My DH has been in Boston for the World Cup for 10 days now, 3 more to go. I decided to take our 2 year old son on holiday with my mum and auntie as I figured flying solo in the sun would be easier than at home plus juggling work.
I naively thought I’d have a bit more help from my mum and auntie but they just drank wine the whole holiday - fair enough though as it’s their holiday too!
I’m feeling absolutely exhausted as I was up at 6 every morning with DS, made and fed him every meal, put him to bed every night (45 mins of chaos), woke a few times in the night with him and spent all day every day running around after hin (having lots of fun and making memories might I add!). Meanwhile I can’t help but feel this is a huge contrast to DH who has zero responsibilities right now and is lying in til 10 every morning.
The reason for my post is I’m wondering what is reasonable when he gets home. I want to hand him DS and have him do every bedtime, every wake through the night and every morning wake until I’ve caught up on some of my exhaustion.
I mentioned this to my mum but she said it was harsh because he was losing a nights sleep on his way home due to a night flight and he will be jet lagged
AIBU?