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AIBU to think school closures ignore parents' work commitments?

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OhNoItsThePinkyPonk · 23/06/2026 13:48

AIBU to think that the school doesn’t take much account of parents’ need to work? Primary school have just announced they won’t be opening for the rest of the week, but it’s OK because they’ll be sending us online work for us to do with the children, and whilst they are sorry they have had to cancel sports day we shouldn’t be too upset because they’ve have rescheduled it for a couple of weeks time. Like, I totally get they have to put the safety of the children first and if it’s too hot it’s too hot, but what do they think I’m
doing when the kids are at school, preparing beautiful dinners, ensuring the craft box is topped up, pining wistfully for the moment they come home? FFS, my job obviously comes second to my children and of course I’ll cancel planned surgeries and clinics where I need to. It’s not the emergency that bothers me, it’s the blasé way in which it’s communicated as though it’s a
minor inconvenience, not a major major f’ing headache with serious second and third order effects.

phew, that’s better. Now to go and get the little darlings…

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noworklifebalance · 23/06/2026 18:18

Haven’t read the full thread but… why do schools assume that homes are cooler than schools? And that children are aged at home in the heat than in schools?
Should there be an option of coming into school during the heatwave depending on what is more tolerable for the child, if safe guarding is the concern?

Aweekoffwork · 23/06/2026 18:18

This didn’t happen in 1976 !
However, the schools were mainly old Victorian buildings that seemed to stay fairly cool

ConverselyAttired · 23/06/2026 18:15

MindYourMannersDarling · 23/06/2026 14:08

Tbf, my dcs' school did a whole "we would never do this lightly, extreme weather warning, safety of children and staff" type email

So did mine! They were very apologetic but I saw the state of my DS when he came out at 3 and the red alert hasn't even commenced. We also have the issue that a lot of the teachers have children at other schools so there was a bit of a domino effect.

Owninterpreter · 23/06/2026 18:14

Muchtoomuchtodo · 23/06/2026 18:07

I think there needs to be some sort of Hub set up, like there was during Covid school closures.

Pick the coolest part of the school, there will be far fewer children than usual and just let them relax, watch films do craft etc.

I appreciate that schools aren’t childcare but for some people, taking time off at short notice just isn’t possible.

The trust i work for have sort have done that. Its basically you can go home at lunch, but if you cant we are open and can watch the children (including secondaries) then the hope is enough want to go home so its cooler for those left and they can go to places like library and hall. Im not a teacher so not sure if work is being set or it will be do your homework.

Sploon · 23/06/2026 18:14

User79853257976 · 23/06/2026 16:52

Why don’t you suggest they offer a key worker group? Most schools have at least one room with air con.

I get what you’re saying about work but yesterday there were people on here moaning about schools NOT closing.

I've never worked in a school with any AC. I'm in the Midlands and we've needed it every year for the past few years. There are at least 2 weeks every year where it's over 25 degrees in the classroom and it's obvious children's learning is affected. I think we've just all reached a stage of accepting schools are wholly inadequate instead of questioning why it's acceptable to put children in such buildings every day.

We had several complaints today about being open....

EasternStandard · 23/06/2026 18:13

Bushmillsbabe · 23/06/2026 17:01

The problem with this, is suddenly half the children have keyworkers for parents. I remember during covid, when my girls were entitled to attend due to me being an nhs clinician - they could only have 8 in, but they had 15 asking so could only offer each child 2-3 days. No proof was asked for and parents openly boasted of lying, and some didn't even work!

It doesn’t need to be for key workers. Just those who opt to come in.

Matronic6 · 23/06/2026 18:12

I don't know why every time something like this happens people tend to question why the school doesn't consider the parents work and adapt by they question is never why don't employers consider childcare commitments?

Schools duty of care of care is to the children and staff not parents employees. Of course they know it's inconvenient for some parents. Remember that teachers are parents to and are well aware of the inconveniences of schools/nurseries closing. My school is staying open whilst my daughters nursery is closing at lunchtime and my DH is abroad for work until Saturday. I have zero family nearby, literally no one we can call on to help. That's a huge inconvenience for me. Luckily for me my school understands and is willing to make adjustments to accommodate parents in this position.

I think the work culture needs to change first.

BurntBroccoli · 23/06/2026 18:11

gotmyselfintoapickle · 23/06/2026 14:04

The problem is, it would be very expensive are rarely needed. For example, there have been fewer than 10 days in the last 5 years where temps have exceeded 35 degrees. Obviously it's possible to plan for such temperatures but I don't think it's particularly surprising it hasn't felt like a priority given the infrequency of the problem.

Every new school needs to have solar on the roof installed and an AC system set up linked to that.

Also stop using so much glass in the architecture!

verdetortuga · 23/06/2026 18:09

Do you think school staff aren’t parents? We are faced with the same issues as the rest of the working population! In some cases worse, because teachers and term time workers cannot just book a day off. So trust me, we understand what juggling childcare is like just as much as anybody else.

Muchtoomuchtodo · 23/06/2026 18:07

I think there needs to be some sort of Hub set up, like there was during Covid school closures.

Pick the coolest part of the school, there will be far fewer children than usual and just let them relax, watch films do craft etc.

I appreciate that schools aren’t childcare but for some people, taking time off at short notice just isn’t possible.

LoveLite · 23/06/2026 18:07

Meeatcheese · 23/06/2026 17:18

It’s probably the right thing to do, but having worked with teachers for many years, there will have been plotting in the staff room, and now glee. Yep, very cynical about them as a profession.

I used to have a lot of respect for the profession. Until the pandemic. That destroyed my respect for a vocal minority in the profession.

Sunshinemoonlightboogie · 23/06/2026 18:05

Settlersa · 23/06/2026 17:57

According to the DWP it is

They count wrap around care and holiday clubs as child care NOT the actual state funded education during designated hours.

cardibach · 23/06/2026 18:05

Settlersa · 23/06/2026 18:00

All the ones over about the age of 11 will be out with their mates, hopefully not at the local lake or river, I doubt they will be in being fanned by their parents

Sorry - are you trying to make any accidents involving students not in school the fault of teachers? Not parents? And you don’t think some might be ill or worse if they stay in schools in 40+ heat?

MrsMurphyIWish · 23/06/2026 18:04

somanychristmaslights · 23/06/2026 17:58

Schools need to adapt. This isn’t just a one off.

I keep reading this but how? Any solution will cost money and there isn’t the budget for it - year on year there are cuts, never rises.

The government must think it’s the lesser of evils to shut schools rather than fund them to say open.

I think heat will be another driver of inequality. Schools who have a PTA who can fund measures will be able to stay open in comparison to more poorly funded schools.

Sirzy · 23/06/2026 18:00

somanychristmaslights · 23/06/2026 17:58

Schools need to adapt. This isn’t just a one off.

So come on how does a 100 year old building adapt on zero budget? I would love the ideas!

Settlersa · 23/06/2026 18:00

All the ones over about the age of 11 will be out with their mates, hopefully not at the local lake or river, I doubt they will be in being fanned by their parents

somanychristmaslights · 23/06/2026 17:58

Schools need to adapt. This isn’t just a one off.

GipsyandIvy · 23/06/2026 17:58

Duvetdayforme · 23/06/2026 14:06

School isn’t childcare. If they feel they can’t safely stay open then that’s an end to it.

You will have to take leave.

This. 100%

User79853257976 · 23/06/2026 17:58

Bushmillsbabe · 23/06/2026 17:01

The problem with this, is suddenly half the children have keyworkers for parents. I remember during covid, when my girls were entitled to attend due to me being an nhs clinician - they could only have 8 in, but they had 15 asking so could only offer each child 2-3 days. No proof was asked for and parents openly boasted of lying, and some didn't even work!

They should ask for a photo of an ID badge by email.

Settlersa · 23/06/2026 17:57

Swiftie1878 · 23/06/2026 15:43

School isn’t a childminding service. The children are the schools’ concern, not the parents.

According to the DWP it is

Loub1987 · 23/06/2026 17:57

My kids school has a very sensible approach. Keep your kids off (authorised absence), pick up early or if necessary leave them in and they will potentially spend time in the hall the coolest room. Seems very logical.

noblegiraffe · 23/06/2026 17:56

“Teachers plotted for the Met Office to issue a red heat alert saying danger to life and then made sure the school doesn’t have air con so they could get a day off”

cardibach · 23/06/2026 17:55

Meeatcheese · 23/06/2026 17:18

It’s probably the right thing to do, but having worked with teachers for many years, there will have been plotting in the staff room, and now glee. Yep, very cynical about them as a profession.

And they wonder why there’s a teacher retention problem. This is crap. I e been a teacher for 35 years and I’ve never heard if a) teachers ’plotting’ for time off or b) SLT listening to the views of teaching staff

Tryagain26 · 23/06/2026 17:53

IsitaHatOrACat · 23/06/2026 17:49

Lol. It is for people with school age children who need to earn money to live!

Parents might see it that way but it doesn't mean they are correct. The role of schools is to educate their pupils . They don't need to vonsode their parents work commitments

Tryagain26 · 23/06/2026 17:52

The schools have a duty of care to the children . If it's not safe for them in the school they have no choice but to close the school
It's annoying for parents but it's not their role to consider the parents work commitments

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