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How to manage hotel breakfasts abroad while doing 16:8 fasting

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Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 08:07

Posting here for traffic. Need a bit of advice and/or perspective perhaps. I have started a new way of eating (I hate the term diet) and that involves 16:8 intermittent fasting. My question is I’m due to go abroad a few times this summer. And breakfast is included in the hotel and I will be with my family. I don’t normally eat my first meal until 10. How will I manage this? I don’t want to eat breakfast too early. Should I just take what I can from the breakfast buffet put it in a Tupperware and eat at 10. I also am avoiding carbs as as much as I can. And I am coeliac, so I can’t just go have a croissant and I won’t want to either. So I’ll need protein etc. Anyone else in the same situation who can give some advice?

we will normally have dinner around 5:30 six so that’s not a problem really. It’s just breakfast.

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Sartre · 19/06/2026 13:10

Why are you dieting on holiday? Surely holidays are the perfect time to unwind and not think about restrictions like that!

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 13:08

tiramisugelato · 19/06/2026 13:08

People are allowed to see your behaviour in way that you don’t.

OK, @tiramisugelato I’m not arguing with you. You see what you want to see. That’s fine.

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tiramisugelato · 19/06/2026 13:08

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 13:07

Because I don’t need people to agree me about how I’m eating, I just wanted some suggestions. I’m not getting defensive, it’s just that there’s no need to use the word red flag like there’s something wrong with me, everybody is different.

People are allowed to see your behaviour in way that you don’t.

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 13:07

tiramisugelato · 19/06/2026 13:03

I don’t think I’m the one whose uncomfortable given how defensive you are towards anyone who disagrees with you 😂

Because I don’t need people to agree me about how I’m eating, I just wanted some suggestions. I’m not getting defensive, it’s just that there’s no need to use the word red flag like there’s something wrong with me, everybody is different.

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tiramisugelato · 19/06/2026 13:03

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 09:29

@tiramisugelato please don’t. I am a 41-year-old woman who has finally realised how my body works and what my body needs and want my body doesn’t need. I don’t need people to tell me what’s a red flag. I have been diagnosed coeliac with last year and I have been struggling with it.I FINALLY feel good, this is not entirely about weight. It’s about getting my body in a good place and I’m sorry that it makes you uncomfortable. But that’s how I work now. My family are supportive. I will bend where I need to bend, but I’m not willing to ruin it all.

I don’t think I’m the one whose uncomfortable given how defensive you are towards anyone who disagrees with you 😂

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 12:29

hobbledyhoy · 19/06/2026 12:25

relax it a bit, that’s what I do, and go for yoghurt, fruit and nuts for breakfast rather than carbs. I find that stops me feeling sluggish

Yeah, I never have carbs at my first meal. I can’t have them much at all so it’s protein, fats and fruit veg with obviously as little carbs in them as possible. For my dinner I can stomach them a bit more.

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Chasingsquirrels · 19/06/2026 12:28

I would definitely skip breakfast and just have lunch and dinner.

(Well, I wouldn't as I love pastries on holiday and eat far too many!)

hobbledyhoy · 19/06/2026 12:25

relax it a bit, that’s what I do, and go for yoghurt, fruit and nuts for breakfast rather than carbs. I find that stops me feeling sluggish

DoubleTea · 19/06/2026 12:16

Skip breakfast and have lunch instead.

Darkmodelarry · 19/06/2026 12:08

Let the family eat when they want - have a glass of water while they have breakfast.

pack and bring some protein bars with you and eat it at 10 if that is your normal time and is impossible for you to change.

I’m diabetic and coeliac and i manage my conditions with pretty consistent foods and food times at home - but on holiday - I just adjust my insulin and my expectations and get on with things - especially when your normal food / timings aren’t always available / the same as the hotels. Always carry safe snacks . It’s not hard.

don’t make this holiday about your diet.

BillieWiper · 19/06/2026 11:58

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 11:45

God I would love to be able to sleep late 😅 7:30 is a lie in for me 😭

Aww, well I hope you enjoy your holidays! 😁 X

Elbowpatch · 19/06/2026 11:46

As far as your diet is concerned, it won’t make any difference when you eat breakfast as long as your total daily calorie intake remains the same as when you were following the 16:8 regimen.

Retro12 · 19/06/2026 11:45

Just don't eat it 🤷🏻‍♀️Or relax you're on holiday!

I'm sure there will be other options for you to eat at your allocated time, or grab some fruit

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 11:45

BillieWiper · 19/06/2026 11:41

Fair enough. Im a lazy bugger who thinks 10 sounds pretty early to wake up! I guess sneak a bunch of ham and cheese and stuff or ask your mates to order an omelette then stash it?

Are you very fond of hotel breakfast? You could always just forget it exists as you don't usually eat at that time? But I guess it'd be good to get your money's worth if it's nice.

God I would love to be able to sleep late 😅 7:30 is a lie in for me 😭

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BillieWiper · 19/06/2026 11:41

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 11:34

But we are more than likely be gone by 10. We would like to go out and do things.

Fair enough. Im a lazy bugger who thinks 10 sounds pretty early to wake up! I guess sneak a bunch of ham and cheese and stuff or ask your mates to order an omelette then stash it?

Are you very fond of hotel breakfast? You could always just forget it exists as you don't usually eat at that time? But I guess it'd be good to get your money's worth if it's nice.

StaringAtTheWater · 19/06/2026 11:39

I normally fast day to day (well, I skip breakfast and have lunch at 12pm) but I don't worry about it on holiday. Just have a small healthy breakfast with some protein (e.g. yoghurt & fruit; or a boiled egg) with your family in the morning.

relaxitsok · 19/06/2026 11:35

I love fasting, but, as someone currently fallen off the fasting wagon, I understand your desire to protect it!! If you feel you can, I’d do the tea only at breakfast (ideally no milk so you stay in autophagy) and break your fast with lunch at 12ish. That way if you end up eating a bit later too, it’s no biggie.

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 11:34

BillieWiper · 19/06/2026 11:24

Just eat eggs, bacon, mushrooms, yoghurt? Cheese and ham? Surely you can come down to breakfast at 10 if you like? On holiday? Just avoid bread, pastry, potatoes.

I don't think I could handle eating my evening meal at 5.30pm though! Especially in hot weather.

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But we are more than likely be gone by 10. We would like to go out and do things.

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Eddielizzard · 19/06/2026 11:27

If I were you, I'd go down to breakfast as late as possible and eat then. Otherwise skip breakfast entirely and have an early lunch if possible.

oliviaAustin · 19/06/2026 11:25

mindutopia · 19/06/2026 08:26

Life is too short to spend your holiday stressing about not eating til 10am. Does it really matter if you eat a high protein healthy breakfast at 9 instead of 10?

Surely, the bigger problem is dinner. You will have to stop eating at 6pm and no one has dinner before 8pm in Europe. Will you not go out with them? Sit there and eat nothing? Or you could just have a coffee at breakfast and start with your first meal at 12?

Personally, I’d just eat healthily and enjoy your holiday not stressing about food.

This isn’t an issue. DH has a medical condition and can’t eat too late - we’ve always found restaurants across Europe happy to cater to us around 6pm. Even in Italy when we ended up eating with the staff at their staff meal.

harderthanIexpected · 19/06/2026 11:25

So you usually eat two meals a day - late breakfast and early dinner?

If it were me, I would stick to the two meal pattern but shift/extend the fasting window based on having lunch and a later dinner. Say lunch at noon, and then dinner at 7pm.

It's easy to join your family for breakfast and have a cup of coffee, while legitimately saying you're not hungry yet.

CheddarBiscuit · 19/06/2026 11:25

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 11:18

I’m not hungry until about 9:30/10 usually. I have never been the type of person to wake up and eat straight away. The very odd time I might be hungry and when I was pregnant, I was a little hungrier in the morning. Whenever I eat early, I feel really sluggish and horrible for the day and that’s probably because I was also eating the wrong foods for me but the timing has a big impact for me too.

Fair enough, what about skipping breakfast and starting your eating window at noon? You could transition to that over a few weeks. It's the same period to eat and might work better for later dinners?

As I said, I tend to eat like a snake as I like big portions, so it's either big breakfast and dinner on holiday or at home I'll pick through the day and eat a big meal at night, so them I'm notnhungry in the morning - maybe if you adjust in the weeks before you could see if the later breakfast and dinner work for you? When I eat that way, I tend not to be hungry until afternoon as I had a big dinner x

PurpleThistle7 · 19/06/2026 11:24

Kitchenbattle · 19/06/2026 10:21

Yes, normally I can. I just have to avoid all of the gluten products. What things like scrambled egg boiled eggs, meats, cheese salad that will do.

My friend’s husband is super sensitive so things like people bringing toast over and touching it before touching the meat platter would be a problem. And nothing worse than being unwell on holiday! I’d react if someone touches shrimp and then touches the serving tongs and there’s just no control over other people at a buffet. Love a breakfast buffet though as there’s (almost) never any shellfish.

Sounds like you have a solution that works for you now though. Might be worth considering self catering in future though as then you can eat whenever you want.

BillieWiper · 19/06/2026 11:24

Just eat eggs, bacon, mushrooms, yoghurt? Cheese and ham? Surely you can come down to breakfast at 10 if you like? On holiday? Just avoid bread, pastry, potatoes.

I don't think I could handle eating my evening meal at 5.30pm though! Especially in hot weather.

Hmmmmwineandchocs · 19/06/2026 11:21

I try and do 16:8 too most days but i stop when on holiday