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Aibu - dont want to clean up diarrhea.

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Sugargliderwombat · 18/06/2026 11:24

I am absolutely LIVID my disgusting partner has caught our children's stomach bug and so far this morning i have found:

Diarrhea around the toilet bowl and underside of toilet seat.

Shitty pants on the floor of the bathroom (same distance from toilet as the bin).

Shit stains in the bed.

He has gone to work. Yes, I know.

My aibu is that unless bedbound you are NEVER too ill to clean up your own shit. I have never, ever been too ill.

To avoid a dripfeed YES he has done this before. Vomited all over toilet seat and floor and said was too ill to clean it up. Again I was furious. If you got out of bed to vomit you can quickly spray and wipe it.

OP posts:
tealandteal · 18/06/2026 11:27

Why is he your partner?! Even when I was in labour I was able to get to the toilet to throw up. I would. It put up with his attitude and how little he respects you.

hugasaurus · 18/06/2026 11:26

Dirty bastard. As you say, even when I had Noro, I cleaned everything up. It’s a health hazard to everyone else for a start.

Lomonald · 18/06/2026 11:26

I mean not to furious to stay with this disgusting man !

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