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AIBU to think school closures ignore parents' work commitments?

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OhNoItsThePinkyPonk · 23/06/2026 13:48

AIBU to think that the school doesn’t take much account of parents’ need to work? Primary school have just announced they won’t be opening for the rest of the week, but it’s OK because they’ll be sending us online work for us to do with the children, and whilst they are sorry they have had to cancel sports day we shouldn’t be too upset because they’ve have rescheduled it for a couple of weeks time. Like, I totally get they have to put the safety of the children first and if it’s too hot it’s too hot, but what do they think I’m
doing when the kids are at school, preparing beautiful dinners, ensuring the craft box is topped up, pining wistfully for the moment they come home? FFS, my job obviously comes second to my children and of course I’ll cancel planned surgeries and clinics where I need to. It’s not the emergency that bothers me, it’s the blasé way in which it’s communicated as though it’s a
minor inconvenience, not a major major f’ing headache with serious second and third order effects.

phew, that’s better. Now to go and get the little darlings…

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MrsMurphyIWish · 23/06/2026 17:23

Meeatcheese · 23/06/2026 17:18

It’s probably the right thing to do, but having worked with teachers for many years, there will have been plotting in the staff room, and now glee. Yep, very cynical about them as a profession.

Yes, I was definitely plotting and celebrating as I was being sick. Fun times!

justasking111 · 23/06/2026 17:21

I'm sure parents in France, Italy etc are cussing up a storm too. Their schools are closed. It's an extreme event.

Meeatcheese · 23/06/2026 17:18

It’s probably the right thing to do, but having worked with teachers for many years, there will have been plotting in the staff room, and now glee. Yep, very cynical about them as a profession.

PeoplesNet · 23/06/2026 17:18

Sirzy · 23/06/2026 17:05

Schools don’t make the decisions lightly and it’s made in the best interest of the children. We know it’s not ideal but we have to put the safety of the children first. We are contemplating half days for the rest of the week because 30 children in 35 degree plus rooms simply isn’t safe.

Aircon? How long have we known about the climate and previous summers? Why aren't schools adapting? That's a choice. Can buy standing fans for all rooms in the meantime but no, easier to just close and protect attendance stats.

HaveYouFedTheFish · 23/06/2026 17:18

Morepositivemum · 23/06/2026 13:51

All over Europe they’re doing the same or closing early. It’s unprecedented hot weather, they have to look out for the children, but yes I’m screwed every time they randomly close the school!

No, they aren't.

PeoplesNet · 23/06/2026 17:15

Thehop · 23/06/2026 14:00

Safeguarding trumps convenience.

i know it's hard but heatstroke in kids is really terrifying if their building isn't air conditioned.

Tbh it's just stats, liability, and them wanting to enjoy a bit of sunbathing in the garden. Seriously, no reason at all to close schools. They just know too many kids will skive or be 'ill' because parents take them on holiday, also the kids who go in won't do any work anyway while it's hot so why bother going in. Think schools should be forced to make it optional going in and not just be allowed to close.

Mostly, they're just worried too many students will skive because it affects their attendance stats. All about stats in the end, sadly.

Whorulestheroost1 · 23/06/2026 17:08

Maybe we need to close all the hospitals too….

Sirzy · 23/06/2026 17:05

Schools don’t make the decisions lightly and it’s made in the best interest of the children. We know it’s not ideal but we have to put the safety of the children first. We are contemplating half days for the rest of the week because 30 children in 35 degree plus rooms simply isn’t safe.

floofydoofy · 23/06/2026 17:04

I would find that incredibly frustrating too. Our school are very much not communicating it like that, thers lots of "we know this might be difficult" etc. They're opening for mornings for everyone and then making the closing after lunch "optional". They are staying open in the afternoons (and for after school club) for those that need to be there, although they do have air con in the main hall and two portable air con units for the small hall though so they have reasonable space for them to have the staff/children (air con was mostly funded by PTA!).

cardibach · 23/06/2026 17:03

LathkillDale · 23/06/2026 14:27

We went to Malaysia on holiday in September - Kuala Lumpur, Penang and Langkawi. KL is between 22 - 32 degrees C the year round, and humid, with regular tropical showers. Local guides told us, there was no air conditioning in the state schools for the children. Going outside in Langkawi was like walking into a hot bathroom, full of steam, because it was the tail end of one of the two hurricane seasons. Admittedly, we were staying in a tropical rainforest.

I can’t see the problem here, where it’s much less humid, for healthy children and adults of working age.

Well, it’s pretty humid, and the temps are in excess of 35. Up to 40+ in some places. So your point is moot.

coe78 · 23/06/2026 17:02

Yep it's so frustrating. I had a slightly cathartic interaction today though.
HT of a local school was in the queue for the coffee shop after school, absolutely seething about the NHS, that her outpatient appt tomorrow has been cancelled at short notice. Me: "yes it's a terrible shame. I've had to cancel my clinic too. No one else to take the kids you see, as school is closing". It took a while for the cogs to turn but she got there eventually.
I'm not sure why they think kids will be better off at home anyway, no one I know has AC in their house!

Bushmillsbabe · 23/06/2026 17:01

User79853257976 · 23/06/2026 16:52

Why don’t you suggest they offer a key worker group? Most schools have at least one room with air con.

I get what you’re saying about work but yesterday there were people on here moaning about schools NOT closing.

The problem with this, is suddenly half the children have keyworkers for parents. I remember during covid, when my girls were entitled to attend due to me being an nhs clinician - they could only have 8 in, but they had 15 asking so could only offer each child 2-3 days. No proof was asked for and parents openly boasted of lying, and some didn't even work!

Bushmillsbabe · 23/06/2026 16:58

I think DD's school have approached sensibly. Cancelled sports day, cancelled PE. Parents are given option to collect at 1pm, but they can stay until 3.30 if needed. They recognise that for some children, such as those who live in high rise flats, and those with challenging home lives, that being in school is the safer option. And that if those who can collect do so, there is less children so they can move then to the cooler areas of the school/have fewer in a classroom so less body heat building up.

It suprised me how many collected early though. Yesterday my girls were ones of only 6-7 in their classes who stayed.

imnotsickbutimnotwell · 23/06/2026 16:55

I totally agree with the OP but at least they have told you, one of my kids schools haven’t made up their mind yet so not sure what I am doing about work tomorrow!

EasternStandard · 23/06/2026 16:53

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 23/06/2026 16:48

What do you expect them to do?

They can’t do right for doing wrong in some people’s eyes.

It’s really easy just make it optional.

User79853257976 · 23/06/2026 16:52

Why don’t you suggest they offer a key worker group? Most schools have at least one room with air con.

I get what you’re saying about work but yesterday there were people on here moaning about schools NOT closing.

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 23/06/2026 16:50

MightyDandelionEsq · 23/06/2026 16:11

So tiring trying to explain this - I’m guessing you’re a teacher? Just wondering based on the hostile attitude and lack of comprehension of what I’m saying. It’s like when you even broach the subject of shorter holidays due to normal people’s annual leave entitlements and teachers start frothing at the mouth.

It’s not ‘my rules’ either, it’s the schools lack of consistency when they say “we’re not childcare” as soon as they drop parents in it who have to work. I’m not setting the curriculum as you state, but it was making the point about over reach from education into parenting type learning.

To reiterate, I agree that the top level heat is too hot for children but I also see the OPs point that yet again schools don’t seem to communicate effectively that they know parents will have a tough time with alternative arrangements this week. It’s that “oh well your problem” attitude that annoys a lot of us when the same school will be down our necks if we keep our kids off with flu.

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No, I'm not, and I'm not hostile either. I understand perfectly what you are trying to say, but you don't seem to understand what I am saying.

The law is that you have a responsibility to ensure your child has a FT education.

Schools have been set up with the purpose of removing that responsibility from the parents IF the parent wants them to. That's to ensure all children get the education they deserve. It's not to ensure you can go to work, or have a two salary income, or anything else. You remain responsible for your child- you're just not responsible for providing an a academic education.

IF you take them up on that offer, you are agreeing to them providing the education they consider suitable and supporting their rules. If you don't want to, you have to make alternative arrangements, it's really that simple.

It IS your problem to deal with it if they can't safely have the children in school. Parents spend a lot of time complaining that schools aren't catering enough to their specific needs, whilst conveniently forgetting that free (at the point of use) mainstream education is a huge privilege that many children worldwide do not have access to, ever. And their parents have to work too.

MrsMurphyIWish · 23/06/2026 16:49

Butt3rButt3r · 23/06/2026 16:46

Iron would also cost a lot to run. Where is the money going to come from?

There isn’t any and education has never been a priority for spending. The government most likely thinks a few days of closures outweigh the economic cost and of course they won’t be blamed as they leave it to schools to make the decisions.

Just had email to say my children’s school is closing at 1pm. No word on mine - but here’s hoping!

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 23/06/2026 16:48

What do you expect them to do?

They can’t do right for doing wrong in some people’s eyes.

ThatBlueJumper · 23/06/2026 16:47

I think maybe there might be some adjustments to the summer term in the long run? Starting at 7am and finishing at 1pm. I believe quite a few hot countries do it like this.

AgnesMcDoo · 23/06/2026 16:47

Thehop · 23/06/2026 14:00

Safeguarding trumps convenience.

i know it's hard but heatstroke in kids is really terrifying if their building isn't air conditioned.

It absolutely does.

But the expectation for parents to deliver homeschooling doesn’t trump work commitments.

Butt3rButt3r · 23/06/2026 16:46

Iron would also cost a lot to run. Where is the money going to come from?

Butt3rButt3r · 23/06/2026 16:44

AngryBeyondWords03 · 23/06/2026 16:10

Time to get aircon in all schools - Something for the new Prime Minister to implement asap

It would cost millions and schools are already crying out for other things.

NetZeroZealot · 23/06/2026 16:38

notanothernamesurely · 23/06/2026 16:32

What needs to happen is the country needs to start adapting. Schools (and many other buildings) NEED air con as standard!

This. Heatwaves like this are going to become normal in a few years & we need to adapt as soon as possible.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 23/06/2026 16:37

Humanswarm · 23/06/2026 16:13

You do realise thay school is for educating your children, they're not your child minders. Its likely little education will happen in this heat so why should they go? You are parents before you are whatever career you are. No one. Not even teachers are obligated to looks after your children.

Why should they go? Well in the country I live in they HAVE to go and if they don’t there are sanctions for that

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