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AIBU to ask if shoplifting has effectively been decriminalised?

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IsawwhatIsaw · 17/06/2026 16:45

I know there have been previous threads about shoplifting.
here’s another one, as I just heard our small local supermarket lost around 50 bottles of wine in a few minutes the other night.
apparently 3 men came in with big bags and set about clearing the wine shelves. Then casually walked out.
This shop has continuous shoplifting but not usually on this scale. Think more sweets, sandwiches, meat.
And there are very few staff in there now because of self service tills . Maybe the supermarket feels slashing staff numbers still works out cheaper the man stopping any theft deterrent .
so my Aibu is to ask whether shoplifting has been effectively decriminalized.

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TY78910 · 03/07/2026 12:01

Tink3rbell30 · 17/06/2026 17:47

Yes you can pretty much do what you like. Taking away checkouts for scan & go for example.. easiest thing ever to steal a load when using that. Not to mention the amount of shops with no security or staff that don't care (don't really blame them).

Of course we care. But we care more about our own lives. These people are either part of organised crime, or junkies. Nobody wants to get hurt. The employers also don’t want a news story out there where an employee gets shoved and smacks their head on the floor, or gets stabbed - some PR that is.

It’s not decriminalised, it’s just too hard to police. Over 10 years in retail and there is nothing you can do. By the time you got your phone out of your pocket to dial 999 they’re gone.

littlemousebigcheese · 03/07/2026 11:56

You have to scan a receipt but if you’ve only paid for 5/10 things in your bag it won’t recognise that! Someone could walk in, steal a bags worth, pay for one banana and get out?!

MrCollinsandhisboiledpotatoes · 03/07/2026 10:32

AmIEnough · 02/07/2026 08:11

In Lidl‘s in Europe, you have to scan your receipt in order to open the gate to let you out of the store. Maybe we should adopt that practice although I know it would be very expensive to install them everywhere.

They have that in my Lidl in England. So maybe it will eventually be rolled out here

OonaStubbs · 02/07/2026 08:22

AmIEnough · 02/07/2026 08:11

In Lidl‘s in Europe, you have to scan your receipt in order to open the gate to let you out of the store. Maybe we should adopt that practice although I know it would be very expensive to install them everywhere.

They do that at Sainsburys. It should be universal in all supermarkets.

Shoplifters are quite literally the scum of the earth and they need to be stopped.

AmIEnough · 02/07/2026 08:11

In Lidl‘s in Europe, you have to scan your receipt in order to open the gate to let you out of the store. Maybe we should adopt that practice although I know it would be very expensive to install them everywhere.

QuaintBeaker · 21/06/2026 18:29

Secretseverywhere · 21/06/2026 18:26

How much stuff does a person have to steal in order to become a prolific shoplifter worthy of a custodial sentence though? I had a Google and most of the shoplifters who were sent to prison seemed to have stolen in excess of £10k. Not in one go but over multiple visits and they convict with cctv. It’s such a lot of money for shops to lose.

Well, this person is unlikely to have accrued that much, but they are a repeat offender with a heroin habit who was given a suspended sentence last time which they immediately broke.
Im confident they aren't going to engage with anything probation can offer in the community and they've refused the option of a residential rehab as an alternative to prison so...

Secretseverywhere · 21/06/2026 18:26

QuaintBeaker · 21/06/2026 12:06

I've just written a pre-sentence report for a prolific shoplifter, recommending custody.

So no. It has not been decriminalised

How much stuff does a person have to steal in order to become a prolific shoplifter worthy of a custodial sentence though? I had a Google and most of the shoplifters who were sent to prison seemed to have stolen in excess of £10k. Not in one go but over multiple visits and they convict with cctv. It’s such a lot of money for shops to lose.

QuaintBeaker · 21/06/2026 12:06

IsawwhatIsaw · 17/06/2026 16:45

I know there have been previous threads about shoplifting.
here’s another one, as I just heard our small local supermarket lost around 50 bottles of wine in a few minutes the other night.
apparently 3 men came in with big bags and set about clearing the wine shelves. Then casually walked out.
This shop has continuous shoplifting but not usually on this scale. Think more sweets, sandwiches, meat.
And there are very few staff in there now because of self service tills . Maybe the supermarket feels slashing staff numbers still works out cheaper the man stopping any theft deterrent .
so my Aibu is to ask whether shoplifting has been effectively decriminalized.

I've just written a pre-sentence report for a prolific shoplifter, recommending custody.

So no. It has not been decriminalised

Persephonia1966 · 21/06/2026 12:04

OonaStubbs · 21/06/2026 11:54

Build more prisons.

If people knew they would definitely get jail time if caught, there would be a lot less shoplifting.

Not automatically...
If you think there are two types of people who shoplift:

  1. Junkies/career criminals - either as individuals or as part of criminal gangs
  2. People you wouldn't expect. E.g. the parents posting on Facebook someone else mentioned earlier. Either they are doing it out of need or, often, for the thrill. I would also put teenagers in this category

The first category don't care about going to prison. They are often junkies, their lives aren't great and they aren't really planning ahead. Prison could in theory help people like that but it's as rehabilitation not deterrence and short sentences don't do that. Especially not done as punishment.
The second category are often functioning from a misunderstanding of risk. I posted about it upthread but basically if you get away with something once (say there is a 20%chance of it going wrong) you downgrade the risk in your head. So the next time you assume a 10% risk, then a 5% risk. This is not how risk/probability works but it's how humans perceived it. So those people will keep going until they get caught and it all goes wrong for them. Higher sentences won't work because the longer you shoplift the less you think it will happen to you.

I'm not against prison sentences for shoplifting/theft in general. But "increase the deterrence" isn't really a proven way to discourage people. Catching people earlier in their shoplifting career is likely more effective. For junkies, addiction treatment, for teenagers third spaces, youth clubs etc reduces the people in the offending category.

OonaStubbs · 21/06/2026 12:02

Get rid of all the luxuries in prison. No free playstations etc. Just bare concrete cells. And make the prisoners work for their keep. There's no need for prisons to be so expensive to run.

MrCollinsandhisboiledpotatoes · 21/06/2026 11:55

OonaStubbs · 21/06/2026 11:54

Build more prisons.

If people knew they would definitely get jail time if caught, there would be a lot less shoplifting.

The country cannot afford to build more prisons and it definitely cannot afford to incarcerate every single shoplifter. Do you know how much it's costs to keep someone in prison?

OonaStubbs · 21/06/2026 11:54

Build more prisons.

If people knew they would definitely get jail time if caught, there would be a lot less shoplifting.

MrCollinsandhisboiledpotatoes · 21/06/2026 11:54

The odd thing is - carrier bags, (which cost, what is it now? 40p each or something?) seem to be the hardest thing to steal.

Staff will pin those to their bodies, jump in front of you to scan them for you, guard the things like bloody rottweilers and question you when you ask to buy them.

Everything else you can buy in the supermarket, the bread, the milk, the champagne, all seems to be a free-for -all. But do not even look at our 40p bags, you thieves 🤣

Secretseverywhere · 21/06/2026 09:04

OonaStubbs · 19/06/2026 20:49

They need to give harsh sentences to all shoplifters, no matter how little they have stolen. Even for a grape or a carrier bag they haven't paid for. Throw the book at them and lock them up.

I get the sentiment but I can’t even begin to imagine how unpractical it would be. It costs £40k a year to incarcerate someone plus the cost of prosecuting a person. Prisons are already full to brim, where would we stick tens of thousands of thieves?

Sartre · 21/06/2026 07:05

It’s probably still more difficult in stores with a security guard but in Aldi/lidl I bet it’s fairly easy unless they have a staff member willing to chase them.

The police don’t do much. It was the case years ago when I was a student even. I worked in Greggs for a bit and people would walk in and steal the boxes of donuts from the middle table or sandwiches from the fridge, police weren’t interested.

Serencwtch · 21/06/2026 07:03

Ohmygawdflippingheck · 19/06/2026 16:19

I'm going to need a hefty pay rise to start rugby tackling shop lifters 😂 we dont tend to trap them in the shop in case they become agressive (we can actually control the doors from the till) not sure how advising on purchases would stop people stealing? Should I ask them what they're having for dinner so they can steal the most appropriate wine?

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You would be surprised at how effective that is!

It's known as 'charm & disarm' and prevents appx 40% of thefts.

The organized gangs hate interacting with shop staff & won't target shops where staff are attentive. An interaction eg 'i really like that sirloin steak too, would you like a wine recommendation' to someone you have seen stuffing steak into a bag of far more likely to result in them abandoning the item then a confrontation at the door with physical intervention - that just provokes violence & risks injury.

It actually works best on the most prolific organized retail crime gangs.

FunMustard · 19/06/2026 22:00

On the flip side, you could have situations in America where the police are allowed to kill you if they suspect you of shoplifting. As happened to a 1 year old baby this week, who was shot in his mother's car, as she was suspected of stealing one pack of nappies from Walmart.

LadyVioletBridgerton · 19/06/2026 21:22

I thought under £200 they couldn’t do anything about it. Plus anyway, if I was a security guard on minimum wage, I’m not going to risk getting stabbed because someone’s stolen a six pack and a loaf of bread. Not worth it 🤷‍♀️

OonaStubbs · 19/06/2026 20:49

They need to give harsh sentences to all shoplifters, no matter how little they have stolen. Even for a grape or a carrier bag they haven't paid for. Throw the book at them and lock them up.

Persephonia1966 · 19/06/2026 20:04

XenoBitch · 19/06/2026 19:06

I suspect they don't get reported as nothing gets done anyway.
There is no deterent.

Some of those prosecuted will be repeat offenders. So 500,000 incidents is not 500,000 individuals (and therefore 450,000 getting away with it). One person on a bit of a spree could easily rob from 10 places over a weekend. The first few places record their faces and report. By place number 10 the police/security guard either nab them in the act, or identify them and arrest them at home/wherever. If it goes to court that's likely one prosecution, 10 reported incidents.
The above is a description of the system working perfectly,.exactly as you would want. I'm not saying it does work like that. My point is even in a perfect system you would expect a difference between individual incidents and people procedures. So the discrepancy alone isn't a sign of the system failing.

XenoBitch · 19/06/2026 19:06

IsawwhatIsaw · 19/06/2026 18:44

@SwirlyGates i agree there are unlikely to be consequences. Someone upthread mentioned there are 50,000 shoplifter prosecutions a year.
But a quick check online showed more than 500,000 cases reported last year alone. And How many not reported?
So statistically thieves are unlikely to be prosecuted and if they are, deterrents seem derisory.

I suspect they don't get reported as nothing gets done anyway.
There is no deterent.

IsawwhatIsaw · 19/06/2026 18:44

@SwirlyGates i agree there are unlikely to be consequences. Someone upthread mentioned there are 50,000 shoplifter prosecutions a year.
But a quick check online showed more than 500,000 cases reported last year alone. And How many not reported?
So statistically thieves are unlikely to be prosecuted and if they are, deterrents seem derisory.

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MrCollinsandhisboiledpotatoes · 19/06/2026 17:25

Persephonia1966 · 19/06/2026 15:41

That's not a new phenomenon at all. (Though I think posting about it on Facebook is a bit mad.) But shoplifting can be addictive because it gives a thrill of doing something illicit (especially if one normally lives a staid boring life) and doesn't always have immediate consequences. There's a phenomenon around how we think about risk which is that if the bad thing doesn't happen the first time (getting caught) you degrade the risk in your head the next time and the next time even more etc. (This also relates to parents travelling without putting their kid in a car seat BTW. If someone does it once they are way more likely to fall into a pattern that only ends when something bad does happen). Of course, the problem is they will keep doing it until caught and, particularly if they do live a normal upstanding life, they can then fuck things up for themselves. Moreso than a junky fucks his/her life up through shoplifting.

Winona Ryder for example shoplifted for the thrill not the money. And that was years ago.

Yes I agree, this makes total sense.

Peoples posting style on Facebook is becoming more and more daring as the ability to post anonymously is now an option in most groups.

They are bolder when people can't see their names.
..and meaner. Bit like mumsnet.

Ohmygawdflippingheck · 19/06/2026 16:19

Level1469 · 18/06/2026 19:07

Gates to block exit without receipts, making doors smaller/only opening certain doors, not keeping expensive stock out front or on display, employing shop assistants to be actual shop assistants and advise on purchases instead of actively encouraging the free-for-all we have now.

I'm going to need a hefty pay rise to start rugby tackling shop lifters 😂 we dont tend to trap them in the shop in case they become agressive (we can actually control the doors from the till) not sure how advising on purchases would stop people stealing? Should I ask them what they're having for dinner so they can steal the most appropriate wine?

Persephonia1966 · 19/06/2026 15:43

And it's always been "easy" to shoplift small things in particular. As I said though, the risks of getting caught and the consequences go up even as the person shoplifting perceptions of the risks and consequences decreases. This is a known thing, it's not unique to Broken Britain.