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AIBU to think school closures ignore parents' work commitments?

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OhNoItsThePinkyPonk · 23/06/2026 13:48

AIBU to think that the school doesn’t take much account of parents’ need to work? Primary school have just announced they won’t be opening for the rest of the week, but it’s OK because they’ll be sending us online work for us to do with the children, and whilst they are sorry they have had to cancel sports day we shouldn’t be too upset because they’ve have rescheduled it for a couple of weeks time. Like, I totally get they have to put the safety of the children first and if it’s too hot it’s too hot, but what do they think I’m
doing when the kids are at school, preparing beautiful dinners, ensuring the craft box is topped up, pining wistfully for the moment they come home? FFS, my job obviously comes second to my children and of course I’ll cancel planned surgeries and clinics where I need to. It’s not the emergency that bothers me, it’s the blasé way in which it’s communicated as though it’s a
minor inconvenience, not a major major f’ing headache with serious second and third order effects.

phew, that’s better. Now to go and get the little darlings…

OP posts:
billandtedsexcellentadventure · 24/06/2026 17:01

School is education. Not a babysitting service.

Greengage1983 · 24/06/2026 16:18

Butt3rButt3r · 24/06/2026 06:14

A back up plan is what I would suggest as the world falling apart and hysterical flapping because parents are expected to take care of their own children during brief safeguarding situations is not sustainable. They are your children and ultimately they’re not the responsibility of schools or the government.

Its all a moot point as safeguarding decisions are always going to be made by schools themselves not some bod in Westminster or frothing mumsnetters.

I’ll tell you what’s not sustainable. Everything coming to a standstill when the weather gets hot, when we know it’s probably going to happen several days/weeks a year from now on. It’s only June, we’re almost certain to have more very hot days coming up. And what “backup plan” do you suggest when there’s another thread discussing how childminders are all closing for the afternoons too. As a society we will need to start coming up with better plans than this.

Sirzy · 24/06/2026 16:12

There is no learning going on when children are overheating, uncomfy and sweaty. We are only in the amber area and today has been rediculously warm in the classrooms even with us taking every step we can to keep them cool. The children are grumpy and unable to focus, We (very rightly!) spent half of the day filling water bottles and the children were back and forth to the toilet.

We aren’t shutting but I get why schools where it is even hotter are!

Macaroni46 · 24/06/2026 15:50

youplonkerrodney · 23/06/2026 23:13

I think that schools should stay open, but be prepared to go off timetable to account for the weather. It’s just as hot at home as it is in school. Get them all cool drinks, close the blinds and take things at a much slower pace.

Tell me you don’t work in a school without telling me!
At home kids can have cool showers, maybe a paddling pool, ice lollies. They can spread out. They can strip off.
At school there are 30+ bodies in one room, often with two or three walls made entirely of glass, so like a greenhouse. As for blinds .. often these don’t work or are simply not provided.
Do you really think teachers haven’t thought to go off the curriculum and to slow down?

Macaroni46 · 24/06/2026 15:42

MrsMurphyIWish · 24/06/2026 15:15

But Bridgette Phillipson said this …

Bridget Phillipson said: “I know hot weather can be a struggle. But my message to families is simple: if your child’s school is open, you should keep sending them into school. Teachers are relaxing uniform rules, keeping classrooms cool, making sure children are hydrated, teaching critical skills like water safety, and avoiding vigorous activity on the hottest days. If your child has medical needs which mean you’re especially worried about the heat, talk to your school about what they can do.
“Every day of absence and lesson missed has a cost – and that cost falls hardest on our most disadvantaged pupils and working class communities. So, pack a water bottle, put on the sunscreen, and trust that your child’s school has got this.”

Talking out her arse. Obviously not about disadvantaged pupils but keeping classrooms cool.

How does she think teachers are keeping classrooms cool? With what? When I taught the walls were predominantly glass, no fan let alone air con, one tap with lukewarm rather than cold water and 30 small bodies plus me and a TA. I remember the 2022 heatwave. It was awful. I felt so worried being responsible for all these hot little beings age 5-6 with nothing at my disposal other than wet flannels (which I got the children to bring in). Luckily my HT sent the children home at lunchtime as the temperature in my south facing classroom was in the 40s.

PumpkinSoupIsBetterThanYouThink · 24/06/2026 15:33

LathkillDale · 23/06/2026 14:27

We went to Malaysia on holiday in September - Kuala Lumpur, Penang and Langkawi. KL is between 22 - 32 degrees C the year round, and humid, with regular tropical showers. Local guides told us, there was no air conditioning in the state schools for the children. Going outside in Langkawi was like walking into a hot bathroom, full of steam, because it was the tail end of one of the two hurricane seasons. Admittedly, we were staying in a tropical rainforest.

I can’t see the problem here, where it’s much less humid, for healthy children and adults of working age.

Malaysian schools (like many in tropical places) are built with ventilation in mind. The key is that it is 22 - 32 degrees C, so they do not need to be built to conserve heat like British buildings are.

I have been to school in the tropics with no air con but we had lovely open buildings made of wood, high ceilings, awnings, lots of shade, ceiling fans... it is not a useful comparison.

That said, even in Malaysia, they are finding that not all buildings are suitable as temperatures increase so are looking how to improve them:
https://theedgemalaysia.com/node/803581

Malaysia also has specific temperature thresholds for closing:
The two-level alert system:
A Level 1 alert is issued when daily maximum temperatures of 35–37°C persist for at least three consecutive days. A Level 2 (heatwave) warning is issued when temperatures of 37–40°C persist for three days in a row. Free Malaysia Today
What schools must do at each level:

  • 35–37°C for 3 consecutive days (Level 1): Outdoor activities must be suspended, including cross-country runs, camping, drills, and other outdoor activities. China Daily
  • Above 37°C for 3 consecutive days (Level 2): Schools may close. This is part of guidelines set by the Ministry of Education since 2023
Energy: Malaysian schools have to be climate resilient

Energy: Malaysian schools have to be climate resilient

With the hot and humid weather in Malaysia — exacerbated by the ongoing heatwave and climate change — students are suffering in the sweltering heat of classrooms that are not equipped with air conditioners nor designed to handle the heat. That is a ch...

https://theedgemalaysia.com/node/803581

WimbyAce · 24/06/2026 15:27

We had an email at 1315 saying we could pick our kids up from 1330. Interesting observation not many kids were left! Schools across the Trust all closed tomorrow also. Is showing 40 here currently.

PumpkinSoupIsBetterThanYouThink · 24/06/2026 15:21

ADogRocketShip · 23/06/2026 14:36

I have no skin in the game here really - my kids school remains open (so far) and I'm WFH in comfort today.

But surely you must appreciate that classrooms are in fact significantly hotter than a room at home? For a start, at home in my little home-office I have closed the blind and curtain today after having the window open early to air the room. A 3rd floor classroom will be mainly glass windows, likely no/little blinds and windows that often can't open more than a few cm due to H&S rules. I have a fan blowing on me - most classes will have one fan only, and that isn't going to be doing any effective cooling for those nearer the back of the room.

I am also sat alone in this room. My kids will be sat in classes of 30+ in one room. That alone makes it hotter.

My classroom has no fan, despite promises. I did go into another room that had a fan and unless you stood right by it, it made no difference. Really to make a difference it would need to be those big ceiling fans.

JenniferBooth · 24/06/2026 15:19

MrsMurphyIWish · 24/06/2026 15:15

But Bridgette Phillipson said this …

Bridget Phillipson said: “I know hot weather can be a struggle. But my message to families is simple: if your child’s school is open, you should keep sending them into school. Teachers are relaxing uniform rules, keeping classrooms cool, making sure children are hydrated, teaching critical skills like water safety, and avoiding vigorous activity on the hottest days. If your child has medical needs which mean you’re especially worried about the heat, talk to your school about what they can do.
“Every day of absence and lesson missed has a cost – and that cost falls hardest on our most disadvantaged pupils and working class communities. So, pack a water bottle, put on the sunscreen, and trust that your child’s school has got this.”

Talking out her arse. Obviously not about disadvantaged pupils but keeping classrooms cool.

Pity one of the kids cant throw up on her

MrsMurphyIWish · 24/06/2026 15:15

Vespanest · 24/06/2026 15:02

I was dropping off some rechargeable fans at my DD classroom earlier, she's the teacher. Her own fan paid for by her is on the children as there is nothing provided. The sick room has overflowed into reception and there was lots of crying and stunk of vomit. It was sad to see. A school with small classrooms and over subscribed. With a concrete playground with little shade. Parents had the choice to collect or not send in.

But Bridgette Phillipson said this …

Bridget Phillipson said: “I know hot weather can be a struggle. But my message to families is simple: if your child’s school is open, you should keep sending them into school. Teachers are relaxing uniform rules, keeping classrooms cool, making sure children are hydrated, teaching critical skills like water safety, and avoiding vigorous activity on the hottest days. If your child has medical needs which mean you’re especially worried about the heat, talk to your school about what they can do.
“Every day of absence and lesson missed has a cost – and that cost falls hardest on our most disadvantaged pupils and working class communities. So, pack a water bottle, put on the sunscreen, and trust that your child’s school has got this.”

Talking out her arse. Obviously not about disadvantaged pupils but keeping classrooms cool.

MasterBeth · 24/06/2026 15:06

Hellast · 23/06/2026 14:07

Our London prep school is staying open with after school care too. No AC, just a few sports fixtures are cancelled and some timetable tweaks. I think they generally see parents as customers and try to make things convenient for working parents.

Yeah, because you are customers. Please don't believe the private school system is built up for the good of the nation!

Vespanest · 24/06/2026 15:02

I was dropping off some rechargeable fans at my DD classroom earlier, she's the teacher. Her own fan paid for by her is on the children as there is nothing provided. The sick room has overflowed into reception and there was lots of crying and stunk of vomit. It was sad to see. A school with small classrooms and over subscribed. With a concrete playground with little shade. Parents had the choice to collect or not send in.

SerafinasGoose · 24/06/2026 14:39

I'm both a parent and an educator. I understand that it's inconvenient. I don't have short-notice childcare available either.

But schools are there to educate. They are not day care centres and they are not childcare. Their first priority is the wellbeing of all children under their jurisdiction, and decisions will be made with that consideration first in mind, as it should be.

My child is my responsibility. If I can WFH my child can still be with me. If I have formal arrangements in my workplace, appointments or meetings that can't be run online, then I shall simply have to cancel them until I'm available. And no, I might not have time to supervise any school work set. It's inconvenient. But schools and employers have their responsibilities, and I have mine. All will prioritize accordingly.

There is too much of an assumption nowadays that people's responsibilities in fact belong to someone else. Ie. 'if you won't move seats because I haven't booked/paid for one, and you're sitting next to my child on a flight, then you automatically become said child's babysitter for the dutation'. Er, no. It doesn't work like that.

Nor does this.

courageiscontagious · 24/06/2026 14:29

blacksax · 24/06/2026 10:43

Schools are there to provide an education. They are not a childcare provision.

yes. And no.

There is a cost of living crisis - families aren’t able to get by on one income while mum bakes pies and watched soaps at home all day.

it is infantile to suggest that school doesn’t also provide a significant role in propping up the economy of households and the country by freeing parents up to work - which this DUMPSTER FIRE of an economy demands of them.

How are parents meant to get ahead (or even tread water) in their careers when the rug can be pulled out for so many reasons.

Schools need to be fit for purpose. The planet is only getting hotter.

Harry12345 · 24/06/2026 13:26

Sartre · 23/06/2026 13:49

Totally agree and this country’s inability to deal with hot or cold weather is fucking ludicrous and needs fixing.

A lot of cities across the world struggle to manage in 40 degree heat and they are built for it and acclimatised. People die every year due to heat there are reported excess deaths in the past in France, Chicago and India. I feel faint in anything over 25 due to numerous health conditions, my partner has a heart condition and his hands swell and he’s breathless in the heat. We are a country that has most of the year cool weather so are not used to working and just getting on with it in 40 degree heat, if you can that’s great!

Brucebogtrotter257 · 24/06/2026 12:30

Ablondiebutagoody · 23/06/2026 13:58

I applaud the teachers for giving us some impromptu time off to enjoy the weather

I don't get time off in hot weather so no I dont applaud them. They need to crack on like everyone else in the UK.

User79853257976 · 24/06/2026 12:28

Tootles1 · 24/06/2026 10:48

Everyone who works is a key worker. They all pay taxes which keeps the country running.

We’re talking a couple of days here. Nurses and doctors are examples of key workers in this situation, not people providing non-essential services.

User79853257976 · 24/06/2026 12:27

LoveLite · 23/06/2026 18:07

I used to have a lot of respect for the profession. Until the pandemic. That destroyed my respect for a vocal minority in the profession.

Why? What did teachers do wrong during the pandemic?

WimbyAce · 24/06/2026 12:17

blacksax · 24/06/2026 10:43

Schools are there to provide an education. They are not a childcare provision.

This is fine BUT parents are very much encouraged to work as much as they can once children are school age. There are posts on here sneering at women who stay home as what on earth can they be doing all day? The only way some parents can work is because their children are in school or wrap around care via the school. I work part time so I am able to cover some holidays and emergency events such as these, I am also fortunate to be able to wfh. However not everyone can. We can't have it both ways, expect people to be working and then expect them to drop everything should the schools suddenly close.

AbleMind · 24/06/2026 11:35

Of course they know you're not necessarily doing that, a lot of head teachers are working parents 🙄

BringBackCatsEyes · 24/06/2026 10:53

blacksax · 24/06/2026 10:43

Schools are there to provide an education. They are not a childcare provision.

We know. Did you not take advantage of the fact your children were in school to go to work?

Tootles1 · 24/06/2026 10:49

blacksax · 24/06/2026 10:43

Schools are there to provide an education. They are not a childcare provision.

Well said.

Tootles1 · 24/06/2026 10:48

Bumble2468 · 23/06/2026 14:02

I think they should at least ensure keyworker parents are not impacted as that has wider consequences overall and we need to keep the country running!

I can see it's difficult for schools/staff/children particularly in buildings which have not been designed for the hotter climate and I assume lack of funds for additional fans / misters / reflective blinds.

The govt response that children are best off in school where they're learning or whatever is bonkers, as younger children in particular are going to struggle to concentrate.

My sons school haven't announced any measures so far, in Northern England.

Everyone who works is a key worker. They all pay taxes which keeps the country running.

blacksax · 24/06/2026 10:43

Schools are there to provide an education. They are not a childcare provision.

MrsMurphyIWish · 24/06/2026 10:41

I agree finding childcare at short notice is awful. Last week I had to take a day off as DS was sick in the night. Today I’m leaving school early (should’ve had Yr 11 now before anyone wonders why a teacher is posting!) as DS’ school is closing early (mine isn’t). I take unpaid leave for all emergencies. We’ve never had other childcare options either. Teachers do understand.