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To be pissed off I never get decent reading glasses.

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drakesqueen · 17/06/2026 17:56

I first had glasses for work in 2018 when I was 46. Got on fine with them.
Went back to Specsavers 2 years later and was retested and given a pair that made me feel so swimmy and travel sick I went back to the 2018 pair. Same again in 2023, had another pair - ok when I’m looking in one direction to read but as soon as I move my gaze everything is blurred and swims. I use two monitors in work so am constantly switching my gaze so I feel sick a few minutes after using them. The edges of the glasses feel as though they are way too strong. I’ve just picked up my latest pairs and again they are horrendous as soon as I move my head or switch gaze to something else. Lovely and clear up close to read but for computer work and moving head back and fore they are awful.
Is this to be expected? Should I persevere even though it makes me feel travel sick? I also got given a pair for distance which are better but still a bit swimmy.
I also have a convergent squint which may be making it worse as I do tend to switch from eye to eye to focus.
Also, glasses are always wonky on me as I’m sure I have one ear lower than the other. Is there anything I can put on the arm to even them up. So annoying, spent best part of £200 to find they’ll be hopeless again.

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DoAWheelie · 19/06/2026 12:22

Swap to a local independant if you can. I never got decent glasses from chains, but I've had great service from independants and always like the new glasses I get there.

I'm deaf so they take the time to do my exams manually instead of using the machine (I can't lip-read instructions with it blocking her face). And when my late OH smashed his reading glasses falling face first into a table, they repaired the frames for free despite him not even being their customer.

sunshinehappydays · 19/06/2026 12:09

I know this isn’t what you asked but have you tried contacts? I’ve never really got on with glasses. They really annoy me on my face and I hate seeing them out of my peripheral vision. I switched to monovision contacts during covid when we had to wear masks to work and my glasses steamed up. One eye is my reading and the other has a tiny prescription for distance. You get used to them very quickly. I’m hoping I never need to wear glasses!

purplecorkheart · 19/06/2026 11:58

Do a bit of research and go to a local Independent one rather than a chain. I changed from an to an Independent one from SS a number of years ago and it was the best thing that I ever did. I see the same person everytime and the first time I went to her she told me things about my eyes that ss never did. It allowed me make more informed choices regarding lens etc.

Darkmodelarry · 19/06/2026 11:53

I’d keep going back until I was happy with vision and fit.

that said - I wear Specsavers vari’s and I blooming love them. Put them in first thing in morning - take off at bedtime and perfect vision all day no matter what I’m doing.

worth every penny for me.

NovemberMorn · 19/06/2026 11:50

AnonyMumAuDHD · 19/06/2026 05:20

This is my experience too - its varifocals with the adjustment for what they have deemed I need for rmiddle distance. I just want glasses where I can read a book or device when I look down but when I look up I can see the road/tv as normal un ‘corrected. My long distance vision is fine but they’ve done something for middle distance that I don’t need. Two different opticians have done the same. I’ve given up. Have small cheap reading glasses from amazon that I perch on my nose to read, but can ‘see over’ the rims to watch tv or drive.

Mine are not even varifocals, and they still cant get it right.
I have been back twice with reading glasses....I can read fine with them, but the right lens distorts straight lines, so if I am crafting, which I do a lot, I can nevr cut a straight line when I am wearing them....I am resorting to wearing 10 year old glasses, which is ridiculous.
First time I took them back they said 'Bear with it', second time they altered the way they sit on my nose....third time they will adress the fact that the boody lenses are just not suitable for my eyes.

trendtrend · 19/06/2026 07:13

drakesqueen · 17/06/2026 17:56

I first had glasses for work in 2018 when I was 46. Got on fine with them.
Went back to Specsavers 2 years later and was retested and given a pair that made me feel so swimmy and travel sick I went back to the 2018 pair. Same again in 2023, had another pair - ok when I’m looking in one direction to read but as soon as I move my gaze everything is blurred and swims. I use two monitors in work so am constantly switching my gaze so I feel sick a few minutes after using them. The edges of the glasses feel as though they are way too strong. I’ve just picked up my latest pairs and again they are horrendous as soon as I move my head or switch gaze to something else. Lovely and clear up close to read but for computer work and moving head back and fore they are awful.
Is this to be expected? Should I persevere even though it makes me feel travel sick? I also got given a pair for distance which are better but still a bit swimmy.
I also have a convergent squint which may be making it worse as I do tend to switch from eye to eye to focus.
Also, glasses are always wonky on me as I’m sure I have one ear lower than the other. Is there anything I can put on the arm to even them up. So annoying, spent best part of £200 to find they’ll be hopeless again.

i would suggest going to an eye clinic optometrist. I have a convergent squint and it’s taken a bit of a trial and error for me to find glasses that don’t give me a headache / motion sickness feeling but we have managed it. I’ve found that if you have a prescription that is too strong for the distance you’re looking it can make things worse (e.g. I can’t wear my long distance glasses to look close up)

chutneypig · 19/06/2026 07:10

I’ve been shortsighted since I was a child and have had varifocals from Specsavers for the last few years. Despite mentioning issues seeing my monitors they don’t seem to take account of that in the test or prescription.

My work provides a voucher towards VDU glasses so I ended up at a different optician who did a very through assessment. Like PPs I swap between depending what I’m doing.

AnonyMumAuDHD · 19/06/2026 05:20

NovemberMorn · 17/06/2026 18:18

You are not alone.
Both Boots and Specsavers have prescribed glasses, both reading and distance that have not been good.
I got a refund from Boots....after insisting and standing my ground.
Been back to SS a couple of times with my new reading glasses, still not happy.

This is my experience too - its varifocals with the adjustment for what they have deemed I need for rmiddle distance. I just want glasses where I can read a book or device when I look down but when I look up I can see the road/tv as normal un ‘corrected. My long distance vision is fine but they’ve done something for middle distance that I don’t need. Two different opticians have done the same. I’ve given up. Have small cheap reading glasses from amazon that I perch on my nose to read, but can ‘see over’ the rims to watch tv or drive.

GobletOfIre · 19/06/2026 04:14

I told Specsavers I specifically wanted glasses for using a screen and what I got was reading glasses. I complained as I couldn’t work while wearing them and they redid them.

i was furious as they had simply ignored what I’d asked for originally. So do go back and complain- glasses are not cheap.

helpfulperson · 18/06/2026 21:47

Gonk123 · 17/06/2026 20:07

Just go to Poundland and get a few pairs for a couple of quid each. You’ll know which ones are right when you can read through them!

This. I use different strength ones for reading and computer work and also find when my distance sight worsens I need to change my reading glasses strength until I get my new contact lens. I have a selection and just change them until I find the ones that work for what I am doing.

Happytaytos · 17/06/2026 21:28

Try a independent or scrivens first. They're better than specsavers ime. Specsavers told me my vision was fine and it wasn't.

Independent prescribed prisms and a small +0.5 each side and my headaches have gone.

Loulou4022 · 17/06/2026 21:25

Check out your local independents. Specsavers are crap! I’ve always used a lovely little independent opticians and never had problems, my best friend used specsavers and boots and was never happy with her glasses so I suggested she visits mine and she’s been over the moon. They most likely a little bit more expensive and you don’t get 2 frames for the price of 1 or any of those offers but a much more personal service.

RandomMess · 17/06/2026 20:55

I use 2 monitors and can’t use my varifocals for them, my work is excel intensive hence the separate VDU glasses.

PutThatDownNow · 17/06/2026 20:34

I have had success with what Vision Express call 'office glasses'. Allow me to read, use monitor and see clearly for a few metres. Beyond that they are still effective enough that I forget which glasses I am wearing and wander around with them. I have varifocals now for general wear but still prefer office glasses for work.

Gonk123 · 17/06/2026 20:07

Just go to Poundland and get a few pairs for a couple of quid each. You’ll know which ones are right when you can read through them!

TowerRavenSeven · 17/06/2026 20:06

The only thing that works for me is to wear my cheap Poundland readers Over my glasses (on top). Looks ridiculous but it works!

Bristolandlazy · 17/06/2026 19:34

Specsavers offer a money back/change your mind guarantee. My daughter bought glasses, kept them for a week then decided the frames were too heavy, took them back with her receipt and got a refund, no hassle. Take them back.

theleftsuitcase · 17/06/2026 19:26

My glasses from an independent optician are also rubbish. Expensive rubbish. The first pair of varifocals were ok after several visits, standing my ground and having the lenses remade. The new pair (optimism over experience…) are hopeless and I’ve gone back to the originals, even though apparently my prescription has changed. I’ll be trying a supermarket next time. At least they’ll be cheaper.

Gardeningsideeffects · 17/06/2026 19:05

Op, if they are wonky, take them back. They can heat the arms and centre of the glasses to make them fit

I even have to have my Ray-bans adjusted or they hurt one ear. Vision express will always adjust glasses. And they keep going until they are perfect.

All my glasses have a right arm that sits a cm off the table if I rest them down on a desk. Because my right ear is higher than my left and has a ridge on it.

Unforgettablefire · 17/06/2026 18:44

whattheysay · 17/06/2026 18:31

Sounds like you need varifocals.
But I don’t think specsavers are that great. The last time I went in there my reading glasses were getting too weak, the gave me a prescription I knew would be too weak she said it was for looking the a screen but that wasn’t my isssue it was reading and seeing my phone. I didn’t get the prescription and went to b&m and tried on the reading glasses on the rack and chose ones that I could see best with. I’ve done that ever since. I don’t really have a problem with long distance

I got mine at boots and couldn’t get used to them plus they were too tight. I told the guy these are tight he said oh they look fine to me. They weren’t they were so tight they hurt.
B&M cheapies work for me I find them great.

Buscobel · 17/06/2026 18:39

I went to an independent optician for many years and never had a problem with prescribed glasses. Then we moved so had to find someone new. Have tried several branches of Specsavers, Boots and two independents. One of the independents was good, but the prices were very high.

l had cataracts removed and so the prescription is very different. I still can’t find anyone who gets it right.

bumblefeline · 17/06/2026 18:32

You need pair for VDU or a decent braded occupational varifocal might help.

whattheysay · 17/06/2026 18:31

Sounds like you need varifocals.
But I don’t think specsavers are that great. The last time I went in there my reading glasses were getting too weak, the gave me a prescription I knew would be too weak she said it was for looking the a screen but that wasn’t my isssue it was reading and seeing my phone. I didn’t get the prescription and went to b&m and tried on the reading glasses on the rack and chose ones that I could see best with. I’ve done that ever since. I don’t really have a problem with long distance

Glittertwins · 17/06/2026 18:31

I have two pairs of varifocals. One pair is for non screen work/every day stuff and the other specifically for screens although I frequently do forget to swap. The screen ones have a bigger “closeup” section of the lens. I can see the screens properly, my phone screen underneath as I discovered today but the focus further across the office is not so sharp. But I was asked about this by the optician first - I don’t need to see that clearly across the office, it’s good enough, the main focus is the multiple screens on the desk.

RandomMess · 17/06/2026 18:27

No your reading distance and VDU distance are different requirements. The monitors will be too far away for reading glasses.

If you are employed and do lots of VDU work then work should be paying for your eye test and some VDU specific glasses.

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