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AIBU to think a Russian ship firing in home waters matters?

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Gizzaeycon · 17/06/2026 09:01

Shouldn’t we all be making a bit more fuss about the fact that a Russian ship fired at a British boat in home waters? That’s a very serious thing to happen, right?

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Gizzaeycon · 19/06/2026 09:38

PissedOffAutistic · 19/06/2026 08:53

I was an infrequent leisure sailor and yes I've seen the navy handle yachts that were pissing about in a dangerous manner - the Russian warship's actions do not strike me as worrying or indeed excessive

So did the navy handle these yachts with gun fire? Genuinely curious.

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randomchap · 19/06/2026 09:24

BlueSherbet · 19/06/2026 09:22

I accept I was wrong about the waters part, although to be fair I was referring to the english channel / our backyard, rather than making precise statements about demarcation lines.

All the best!

But then you asked why didn't they use their siren or flares when all the media reports said that they had. Are you just reading headlines and making the rest of it up in your head?

BlueSherbet · 19/06/2026 09:24

randomchap · 19/06/2026 09:20

You got your facts wrong, then doubled down on them.

Forgot to say - I would have been more amenable to correction, had you simply pointed out my error, rather than attacked me over "bullshit".

But we live and lean! have a nice day!

BlueSherbet · 19/06/2026 09:22

randomchap · 19/06/2026 09:20

You got your facts wrong, then doubled down on them.

I accept I was wrong about the waters part, although to be fair I was referring to the english channel / our backyard, rather than making precise statements about demarcation lines.

All the best!

NotAnotherScarf · 19/06/2026 09:21

Just to add this was in international waters in the busiest shipping lanes of the world

NotAnotherScarf · 19/06/2026 09:20

BlueSherbet · 19/06/2026 09:05

Yes they could have used their radio, a flare or siren to warn the yacht.

Or they could have sent their organic helicopter unit to warn it off.

But instead they chose to fire weapons in our territorial waters....to prove that they could do so without consequence.

The Russians did all that. The couple confirm they heard the 5 warning blasts and moved "2 degrees port" . Now anyone who doesn't know how to navigate, change that into a clock face and the prats moved from dead on 12 o'clock to 20 seconds to 12 o'clock!

So yeah the Russians or any other navy in the world would have noticed " we clearly changed course " .

Allowing for an error at it was actually 20 degrees that's just over 4 minutes to twelve!

Remember to drive on the road you need a driving licence. To sail nothing. These people might have been sailing for years but they were bloody stupid.

Anyone who goes on about right of ways etc think about this ... I am cycling, just a head a lorry turns left across my path. I steer around it and I am OK, a little annoyed, but OK. I carry on because it's my right of way and I am dead...I am turning those handlebars

randomchap · 19/06/2026 09:20

BlueSherbet · 19/06/2026 09:12

Well thats a lovely, heart warming point to end our discussion on then.

The points I made were fully robust, splitting hairs over a facetious joke doesn't change that.

You got your facts wrong, then doubled down on them.

sittingonabeach · 19/06/2026 09:19

@BlueSherbet I thought they used flares after the sirens.

BlueSherbet · 19/06/2026 09:15

grumpygrape · 19/06/2026 09:14

They tried the radio, the yacht didn’t respond.

They used their siren, the yacht changed course by two degrees which is so small it would not have registered.

The Russians then fired into the air, not at the yacht, and the yacht finally turned.

This was not in our territorial waters.

Happy to help.

So they didnt try a flare or their helicopter?

Both much less provocative options that firing weapons.

grumpygrape · 19/06/2026 09:14

BlueSherbet · 19/06/2026 09:05

Yes they could have used their radio, a flare or siren to warn the yacht.

Or they could have sent their organic helicopter unit to warn it off.

But instead they chose to fire weapons in our territorial waters....to prove that they could do so without consequence.

They tried the radio, the yacht didn’t respond.

They used their siren, the yacht changed course by two degrees which is so small it would not have registered.

The Russians then fired into the air, not at the yacht, and the yacht finally turned.

This was not in our territorial waters.

Happy to help.

BlueSherbet · 19/06/2026 09:12

randomchap · 19/06/2026 09:08

It was in international waters. Not English or French. And the Navy does shadow Russian warships through the channel routinely

Thanks for calling me a Silly Billy. My nan used to call me that and you just brought back some lovely memories

Well thats a lovely, heart warming point to end our discussion on then.

The points I made were fully robust, splitting hairs over a facetious joke doesn't change that.

randomchap · 19/06/2026 09:08

BlueSherbet · 19/06/2026 09:03

Oh grow up, I was making a joke with the "rowing boat" as would have been obvious to anyone who was not an utter clown.

And sorry to say, the part of the english channel where this happened is UK terroritial waters. Why would a UK ship be shadowing anything in French waters? Silly billy.

Maybe sit this one out and leave it to people who know what they are talking about 😉

It was in international waters. Not English or French. And the Navy does shadow Russian warships through the channel routinely

Thanks for calling me a Silly Billy. My nan used to call me that and you just brought back some lovely memories

ourSusie · 19/06/2026 09:08

ourSusie · 19/06/2026 08:55

The Kelvey couple, interviewed in Dieppe, Mrs Kelvey as spokesperson,
declared that they had been sailing for 16 years, were on their way to France
and “it was our right of way” - so there you have it -
the Frigate would have been warning them as the Kelvey’s didn’t give way
and were on a collision course.

Someone ask the Kelvey couple if on a motorway they steadily stay in the
middle lane doing 68mph.

Vilifying the Captain/crew of a Frigate in International Waters sounding an alarm
to a smaller more vulnerable yacht was more a concerned courtesy than an act
of aggression.

They could be related to the pig headed couple captured by pirates off the coast
of Somalia, sure they would be safe and unmolested, heedless of all advice to the contrary.

Older people have slower responses, can be hearing impaired without even knowing,
bloodymindedness is not confined to an age group (two year olds can do it)

Cherbourg, not Dieppe. Accuracy matters.

BlueSherbet · 19/06/2026 09:05

PissedOffAutistic · 19/06/2026 08:48

BS. Was the warship supposed to sit quiet and let the yacht crash into it and the yacht's crew potentially drown? If you are a big ship in a busy and dangerous shipping lane it is absolutely your responsibility to warn more vulnerable vessels not to endanger themselves by getting too close.

Yes they could have used their radio, a flare or siren to warn the yacht.

Or they could have sent their organic helicopter unit to warn it off.

But instead they chose to fire weapons in our territorial waters....to prove that they could do so without consequence.

BlueSherbet · 19/06/2026 09:03

randomchap · 19/06/2026 08:37

So not home waters, nor a rowing boat then. Thanks for correcting your previous bullshit

Oh grow up, I was making a joke with the "rowing boat" as would have been obvious to anyone who was not an utter clown.

And sorry to say, the part of the english channel where this happened is UK terroritial waters. Why would a UK ship be shadowing anything in French waters? Silly billy.

Maybe sit this one out and leave it to people who know what they are talking about 😉

ourSusie · 19/06/2026 08:55

The Kelvey couple, interviewed in Dieppe, Mrs Kelvey as spokesperson,
declared that they had been sailing for 16 years, were on their way to France
and “it was our right of way” - so there you have it -
the Frigate would have been warning them as the Kelvey’s didn’t give way
and were on a collision course.

Someone ask the Kelvey couple if on a motorway they steadily stay in the
middle lane doing 68mph.

Vilifying the Captain/crew of a Frigate in International Waters sounding an alarm
to a smaller more vulnerable yacht was more a concerned courtesy than an act
of aggression.

They could be related to the pig headed couple captured by pirates off the coast
of Somalia, sure they would be safe and unmolested, heedless of all advice to the contrary.

Older people have slower responses, can be hearing impaired without even knowing,
bloodymindedness is not confined to an age group (two year olds can do it)

PissedOffAutistic · 19/06/2026 08:53

Gizzaeycon · 18/06/2026 23:18

But what happened is still unusual.
I mean, while you were serving for a lengthy time in the Royal Navy how many times did your ship give or receive warning shots across the bow?

I was an infrequent leisure sailor and yes I've seen the navy handle yachts that were pissing about in a dangerous manner - the Russian warship's actions do not strike me as worrying or indeed excessive

PissedOffAutistic · 19/06/2026 08:48

BlueSherbet · 18/06/2026 22:29

Yes it absolutely matters.

The Russians knew, of course, that the yacht was no threat to them - they were just taking the opportunity to humiliate the UK and demonstrate the impotence of the Royal Navy.

Instead of an actual warship, we had some feeble rowing boat or similar shadowing the Russian vessel. It wisely didnt intervene at the warning shots, if it had, it would have been sunk quick sharp.

So, even the Royal Navy know they are completely impotent and the Russians can dominate our home waters.

This is what happens when you neglect defence to fund a benefit-junkie nation.

BS. Was the warship supposed to sit quiet and let the yacht crash into it and the yacht's crew potentially drown? If you are a big ship in a busy and dangerous shipping lane it is absolutely your responsibility to warn more vulnerable vessels not to endanger themselves by getting too close.

randomchap · 19/06/2026 08:37

BlueSherbet · 19/06/2026 08:25

Its a small craft suited for intercepting people smugglers or drug shipments.

It is wholly unsuited to confronting a russian frigate, which comprehensively outmatches it in both size and arnament.

Yes, it can shadow a frigate, but could never confront it - as it showed when it failed to confront the russians after firing shots - and so whats the point of shadowing it at all?

Its only to keep up a threadbare pretence of a functioning navy.

The russians fired the warning shots purely to demonstrate that their shadow could or would do nothing in response.

It was in the English Channel this happened.

So not home waters, nor a rowing boat then. Thanks for correcting your previous bullshit

notimagain · 19/06/2026 08:32

The russians fired the warning shots purely to demonstrate that their shadow could or would do nothing in response.
It was in the English Channel this happened.

Given it appears the Russian vessel was in international waters I'm still not sure what people think the Royal Navy should have done.

BlueSherbet · 19/06/2026 08:25

randomchap · 18/06/2026 23:09

What you call a feeble rowing boat is a River class offshore patrol boat. Plenty big enough for shadowing.

Good luck rowing something this size

https://www.royalnavy.mod.uk/equipment/ships/river-class

Also not home waters

Its a small craft suited for intercepting people smugglers or drug shipments.

It is wholly unsuited to confronting a russian frigate, which comprehensively outmatches it in both size and arnament.

Yes, it can shadow a frigate, but could never confront it - as it showed when it failed to confront the russians after firing shots - and so whats the point of shadowing it at all?

Its only to keep up a threadbare pretence of a functioning navy.

The russians fired the warning shots purely to demonstrate that their shadow could or would do nothing in response.

It was in the English Channel this happened.

ZippyPlumReader · 18/06/2026 23:51

Gizzaeycon · 18/06/2026 23:18

But what happened is still unusual.
I mean, while you were serving for a lengthy time in the Royal Navy how many times did your ship give or receive warning shots across the bow?

I agree it appears unusual to the general public especially when whipped up by the media however from a military perspective i understand what has happened which is why I spelled it out as it is a standard kind of escalation procedure. They felt threatened for some reason as are on operations related to their shadow fleet (I presume) and scared the encroaching yacht away but then there was no further action from them when the yacht finally took the hint. You have to also place this in the context that Ukraine have been driving small drone boats into their fleet packed with explosives. Warships set up an exclusion zone around them which they will defend when on operations.

IlikebigboatsandIcannotlie · 18/06/2026 23:33

Tabarnak · 18/06/2026 23:28

Due to age?

I've just skim read the thread and I can only see two references to their age?

They are the same age as my parents who still sail regularly, there's no ageism from me just total shock at the number of poor decisions it took for them to end up in that situation

Tabarnak · 18/06/2026 23:29

Why was the Russian ship drifting?

Tabarnak · 18/06/2026 23:28

IlikebigboatsandIcannotlie · 18/06/2026 23:27

a) the fact they got so close to the ship
b) the fact they didn't clearly and decisively alter course
c) the fact they were communicating on the radio

Due to age?