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..to ask for your suggestions for a solo break away

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Rilkansec · 19/06/2026 19:38

Sorry for the shameless AIBU post, but I want to make this count as it likely won't happen again and I'd like as many suggestions as possible!

DH and DCs are taking a week away together to participate in a shared hobby. Im not interested in that hobby and won't be going with them.

I have some annual leave I can book off at the same time that they go away. I don't want to be at home because I can't switch off from home stuff. I'll just be cleaning and reorganising and then feel pissed off with myself.

So I need to plan a trip of my own!

I don't want to go with any other person. No family, no friends...Just me and the dog. And somewhere in the UK.

I've had a couple of bereavements in close succession of each other recently and it's knocked me sideways. I think a trip on my own could be the tonic I need.

I want nature. Beautiful landscapes and scenery. Fresh air. Relaxation and a chance to just breathe without chaos and noise. Nice walks. Maybe even a hot tub I can sit alone in with a glass of wine and a book.

Im not well-off and have a very basic run-of-the-mill 'working class' type of job. But I do have a small inheritance from one of the relatives who passed away that could fund this short trip. Another reason I really want to make it count.

So I expect you lovely lot are all well travelled and can hopefully give me some great suggestions of places to go, travel companies, accommodation or sites etc? Anywhere that would suit a solo traveller looking to decompress and get away from the race with a pooch in tow.

Any links to accompany your suggestions would also be gratefully received.

Thank you 🙏

OP posts:
Rilkansec · 19/06/2026 20:28

Mellowautumnmists · 19/06/2026 19:49

Which part of the country are you in and how far do you want to travel? Will you be driving or depending on public transport?

Sorry, that would have been useful to know, wouldnt it.

Im in the South East. I do drive. I don't mind using (dog friendly) public transport during the trip, but I will need to drive to wherever I'm based.

I think a 4hr drive anywhere from SE London would be my preferred limit really (although willing to make an exception for somewhere with really spectacular scenery, but not as far as Scotland! I absolutely love the Scottish Highlands but thats far too long a drive for me on my own).

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PurpleCoo · 19/06/2026 20:26

I would go to Scotland. Avoid the West Coast and Skye (tourists and midges), but the East Coast or Islands should be fine.

They are perfect for dogs. You will think you are in The Caribbean or Thailand, although it's a lot cooler. You won't be faced with beach restrictions like most of the UK, and it's just such a wonderful place to be and very safe for solo female travellers. I fell in love with Scotland when I first visited 13 years ago and have been every year since.

My favourite place is Harris. Check out Seilebost beach.

Tutorpuzzle · 19/06/2026 20:22

I always recommend East Devon on these threads. Stunning coastline, plenty of beautiful walks, endless pretty villages and the (dog friendly) donkey sanctuary.
I also always recommend Sweetcombe Cottages. I’ve used them many times and never been disappointed. Enjoy your trip, wherever you and the dog go!

SpringHasSprungTheGrassIsRiz · 19/06/2026 20:17

Channel Islands (Herm, Alderney) or Isles of Scilly. Food for the soul.

..to ask for your suggestions for a solo break away
Whataflippincircus · 19/06/2026 20:12

DidntLikeTheEnding · 19/06/2026 20:05

Put the dog in kennels and get a cheap flight from your local airport to somewhere warm and sunny!

Personally I would rather go on holiday with my dog, to somewhere in the UK. I suspect that also applies to the OP.

DidntLikeTheEnding · 19/06/2026 20:05

Put the dog in kennels and get a cheap flight from your local airport to somewhere warm and sunny!

Squirrelintree · 19/06/2026 19:52

There are so many beautiful places in this country to choose from! What sort of thing are you looking for? What interests you? If recommend Cornwall, North Devon, Jurassic coast on Dorset, the Lakes, the Peak District and the coast just north of Newcastle.

WilliamsandWatsonTooLateNSoul · 19/06/2026 19:52

Sorry missed the doggie detail.

Powerplant · 19/06/2026 19:51

Sorry wasn’t sure how to link Forest Holidays

Mellowautumnmists · 19/06/2026 19:49

Which part of the country are you in and how far do you want to travel? Will you be driving or depending on public transport?

Whataflippincircus · 19/06/2026 19:47

The Peak District is lovely. It’s very dog friendly with endless places to walk. There are several Market towns like Bakewell, Buxton, Ashbourne and Matlock offer independent shops, cafes and restaurants. There’s also Chatsworth house and gardens to visit.

https://www.campingandcaravanningclub.co.uk/advice/discover/peak-district-derbyshire-walks/

7 of the Best Walks in the Peak District and Derbyshire

The Peak District in Derbyshire has some of the best walks in the UK. Our Peak District and Derbyshire walking guide includes Kinderscout, Dovedale and more.

https://www.campingandcaravanningclub.co.uk/advice/discover/peak-district-derbyshire-walks/

Duvetdayforme · 19/06/2026 19:46

Cotswolds are lovely. Or New Forest?

EBearhug · 19/06/2026 19:45

Mountains? Coast? Am ruling out city breaks because of the dog. How far do you want to travel (e.g. I'm in Hampshire so south coast is easier than Northumberland or Scotland if I wasn't up for hours of driving.)

WilliamsandWatsonTooLateNSoul · 19/06/2026 19:45

York,Edinburgh,or quiet coastal towns.

MiddleAgedDread · 19/06/2026 19:42

Northumberland maybe?