines? They are literally trying to predict the future - a notoriously and inherently fallible endeavour.

Some things have to change. We have to take really stringent measures to limit climate change, we have to build smarter and maybe we have to change our summer school hours.

I don't disagree with any of that, but also it's also not realistic - not practically and not financially. Certainly not before we've had maaaany more years of this.

Cheeseandolivesplease · 23/06/2026 21:33

@drdoolittlejennubs As an ex primary teacher I fully understand; it's so difficult having to look after 30 other people's kids in this severe heat when you can't go and get your own little ones.

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 23/06/2026 21:19

I work in an office with no air conditioning. We all got sent home and hour early and are working from home tomorrow and Thursday.

DS school is staying open, but it has air conditioning so he's better off there than at home! If they didn't I'd fully support them closing. If risk assessments say it's too hot for me to be in the office, it would be too hot for my son to be in school in the same temperature.

Parker231 · 23/06/2026 21:19

Looksey · 23/06/2026 21:08

Schools have a rigid approach during normal circumstances so you do as you see fit.

These are not normal circumstances - have you not seen the updates from the Met Office.,

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