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AIBU to think claiming two state pensions seems unethical?

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CoffeeAndCats3 · 16/06/2026 22:16

I wrote about this on another thread, but thought I'd start my own as it irks me and I'm wondering if IABU.

My parents emigrated from the UK in their early/mid thirties and have never lived in the UK since. They are now late 60's. My Mum told me recently that both her and my Dad are claiming a full UK pension, in addition to a full pension in the country them emigrated to. They don't need this money, but she seemed quite smug about how they can 'double dip' and live the Life of Riley while sitting on a load of money, rental properties etc. I told her it seemed a bit unethical to me, but she didn't understand my viewpoint at all.

How is this possible? She said that they only had to pay their (national insurance?) for a period of time after moving, to then be eligible for the full UK pension on retirement? Can someone explain to me if this is correct, as I half think they've scammed the UK system somehow!

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aphroditeflighty · 17/06/2026 12:05

Honeyhonay · 17/06/2026 11:51

Which was widely felt to be unfair, which is why it changed?
I’m not sure what point you’re making, your statements don’t seem to bear much relevance to the comments. Something can be immoral and legal, something can be legal and disagreed with by a majority of people and become illegal.
No one is claiming it once wasn’t legal.

Edited

It's the use of loophole. It was never a loophole.

The whole "moral" argument can be debated until people are blue in the face, it doesn't change anything. The ability to claim more than one state pension having worked in different countries, has been around for nearly 70 years.

Honeyhonay · 17/06/2026 11:51

aphroditeflighty · 17/06/2026 11:10

The ability for certain people living or working overseas to pay voluntary Class 2 National Insurance contributions was an explicit part of UK law and HMRC policy.

Which was widely felt to be unfair, which is why it changed?
I’m not sure what point you’re making, your statements don’t seem to bear much relevance to the comments. Something can be immoral and legal, something can be legal and disagreed with by a majority of people and become illegal.
No one is claiming it once wasn’t legal.

Livelovebehappy · 17/06/2026 11:47

XenoBitch · 16/06/2026 23:45

My gran was a carer for pretty much her adult life. Looked after my disabled grandad.
She only worked in her teens and early 20s, had kids, then became a carer.
Why would you be upset at someone like her? Or are you assuming anyone on Pension Credit must have been a scrounger/slacker all their life?
That would also be disabled unable to work too.

There's alwsys exceptions for almost anyyhing. And the situation you describe is one of them. Im talking about the norm rather than the exception. But i think you know that....

aphroditeflighty · 17/06/2026 11:10

Honeyhonay · 17/06/2026 10:43

It’s absolutely was loophole to allow those not working or paying tax in the UK to buy NI contributions at a hugely, hugely discounted rate, which exactly why it was so unpopular that people like you were allowed to milk the system for so long and the exact reason it has recently been made a lot less profitable and rightly so.

The ability for certain people living or working overseas to pay voluntary Class 2 National Insurance contributions was an explicit part of UK law and HMRC policy.

tamade · 17/06/2026 10:58

TheTideIsNigh · 17/06/2026 08:44

All voted for by many of those same pensioners.

They probably did, or at least voted for one choice out of two or three similar options. But on structural issues voting doesn't have much influence on the direction of travel, the WASPI debacle has it's origins in the last century ago but has been processed through by both red and blue (and yellow) teams.

DolphinofCremeFraiche · 17/06/2026 10:57

Why would OP feel like she owes the state for money family members have claimed?

OP says that she feels that it is unethical for her parents to have been paid this money. Of course there is no guarantee that her parents won't spend the lot, leave it to charity but if the OP does inherit any money (and I agree, this is a big if and is not the point of the thread...) then logically she should "repay" the amounts unethically received.

Honeyhonay · 17/06/2026 10:43

aphroditeflighty · 17/06/2026 10:31

How is it a "loophole". HMRC aren't stupid - the system has been in place for a great many years. It's just not everybody has heard about it, it's never been a big secret, the information has always been readily available on their site.

Where I live you need 42 years of contributions to get the full state pension. If you move overseas part way through your life it's not possible. Also couple that with low salaries meaning, lower contributions which then also equates to a much more meagre pension... Without the UK state pension I'd be in trouble when I reach retirement.
Admittedly being able to 'catch up' with paying for missing years was a very good deal, however I would have been paying the same had I remained in the UK.

It’s absolutely was loophole to allow those not working or paying tax in the UK to buy NI contributions at a hugely, hugely discounted rate, which exactly why it was so unpopular that people like you were allowed to milk the system for so long and the exact reason it has recently been made a lot less profitable and rightly so.

LargeBaboon · 17/06/2026 10:39

SquirrelGG · 17/06/2026 07:08

Oh don't get me wrong, some people here do still refer to pensions, but the term used by the government is superannuation for the over 65s, although the word pension is still used for veteran's - there is no specific widow's benefit, they would come under another title such as jobseeker, or sole parent and those are referred to as benefits .

Ours isn't means tested, someone who hasn't worked a day in their life gets the same standard rate as a millionaire, although of course they would get extras such as an accommodation supplement.

Private super isn't compulsory here, although many people do have it, and one, Kiwisaver, does have minor contributions from the government, although less than previously. How much a person has saved via this has no bearing on their state paid super.

I understand where your coming from however the department that pays it is called the future pension centre.

They also give out pension statements so the word pension is still a very valid and used term.

aphroditeflighty · 17/06/2026 10:31

How is it a "loophole". HMRC aren't stupid - the system has been in place for a great many years. It's just not everybody has heard about it, it's never been a big secret, the information has always been readily available on their site.

Where I live you need 42 years of contributions to get the full state pension. If you move overseas part way through your life it's not possible. Also couple that with low salaries meaning, lower contributions which then also equates to a much more meagre pension... Without the UK state pension I'd be in trouble when I reach retirement.
Admittedly being able to 'catch up' with paying for missing years was a very good deal, however I would have been paying the same had I remained in the UK.

Honeyhonay · 17/06/2026 10:24

DolphinofCremeFraiche · 17/06/2026 10:22

I can see my parents living at least another 20-30 years as they are both currently very healthy. If this happens (big if), then thats over 250,000 in money paid out to them

So when your parents do eventually die, you will be writing a cheque for that amount and returning it to the government then?

What would be your logic?
There’s no suggestion the money would go to OP?
The parents could be happily spaffing all their money, and OP has made no suggestion she’s angling for inheritance. Why would OP feel like she owes the state for money family members have claimed?

DolphinofCremeFraiche · 17/06/2026 10:22

I can see my parents living at least another 20-30 years as they are both currently very healthy. If this happens (big if), then thats over 250,000 in money paid out to them

So when your parents do eventually die, you will be writing a cheque for that amount and returning it to the government then?

OnGoldenPond · 17/06/2026 10:08

Dexterrr · 16/06/2026 22:29

And to add, no, this loophole had not been closed. People are currently paying this tiny yearly top up to get the full UK pension in due course.
No other countries are as lax and generous with taxpayers money as the UK.
It's outrageous

You are aware that a common loophole used by UK small company owners means they get NI credits and thus build up a full state pension without actually paying any NI contributions at all, don’t you? They receive most of their income as dividends from the company, which has a lower tax rate and no NI, then pay themselves a minimal salary via payroll at a level that gives an NI credit without actually reaching the level where employees NI deductions are taken. At least the OP’s parents paid some contributions!

Honeyhonay · 17/06/2026 10:07

snowmichael · 17/06/2026 09:59

More like £900 for each 'incomplete' year, but yes, you definitely get out more than you pay in

Until literally 2 months ago you only paid £180 a year in order to be able to claim from outside the UK.

It’s farcical it was allowed for so long.

50sandFabulous · 17/06/2026 10:05

SallySall · 17/06/2026 08:52

Well then surely the fact that most people claiming a UK pension are based in the UK and spending it in the UK should be enough? If only “most” people in a demographic need to doing something then it’s the same for pensioners surely?

You also can’t really use the reasoning that if someone has children that’s enough to contribute enough to cover themselves. What if their parents also didn’t work so their children didn’t cover them. And then the children of this generation have may also not work so will you say the same about their children? Just hope that at some point one generation of children will work? But it will never cover the decades of previous generations will it?

I have a friend who had her first child at 20. She hasn’t worked since and is now 44. Her youngest is 4. Her oldest now also has a child and is not working. At what point will this family pay enough to cover themselves? Or are you saying the fact they spend their benefit money here is enough to do that? If so, why do I have to pay tax and NI?? Surely me spending my wages is enough to pay that??

I have a friend who had her first child at 20. She hasn’t worked since and is now 44. Her youngest is 4. Her oldest now also has a child and is not working. At what point will this family pay enough to cover themselves?

They will qualify for Pension Credit, which is only £3 a week less than a full State Pension. Someone who has worked for 35 years + and fully paid all their NI, will only get £3 a week more. I had a thread on this a while ago, at the unfairness of that, and I was told IWBU. 😳

TheTideIsNigh · 17/06/2026 10:00

keepswimming38 · 17/06/2026 09:21

Whilst starting a thread on Mumsnet about how grabby they are! Very respectful! They are merely claiming what they are entitled to. If they weren’t you would probably be starting a thread to say how stupid they are. Blame the politicians not them. They didn’t make the rules.

Always someone else to blame. No-one takes responsibility for their own actions these days.

And people wonder why the world is in the state it's in.

snowmichael · 17/06/2026 09:59

Dexterrr · 16/06/2026 22:24

It's a loophole. Work in UK for a few years, then pay something like £200 a year to get full state pension from the UK that you left 30+ years earlier. It's an absolute disgrace and I could hardly believe it when I first heard it. But it's all true.

More like £900 for each 'incomplete' year, but yes, you definitely get out more than you pay in

TheNicestFudge · 17/06/2026 09:56

@Whatwerewetalkingabout is absolutely spot on. It should be questioned— these people are exactly skimming the cream off the state.

2countrypension · 17/06/2026 09:45

Katiesaidthat · 17/06/2026 09:42

And also subject to currency fluctuations.

I am in the EU, and in a country that means my pension won't be frozen. I am also included in the triple lock agreement. I am very fortunate.

Katiesaidthat · 17/06/2026 09:42

saraclara · 16/06/2026 22:42

You don’t get the triple lock, your pension is locked flat at claiming age, so it’s worth significantly less than the indexed amount a uk pensioner is claiming.

I was about to post that. Most pensioners abroad get a lot less than they would had they remained in the UK. Their pension doesn't rise at all from the moment they claim it.

And also subject to currency fluctuations.

CoffeeAndCats3 · 17/06/2026 09:38

Whatwerewetalkingabout · 17/06/2026 09:34

I hate this argument, if anyone has any issue with taking tax money or avoiding tax in an ethically or morally questionable way (only made possible by loopholes), it's always jealousy. Sorry but no, it should be perfectly acceptable to question questionable ethics.

Some of our services like child protection and the NHS are on their arse, wealthy people (and of course the very rich) skimming the cream off the state or avoiding contributing whilst others struggle is a worthy topic.

I was typing out a response to the angry mumsnetters who have (inevitably) come out of the woodwork to have a go at me, but you've explained my thoughts/opinion perfectly so I'll just re-quote your response. Thanks!

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Whatwerewetalkingabout · 17/06/2026 09:34

amraa · 16/06/2026 22:21

Why are h so bitter about ur own parents? Ur mums mistake was telling you, even her own flesh is jealous of her. Owning assets doesn’t necessarily make you rich as your cash is tied up. You don’t really have any idea about their finances and just seem to be jealous.

I hate this argument, if anyone has any issue with taking tax money or avoiding tax in an ethically or morally questionable way (only made possible by loopholes), it's always jealousy. Sorry but no, it should be perfectly acceptable to question questionable ethics.

Some of our services like child protection and the NHS are on their arse, wealthy people (and of course the very rich) skimming the cream off the state or avoiding contributing whilst others struggle is a worthy topic.

Snoseyoulooze · 17/06/2026 09:32

I started work at 17, had children, went back and now just have two years to go to qualify (early 60s). My sister was in education till 21, went travelling and lived in Asia until 10 years ago. She’d never had a job in this country until she started working about 6 years ago and has now “filled-in” many years - she said about £200 per year. I’m pretty sure when I checked my history recently I’d been paying over £1000 per year in NI early 1990s. I love my sister but it’s hard not to feel I’m boring, slogging away. She’s just more astute than me! I lost one year’s contribution because of 6 weeks not paid when I went on maternity leave (always been PAYE) in 1996 but hadn’t realised. At least I only have 2 years to go (but will of course continue after that). Maybe I’m crazy but I do like to see “NI contribution” on my payslip!

KaleidoscopeSmile · 17/06/2026 09:23

CoffeeAndCats3 · 17/06/2026 09:04

What ridiculous hyperbole 🙄 (or maybe its projection?)

I started the thread as I was miffed and curious as to what my Mum was telling me was correct. Apparently it is. I disagree from an ethical point of view.

However I will continue to chat and spend time with my parents and help them when they need it. I can assure no there is no 'bitter and twisted' over here.

Well you've made a thread inviting people to slag your parents off.

Did they use the phrase "double dip" or did you add it for effect?

keepswimming38 · 17/06/2026 09:21

CoffeeAndCats3 · 17/06/2026 07:49

Why would you think that?

I may not agree with their financial approach and morality (I think it's grabby), but I actually get on very well with them in general and we have a good laugh together.

Edited

Whilst starting a thread on Mumsnet about how grabby they are! Very respectful! They are merely claiming what they are entitled to. If they weren’t you would probably be starting a thread to say how stupid they are. Blame the politicians not them. They didn’t make the rules.

echt · 17/06/2026 09:10

Honeyhonay · 17/06/2026 09:01

You are well aware that the idea that UK expats who only worked in the UK for 3 years could buy NI credits at a reduced rate while living outside the UK and paying no Uk tax, enabling them to receive full state pension was widely considered a loophole which is why public pressure meant measures were brought in to attempt to close elements of it.

I understands quite well, thank you.

In your original post I responded asking which NI contributions arrangements you were referring to, I was seeking clarification, some specificity, as quite a few different scenarios had arisen on the thread since then. That is all.

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