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To think closing schools or making them "optional" during the heatwave is putting pressure on working parents and is just a bit silly?

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Suchevilforebodings · 23/06/2026 18:42

This doesn't actually effect me directly as neither of my children's schools have closed.
But some of the schools iny area are either closing or are making school optional IE: it won't be marked as absence.
I mean.... Really? Do kids actually need tome off because it's hot?
And is it fair on working parents to send out an email the day before to say school is closed? This heatwave was forecast last week.
Even making it "optional" puts the pressure on as the kids will want to stay off and many of their friends will be.
I just think it's bullshit tbh

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Asuperblyfeauturedroomandexcellentboiledpotatoes · 24/06/2026 19:05

JacketPotatoFoodOfTheGods · 24/06/2026 19:04

The rest of us have to work too.
We don’t all have air con either.

Yes, exactly. The lady describing a 12 hour shift in a nursing home said she would happily take a teacher's day at work, including their wages.
And I don't blame her.
She's not getting a day off though.

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 24/06/2026 19:05

Asuperblyfeauturedroomandexcellentboiledpotatoes · 24/06/2026 19:01

Not every workplace can manage without staff, and just shut up for the day so parents can look after kids that should be in school. Masses of them, not the odd kid off sick, but a whole school. What do you want an A&E department to do exactly when it's staff can't come in?? It's not unsupportive to not let people stay off work. We need the workforce in order to survive.

So give the choice as mentioned by the OP. My kids are best to be at home to prevent illness, heatstroke, dehydration. My kids come first with me. If you are happy to send your kids in when given the choice go for it. Just don't expect other parents to agree with you

Asuperblyfeauturedroomandexcellentboiledpotatoes · 24/06/2026 19:04

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 24/06/2026 18:51

I'm not going to be quilt tripped by working parents that it's not fair on working parents. Not everything is about what's best for working parents. My concern is for my children who in this heat are better off at home where they can be kept cool. If working parents don't like this to bad. Giving the option for parents to keep children at home is the best option, it fits everyone's needs. But I'm not going to be guilty tripped by working parents when it comes to my children's health and safety. Who the hell do you think you are?

Let's see how safe your kids are when there's no doctors working at GPs surgeries, the hospitals are understaffed, there's not enough police or ambulance staff etc. We need a workforce.
And yes it happens, I've had my surgery shut for an entire day because there were no doctors.

JacketPotatoFoodOfTheGods · 24/06/2026 19:04

Butt3rButt3r · 23/06/2026 18:50

You clearly have no idea how unbearable it is in schools atm.

The rest of us have to work too.
We don’t all have air con either.

Asuperblyfeauturedroomandexcellentboiledpotatoes · 24/06/2026 19:01

Matronic6 · 24/06/2026 18:46

A school would not be closed without good reason. They are accountable to the council and have to justify closure. They also can't always give adequate notice. They don't have a magic ball to know weeks in advance just how hot things are going to be.

I find it strange that school are getting a lot of grief for nti thinking of employers, when it should try other way around. We should be questioning why workplaces in this country are so inconsiderate of these things and cannot be more flexible.

During events like this discussion always focus on failure of schools to recognise the strain they put on parents whe ln they know all too well. Teachers are, believe it or not, parents to. And face the same problems everyone else does when schools close.

I would love for the conversation to shift as to why companies are allowed to be so unsupportive of family needs? Why do they not have plans for events like this? Why do they put pressure on employees to put their childrens wellbeing second to work?

Not every workplace can manage without staff, and just shut up for the day so parents can look after kids that should be in school. Masses of them, not the odd kid off sick, but a whole school. What do you want an A&E department to do exactly when it's staff can't come in?? It's not unsupportive to not let people stay off work. We need the workforce in order to survive.

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 24/06/2026 18:51

I'm not going to be quilt tripped by working parents that it's not fair on working parents. Not everything is about what's best for working parents. My concern is for my children who in this heat are better off at home where they can be kept cool. If working parents don't like this to bad. Giving the option for parents to keep children at home is the best option, it fits everyone's needs. But I'm not going to be guilty tripped by working parents when it comes to my children's health and safety. Who the hell do you think you are?

Matronic6 · 24/06/2026 18:46

Asuperblyfeauturedroomandexcellentboiledpotatoes · 24/06/2026 18:27

Yes they did all the things you said but they also call home to ask for pick up if a child is ill, has an accident, it snows, it's hot, is suspended etc etc. yes they care for kids during the school day but it needs the parents to pick up as soon as they are asked which means parents always need a plan b.

Yes, that's how childcare works. This is the same with nurseries, childminders, nannies, all childcare. They are still our kids, we have ultimate responsibility. We all know this and it doesn't mean that school isn't childcare.

Canceling it without good reason and without adequate notice isn't acceptable. Parents rely on it. Parents are expected to rely on it. It is their children's education and their childcare.

A school would not be closed without good reason. They are accountable to the council and have to justify closure. They also can't always give adequate notice. They don't have a magic ball to know weeks in advance just how hot things are going to be.

I find it strange that school are getting a lot of grief for nti thinking of employers, when it should try other way around. We should be questioning why workplaces in this country are so inconsiderate of these things and cannot be more flexible.

During events like this discussion always focus on failure of schools to recognise the strain they put on parents whe ln they know all too well. Teachers are, believe it or not, parents to. And face the same problems everyone else does when schools close.

I would love for the conversation to shift as to why companies are allowed to be so unsupportive of family needs? Why do they not have plans for events like this? Why do they put pressure on employees to put their childrens wellbeing second to work?

PGmicstand · 24/06/2026 18:46

My child attends a school in an old building. There is no air conditioning. The classroom temperature was over 30 degrees yesterday and kids were fainting amd being taken ill.

In my house right now (more modern than the school building but still quite old), I've had windows and curtains shut all day and fans running. It's just cooled down to 29 degrees .

Where buildings are new and cool, then once pupils and staff are on the premises it'll be comfortable. Otherwise its a risk to health.

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 24/06/2026 18:41

Asuperblyfeauturedroomandexcellentboiledpotatoes · 24/06/2026 18:27

Yes they did all the things you said but they also call home to ask for pick up if a child is ill, has an accident, it snows, it's hot, is suspended etc etc. yes they care for kids during the school day but it needs the parents to pick up as soon as they are asked which means parents always need a plan b.

Yes, that's how childcare works. This is the same with nurseries, childminders, nannies, all childcare. They are still our kids, we have ultimate responsibility. We all know this and it doesn't mean that school isn't childcare.

Canceling it without good reason and without adequate notice isn't acceptable. Parents rely on it. Parents are expected to rely on it. It is their children's education and their childcare.

Cancelling school for the health of the kids is a good reason. You would be insane to think otherwise

Bikenutz · 24/06/2026 18:40

Newsenmum · 23/06/2026 18:46

It depends on the area and how cool they can keep it inside. Have you been inside a school when its 35 degree? It’s dangerous.
Giving the option is great as it also means fewer bodies in class. You do realise theyre not actually doing proper lessons in this heat? Mine spent the whole day being hosed off and eating ice creams and playing wirh water in the hall. My little one‘s nursery is closing midday because toddlers collapsing with heatstroke isnt fun.

Yes as a country we need to adapt our building with air con and potentially start ‘tropical hours’ like other schools. It’s not the 80s anymore where the maximum is one day of 30 degrees. 40 is very different.

I’d go further than that. Building standards need to be updated so that all new builds are of sufficient quality to be safe in these temperatures. Insulate Britain were on the money.

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 24/06/2026 18:38

Thechaseison71 · 24/06/2026 17:39

Why was I unlucky because my parents worked??

You where unlucky because you weren't picked up. Your argument is that children weren't picked up in the 70s and 80s and that it's a new thing. 🙄 and spent all day in the sick bay. I'm telling you that that wasn't true for the majority of kids in that era and you don't like being proved wrong

Asuperblyfeauturedroomandexcellentboiledpotatoes · 24/06/2026 18:27

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 24/06/2026 11:33

School isn't childcare. Yes they did all the things you said but they also call home to ask for pick up if a child is ill, has an accident, it snows, it's hot, is suspended etc etc. yes they care for kids during the school day but it needs the parents to pick up as soon as they are asked which means parents always need a plan b. Schools can call for a child to be picked up at any point during the school day because ultimately child care is the parents responsibility not the school, they are their to educate.

Yes they did all the things you said but they also call home to ask for pick up if a child is ill, has an accident, it snows, it's hot, is suspended etc etc. yes they care for kids during the school day but it needs the parents to pick up as soon as they are asked which means parents always need a plan b.

Yes, that's how childcare works. This is the same with nurseries, childminders, nannies, all childcare. They are still our kids, we have ultimate responsibility. We all know this and it doesn't mean that school isn't childcare.

Canceling it without good reason and without adequate notice isn't acceptable. Parents rely on it. Parents are expected to rely on it. It is their children's education and their childcare.

LovelyCrocus · 24/06/2026 17:57

Thechaseison71 · 24/06/2026 17:49

Really? That does depend on age group When I was 18 in 1989 it was about 1 in 5 school leavers went to uni.

Might be 50% of younger ones. But are you sure it's actually degrees and not other qualifications you are speaking about.

Yes, degrees.

Figures from 2017 - so practically a decade ago and the numbers have increased since then because some jobs which didn’t require a degree in the past now do, such as police officers which you can do either at university or on police degree apprenticeship.

  • 29.8% of 20 to 24-year-olds
  • 46.1% of 25 to 29-year-olds
  • 48.7% of 30 to 39-year-olds.

https://luminate.prospects.ac.uk/labour-market-myths-everyone-has-a-degree-nowadays

Labour market myths: 'Everyone has a degree nowadays'

Graduate numbers have dramatically increased over the past 50 years but it's still dangerous to assume that everyone has a degree. We've focused on the facts and taken a look at what could happen in the future to help you understand what the graduate l...

https://luminate.prospects.ac.uk/labour-market-myths-everyone-has-a-degree-nowadays

Thechaseison71 · 24/06/2026 17:49

LovelyCrocus · 24/06/2026 17:46

Around 50% of working age adults have a degree so theres no reason to assume she doesn’t.

And if she doesn’t, she can also get a bursary to train as a teacher on some undergraduate degrees.

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Really? That does depend on age group When I was 18 in 1989 it was about 1 in 5 school leavers went to uni.

Might be 50% of younger ones. But are you sure it's actually degrees and not other qualifications you are speaking about.

LovelyCrocus · 24/06/2026 17:46

Thechaseison71 · 24/06/2026 17:37

Don't you need a degree? Not everyone has them you know

Around 50% of working age adults have a degree so theres no reason to assume she doesn’t.

And if she doesn’t, she can also get a bursary to train as a teacher on some undergraduate degrees.

Thechaseison71 · 24/06/2026 17:39

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 24/06/2026 16:30

I think you where just unlucky that parents weren't at home. I was definitely picked up during the day when I was ill and like I said someone from the school even went to my grandparents house to ask them to pick me up because they didn't have a phone. Yes there was a sick bay but children where also sent home. Sending children home is definitely NOT a new thing

Why was I unlucky because my parents worked??

Thechaseison71 · 24/06/2026 17:37

LovelyCrocus · 24/06/2026 15:58

That sounds horrendous.

Why not retrain as a teacher? As you say, you’ll be working shorter hours, have better pay and conditions.

You’d also have the same holidays as your kids so no need to find childcare.

You can get a scholarship or bursary to train as well as a loan for tuition fees, so it won’t cost you anything upfront and you’d still have an income to cover the essentials.

Sounds much better than your present job, so why not go for it?

https://getintoteaching.education.gov.uk/

Don't you need a degree? Not everyone has them you know

Brickiscool · 24/06/2026 17:13

goodoldsussexbythesea · 23/06/2026 20:26

Have you ever been inside a care home, in an old building, with no air conditioning, and zero money to buy fans?

For 12 hours? Whilst cleaning up literal shit and being kicked and punched? for minimum wage?

Do we get time off?

Are our buildings not a danger to our extremely vulnerable residents?

Yes it sounds like your buildings absolutely are a danger to to vulnerable residents. But your building being a danger has no bearing on whether schools should shut. You are aware that the teachers are not getting time off when the schools shut aren't you? It's to keep children safe in temperatures of nearly 40 degrees. Not all the kids go home and none of the teachers go home they are still working.

And yes your care home sounds awful.

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 24/06/2026 16:56

TheCurious0range · 24/06/2026 16:49

And no school isn't childcare but what do you want the keyworkers you all clapped for, to do? Just not go in? No police, fire service, nurses, doctors, prison officers etc? Then what?

Oh so sod the children in an unsafe environment then, they dont matter 😡

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 24/06/2026 16:54

Also in the 70s and 80s kids where sent home for heat, snow, boiler not working. The difference is in those days there was no mobile phones. Kids would arrive at school and instantly sent home. Kids as young as 7 because we went by ourselves where sent home with no confirmation from parents saying it was ok. This often happened mid day when we where sent home early for snow, again no notification for parents we just turned up on the doorstep. At least now a days parents do get pre warned.

TheCurious0range · 24/06/2026 16:49

And no school isn't childcare but what do you want the keyworkers you all clapped for, to do? Just not go in? No police, fire service, nurses, doctors, prison officers etc? Then what?

TheCurious0range · 24/06/2026 16:47

I think optional is worse, think about the few kids left behind whose parents can't work from home or have someone around in the day , ds was in that position today I actually managed to WFH this afternoon and could get him at 3:15 because my boss is understanding and gets it's an unusual situation, by the time I picked him up 2 thirds of the class had left at lunchtime. I'm in court tomorrow so can't get him early at all luckily DH can get him at 3:15 but again it's going to be optional to collect at lunchtime

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 24/06/2026 16:30

Thechaseison71 · 24/06/2026 16:24

I was at school in the 70s and 80s myself. I remember being in the" sick bay" on the day of the school fete. Got told to lie down and rest and they'd ask my mums friend to collect me when she picked her own kids up . I was 6 at the time.

My mum would've been at work and dad wherever ( he was a postman so not a clue what shift he was on) And we didn't have a phone at home until 1984 when I was nearly 13, or of course if dad was working doing his round no one could've got hold of him till he got back in the sorting office anyway

The fact is there ,WERE these sick bays I assume your dad was either at home or worked where there was a phone instantly available as there weren't any mobiles then

I think you where just unlucky that parents weren't at home. I was definitely picked up during the day when I was ill and like I said someone from the school even went to my grandparents house to ask them to pick me up because they didn't have a phone. Yes there was a sick bay but children where also sent home. Sending children home is definitely NOT a new thing

Thechaseison71 · 24/06/2026 16:24

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 24/06/2026 16:05

It's not new. In the 70s in infants someone in the school would go round to my grandparents house as they lived closer if I was ill then they would pick me up. In the 80s during secondary my father was called several times to pick me up during the day due to illness or accident. So no it's not a new thing

I was at school in the 70s and 80s myself. I remember being in the" sick bay" on the day of the school fete. Got told to lie down and rest and they'd ask my mums friend to collect me when she picked her own kids up . I was 6 at the time.

My mum would've been at work and dad wherever ( he was a postman so not a clue what shift he was on) And we didn't have a phone at home until 1984 when I was nearly 13, or of course if dad was working doing his round no one could've got hold of him till he got back in the sorting office anyway

The fact is there ,WERE these sick bays I assume your dad was either at home or worked where there was a phone instantly available as there weren't any mobiles then

Feetballislife · 24/06/2026 16:10

Suchevilforebodings · 23/06/2026 23:20

People love to trot out that "school isn't childcare" line when it suits them, don't they?

School is childcare when you're on UC and they decide the hours you must work/look for work because your child is now of school age, or your benefits stop because you'd child is in school now.

School was childcare during COVID when they decided to only let the children of keyworkers into school so their parents could work.

But when you have to go and work in a swelteringly hot, high pressured environment, and the teachers decide they can't handle their swelteringly hot high pressure environment so need a paid day off - school's not childcare! You're on your own.

And the parents, the ones that have to rush around finding childcare, or take the financial hit, are in no way entitled to moan, apparently.

It doesn’t matter what your personal circumstances are - it’s still not childcare. Sorry, but it’s not.

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