Did my DH’s comments to a stranger cross the line?

You and your other half are two peas in a pod.
Just as well you found each other, really.

Cheeky chappy?

More like cringey low class oik🤢🤮

He spoke about you like he owned you! Not great.

Yes they did and so did this comment by you. Sounds like you and DH are well suited.

Cheeky Chappie? 🤢
This makes it sound like you generally indulge his embarrassing nonsense.
You know everyone he buttonholes in the street is cringing themselves inside out (at both of you), right?

Many of these young 'muscle-boys' are in love with themselves more than anything, posting endless selfies of themselves on social media, just put the incident behind you, if similar happens again, just say to DH 'that's enough', firmly but quietly.......😐

Wtf

He deliberately went out of his way to say something to get this stranger to imagine being with you sexually, and then said what he did as a way of communicating that you're... what? Sexually confident? Experienced? Insatiable?

Some men love to brag that their partner is the above things because they think it reflects well on them that they've 'tamed' her or get to 'benefit' from their sexual appetite. It's utterly disgusting that he did this involving a total stranger. I'm embarrassed for him. Has he no decorum?

Wow. Reap what you sow. You have a pig of a husband and the other poster is right.

Oh! You're an experienced MILF.

That he has pulled.

How lovely of him to big himself up in the eyes of another man by complimenting himself on the lovely, trophy (object) of a woman that sexually satisfies him.

Lovely.

So nice of him to use you both to establish himself first in the pecking order. Hot.

Jesus, that’s sick.

You’ve completely lost my sympathy with this ridiculous comment. You and your husband both sound creepy and inappropriate.

No, I don’t think that .
I think OPS husband was showing off to the young fella & thinks he was being funny , when in an actual fact he sounds like an idiot 🙈.

I'd bin the insecure dh

Really so you think approaching people alone and talking to them about having sex with one of the couple isn’t a sign of swinging. How very naive.

My teenage niece is very beautiful, and social exclusion is a major way for females to express aggression towards other females. Especially when they can't confront her outright about anything, since she's a lovely person who has done nothing wrong except be physically stunning. She has plenty of friends, but that doesn't stop the fact that there's a lot of jealousy from certain quarters. One girl, for example, would wait until my niece was off sick from school and then use that day to invite everyone to a party. And the bitchy remarks are endless and completely unprovoked.

“ I’m assuming you’re both swingers or he wishes to be “ .
You literally have to be the only person in the universe that got that from OPS post 😂

I swear my DH (over 60) has lost his filter along the way too.

we were at a restaurant a few months back with extended family.

Our Wait staff was in a jovial mood and talk flowed beyond the normal service staff banter. Anyhow DH said something to him that actually sounded flirty and that had both myself and family looking at him in surprise.

We’ve been back with the same family members and the Gent was working again but not our table. He certainly recognised DH and was visibly happy but unable to approach us.

we reminded DH of the conversation but he doesn’t remember what he said of course. It was just a blah blah thing to him at the moment.

but yes if there had been a pool noodle available at the time I would have hit him over the head with it. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

I don’t think what he said indicates this at all. In any way

What he did was not okay because he objectified you to some another man to show himself off. What may be a tiny, microscopic, talking electron microscope here, point in his favor, is your husband thinks you're smoking hot. However, that in no way obviates his bad behavior.

It’s up to you really. Did it offend you, if it did tell husband.

It is really inappropriate and probably made the lad uncomfortable...he thinks he's funny but he's a creep.

Oh dear op.

Cheeky chappy?

come on, let’s stop using these phrases and say it
jpw it is. He’s rude, inappropriate, misogynistic, creepy.

Of course he crossed the line. He's in his 50's, 'cheeky chappy' is how I might describe my 3 year old.

Sounds like he needs to grow up.