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AIBU to think claiming two state pensions seems unethical?

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CoffeeAndCats3 · 16/06/2026 22:16

I wrote about this on another thread, but thought I'd start my own as it irks me and I'm wondering if IABU.

My parents emigrated from the UK in their early/mid thirties and have never lived in the UK since. They are now late 60's. My Mum told me recently that both her and my Dad are claiming a full UK pension, in addition to a full pension in the country them emigrated to. They don't need this money, but she seemed quite smug about how they can 'double dip' and live the Life of Riley while sitting on a load of money, rental properties etc. I told her it seemed a bit unethical to me, but she didn't understand my viewpoint at all.

How is this possible? She said that they only had to pay their (national insurance?) for a period of time after moving, to then be eligible for the full UK pension on retirement? Can someone explain to me if this is correct, as I half think they've scammed the UK system somehow!

OP posts:
knightsinwhitesatin · 17/06/2026 06:42

It’s amazing how much benefit bashing we see on other threads here, saying those people are work shy scroungers, the country can’t afford it…. yet in this scenario it’s mainly ‘they’re doing what’s legal and what they’re entitled to’…

SockPlant · 17/06/2026 06:39

"Seems smug" get over yourself.

The pensions office has checks. If there are no issues, people who are entitled to one get a pension.

Retunue · 17/06/2026 06:33

If it’s permitted by the rules, how is it unethical? Good for them. If you object to the rules, you should write to your MP.

CoffeeAndCats3 · 17/06/2026 06:31

To those calling me nasty and horrible, I'm not at all. I actually have very good relationship with my parents, even though I don't agree with their financial approach.

But the reality is the UK cannot afford to be so generous. I mean, by the sounds of it they only paid in a couple of hundred quid a year and are now claiming 12,500 a year. I guess it's good for my family financially, but it's a total rip off for other UK taxpayers, as my family has not paid any UK taxes for 35 years now.

Anyway it sounds like the loophole has been (partially) closed, but definitely not retroactively. Who knows what will happen but I can see my parents living at least another 20-30 years as they are both currently very healthy. If this happens (big if), then thats over 250,000 in money paid out to them.

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echt · 17/06/2026 06:27

Gove?????? Aargh.

echt · 17/06/2026 06:26

GrottBaggs · 17/06/2026 06:21

Exactly, to pay class 3 you have to be paying contributions in your current country of residence .
I was only 3 years short of full contributions when we moved abroad so have paid mine.
However the rules changed in April.and I believe you can no longer pay class 3.

The UK Gove website says you can make Class 3 contributions from overseas if you meet certain criteria.

https://www.gov.uk/voluntary-national-insurance-contributions/if-you-live-or-work-abroad.

Voluntary National Insurance

National Insurance contributions you can choose to pay when you have a gap in your National Insurance record.

https://www.gov.uk/voluntary-national-insurance-contributions/if-you-live-or-work-abroad

GrottBaggs · 17/06/2026 06:21

tinyspiny · 16/06/2026 22:32

Voluntary class 3 NI contributions are about £240 quarterly , so for both of them that would have been £1600 per year . Class 2 is a lot less £150 ish per year but it depends what they did before they moved as to which they had to pay

Edited

Exactly, to pay class 3 you have to be paying contributions in your current country of residence .
I was only 3 years short of full contributions when we moved abroad so have paid mine.
However the rules changed in April.and I believe you can no longer pay class 3.

LightningTree · 17/06/2026 06:19

Not wrong to claim it. Definitely wrong to smugly flaunt it.

SallySall · 17/06/2026 06:16

On benefits threads everyone tells people to claim absolutely everything they are allowed to regardless of “need”. Especially if the person has children. They get told to claim and save it for their children in the future. Maybe all these pensioners are taking that advice…..

NoisyHiker · 17/06/2026 06:13

echt · 17/06/2026 06:10

The bud was nipped April 2026.

Clearly not, or op's parents and many others wouldn't still be claiming.

It needs to be retroactively nipped. It would be completely fair to stop the pensions of those who only worked in the UK for a few years.

echt · 17/06/2026 06:10

NoisyHiker · 17/06/2026 06:09

Totally unethical and scummy behaviour, legal or not.

Wonder how much could be saved if this was nipped in the bud, I'm betting quite a substantial amount. Someone must have FOI.

The bud was nipped April 2026.

NoisyHiker · 17/06/2026 06:09

Totally unethical and scummy behaviour, legal or not.

Wonder how much could be saved if this was nipped in the bud, I'm betting quite a substantial amount. Someone must have FOI.

rwalker · 17/06/2026 06:09

They’ve paid enough to qualify
what’s the difference between then and someone who’s lived in the uk all there life and never worked a day getting there pension ( obviously excluding disabled people who can’t)
there households where 3 generations have never worked

KatiePricesKnickers · 17/06/2026 06:06

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · 17/06/2026 00:21

I’d like to hear anyone justify how it’s fair to live here for only 5 years, pay a few hundred quid in for another 5 years and then take over £12k every year for (usually) decades. I don’t think anyone would be able to argue it’s ethical, even though it’s legal.

Edited

But that is totally incorrect.
You need 10 years to qualify to receive some amount of pension.
If you only have paid in 10 years you get less than a third of a full pension.
You need 35 years NI contributions to receive a full UK pension. Anything in between 10 and 35 years is pro-rata.

hahabahbag · 17/06/2026 05:50

They had to pay the annual voluntary rate to get full contributions, currently it’s £956.80, this does add up over many years, plus they won’t have been costing us nhs money and crucially won’t cost us for elder care, many people do this because they don’t know if they will return. I plan on paying class 3 myself for 3 years to complete my contributions.

HaveYouFedTheFish · 17/06/2026 05:46

CoffeeAndCats3 · 16/06/2026 22:16

I wrote about this on another thread, but thought I'd start my own as it irks me and I'm wondering if IABU.

My parents emigrated from the UK in their early/mid thirties and have never lived in the UK since. They are now late 60's. My Mum told me recently that both her and my Dad are claiming a full UK pension, in addition to a full pension in the country them emigrated to. They don't need this money, but she seemed quite smug about how they can 'double dip' and live the Life of Riley while sitting on a load of money, rental properties etc. I told her it seemed a bit unethical to me, but she didn't understand my viewpoint at all.

How is this possible? She said that they only had to pay their (national insurance?) for a period of time after moving, to then be eligible for the full UK pension on retirement? Can someone explain to me if this is correct, as I half think they've scammed the UK system somehow!

I think this was a quirk/ blip in the system that was available for a few years post Brexit. Like most things it only benefitted those able to spare a fairly large lump sum straight away to pay into national insurance.
The way it used to work preBrexit was that changing country within the EU didn't matter too much as your contributions from both countries combined to one full pension.

You can rejoice in the fact that anyone who paid into the uk national insurance system for ten or eleven years before moving to the EU and didn't have thousands of pounds to pay into the UK national insurance simultaneously with their new country is worse off -

if you paid in for less than twelve years, even if you paid for a decade and you yet £0, ever, so you have a hole in your pension despite having been paying at that time.

echt · 17/06/2026 05:39

Yet those same people often criticise companies for doing exactly the same thing: paying only what they are legally required to pay, or arranging their affairs to take advantage of loopholes

How you know that? Do you have a spreadsheet?
Why would anyone, individual or company, pay more than they are obliged to?

The onus is on governments to close the loopholes, or tighten criteria, which in this case, they have.

Settlersa · 17/06/2026 05:39

It sounds like they have done everything legally though so they haven’t scammed anyone.

SassyGit · 17/06/2026 05:32

amraa · 16/06/2026 22:21

Why are h so bitter about ur own parents? Ur mums mistake was telling you, even her own flesh is jealous of her. Owning assets doesn’t necessarily make you rich as your cash is tied up. You don’t really have any idea about their finances and just seem to be jealous.

This is a weird MN trend. Children, even in their 50s, are bitter about their parents having any hint of financial security beyond working age. It's so bizarre!

YonderlyYonderly · 17/06/2026 05:29

This is what I find frustrating. People are saying that because this is legal, it's perfectly acceptable. Yet those same people often criticise companies for doing exactly the same thing: paying only what they are legally required to pay, or arranging their affairs to take advantage of loopholes.

Why is one considered acceptable and the other considered wrong? In both cases, the individuals or organisations involved are acting within the law and exploiting a loophole or advantage that exists. If we're going to judge one as unethical, surely we should apply the same standard to the other. If it's acceptable for this couple because it's legal, then why isn't it acceptable for companies for the same reason? And no, I don't work for those companies!

Lifesd · 17/06/2026 05:16

canuckup · 16/06/2026 22:34

I've lived in Canada for 17 years and plan on taking a UK pension (that's if there's anything left by the time I'm 67!). I've paid the national insurance contributions.

Same before we left the UK we paid and have been doing the contributions - although no additional state pension where I am (means tested).

SquirrelGG · 17/06/2026 05:08

HoppingPavlova · 17/06/2026 03:49

Are you talking about Super or pension?

I’m in Aus and they are 2 completely different things. Super is money put aside (compulsory and then voluntary over the compulsory amount) in non-government funds. Pension is completely separate as it’s money from government funds that the government gives you in retirement, the amount of which is based on your assets, which includes Super.

What you describe sounds like pension, not Super? Of course you can pull your Super from another country if you have a Super fund there as well as from your Super fund in your home country as it is ‘private’ money (it’s really like a personal savings account but instead of it just sitting earning interest, it’s pooled with other people’s personal saving and clever people ‘invest’ it to make better money growth for you all), it’s not the government’s money, so why shouldn’t you be able to do that?

Edited

I am talking about state paid superannuation, which is what it is called here (I hate the word pension, it's so old fashioned). Super here describes both what you call pension as well as voluntary non government savings.

The OP is talking about state paid pension also.

countrylife00 · 17/06/2026 05:07

LBFseBrom · 17/06/2026 03:44

They will have paid contributions and now they'll be paying tax. At least they can be independent.

Why are you so concerned about it? Be glad for your parents.

Advise them not to tell others, it's private. They made a mistake telling you!

How do you know they are paying tax? You pay tax in the country you live…

PeachySmile2 · 17/06/2026 04:13

Yep. My nan gets English and Irish state pensions. Moved to England from Ireland in her mid-20s.

HoppingPavlova · 17/06/2026 03:49

SquirrelGG · 17/06/2026 02:46

In NZ I believe you can claim superannuation from another country as well as NZ super, but the NZ amount is reduced on a dollar for dollar basis so you aren't getting more than the standard NZ super. If the overseas super is more than the NZ one then you miss out on anything from NZ.

What you describe is madness OP.

Edited

Are you talking about Super or pension?

I’m in Aus and they are 2 completely different things. Super is money put aside (compulsory and then voluntary over the compulsory amount) in non-government funds. Pension is completely separate as it’s money from government funds that the government gives you in retirement, the amount of which is based on your assets, which includes Super.

What you describe sounds like pension, not Super? Of course you can pull your Super from another country if you have a Super fund there as well as from your Super fund in your home country as it is ‘private’ money (it’s really like a personal savings account but instead of it just sitting earning interest, it’s pooled with other people’s personal saving and clever people ‘invest’ it to make better money growth for you all), it’s not the government’s money, so why shouldn’t you be able to do that?

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