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AIBU to think school closures ignore parents' work commitments?

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OhNoItsThePinkyPonk · 23/06/2026 13:48

AIBU to think that the school doesn’t take much account of parents’ need to work? Primary school have just announced they won’t be opening for the rest of the week, but it’s OK because they’ll be sending us online work for us to do with the children, and whilst they are sorry they have had to cancel sports day we shouldn’t be too upset because they’ve have rescheduled it for a couple of weeks time. Like, I totally get they have to put the safety of the children first and if it’s too hot it’s too hot, but what do they think I’m
doing when the kids are at school, preparing beautiful dinners, ensuring the craft box is topped up, pining wistfully for the moment they come home? FFS, my job obviously comes second to my children and of course I’ll cancel planned surgeries and clinics where I need to. It’s not the emergency that bothers me, it’s the blasé way in which it’s communicated as though it’s a
minor inconvenience, not a major major f’ing headache with serious second and third order effects.

phew, that’s better. Now to go and get the little darlings…

OP posts:
noblegiraffe · 25/06/2026 18:53

when it suits them to a bit of time off on top of already excessive time off

You know that the school year is set for children, not teachers? Do you think children get 'excessive time off' from school?

MightyDandelionEsq · 25/06/2026 18:29

PanickingOnASunday · 25/06/2026 17:36

I find it so very, very distasteful that 'teachers' are treated as if they are one homogeneous individual.

'i take it you are a teacher by your lack of comprehension'

'frothing at the mouth'

What an unpleasant way of talking to someone and about other people, most of whom you've never met. Utterly horrible.

Thats your opinion which you’re entitled to.

Same as I’m entitled to be sick to death of the encroachment of the education system on family life and the majority of teachers and DFE demonising parents a lot of the time for many reasons whilst dropping them in the crap with “we’re not childcare” when it suits them to a bit of time off on top of already excessive time off compared to modern working patterns. I know quite a few parents who have been harassed over attendance when it was legitimate (sickness, family emergency) so my point was, you can’t have it both ways that parents don’t get ticked off when you call a 1/2 day at a moments notice and dust your hands off with no empathy.

And they do froth at the mouth generally whenever you mention shortening the school holidays. You see it all the time on threads on here.

Edit: as for comprehension (which I stand by). I’ve said I agree many times with it being too hot and school should be closed in this rare instance. But I also empathise with OP as most schools communication styles and lack of consistency on messaging is irritating at the best of times. It’s the dusting off of hands and no sympathy for parents probably having an unpaid day off work whilst teachers retain their pay. It’s the communication styles.

PanickingOnASunday · 25/06/2026 17:36

MightyDandelionEsq · 23/06/2026 16:11

So tiring trying to explain this - I’m guessing you’re a teacher? Just wondering based on the hostile attitude and lack of comprehension of what I’m saying. It’s like when you even broach the subject of shorter holidays due to normal people’s annual leave entitlements and teachers start frothing at the mouth.

It’s not ‘my rules’ either, it’s the schools lack of consistency when they say “we’re not childcare” as soon as they drop parents in it who have to work. I’m not setting the curriculum as you state, but it was making the point about over reach from education into parenting type learning.

To reiterate, I agree that the top level heat is too hot for children but I also see the OPs point that yet again schools don’t seem to communicate effectively that they know parents will have a tough time with alternative arrangements this week. It’s that “oh well your problem” attitude that annoys a lot of us when the same school will be down our necks if we keep our kids off with flu.

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I find it so very, very distasteful that 'teachers' are treated as if they are one homogeneous individual.

'i take it you are a teacher by your lack of comprehension'

'frothing at the mouth'

What an unpleasant way of talking to someone and about other people, most of whom you've never met. Utterly horrible.

WolfinSheepsDress · 25/06/2026 17:13

MrsMurphyIWish · 24/06/2026 15:15

But Bridgette Phillipson said this …

Bridget Phillipson said: “I know hot weather can be a struggle. But my message to families is simple: if your child’s school is open, you should keep sending them into school. Teachers are relaxing uniform rules, keeping classrooms cool, making sure children are hydrated, teaching critical skills like water safety, and avoiding vigorous activity on the hottest days. If your child has medical needs which mean you’re especially worried about the heat, talk to your school about what they can do.
“Every day of absence and lesson missed has a cost – and that cost falls hardest on our most disadvantaged pupils and working class communities. So, pack a water bottle, put on the sunscreen, and trust that your child’s school has got this.”

Talking out her arse. Obviously not about disadvantaged pupils but keeping classrooms cool.

I can hear her saying this in that patronising voice.
I reckon she should lead the way and show how it's done !Lets see her in a glass classroom helping out !

WolfinSheepsDress · 25/06/2026 17:01

JenniferBooth · 24/06/2026 15:19

Pity one of the kids cant throw up on her

Agree unless there is air con they can't do a single thing !! And it's the getting there and back !

Netcurtainnelly · 25/06/2026 16:47

Schools aren't babysitters. They have to do what's right for health and safety.
If anything happened a parent would moan that the child should not be in school.
Can't please everyone.

Boomer55 · 25/06/2026 16:40

Sartre · 23/06/2026 13:49

Totally agree and this country’s inability to deal with hot or cold weather is fucking ludicrous and needs fixing.

This. No wonder Brits are laughed at, with our panic over weather. 🤷‍♀️

Theimpossiblegirl · 25/06/2026 13:05

JoWawa · 25/06/2026 13:03

Why do they assume that the parents' homes are any safer in terms of heat?

Because there are not 30+ people in one room.

JoWawa · 25/06/2026 13:03

Why do they assume that the parents' homes are any safer in terms of heat?

cardibach · 25/06/2026 12:26

youplonkerrodney · 25/06/2026 07:36

Well I live in a smallish newbuild that is hot as hell and the school I work in, being a much larger buildng, is actually much cooler.

I think the obvious point is that all buildings are different.

The small rooms filled with 32 children? Or an office somewhere with just you and a fan?

noblegiraffe · 25/06/2026 07:43

youplonkerrodney · 25/06/2026 07:36

Well I live in a smallish newbuild that is hot as hell and the school I work in, being a much larger buildng, is actually much cooler.

I think the obvious point is that all buildings are different.

Larger buildings are subdivided into smaller bits called rooms which can get as hot as hell. Not sure what the size of the building has to do with it.

youplonkerrodney · 25/06/2026 07:36

cardibach · 25/06/2026 00:00

In which case you must know that homes are not as hot as most classrooms

Well I live in a smallish newbuild that is hot as hell and the school I work in, being a much larger buildng, is actually much cooler.

I think the obvious point is that all buildings are different.

ThunderFog · 25/06/2026 06:44

neverbeenskiing · 24/06/2026 18:00

What plans would you suggest?

We do not have the money for AC. We simply don't. We can barely afford the basics. We've had a two year recruitment freeze and our budget is still fucked. We'll be lucky if we get through the next year without making anyone redundant. The only way AC is achievable is if it's fully funded by the Government and that's highly unlikely to happen.

The sort of thing I am thinking about is getting involved in building and refurbishing schools, going back 30 years (that's how long we've known we have a warming world).
There is a lot of passive cooling that could have been put in, but instead as several posters have said, large areas of glass on South side with no trees - trees even being cut down.
Trees
Shades over windows
Windows with exterior shutters as a unit
White roofs
Passive ventilation including eg Roof windows that can be opened to release heat

Even without this, schools could be painting their South facing windows with greenhouse shading. Better summer uniforms. Stop cooking hot food.

And have an actual plan for extreme hot weather instead of having to scramble and leave kids waiting for buses at midday.

The cost of this week's closures is massive. If the heat continues are the schools going to close again? When are the years 10 and 12 going to do their mocks? When is the curriculum learning going to catch up?

MotherJessAndKittens · 25/06/2026 00:29

Our schools finish Friday for summer hols anyway. They’ve stayed open this week despite weather but only had 2 days of really hot so far and there’s fun activities for end of school year. I can’t be off (NHS) but luckily have GPs who could step in. Prob won’t last long but hope we don’t get the scary thunderstorms like England. It sounds great to have sunny weather but not so good in the scary thunderstorms after. ATM naked in bed. Given up on football. Maybe World Cup should be in winter in whatever country! Never heard of hydration breaks before but great they have them

cardibach · 25/06/2026 00:04

Fair point @noblegiraffe

noblegiraffe · 25/06/2026 00:01

cardibach · 25/06/2026 00:00

In which case you must know that homes are not as hot as most classrooms

There are some people who work in schools who never go near a classroom, tbf.

cardibach · 25/06/2026 00:00

youplonkerrodney · 24/06/2026 23:43

Lol, I do work in a school 😂

In which case you must know that homes are not as hot as most classrooms

youplonkerrodney · 24/06/2026 23:43

Macaroni46 · 24/06/2026 15:50

Tell me you don’t work in a school without telling me!
At home kids can have cool showers, maybe a paddling pool, ice lollies. They can spread out. They can strip off.
At school there are 30+ bodies in one room, often with two or three walls made entirely of glass, so like a greenhouse. As for blinds .. often these don’t work or are simply not provided.
Do you really think teachers haven’t thought to go off the curriculum and to slow down?

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Lol, I do work in a school 😂

DaisyDooley · 24/06/2026 20:57

If you are a consultant who operates on people and have planned clinics then you really should have a good back up plan rather than just ‘cancelling’ clinics and surgeries.
I presume you realise people go to the back of the queue when surgeons/consultants cancel their clinics/surgeries??
School is a place of education -not a childcare provider -and people with hugely responsible roles which the taxpayer pay the wages of should really hve a plan B rather than causing massive upset and potential health issues for ll the patients they just ‘cancel’.
If you are not a surgeon/consultant please disregard this post. 😀
I havent RTFT so if someone else has already pointed this out -sorry!

billandtedsexcellentadventure · 24/06/2026 20:44

@BringBackCatsEyesif they said they were closing early last week everyone would be up in arms that the weather could change that far in advance.

mbosnz · 24/06/2026 19:15

I still come back to the loos! Hydrating is all well and good, but what goes in must come out, and toilet accessibility at my kids school, anyway, was extremely low, and they were so bloody awful the kids didn't want to use them nohow.

ThatAlertOchreRaven · 24/06/2026 18:18

Duvetdayforme · 23/06/2026 14:45

If you say so. Everyone I know uses it for education…

Literally everyone you know has one parent sitting at home all day, not working or making any other commitments, because they don't have "childcare" for their school aged kids?

CosySocksBasket · 24/06/2026 18:14

Duvetdayforme · 23/06/2026 14:06

School isn’t childcare. If they feel they can’t safely stay open then that’s an end to it.

You will have to take leave.

School is ALSO childcare. If schools didn’t exist then we’d be paying for childcare like we do before they go to school. This old BS again 🙄

neverbeenskiing · 24/06/2026 18:00

ThunderFog · 23/06/2026 14:18

But is it? Don't the schools themselves have control over anything about the buildings? Couldn't they all have had plans for this?

What plans would you suggest?

We do not have the money for AC. We simply don't. We can barely afford the basics. We've had a two year recruitment freeze and our budget is still fucked. We'll be lucky if we get through the next year without making anyone redundant. The only way AC is achievable is if it's fully funded by the Government and that's highly unlikely to happen.

BringBackCatsEyes · 24/06/2026 17:27

billandtedsexcellentadventure · 24/06/2026 17:01

School is education. Not a babysitting service.

We all understand that. OP was mainly venting about the blasé way short-notice closures are announced.
Just stick to the facts - school will be closed due to the heat.

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