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To wonder why people jump to calling people who murder other prisoners heros?

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Femalemachinest · 19/06/2026 15:18

Ive just seen something on facebook where 3 men have been charged for a killing another in prison. He killed a young child. People are praising these men, calling them a hero's, saying they should be released, have their sentences reduced.... all while forgetting these people are also serious criminals to be on the same wing. Apparently 2 of them were in for murder of women.
I would also believe they did this because of something that happened in prison (debt/gang related) not because of the reason he was in.

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BlusteryLake · 19/06/2026 17:41

When an awful person is murdered either in prison or out in society, I don't think it's bad to be quietly relieved about it. But celebrating their murderer is grotesque, when usually that murderer is just as awful as their victim.

Hopefully when people call for these prison murderers to have their sentences reduced they're really using that as a way of expressing their approval of the death, rather than a serious suggestion. It would be ridiculous to put out the message in Category A prisons that if you kill one of your fellow inmates it can be a way of reducing your time.

Whyohwhy1973 · 19/06/2026 17:39

Thekichenisclosed · 19/06/2026 16:08

Tbh if a particular prison wing contained all murderers, rapists and nonces, I’d happily support a Battle Royale style scenario where they can all kill each other.

Will you offer to go in afterwards and drag all the dead bodies out and clean it up, ready for the next round? And will you volunteer to decide who goes in to this battle venue? Or is just every single person who commits murde etc? And do you really want to live in a medieval society that supports this? Do you want it live streamed? Or a viewing gallery for the relatives? I get the emotion that sits behind your view but I bet you wouldn't actually want this to happen?

SorcererGaheris · 19/06/2026 17:30

Octavia64 · 19/06/2026 16:13

Killing bad people is neither necessary nor sufficient for heroic status.

@Octavia64

But earlier on, you said that "heroes kill bad people."

So isn't that contradictory?

Secretseverywhere · 19/06/2026 17:29

I don’t think these men are heroes. That said I’m not lamenting the death of that awful man. I used to be quite anti death penalty but I think I’ve been worn down by an endless stream of awfulness.

There’s a bit of me that would quite happily agree to let the men who are convicted of horrendous crimes to be dropped off on some remote island somewhere and just let them kill each other off. We could leave some snozzcumber seeds,

SorcererGaheris · 19/06/2026 17:28

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 19/06/2026 16:11

Because humans are vengeful animals and they are blowing off some steam in an anon forum.
Thinking you are morally superior for your more liberal views is part of the reason there is so much division and hate in this country at the moment. People are allowed to despise child abusers and murderers and wish them dead. It is a perfectly logical position to take.

@faithfultoGeorgeMichael

Given that in many cases, the prisoners who kill child abusers and murderers are also themselves child abusers and murderers, shouldn't you also want them dead?

This thread isn't criticising people for hating child abusers and murderers and taking pleasure in them being killed. It's pointing out that the prisoners who killed them have almost always committed the same crimes themselves against innocent victims.

How do you think the victims of the prisoner murderers feel if they see/hear others calling them heroes? Their suffering (or those of their loved ones) is being unfairly disregarded.

Simonjt · 19/06/2026 17:05

Prisons should be as safe as possible, where assaults are able to happen the staff are in danger. So not only are some people pro-murder and pro releasing murderers and rapists, they’re also pro putting prison staff in danger.

Oddly the people who see these as heroes don’t work in prisons or offer to house offenders after early release, funny that.

KojaksLollipop · 19/06/2026 16:48

If anyone gets their sentence reduced for murdering another prisoner, the prisons would be emptied by 50% within days, and then everyone would get out. Ridiculous!

XenoBitch · 19/06/2026 16:40

YANBU
No, they are not heros. They are murderers. Killing other prisoners will increase their sentences and rightly so because they are clearly very dangerous.

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Femalemachinest · 19/06/2026 16:31

Im not saying I agree or disagree with it. But to forget these are horrible people who have committed just as bad crimes is ridiculous. How do we know one of these men arent also a child killer.

To the poster who said "normal" people will be happy about this i think is an incorrect word to use. Why is it not "normal" to think that any murder is bad?

Ive have attached some comments ive seen. Ive tried to cut them so you cant see these people's names.

To wonder why people jump to calling people who murder other prisoners heros?
To wonder why people jump to calling people who murder other prisoners heros?
To wonder why people jump to calling people who murder other prisoners heros?
To wonder why people jump to calling people who murder other prisoners heros?
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BitDrizzly · 19/06/2026 16:26

I won’t celebrate this type of thing, but I have no sympathy for paedophiles and child killers.

There is a certain poetic justice when the sort of violent, disturbed adult male who abuses, harms, hurts or murders defenceless children meets their fate at the hands of other violent, psychopathic, murdering males.

Sunandsunshine · 19/06/2026 16:25

CrashBash · 19/06/2026 16:15

I think describing IH as “obnoxious” is possibly the understatement of the year.

What did you expect me to to call him?
Any right minded person knows what he was. What would be the point in filling my post with a string of invective against him when I'm sure most people can supply their own.

5128gap · 19/06/2026 16:18

Because they think the more blood thirsty the revenge they advocate for a perpetrator, the more caring of the victims it makes them look.
Its a weird type of virtue signalling where they get to indulge themselves in cheering on heinous criminals to acts of violence, while claiming to be better than the people who don't think is ideal for murders to be allowed to commit additional murders at his majesty's pleasure.

CrashBash · 19/06/2026 16:15

Sunandsunshine · 19/06/2026 15:26

Yes I found it horrendous when the guy who murdered Ian Huntley was hailed as hero when he had raped and strangled a pregnant women. Just awful.

And no matter how obnoxious Ian Huntley was our criminal system does
not have the death sentence so he should not have been murdered

I think describing IH as “obnoxious” is possibly the understatement of the year.

Esmereldapawpatrol · 19/06/2026 16:15

I mean I don't want them released early or have their sentences reduced but I am hoping the absolute monster that killed baby Preston meets a very horrible end in prison or at least spends the rest of his days living in absolute fear just like that poor baby did!!

WhatAMarvelousTune · 19/06/2026 16:14

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 19/06/2026 16:11

Because humans are vengeful animals and they are blowing off some steam in an anon forum.
Thinking you are morally superior for your more liberal views is part of the reason there is so much division and hate in this country at the moment. People are allowed to despise child abusers and murderers and wish them dead. It is a perfectly logical position to take.

But OP isn’t criticising people for wishing them dead.
Is it a liberal opinion to think that a rapist and multiple murderer shouldn’t have their sentence reduced??

Octavia64 · 19/06/2026 16:13

SorcererGaheris · 19/06/2026 16:03

@Octavia64

These are all heroes from mythology or fiction, where I would argue the term has a different meaning/understanding.

A 'hero' from a mythological tale is not defined in the same way that regular human beings are defined as heroes. For a regular, non-mythological individual to be called a hero, they need to be virtuous enough to not be committing acts of rape and murder.

Would you consider the Nazis to be heroes? They undoubtedly killed some terrible people.

Killing bad people is neither necessary nor sufficient for heroic status.

Littlebitpsycho · 19/06/2026 16:13

I don't believe they should have their sentences reduced.

I do believe that one less child molester isn't a bad thing.

True 'lifers' have nothing to lose by doing these kinds of things, and I do sort of see it as their way of doing some sort of community service. They have committed an atrocity and will never be released, so why not clear up some mess along the way 🤷‍♀️

offtodreamland · 19/06/2026 16:11

I wouldn't call them heroes at all, but neither do I lose sleep thinking about the 'prison justice' doled out to violent offenders, if I'm completely honest. I also support the idea of capital punishment in cases where there is no doubt of guilt.

ETA: Anyone suggesting that the prisoners committing these murders should be released from prison or in any way rewarded is nuts, though. That's perfectly clear to anyone with a functioning brain.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 19/06/2026 16:11

Because humans are vengeful animals and they are blowing off some steam in an anon forum.
Thinking you are morally superior for your more liberal views is part of the reason there is so much division and hate in this country at the moment. People are allowed to despise child abusers and murderers and wish them dead. It is a perfectly logical position to take.

WhatAMarvelousTune · 19/06/2026 16:10

SorcererGaheris · 19/06/2026 16:08

@zingally

I think that's missing the point a bit, though. I can understand why you (or someone else) might see the murder of a serial killer or child abuser to be a good thing.

But this thread is about people praising the person responsible, and in some cases, advocating for them to be released. That's incredibly insensitive and ignorant/

Exactly. There’s a difference between “I’m not remotely sorry he’s dead” and “round of applause to the rapist murderer for killing again”

TigerRag · 19/06/2026 16:10

I feel for the victims family who have to see the face of the person who killed their loved one

Zero sympathy for the prisoner who was killed. Don't think the men who killed him are heroes though.

SorcererGaheris · 19/06/2026 16:08

zingally · 19/06/2026 16:07

One nasty piece of work has had their comeuppance, and whoever did them in will never see the outside again. Sounds like a 2 for the price of 1. Good deal that.

@zingally

I think that's missing the point a bit, though. I can understand why you (or someone else) might see the murder of a serial killer or child abuser to be a good thing.

But this thread is about people praising the person responsible, and in some cases, advocating for them to be released. That's incredibly insensitive and ignorant/

Thekichenisclosed · 19/06/2026 16:08

Tbh if a particular prison wing contained all murderers, rapists and nonces, I’d happily support a Battle Royale style scenario where they can all kill each other.

zingally · 19/06/2026 16:07

One nasty piece of work has had their comeuppance, and whoever did them in will never see the outside again. Sounds like a 2 for the price of 1. Good deal that.

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