To cancel date over his ‘joke’?

no I said insecure not the unclean , but I can guarantee that there are as many 'sisters' making nasty comments about other women not just misogyny.

I would also point out on this site there are plenty of women who love to give out insults but complain and cry off to the moderators to get posts removed when someone responds in kind..

Im guessing you've been single for a LONG time! 😂 Get over yerself girl...

So, by what you say, a beaver with bad breath is acceptable? I can't stop laughing at this one 😂

He sounds gross. Disgusting man.

Paid £80K and doesn't know when to use you're and when to use your? Or the correct use of possessives and apostrophes? I must have wasted my time doing a degree, a masters and a PhD.

Your definitely late to the party on this, thanks for taking the time to respond. Please don't reply, I've got 7 people's ironing to complete before the F1 starts 🤣.

I think the difference is, you seem to see the comment as 'a mistake', but I tend to see it as a major clue as to how someone 'is'. A mistake implies someone's done something they wouldn't normally do, wish they hadn't, and won't do it again. Someone who's known to be rude and crass, let's say, isn't making a mistake - it's probably inherent like greed, being critical, being a worrier, having blonde hair. I've said some stupid things and wished I hadn't but I'd never say anything like that to anyone. I wouldn't make 'that mistake' because it's not in my inherent nature to even go there. DH couldn't even get those words to form in his brain.

Imagine putting all the effort into 5 dates, being decent kind and open, having the lady enjoy your company. Everything appears to be going great. Then one small mistake one misjudgement of the acceptable sense of humour level. (There’s people who find this funny and people that don’t neither is right or wrong). That’s it binned off by people who only want to judge on that one thing. People have many sides to them not all of them are perfect. Let’s have some empathy for others and speak with them about what they said, discover if it was based on a underlying misogyny or if it was just an off the cuff, foot in mouth moment that isn’t representative of their actual character or values. Horrified by the comment section here jumping to conclusions without any context. You’re all just modern idiots with pitchforks and torches going out on a witch hunt.

Imagine putting all the effort into 5 dates, being decent kind and open, having the lady enjoy your company. Everything appears to be going great. Then one small mistake one misjudgement of the acceptable sense of humour level. (There’s people who find this funny and people that don’t neither is right or wrong). That’s it binned off by people who only want to judge on that one thing. People have many sides to them not all of them are perfect. Let’s have some empathy for others and speak with them about what they said, discover if it was based on a underlying misogyny or if it was just an off the cuff, foot in mouth moment that isn’t representative of their actual character or values. Horrified by the comment section here jumping to conclusions without any context. You’re all just modern idiots with pitchforks and torches going out on a witch hunt.

5th date tomorrow night with a man who has been great up to now. I’ve had to push the time back by an hour - said I’ll need extra time to freshen up after work. His reply to me was: “No worries, can’t be having a whiffy growler lol”.

Is that date cancelling worthy or am I being a bit too harsh?

Imagine putting all the effort into 5 dates, being decent kind and open, having the lady enjoy your company. Everything appears to be going great. Then one small mistake one misjudgement of the acceptable sense of humour level. (There’s people who find this funny and people that don’t neither is right or wrong). That’s it binned off by people who only want to judge on that one thing. People have many sides to them not all of them are perfect. Let’s have some empathy for others and speak with them about what they said, discover if it was based on a underlying misogyny or if it was just an off the cuff, foot in mouth moment that isn’t representative of their actual character or values. Horrified by the comment section here jumping to conclusions without any context. You’re all just modern idiots with pitchforks and torches going out on a witch hunt.

Imagine putting all the effort into 5 dates, being decent kind and open, having the lady enjoy your company. Everything appears to be going great. Then one small mistake one misjudgement of the acceptable sense of humour level. (There’s people who find this funny and people that don’t neither is right or wrong). That’s it binned off by people who only want to judge on that one thing. People have many sides to them not all of them are perfect. Let’s have some empathy for others and speak with them about what they said, discover if it was based on a underlying misogyny or if it was just an off the cuff, foot in mouth moment that isn’t representative of their actual character or values. Horrified by the comment section here jumping to conclusions without any context. You’re all just modern idiots with pitchforks and torches going out on a witch hunt.

It’s a joke ffs, men are immature anyway. I don’t know what half of you are expecting. If he’s great in all other ways and has said one thing for a joke… it’s a joke.. it’s a JOKE . . after a few dates loosen up a little, a relationship/ dating doesn’t have to be all newspaper and slippers already. Yes it sounds abit vile, If you don’t like it tell him, if things have been great upto now surely if he’s ok to say words like that you’re ok to tell him you don’t like words like that. Or be even more disgusting and put back there no chance of having a clean growler in this weather 🤣 see what his reaction is. It’s banter. If you can’t have a laugh move on to the next. I’d hate to have someone so serious.

Imagine putting all the effort into 5 dates, being decent kind and open, having the lady enjoy your company. Everything appears to be going great. Then one small mistake one misjudgement of the acceptable sense of humour level. (There’s people who find this funny and people that don’t neither is right or wrong). That’s it binned off by people who only want to judge on that one thing. People have many sides to them not all of them are perfect. Let’s have some empathy for others and speak with them about what they said, discover if it was based on a underlying misogyny or if it was just an off the cuff, foot in mouth moment that isn’t representative of their actual character or values. Horrified by the comment section here jumping to conclusions without any context. You’re all just modern idiots with pitchforks and torches going out on a witch hunt.

Ah, my thing is that I couldn't care less if hes a manager ;)