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How to manage hotel breakfasts abroad while doing 16:8 fasting

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Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 08:07

Posting here for traffic. Need a bit of advice and/or perspective perhaps. I have started a new way of eating (I hate the term diet) and that involves 16:8 intermittent fasting. My question is I’m due to go abroad a few times this summer. And breakfast is included in the hotel and I will be with my family. I don’t normally eat my first meal until 10. How will I manage this? I don’t want to eat breakfast too early. Should I just take what I can from the breakfast buffet put it in a Tupperware and eat at 10. I also am avoiding carbs as as much as I can. And I am coeliac, so I can’t just go have a croissant and I won’t want to either. So I’ll need protein etc. Anyone else in the same situation who can give some advice?

we will normally have dinner around 5:30 six so that’s not a problem really. It’s just breakfast.

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Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 09:29

tiramisugelato · 19/06/2026 09:25

Honestly, the fact that you can’t relax and eat breakfast with your kids on holiday for a week is a huge waving red flag 🚩

Just relax and enjoy your holiday instead of fussing about with bloody Tupperware.

@tiramisugelato please don’t. I am a 41-year-old woman who has finally realised how my body works and what my body needs and want my body doesn’t need. I don’t need people to tell me what’s a red flag. I have been diagnosed coeliac with last year and I have been struggling with it.I FINALLY feel good, this is not entirely about weight. It’s about getting my body in a good place and I’m sorry that it makes you uncomfortable. But that’s how I work now. My family are supportive. I will bend where I need to bend, but I’m not willing to ruin it all.

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tiramisugelato · 19/06/2026 09:25

Honestly, the fact that you can’t relax and eat breakfast with your kids on holiday for a week is a huge waving red flag 🚩

Just relax and enjoy your holiday instead of fussing about with bloody Tupperware.

WhereverIlaymycatthatsmyhome · 19/06/2026 09:22

Just have breakfast as late as possible and don’t worry about it for a week or so.

sunshinehappydays · 19/06/2026 09:18

I usually don’t eat breakfast at home until around 11/12 each day but on holiday I go to the breakfast buffet and enjoy it! I don’t eat any bread or pastries and just fill up on high protein foods like Greek yoghurt with seeds and nuts, eggs, fish etc. I generally don’t have a lunch and then have dinner. We usually go to Spain on holiday so dinner is late-around 9 or 10pm. So my usual eating times are out of the window but I don’t care as I’m on holiday in the sunshine!

Lomonald · 19/06/2026 09:14

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 09:04

Could you hold off a herd of wild horses? 🤣🤣 no way 😅

to be honest, I don’t really want to be vocal and try to adapt how they eat. This is not for them. It’s for me. When they have lunch, I’ll just have a herbal tea or something. And I’ll treat myself to an ice cream if I like etc

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HA😀 maybe not then, I am sure it will be fine, i generally only eat 2 meals a day im never hungry in the morning but will eat on holiday but usually miss lunch.

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 09:13

Jk987 · 19/06/2026 09:12

Have yoghurt or eggs for breakfast with fruit or sliced cucumbers/peppers. Skip lunch altogether and then enjoy your early dinner.

That’s what I do anyway, I never have a lunch. I have a meal at 10 and I have my dinner at about 5:30.

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Jk987 · 19/06/2026 09:12

Have yoghurt or eggs for breakfast with fruit or sliced cucumbers/peppers. Skip lunch altogether and then enjoy your early dinner.

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 09:08

Shedmistress · 19/06/2026 09:07

Keep it to a cup of tea/coffee at breakfast and have a solid lunch instead?

You know what? This is not a bad shout! maybe, I could just do this and have a piece of fruit or something. And then have lunch with them when they’re having lunch.

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Shedmistress · 19/06/2026 09:07

Keep it to a cup of tea/coffee at breakfast and have a solid lunch instead?

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 09:04

Lomonald · 19/06/2026 09:01

Can you hold the family off till 9 ?

Could you hold off a herd of wild horses? 🤣🤣 no way 😅

to be honest, I don’t really want to be vocal and try to adapt how they eat. This is not for them. It’s for me. When they have lunch, I’ll just have a herbal tea or something. And I’ll treat myself to an ice cream if I like etc

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Lomonald · 19/06/2026 09:01

Can you hold the family off till 9 ?

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 08:59

Squirrelchops1 · 19/06/2026 08:35

This.
I've been in your situation. I hate it when people say 'relax...you're on holiday...loosen up' as you're trying to make life long changes.
I'd widen the eating window but try to be really protein based. Eggs, Greek yoghurt, nuts, some meat and cheese but avoid all those pastries etc and no fruit juice. You'll feel nice and full too then.

Thank you. I could widen it slightly perhaps yes but I don’t want to eat at 8am that’s 2hours and then I’ll want lunch and dinner…which is not what I need to do at all. 🤣

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FedUpCelery · 19/06/2026 08:58

Your update sounds exhausting.
You could have some nice things in the fridge/freezer at home that make it easier to slip back into a routine.

WobblyBoots · 19/06/2026 08:57

I do intermittent fasting but not every day. I find it really helpful. Instead of having breakfast I have dinner at a normal time and then fast till lunch or have a mid morning snack and then a big lunch.

This works for me on holiday but I do it every other day. I like to go for a run or swim first thing and by the time I've done that, we've got the kids ready and out the door it's 10am anyway. I don't find it restricting on holiday as then eat as I want the rest of the day, usually a big lunch with a beer!

CoverLikelyZebra · 19/06/2026 08:56

It's really not going to have much impact on your body if the regime is 15:9 or 14:10 for the duration of the holiday. Just go to breakfast as late as possible and have supper as early as possible and don't worry about it otherwise.

Hotels that include breakfast but charge for lunch will be on the lookout for packed-lunch-hoarders. They my even have Ts&Cs that boil down to saying that food on the breakfast buffet is only free if taken for immediate eating, and if you are taking it away it will be charged for.

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 08:55

SylvanMoon · 19/06/2026 08:53

I'm in agreement with most of the PP here in that I think you should relax your "rules" for these family holidays. It's not a medical issue and an hour or two one way or the other isn't going to make you ill. The fact that you feel that if you do so you are "falling off the wagon" and won't be able to resume your eating pattern when not on holiday is pretty extreme tbh. Why have you adopted this intermittent fasting pattern in the first place?
The problem with your solution of just having tea at breakfast and supposedly not eating anything at lunch either is that you're going to be either very hungry and/or tired. And even if you pack something to eat later at your "assigned" breakfast time, how are you going to do that without inconveniencing the rest of your family and the day's activities?

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I’ll just eat it as we go. I don’t mind. Dp might want a coffee at that time anyway. Dc can have a juice etc. it doesn’t have to be bang on 10am just there or after. Like yesterday I didn’t eat until 11:30 because I was busy.

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SylvanMoon · 19/06/2026 08:53

I'm in agreement with most of the PP here in that I think you should relax your "rules" for these family holidays. It's not a medical issue and an hour or two one way or the other isn't going to make you ill. The fact that you feel that if you do so you are "falling off the wagon" and won't be able to resume your eating pattern when not on holiday is pretty extreme tbh. Why have you adopted this intermittent fasting pattern in the first place?
The problem with your solution of just having tea at breakfast and supposedly not eating anything at lunch either is that you're going to be either very hungry and/or tired. And even if you pack something to eat later at your "assigned" breakfast time, how are you going to do that without inconveniencing the rest of your family and the day's activities?

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 08:52

OK, I suppose my main issues that my family would want to eat breakfast probably around eight. Which is two hours earlier than what I normally do. I know a lot of people are saying to relax and eat with them and that’s great if people can do that, but I don’t think I can. Because of the nature of the kind of person that I am all or nothing so if I fall off the bandwagon on holidays, I will stay off the bandwagon and it will be very hard for me to get back on. So for me, it is important that I stay somewhat within my 16:8. In terms of dinner we always have dinner at that time and we’ve always managed to have dinner abroad at that time so I’m not worried about that. I could push that out to 6:30.

this is not something that I’m vocal about it it’s very much for me in my head so I would never make it an issue with the rest of the family. I will sit and have a cup of tea while they eat their breakfast. Help the kids get their breakfast, etc. My DP eats breakfast a lot earlier than me naturally anyway. We won’t be hanging around in the hotel for me to nip back down at nine-ish. I imagine we’ll be out doing things. But we’ll see.

I generally can’t have sausages from a buffet because they’re not gluten-free. So it will have to be bacon and meat and cheese. Possibly boiled eggs if they have them.

I don’t have lunch. I just have two meals. Solid breakfast and solid dinner.

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Ethelspagetti · 19/06/2026 08:49

AbsoluteHoot · 19/06/2026 08:24

I fast every day for at least 17 hours (I don’t call it that I just don’t eat breakfast and have a late lunch). But on holiday, I always eat breakfast. I don’t like carbs much, so it’s easy to stick to protein.

Same. If we go away then I eat with everyone but would focus on eating protein. When I get home I go back to my natural routine.

ReprogramNeeded · 19/06/2026 08:47

Just think about all the different healthy choices there will be on the breakfast buffet- different fruits to what you would have at home, toppings like seeds or dates with honey- you can stick to protein and low carbs, but give yourself a treat of new gut microbiomes. And also a treat of sharing breakfast with your family!

FedUpCelery · 19/06/2026 08:45

I do 18:6 ish. Roughly. I eat when I feel hungry.
I wave it when it's not convenient. It really won't hurt you and you're more likely to be able to eat more protein and fewer carbs if you have breakfast and are selective than if you skip it and then struggle to find a suitable lunch

AImportantMermaid · 19/06/2026 08:41

Hotel breakfasts usually finish about 10am, so go for breakfast at 9.30am, have a glass of water and a cup of coffee or tea, and then about 9.45am have some eggs or yoghurt. That way you’re very close to your target time. They won’t kick you out at 10am. It just means no additional food is available from 10am.

Thebigonesgetaway · 19/06/2026 08:40

Eh just eat an hour earlier?

CaesarAugusta · 19/06/2026 08:40

Chances are you'll be more active when abroad anyway, so it's a perfect time to give the diet a rest.

honeylulu · 19/06/2026 08:40

Must hotel breakfast buffets are open until 10, so go at 9.30, get a plate, drink your tea/coffee and then eat the food at 9.45, which is barely any different to 10. Don't take tupperware, hotels hate people doing that, they think you are helping yourself to a "free packed lunch".

To be honest though, I think you need to relax the regime. Intermittent fasting works mainly because you are intaking less calories a day. So if it's important to maintain, just find another way to limit your calories. Lay off the wine (sadly it's booze that piles weight on for me).

Like others have said, you'll have difficulty finding an evening meal at 5.30pm unless you're self catering or there are all day fast food places nearby. You may be better off having lateish breakfast and earlyish dinner and skipping lunch. That's what I do. If it's hot I often find I don't really have much appetite at lunchtime on hols.