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AIBU to think claiming two state pensions seems unethical?

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CoffeeAndCats3 · 16/06/2026 22:16

I wrote about this on another thread, but thought I'd start my own as it irks me and I'm wondering if IABU.

My parents emigrated from the UK in their early/mid thirties and have never lived in the UK since. They are now late 60's. My Mum told me recently that both her and my Dad are claiming a full UK pension, in addition to a full pension in the country them emigrated to. They don't need this money, but she seemed quite smug about how they can 'double dip' and live the Life of Riley while sitting on a load of money, rental properties etc. I told her it seemed a bit unethical to me, but she didn't understand my viewpoint at all.

How is this possible? She said that they only had to pay their (national insurance?) for a period of time after moving, to then be eligible for the full UK pension on retirement? Can someone explain to me if this is correct, as I half think they've scammed the UK system somehow!

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RafaFan · 17/06/2026 00:24

It doesn't increase annually if you're not resident in the UK - it stays at the amount you were entitled to when you first start drawing it and never changes. So there's that...

Mumtobabyhavoc · 17/06/2026 00:23

Oops. Wrong thread.

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · 17/06/2026 00:21

XenoBitch · 17/06/2026 00:18

According to your own personal ethics, not theirs.

I’d like to hear anyone justify how it’s fair to live here for only 5 years, pay a few hundred quid in for another 5 years and then take over £12k every year for (usually) decades. I don’t think anyone would be able to argue it’s ethical, even though it’s legal.

CotswoldsCamilla · 17/06/2026 00:20

Pickledonion1999 · 16/06/2026 23:45

In my last job I saw people who had lived abroad most of the lives but were Uk citizens and came back with nothing at retirement age and got full pension credit, housing benefit etc despite not living here for years or contributing anything.

There was an interesting documentary I watched about border force a few years back where an elderly woman with dementia (one parent had been British) hadn’t ever set foot in the UK. She lived in either South Africa or US with her offspring. She was getting too expensive in terms of healthcare and knowing that the UK has a “free healthcare at point of use for everyone” (more or less), they flew to the UK and dropped her off and went back to SA/US. Was particularly cruel of her family but I did think at the time how much that one woman would cost the state, a woman who had never been here or paid in anything before, set up with housing, welfare and healthcare. I suspect is not as edge a case as it sounds.

XenoBitch · 17/06/2026 00:18

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · 17/06/2026 00:16

I think it’s fine to hate the players as well as the game. They have a choice not to take advantage of something that’s legal but unethical.

According to your own personal ethics, not theirs.

basoon · 17/06/2026 00:18

Booboobagins · 16/06/2026 23:43

It irks me when I received just 6 weeks of widows pension after my hubby died because my salary then meant no child benefit ie no child benefit, no widows pension. He also died 15 days before the rules changed so I won't be able to claim any of his pension when I retire either.

But, I don't think they've done anything illegal, unethical maybe but they followed the rules... I do hope they've tighted the rules up now.

I do know someone in Spain who gets a full UK pension. He never worked a day in the UK cos he left when he was 16yo . That is just wrong.

Edited

I don't think this is possible actually

WhatNextImScared · 17/06/2026 00:17

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 16/06/2026 22:24

It does seem odd to be entitled to pensions in two different places, or to have worked enough years in each place to qualify.

Are you sure they are both state pensions?

Many countries don’t require you to have worked as long either. I have a family member who had a senior public sector job abroad for 15 years and those contribs alone allow him to claim full state pension for that country as well as his uk pension (he was a uk taxpayer every year throughout his career too, so put in at least 40 years into the uk system tbf). I was surprised other countries have such low year qualifications for full retrieval

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · 17/06/2026 00:16

CotswoldsCamilla · 17/06/2026 00:10

You’re absolutely right. Irish friend of mine did the mandatory 5 years in London after university before moving home in her late 20s. Has done the topping up, I’m not quite sure how it works but she said she doesn’t have to pay in much annually, and will be entitled to a full UK state pension when the time comes, in addition to an Irish one. As a pp said, don’t hate the player, hate the game. Does seem like a massive waste of taxpayer funds though.

I think it’s fine to hate the players as well as the game. They have a choice not to take advantage of something that’s legal but unethical.

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · 17/06/2026 00:14

canuckup · 16/06/2026 22:34

I've lived in Canada for 17 years and plan on taking a UK pension (that's if there's anything left by the time I'm 67!). I've paid the national insurance contributions.

Why do you think it’s fair on the British people (who live here) that you should pay in so little and receive far, far more back?

CotswoldsCamilla · 17/06/2026 00:10

LargeBaboon · 16/06/2026 23:15

The DWP put out an advertising scheme a few years ago. Especially targeting residents in Ireland but also to anyone else that has now left the UK and meets the criteria.

This scheme let people 'register interest' before the April 2025 deadline.

If they registered interest before the deadline, the DWP would contact them and give them a pension forecast and if there was any gaps, they could back pay historical years, all the way back to 2006 in Class 2 or 3.

So for less than £3200, you could back pay the necessary empty years and as a result, get the full uk state pension.

How the government can afford all these pensions for people that only lived in the UK for 3 years, I have no idea. It leaves me feeling salty though.

You’re absolutely right. Irish friend of mine did the mandatory 5 years in London after university before moving home in her late 20s. Has done the topping up, I’m not quite sure how it works but she said she doesn’t have to pay in much annually, and will be entitled to a full UK state pension when the time comes, in addition to an Irish one. As a pp said, don’t hate the player, hate the game. Does seem like a massive waste of taxpayer funds though.

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · 17/06/2026 00:07

Happyhappyday · 16/06/2026 23:57

DH and I do this. We pay into national insurance, get absolutely nothing back from the UK in services but will be able to claim pensions. Would you honestly turn down money that legally available to you?

“get absolutely nothing back from the UK in services” quite rightly, as tax pays for services, not NI.

Yes personally I would turn it down because it’s immoral. Just because you can, doesn’t mean you should.

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · 17/06/2026 00:05

echt · 16/06/2026 23:55

Only if you care to provide the stats.

Well the state pension is approx £12.5k per year. They left the UK in their early 30s so since then will have been paying minimum contributions (a fraction of what they’ll receive) to “earn” their entitlement to the pension, which they could be claiming for another 30+ years.

Happyhappyday · 16/06/2026 23:57

CoffeeAndCats3 · 16/06/2026 22:16

I wrote about this on another thread, but thought I'd start my own as it irks me and I'm wondering if IABU.

My parents emigrated from the UK in their early/mid thirties and have never lived in the UK since. They are now late 60's. My Mum told me recently that both her and my Dad are claiming a full UK pension, in addition to a full pension in the country them emigrated to. They don't need this money, but she seemed quite smug about how they can 'double dip' and live the Life of Riley while sitting on a load of money, rental properties etc. I told her it seemed a bit unethical to me, but she didn't understand my viewpoint at all.

How is this possible? She said that they only had to pay their (national insurance?) for a period of time after moving, to then be eligible for the full UK pension on retirement? Can someone explain to me if this is correct, as I half think they've scammed the UK system somehow!

DH and I do this. We pay into national insurance, get absolutely nothing back from the UK in services but will be able to claim pensions. Would you honestly turn down money that legally available to you?

saraclara · 16/06/2026 23:55

Booboobagins · 16/06/2026 23:43

It irks me when I received just 6 weeks of widows pension after my hubby died because my salary then meant no child benefit ie no child benefit, no widows pension. He also died 15 days before the rules changed so I won't be able to claim any of his pension when I retire either.

But, I don't think they've done anything illegal, unethical maybe but they followed the rules... I do hope they've tighted the rules up now.

I do know someone in Spain who gets a full UK pension. He never worked a day in the UK cos he left when he was 16yo . That is just wrong.

Edited

It's also impossible.

echt · 16/06/2026 23:55

Only if you care to provide the stats.

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · 16/06/2026 23:54

echt · 16/06/2026 23:51

"Likely" is doing lot of heavy lifting here.

Would “statistically probable” be preferable?

echt · 16/06/2026 23:51

ThisHardyNavyZebra · 16/06/2026 23:49

They are likely to get back far, far more than they paid in.

"Likely" is doing lot of heavy lifting here.

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · 16/06/2026 23:51

amraa · 16/06/2026 22:21

Why are h so bitter about ur own parents? Ur mums mistake was telling you, even her own flesh is jealous of her. Owning assets doesn’t necessarily make you rich as your cash is tied up. You don’t really have any idea about their finances and just seem to be jealous.

I’m sure it’s nothing to do with jealousy and everything to do with morality.

ThisHardyNavyZebra · 16/06/2026 23:49

echt · 16/06/2026 23:43

You can only get a UK state pension while abroad if you've paid in. No advantage-taking here.

They are likely to get back far, far more than they paid in.

echt · 16/06/2026 23:48

Sorry it's AI, but this is probably what the OP was referring to:

The legal "loophole" you are referring to allows individuals who worked in the UK for as little as three years to claim a UK State Pension by paying heavily subsidized voluntary National Insurance (NI) contributions from abroad. However, the UK government is closing this mechanism, and by April 2026, the minimum UK residency or contribution history required to use this scheme will increase from 3 to 10 continuous years

XenoBitch · 16/06/2026 23:45

Livelovebehappy · 16/06/2026 23:41

They paid in, so are entitled to take out. It’s as simple as that really. I get more upset about those people who don’t contribute enough to get a full pension, but who get near enough full pension anyway by claiming pension credits to top it up?

My gran was a carer for pretty much her adult life. Looked after my disabled grandad.
She only worked in her teens and early 20s, had kids, then became a carer.
Why would you be upset at someone like her? Or are you assuming anyone on Pension Credit must have been a scrounger/slacker all their life?
That would also be disabled unable to work too.

Pickledonion1999 · 16/06/2026 23:45

Livelovebehappy · 16/06/2026 23:41

They paid in, so are entitled to take out. It’s as simple as that really. I get more upset about those people who don’t contribute enough to get a full pension, but who get near enough full pension anyway by claiming pension credits to top it up?

In my last job I saw people who had lived abroad most of the lives but were Uk citizens and came back with nothing at retirement age and got full pension credit, housing benefit etc despite not living here for years or contributing anything.

echt · 16/06/2026 23:43

ThisHardyNavyZebra · 16/06/2026 23:27

OP is perhaps mainly bitter about what must be a large number of other ex-pats also taking advantage of the UK taxpayer in a similar way.

You can only get a UK state pension while abroad if you've paid in. No advantage-taking here.

Booboobagins · 16/06/2026 23:43

It irks me when I received just 6 weeks of widows pension after my hubby died because my salary then meant no child benefit ie no child benefit, no widows pension. He also died 15 days before the rules changed so I won't be able to claim any of his pension when I retire either.

But, I don't think they've done anything illegal, unethical maybe but they followed the rules... I do hope they've tighted the rules up now.

I do know someone in Spain who gets a full UK pension. He never worked a day in the UK cos he left when he was 16yo . That is just wrong.

basoon · 16/06/2026 23:41

My DH qualified for a partial UK pension and a full Irish pension because he paid enough contributions for both. I can't see the problem.