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AIBU to think claiming two state pensions seems unethical?

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CoffeeAndCats3 · 16/06/2026 22:16

I wrote about this on another thread, but thought I'd start my own as it irks me and I'm wondering if IABU.

My parents emigrated from the UK in their early/mid thirties and have never lived in the UK since. They are now late 60's. My Mum told me recently that both her and my Dad are claiming a full UK pension, in addition to a full pension in the country them emigrated to. They don't need this money, but she seemed quite smug about how they can 'double dip' and live the Life of Riley while sitting on a load of money, rental properties etc. I told her it seemed a bit unethical to me, but she didn't understand my viewpoint at all.

How is this possible? She said that they only had to pay their (national insurance?) for a period of time after moving, to then be eligible for the full UK pension on retirement? Can someone explain to me if this is correct, as I half think they've scammed the UK system somehow!

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aphroditeflighty · 17/06/2026 08:01

Nelliemellie · 17/06/2026 07:51

Do these overseas citizens pay inheritance tax to the U.K.?

There's a double taxation treaty that deals with this, but overseas citizens will still pay any due inheritance tax.

aphroditeflighty · 17/06/2026 08:01

My great aunt was Italian and lived in the UK for about 30 years when she drew an Italian and UK pension - works in other senses too. This was a few decades ago.

I was self-employed in the UK and paid class 2 (still self-employed) when I moved overseas, quite a number of years ago now. My state pension overseas will be a pittance, which is why I've continued to pay contributions (the triple lock still applies where I live in the EU). HMRC will be contacting those in my situation next month about the move to class 3 - that is the closing of the supposed "loophole". I will absolutely need my UK pension, as I would never have enough on any pension I get in the country I reside.

Nelliemellie · 17/06/2026 07:51

Do these overseas citizens pay inheritance tax to the U.K.?

GrottBaggs · 17/06/2026 07:49

Dexterrr · 17/06/2026 06:50

It's happening currently.

If you had already registered interest.

CoffeeAndCats3 · 17/06/2026 07:49

keepswimming38 · 17/06/2026 07:43

I gather you don’t like your parents much then op?

Why would you think that?

I may not agree with their financial approach and morality (I think it's grabby), but I actually get on very well with them in general and we have a good laugh together.

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keepswimming38 · 17/06/2026 07:43

I gather you don’t like your parents much then op?

IslandAdventure · 17/06/2026 07:43

CoffeeAndCats3 · 17/06/2026 00:31

If I had more than enough money already, yes I would not claim the pension in this case. I think it's morally wrong. Particularly when you know the country is struggling so much financially.

However, I understand that it is all legal so 'techically' you (and they) are doing nothing wrong.

I think it's a loophole that needs to be closed.

It is unethical to take public money that you don’t need. I agree with you. My STBXH’S father does this two. It all goes in a bank account that he never touches because he just doesn’t need it. My ex and his siblings will benefit from it but it seems wrong.

That said, I’d rather the government focused on properly taxing wealth rather than this issue. That’s where the real inequality and unethical practice lies.

MassivePushover · 17/06/2026 07:31

I do think our benefit system needs a massive overhaul as so many people are taking the piss.

However, in the mean time I have researched into what I am entitled to (zero) and our parent(s). Believe me, I have gone after everything on offer; attendants allowances, help updating their houses to live in.

As far as I am concerned we have paid so much into the system and taken very little out (paid our own schooling and healthcare) and if I can claw back anything for my own family then I will. I am sick of paying for everyone else who have no interest in contributing to society, and now I am only looking after my own.

So, good on your parents.

echt · 17/06/2026 07:26

TheNicestFudge · 17/06/2026 06:57

Not from me: it makes me livid. Basically another massive perk for the boomers with the ladder pulled up for everyone else. Why have they kept getting money thrown at them? I don’t understand it.

Relax.

Undoubtedly there will be some savings and/or contributions that you currently benefit from that will be withdrawn for others in later years. They'll be pissing and moaning on MN about people of your generation.

Imagine when the UK pension goes means-tested, and I think it will; the howls.

I don't know why you think the now more restrictive rules for topping-up from abroad is a "Boomers" perk.

Quine0nline · 17/06/2026 07:21

I know someone who was born and lived overseas for the first 40 years of their life. They paid taxes etc and also into company pensions. They married a UK citizen and worked for a number of years in the UK.

They claim a state pension from their native country and the UK. They discovered that due to corporate corruption they do not get any private pension from the companies they worked for in their native country.

Their spouse, a UK citizen who has never worked in the overseas country is entitled to a pension from their spouses native country due to being married to said spouse.

SallySall · 17/06/2026 07:18

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · 17/06/2026 07:01

Even 35 years at a few hundred pounds minimum contribution is far less than just one year of full pension. So the point remains the same.

Edited

But it’s still more than people who don’t pay anything in at all and either get credits because they claim child benefit or certain other benefits. You could have someone claiming certain benefits for years and never contributing but still qualifies for full state pension due to NI credits. And then you have people that don’t even get NI credits so instead they just get pension credit which gives them the same amount anyway! I don’t really see what the difference is. All of these people are still claiming more than they paid in.

LGBirmingham · 17/06/2026 07:17

It does sound like a loop hole which should be closed but tbf the contribution for self employment is about the same. I used to be self employed and I only had to pay about £140 a year national insurance. Pretty sure it was just a flat rate and unrelated to the amount of money I made.

99bottlesofkombucha · 17/06/2026 07:16

Dexterrr · 17/06/2026 06:50

It's happening currently.

Not paying £170, it’s not - that’s the now ended class 2 rate that overseas residents can’t access anymore

Nanda66 · 17/06/2026 07:15

It’s a loophole and they’re doing nothing wrong. It does feel unfair though, I’ve been working and paying NI contributions for over 40 years, it’ll be over 50 when I reach state pension age, yet I’ll get the same as those who haven’t worked here and paid tax and only paid a token amount towards their pension. Many others are in the same boat. It’s unbelievable but it’s the way the system works.

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · 17/06/2026 07:14

LBFseBrom · 17/06/2026 03:44

They will have paid contributions and now they'll be paying tax. At least they can be independent.

Why are you so concerned about it? Be glad for your parents.

Advise them not to tell others, it's private. They made a mistake telling you!

They’re unlikely to be paying tax if they don’t live here and haven’t done for 30ish years.

She’s probably concerned about it because it’s unethical and indicative of other people doing the same.

Why should she be pleased for them that they’re living at UK residents’ expense, especially when it’s money they don’t need?

SquirrelGG · 17/06/2026 07:08

HoppingPavlova · 17/06/2026 06:57

Thanks for taking the time to clarify, good to know.
Interesting as we seem to have the same terms for completely different things. The term pension is still with us here, agree it’s outdated but alas, and we have different ‘types’. Essentially the term covers anything the government hands out from government money, except unemployment, which is termed ‘benefits’. So, in this scenario it’s the ‘old age pension’ (to make it sound even more old fashioned 😆) as opposed to say veterans pension, widow’s pension. Interestingly, there also used to be a ‘single mothers pension’ but there has been progress and this was disbanded and it’s now rebadged, and open to singles and families, as a ‘benefit’, called family benefit, and is based on income/assets as opposed to purely being a ‘single mother’.

Super here though, while compulsory if working and earning over a certain amount, is not collected by the government nor handed back by the government, it’s completely separate, the only intersection is that it is treated as an ‘asset’ for the purpose of eligibility for pensions. Seems we are a real outlier with terminology, I wonder if this will be globally aligned with everyone else at some point!

Oh don't get me wrong, some people here do still refer to pensions, but the term used by the government is superannuation for the over 65s, although the word pension is still used for veteran's - there is no specific widow's benefit, they would come under another title such as jobseeker, or sole parent and those are referred to as benefits .

Ours isn't means tested, someone who hasn't worked a day in their life gets the same standard rate as a millionaire, although of course they would get extras such as an accommodation supplement.

Private super isn't compulsory here, although many people do have it, and one, Kiwisaver, does have minor contributions from the government, although less than previously. How much a person has saved via this has no bearing on their state paid super.

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · 17/06/2026 07:01

KatiePricesKnickers · 17/06/2026 06:06

But that is totally incorrect.
You need 10 years to qualify to receive some amount of pension.
If you only have paid in 10 years you get less than a third of a full pension.
You need 35 years NI contributions to receive a full UK pension. Anything in between 10 and 35 years is pro-rata.

Even 35 years at a few hundred pounds minimum contribution is far less than just one year of full pension. So the point remains the same.

Honeyhonay · 17/06/2026 06:59

Only private pensions should be able to be drawn outside the UK, not state imo.

TheNicestFudge · 17/06/2026 06:57

knightsinwhitesatin · 17/06/2026 06:42

It’s amazing how much benefit bashing we see on other threads here, saying those people are work shy scroungers, the country can’t afford it…. yet in this scenario it’s mainly ‘they’re doing what’s legal and what they’re entitled to’…

Not from me: it makes me livid. Basically another massive perk for the boomers with the ladder pulled up for everyone else. Why have they kept getting money thrown at them? I don’t understand it.

HoppingPavlova · 17/06/2026 06:57

SquirrelGG · 17/06/2026 05:08

I am talking about state paid superannuation, which is what it is called here (I hate the word pension, it's so old fashioned). Super here describes both what you call pension as well as voluntary non government savings.

The OP is talking about state paid pension also.

Thanks for taking the time to clarify, good to know.
Interesting as we seem to have the same terms for completely different things. The term pension is still with us here, agree it’s outdated but alas, and we have different ‘types’. Essentially the term covers anything the government hands out from government money, except unemployment, which is termed ‘benefits’. So, in this scenario it’s the ‘old age pension’ (to make it sound even more old fashioned 😆) as opposed to say veterans pension, widow’s pension. Interestingly, there also used to be a ‘single mothers pension’ but there has been progress and this was disbanded and it’s now rebadged, and open to singles and families, as a ‘benefit’, called family benefit, and is based on income/assets as opposed to purely being a ‘single mother’.

Super here though, while compulsory if working and earning over a certain amount, is not collected by the government nor handed back by the government, it’s completely separate, the only intersection is that it is treated as an ‘asset’ for the purpose of eligibility for pensions. Seems we are a real outlier with terminology, I wonder if this will be globally aligned with everyone else at some point!

Augustus40 · 17/06/2026 06:53

They will receive state pension but no triple lock. Which I believe is fair.

Dexterrr · 17/06/2026 06:50

99bottlesofkombucha · 17/06/2026 01:28

I get all that very well, and my contribution is one your friend is working through. My comments are because you’ve portrayed it as current and it’s not. It’s not an option anymore.

It's happening currently.

Dexterrr · 17/06/2026 06:47

LargeBaboon · 17/06/2026 01:07

There was a scheme that DWP put out a while ago.

It closed in April 2025. If you registered interest with them before the deadline then they allowed temporary special circumstances for people to back pay historical years, right back to 2006.

My friends that still work in this eary and still working through the backlog of voluntary payments as there was a massive uptake.

The usual allowance for voluntary payments is the previous 6 years, so currently people can pay for 2020-2026.

Anyone in the scheme that registered interest, had the ability to pay a lump sum of just under £3200, approx £160-£170 per year at the Class 2 rate (the rates change slightly every year) and this lump sum is enough to give you the full state pension of 12.5k per year.

This is all accurate. I know a number of people who haven't lived in the UK in 20+ years paying a pittance in to get full UK pension when the time comes.

HoppingPavlova · 17/06/2026 06:45

CoffeeAndCats3 · 17/06/2026 06:31

To those calling me nasty and horrible, I'm not at all. I actually have very good relationship with my parents, even though I don't agree with their financial approach.

But the reality is the UK cannot afford to be so generous. I mean, by the sounds of it they only paid in a couple of hundred quid a year and are now claiming 12,500 a year. I guess it's good for my family financially, but it's a total rip off for other UK taxpayers, as my family has not paid any UK taxes for 35 years now.

Anyway it sounds like the loophole has been (partially) closed, but definitely not retroactively. Who knows what will happen but I can see my parents living at least another 20-30 years as they are both currently very healthy. If this happens (big if), then thats over 250,000 in money paid out to them.

Okay. So, why not lobby MP’s with this, what do you think writing in Mumsnet will achieve instead?

SallySall · 17/06/2026 06:42

CoffeeAndCats3 · 17/06/2026 06:31

To those calling me nasty and horrible, I'm not at all. I actually have very good relationship with my parents, even though I don't agree with their financial approach.

But the reality is the UK cannot afford to be so generous. I mean, by the sounds of it they only paid in a couple of hundred quid a year and are now claiming 12,500 a year. I guess it's good for my family financially, but it's a total rip off for other UK taxpayers, as my family has not paid any UK taxes for 35 years now.

Anyway it sounds like the loophole has been (partially) closed, but definitely not retroactively. Who knows what will happen but I can see my parents living at least another 20-30 years as they are both currently very healthy. If this happens (big if), then thats over 250,000 in money paid out to them.

Well in a way it’s countered by my parents who both worked from age 15 and paid in continuously (except my mums short maternity leave) but both died within a couple of years of qualifying for the state pension.

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