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AIBU to think school closures ignore parents' work commitments?

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OhNoItsThePinkyPonk · 23/06/2026 13:48

AIBU to think that the school doesn’t take much account of parents’ need to work? Primary school have just announced they won’t be opening for the rest of the week, but it’s OK because they’ll be sending us online work for us to do with the children, and whilst they are sorry they have had to cancel sports day we shouldn’t be too upset because they’ve have rescheduled it for a couple of weeks time. Like, I totally get they have to put the safety of the children first and if it’s too hot it’s too hot, but what do they think I’m
doing when the kids are at school, preparing beautiful dinners, ensuring the craft box is topped up, pining wistfully for the moment they come home? FFS, my job obviously comes second to my children and of course I’ll cancel planned surgeries and clinics where I need to. It’s not the emergency that bothers me, it’s the blasé way in which it’s communicated as though it’s a
minor inconvenience, not a major major f’ing headache with serious second and third order effects.

phew, that’s better. Now to go and get the little darlings…

OP posts:
Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 14:17

BringBackCatsEyes · 28/06/2026 12:21

No she didn't, she was just having a moan about how the closure was communicated.

As other people have said, during COVID school were asked to consider working parents. If we have an increase in these weather situations and schools are unable to get a/c then I can forsee schools only being open for keyworkers.
It sounds like OP is a surgeon thus a KW

Schools won't only be open for key workers again, that is not an option as everyone needs an education . The school communicated it perfectly, they said the school was closing due to the heat. This is for the benefit of kids and staff. Or are teachers not entitled to safe work environments? I see they have to only do what works for working parents even when it puts them as risk? 😡 Teachers have a right to a safe working environment no matter what working parents think.

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 14:10

Thechaseison71 · 28/06/2026 13:37

After school club it's called . The kids are picked up ( from various schools) and take to ASC.

They don't call the after school club wraparound

I never said they did. I was actually pointing out the difference between the two

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 14:08

BringBackCatsEyes · 28/06/2026 12:22

No, you said that wrap around care shouldn't be used as child care because it may close at a moments notice.
Maybe I misunderstood your point?

You entirely missed my point. Maybe read it properly next time

Thechaseison71 · 28/06/2026 13:37

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 11:55

No that's called wrap around care. School clubs are more than often run by outside sports clubs and music teachers who come once or twice a week and charge parents for their services. All if which can be cancelled at a moments notice so shouldn't be used as childcare.

After school club it's called . The kids are picked up ( from various schools) and take to ASC.

They don't call the after school club wraparound

Oldwmn · 28/06/2026 12:30

Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 23/06/2026 14:02

Schools will be criticised for staying open and for closing. They really can't win.

This is spot on. Whatever they do, they will be wrong.

Oldwmn · 28/06/2026 12:28

OhNoItsThePinkyPonk · 23/06/2026 13:48

AIBU to think that the school doesn’t take much account of parents’ need to work? Primary school have just announced they won’t be opening for the rest of the week, but it’s OK because they’ll be sending us online work for us to do with the children, and whilst they are sorry they have had to cancel sports day we shouldn’t be too upset because they’ve have rescheduled it for a couple of weeks time. Like, I totally get they have to put the safety of the children first and if it’s too hot it’s too hot, but what do they think I’m
doing when the kids are at school, preparing beautiful dinners, ensuring the craft box is topped up, pining wistfully for the moment they come home? FFS, my job obviously comes second to my children and of course I’ll cancel planned surgeries and clinics where I need to. It’s not the emergency that bothers me, it’s the blasé way in which it’s communicated as though it’s a
minor inconvenience, not a major major f’ing headache with serious second and third order effects.

phew, that’s better. Now to go and get the little darlings…

Ah, the old 'teachers as babysitters' argument rears it's ugly head again.

BringBackCatsEyes · 28/06/2026 12:22

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 12:20

Hold on, you expect outside sports clubs and music teachers who are paid to go and do lessons after-school to be childcare and never cancel? They offer a educational service not chiodcare.For god sake parent, they are your responsibility. It's parent with your attitude that make companies stop going into schools because parents expect more than they offer which is education

Edited

No, you said that wrap around care shouldn't be used as child care because it may close at a moments notice.
Maybe I misunderstood your point?

BringBackCatsEyes · 28/06/2026 12:21

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 10:09

That's but what we are talking about. OP and others expect the school to make working parents a consideration when closing the school. That's not going to happen because the people who use the school, staff and pupils are the only priority.

No she didn't, she was just having a moan about how the closure was communicated.

As other people have said, during COVID school were asked to consider working parents. If we have an increase in these weather situations and schools are unable to get a/c then I can forsee schools only being open for keyworkers.
It sounds like OP is a surgeon thus a KW

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 12:20

BringBackCatsEyes · 28/06/2026 12:17

By that argument, NOTHING should be used as childcare in case it closes at a moment's notice!

Hold on, you expect outside sports clubs and music teachers who are paid to go and do lessons after-school to be childcare and never cancel? They offer a educational service not chiodcare.For god sake parent, they are your responsibility. It's parent with your attitude that make companies stop going into schools because parents expect more than they offer which is education

BringBackCatsEyes · 28/06/2026 12:17

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 11:55

No that's called wrap around care. School clubs are more than often run by outside sports clubs and music teachers who come once or twice a week and charge parents for their services. All if which can be cancelled at a moments notice so shouldn't be used as childcare.

By that argument, NOTHING should be used as childcare in case it closes at a moment's notice!

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 11:55

Thechaseison71 · 28/06/2026 10:26

Many after school clubs are for childcare though

No that's called wrap around care. School clubs are more than often run by outside sports clubs and music teachers who come once or twice a week and charge parents for their services. All if which can be cancelled at a moments notice so shouldn't be used as childcare.

Thechaseison71 · 28/06/2026 10:26

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 27/06/2026 21:35

Nursery is caring for the child, yes that's childcare. School and school clubs isn't, they are there to teach and school clubs to teach sport, music etc. There's a big difference

Many after school clubs are for childcare though

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 10:09

BringBackCatsEyes · 28/06/2026 00:00

But do you accept that it does act as a useful way to enable parents to work?
We all know their primary function is to educate and that teachers are not childcare providers and parents are the primary caregivers and retain overall responsibility.

That's but what we are talking about. OP and others expect the school to make working parents a consideration when closing the school. That's not going to happen because the people who use the school, staff and pupils are the only priority.

BringBackCatsEyes · 28/06/2026 00:00

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 27/06/2026 23:28

No, I just know how schools work. I've been parents to school children for 25 years. School is not childcare

But do you accept that it does act as a useful way to enable parents to work?
We all know their primary function is to educate and that teachers are not childcare providers and parents are the primary caregivers and retain overall responsibility.

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 27/06/2026 23:28

laurini · 27/06/2026 22:05

You've lost the plot hahaha. Parents with kids in nursery get calls all the time to pick them up. Nurseries are also closing due to the heat. Also, you dont need to worry about me - I'm a SAHM so I secretly love it when schools shut lol. My point was less to do with me and more to do with how I know many parents see school!

No, I just know how schools work. I've been parents to school children for 25 years. School is not childcare

JustSawJohnny · 27/06/2026 22:46

DS's school closed early on Friday because temps in classrooms had gone over 40. In our area, open windows had no effect but to further heat the room. There WAS no cool are or breeze.

At that temperature, both pupils and staff are at risk of taking ill.

School's priorities should be the safety of their pupils and staff, not parent's work commitments.

laurini · 27/06/2026 22:05

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 27/06/2026 21:57

Well if you don't change your attitude it's going to be a very long stressful time while your kids are in school, because schools aren't going to change for you.

You've lost the plot hahaha. Parents with kids in nursery get calls all the time to pick them up. Nurseries are also closing due to the heat. Also, you dont need to worry about me - I'm a SAHM so I secretly love it when schools shut lol. My point was less to do with me and more to do with how I know many parents see school!

BringBackCatsEyes · 27/06/2026 22:02

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 27/06/2026 21:57

Well if you don't change your attitude it's going to be a very long stressful time while your kids are in school, because schools aren't going to change for you.

I pretty sure she able to work while her children are in school and that mostly it is not stressful.

BringBackCatsEyes · 27/06/2026 22:00

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 27/06/2026 21:55

Hoe where they supposed to communicate it! They needed to close the school and they informed parents. What else could they do? Honestly do some parents expect to be babied in this way? The school needed to close, parents needed to be responsible for their own kids. They communicated this, what more do some parents want? Blood

I would prefer it be done matter of factly. They don't need to be telling (as OP states) parents not to worry because the children will have online work to do.
Just say the school is closed and why. If the school is closed at short notice they cannot expect parents to home educate their children.

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 27/06/2026 21:57

laurini · 27/06/2026 21:51

I think schools are treated by most parents as having a secondary purpose of providing childcare. Most parents wouldn't be able to work if their children weren't in school, especially as there isn't really a separate childcare provision for children over 5. We can agree to disagree, I think.

Well if you don't change your attitude it's going to be a very long stressful time while your kids are in school, because schools aren't going to change for you.

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 27/06/2026 21:55

BringBackCatsEyes · 27/06/2026 21:40

Changes in employment policies and more widely available and affordable childcare would really help this.
I imagine the vast majority of parents WANT to care for their children and most are able to manage the unexpected to a degree.
All OP wanted was the school to not be so blasé in the way they communicated the closure.

Hoe where they supposed to communicate it! They needed to close the school and they informed parents. What else could they do? Honestly do some parents expect to be babied in this way? The school needed to close, parents needed to be responsible for their own kids. They communicated this, what more do some parents want? Blood

laurini · 27/06/2026 21:51

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 27/06/2026 21:48

Nurseries are primarily there to provide childcare. Schools purpose is to educate.

I think schools are treated by most parents as having a secondary purpose of providing childcare. Most parents wouldn't be able to work if their children weren't in school, especially as there isn't really a separate childcare provision for children over 5. We can agree to disagree, I think.

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 27/06/2026 21:48

laurini · 27/06/2026 21:42

Nurseries still have to educate children, and theyre inspected by Ofsted to ensure that they're delivering this.

Nurseries are primarily there to provide childcare. Schools purpose is to educate.

laurini · 27/06/2026 21:42

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 27/06/2026 21:35

Nursery is caring for the child, yes that's childcare. School and school clubs isn't, they are there to teach and school clubs to teach sport, music etc. There's a big difference

Nurseries still have to educate children, and theyre inspected by Ofsted to ensure that they're delivering this.

BringBackCatsEyes · 27/06/2026 21:40

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 27/06/2026 21:12

Maybe parents should stop the expectation then. While at school parents are still responsible for their children . Illness, accident, weather etc are all reasons why a child will be sent home without notice. Parents really do need to be prepared for that.

Changes in employment policies and more widely available and affordable childcare would really help this.
I imagine the vast majority of parents WANT to care for their children and most are able to manage the unexpected to a degree.
All OP wanted was the school to not be so blasé in the way they communicated the closure.