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AIBU to think school closures ignore parents' work commitments?

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OhNoItsThePinkyPonk · 23/06/2026 13:48

AIBU to think that the school doesn’t take much account of parents’ need to work? Primary school have just announced they won’t be opening for the rest of the week, but it’s OK because they’ll be sending us online work for us to do with the children, and whilst they are sorry they have had to cancel sports day we shouldn’t be too upset because they’ve have rescheduled it for a couple of weeks time. Like, I totally get they have to put the safety of the children first and if it’s too hot it’s too hot, but what do they think I’m
doing when the kids are at school, preparing beautiful dinners, ensuring the craft box is topped up, pining wistfully for the moment they come home? FFS, my job obviously comes second to my children and of course I’ll cancel planned surgeries and clinics where I need to. It’s not the emergency that bothers me, it’s the blasé way in which it’s communicated as though it’s a
minor inconvenience, not a major major f’ing headache with serious second and third order effects.

phew, that’s better. Now to go and get the little darlings…

OP posts:
EasternStandard · 23/06/2026 17:50

LlynTegid · 23/06/2026 17:45

Schools cannot win on this.

I wonder how many employers where wfh is possible this week are not agreeing to that as an option, if only to save unpleasant journeys to and from work?

Ik people keep saying they can’t win. But they can? Just put out comms saying go home at lunch if you want. Or stay

NeverDropYourMooncup · 23/06/2026 17:50

Meeatcheese · 23/06/2026 17:18

It’s probably the right thing to do, but having worked with teachers for many years, there will have been plotting in the staff room, and now glee. Yep, very cynical about them as a profession.

Plotting? Too damn hot to do anything of the sort.

I walked past about 30 kids in the dining hall today - I was hit by a wall of human heat that felt roughly the same as going outside into full sun in the car park at 2pm.

We're still open at the moment. Two thirds of the site is windows in full sun (no curtains or blinds, they're a bit pricey when you need thermal curtaining and/or blinds the equivalent of 7-45 foot long and a half mile wide to cover each window on the sunward aspects yes I am a pedantic dick, thank you). So you get all the classes trying to scuttle into the north facing rooms, except most of those are also south facing.

It's going to be brutal tomorrow. Assuming the woods that the public transport run through don't catch fire like they did last time. Or the fields. Or people's vehicles. Or the buses. Or on the railtracks. Then it'll be more dangerous than just heatstroke - but at least we've got a few defibs, I guess.

GingerdeadMan · 23/06/2026 17:49

I found primary school communications were always appalling, and usually had that tone. It Grated. And it was always body last minute when the school must have known about key dates for months (although adverse weather doesn't come into that category).

Secondary was much better, they seem to appreciate that parents need to plan ahead.

IsitaHatOrACat · 23/06/2026 17:49

Duvetdayforme · 23/06/2026 14:06

School isn’t childcare. If they feel they can’t safely stay open then that’s an end to it.

You will have to take leave.

Lol. It is for people with school age children who need to earn money to live!

DoesthislookgoodOnMe · 23/06/2026 17:47

EasternStandard · 23/06/2026 17:40

Doesn’t she say no AC in the post

Oh I have just read that.

LlynTegid · 23/06/2026 17:45

Schools cannot win on this.

I wonder how many employers where wfh is possible this week are not agreeing to that as an option, if only to save unpleasant journeys to and from work?

EasternStandard · 23/06/2026 17:40

DoesthislookgoodOnMe · 23/06/2026 17:31

They probably have air conditioning being a private school - that’s what’s differentiating here.

Doesn’t she say no AC in the post

Terfedout · 23/06/2026 17:40

I think our reactions to weather are ludicrous and people should get on with it tbh. But I accept other people have different views and reactions to the heat, so I speak for myself. The voting is pretty split which reflects that as well.

BatsInHibernation · 23/06/2026 17:39

OhNoItsThePinkyPonk · 23/06/2026 14:07

They are quite right to close, that’s not my point, it’s the fact they deliver the message with the same tone as if they were reminding me to pack a coat tomorrow. It would be nice if they gave even a hint of recognition that this is unbelievably disrupting. So yes, I am being precious because the end result is the same, but having just had the email I felt compelled to get it off my chest. Therapeutic MNing.

I work in a big school and have also been a governor in a primary school. If they started using apologetic tone for inconveniencing parents, they would open themselves up to all sorts of demanding communications and complaints. They deliberately use plain, authoritative language. They don't work in the service industry and you are not the client. They are not doing anything wrong, they don't need to apologise or use a conciliatory tone for inconveniencing you.

ShiftySquirrel · 23/06/2026 17:36

We're open. It's obviously very hot, above 30 in every classroom and hotter in the hall where the kids eat, with fans. Plus well into the 40s for kitchen catering staff.

No plans to close yet, but Fridays forecast is somewhere between 35-39 degrees depending on where you look, so I expect the head will decide nearer the time.

My home is 6 degrees cooler than the coolest classroom, luckily I've only got my two DC here, not 30!

WheretheFishesareFrightening · 23/06/2026 17:36

gotmyselfintoapickle · 23/06/2026 14:04

The problem is, it would be very expensive are rarely needed. For example, there have been fewer than 10 days in the last 5 years where temps have exceeded 35 degrees. Obviously it's possible to plan for such temperatures but I don't think it's particularly surprising it hasn't felt like a priority given the infrequency of the problem.

Would it be more expensive than all the lost wages and related tax of the parents now missing work across those days. And the cost impact of the cancelled surgeries and clinics, and the unpaid time off that might be related to the patients who were going to attend it?

Honestly if the school on our road costed up air conditioning and started doing local events to fundraise for it (sponsored walks, fete days, raffles, a well publicised gofundme), I’d contribute even though I don’t have kids that go there. I bet it wouldn’t be that hard to crowdfund for at least a good chunk of schools.

They would need to prioritise it over other school spending needs (I won’t be contributing to them buying more books or getting a new playground for example), but I think people could get behind a capital project like air conditioning. And I’m not sure it’s that expensive… I know it’s a smaller scale but it was surprisingly affordable to have it fitted at home, and we had it piped in through vents - units on the wall would have been even cheaper.

WhatAMarvelousTune · 23/06/2026 17:36

ThatBlueJumper · 23/06/2026 16:47

I think maybe there might be some adjustments to the summer term in the long run? Starting at 7am and finishing at 1pm. I believe quite a few hot countries do it like this.

We’re not remotely set up for that. As much as you can say school isn’t childcare, if schools started finishing at 1pm, you’d have thousands of parents unable to work (and even if at an individual level that is their problem to solve, I think the economy and general society would notice). Or they’d be using after school clubs until 6pm, defeating the point of starting at 7am anyway.
Moving the dates a little might be better, I feel like it’s often hotter at the start of July than end of August. Although I don’t know if stats bear that out, and I appreciate it’s now only June!

cardibach · 23/06/2026 17:35

coe78 · 23/06/2026 17:02

Yep it's so frustrating. I had a slightly cathartic interaction today though.
HT of a local school was in the queue for the coffee shop after school, absolutely seething about the NHS, that her outpatient appt tomorrow has been cancelled at short notice. Me: "yes it's a terrible shame. I've had to cancel my clinic too. No one else to take the kids you see, as school is closing". It took a while for the cogs to turn but she got there eventually.
I'm not sure why they think kids will be better off at home anyway, no one I know has AC in their house!

Does anyone you knowhave 32 kids in their house? And no water access?

DoesthislookgoodOnMe · 23/06/2026 17:31

Hellast · 23/06/2026 14:07

Our London prep school is staying open with after school care too. No AC, just a few sports fixtures are cancelled and some timetable tweaks. I think they generally see parents as customers and try to make things convenient for working parents.

They probably have air conditioning being a private school - that’s what’s differentiating here.

NerrSnerr · 23/06/2026 17:31

Bumble2468 · 23/06/2026 14:02

I think they should at least ensure keyworker parents are not impacted as that has wider consequences overall and we need to keep the country running!

I can see it's difficult for schools/staff/children particularly in buildings which have not been designed for the hotter climate and I assume lack of funds for additional fans / misters / reflective blinds.

The govt response that children are best off in school where they're learning or whatever is bonkers, as younger children in particular are going to struggle to concentrate.

My sons school haven't announced any measures so far, in Northern England.

It’s two days (I am a nurse and my husband also a ‘key worker’)

it would be a huge amount of work to identify who has to work etc.

If it was for over a week then it might be necessary but that won’t be the case in this instance.

alloutofcareunits · 23/06/2026 17:31

I don’t understand how the school is too hot but home is fine?! I run a children’s home, I cannot install air con or do anything different to what I would any other day. Where should I send the kids if it’s too hot in the home? Obviously their bedroom windows only open a small way for safety reasons so no doubt they’ll be hot in there, hot in the living room, and hot in the kitchen and garden. But I very much doubt it’ll kill any of them. 🙄

Sirzy · 23/06/2026 17:30

PeoplesNet · 23/06/2026 17:18

Aircon? How long have we known about the climate and previous summers? Why aren't schools adapting? That's a choice. Can buy standing fans for all rooms in the meantime but no, easier to just close and protect attendance stats.

Where is the funding coming from to fit this air con? Believe me we would love it but no way will budgets stretch to that. All the fans do is move around the hot air.

it’s not ideal and with or without children staff will still be in but as much as some don’t like it child safety has to be first priority

Flumposie3 · 23/06/2026 17:30

Meeatcheese · 23/06/2026 17:18

It’s probably the right thing to do, but having worked with teachers for many years, there will have been plotting in the staff room, and now glee. Yep, very cynical about them as a profession.

General teachers have absolutely no say when schools close for snow or extreme heat. Plotting 🙄

SmashThePatriarchy · 23/06/2026 17:29

Meeatcheese · 23/06/2026 17:18

It’s probably the right thing to do, but having worked with teachers for many years, there will have been plotting in the staff room, and now glee. Yep, very cynical about them as a profession.

Stick an advert out. You are free to teach in the classrooms with 32 sweaty bodies in 37 degree heat. Everyone will be pleased for such a trooper!

NeverDropYourMooncup · 23/06/2026 17:29

Tryonemoretime · 23/06/2026 14:56

There was a labour government in power from 1974 until 1978. I was a primary school teacher at that time. Taught 37 6-8 year olds in a leaky portakabin where we froze in winter and baked in summer. Has there ever been a government of any persuasion which has actually prioritised education?

And I went to a brand new primary school in 1978. All on one floor (except the portacabin that had to be bought to accommodate an even greater spike in the birth rate that had been anticipated when moving from the Victorian combined primary and secondary at that point), open plan areas, thick curtains to separate areas and keep out excessive heat, plenty of natural light and airflow, mature trees left when constructing the site to provide shade (the weeping willows were our favourites in summer, only beaten by the five sakura they'd been donated by Hiroshima, followed by the pear, apple and ancient oak at the back of the field).

Yes, we did have classes of 36, but we had plenty of space.

All funded by the same Labour government.

newnotnew · 23/06/2026 17:28

Meeatcheese · 23/06/2026 17:18

It’s probably the right thing to do, but having worked with teachers for many years, there will have been plotting in the staff room, and now glee. Yep, very cynical about them as a profession.

I think it's pretty normal for teachers to be pleased they don't have to spend the day in unhealthy conditions with loads of kids.

Why do we think teachers need to be selfless all the time. Office workers relish any unexpected time off too

Looloolullabelle · 23/06/2026 17:27

My class was 30° by the end of the day today. We also have portacabins and the temp in those got up to 36°. It’s insane.

How on earth do they expect kids to learn. We didn’t even have a fan, I’ll have to bring my own in from home tomorrow.

Kids spent the day complaining of headaches and were just soaking leaving at 3:20. Our school isn’t closing but it bloody well should.

SmashThePatriarchy · 23/06/2026 17:25

I agree. We should be surely trying ways to keep them in without closing being the first port of call. These kind of summers are not going to go away.

WolfinSheepsDress · 23/06/2026 17:24

Sorry I meant campaign to the school for air con /gov

WolfinSheepsDress · 23/06/2026 17:23

As pp said complain to the school and secondly also campaign for better worker rights as there should be a function to look after the children in contracts.

It's very hard and I think many parents don't quite realise the extent of the hassle and interuption of life DC brings. I think its should be messaged far more