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AIBU to think low house offers are always worth making?

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coulditbeme2323 · 16/06/2026 10:55

Why do low house offers annoy Mumsnetters so much?

Surely a cheeky offer is always wort it.

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CheddarBiscuit · 16/06/2026 14:54

Depend non the house. A date house that's been on the market for a year, crack on. A newly listed house in a sought after area - no way, go fast and expect to compete.

It's a bit like vinted - i list a fair price and sometimes something will hang around and eventually I'll accept any offer because I just want it gone, or ill take it off the market, other times I'll list something and have 5 messages asking for specific info or making offers and one person immediately buying at full price, all within half an hour. So it's all about circumstances and pricing and acting accordingly.

Gettingaggy · 16/06/2026 14:54

Cosimarocks · 16/06/2026 14:52

Oh so you’re not alone it’s a whole family of villains. Do you have secret hand shakes and kiss rings? Was the bad business talk ingrained into you from birth? Did you sit on your mother’s knee while she taught you how to say, ‘It’s only business’?
As I say, I’m not asking for your details only the name of a publicly available business. If they’re not doing anything dodgy then there’s nothing to hide. I suspect from your wriggling that you know it’s underhand and possibly illegal.

Or more likely, not true.

nam3c4ang3 · 16/06/2026 14:53

my neighbour is selling for 1.25 million - he got an offer of 860k. Is that one a cheeky offer OP?

Cosimarocks · 16/06/2026 14:52

coulditbeme2323 · 16/06/2026 14:43

Or I don't want to hand out personal information on a website that could well identify myself, my family, and our business name!

Oh so you’re not alone it’s a whole family of villains. Do you have secret hand shakes and kiss rings? Was the bad business talk ingrained into you from birth? Did you sit on your mother’s knee while she taught you how to say, ‘It’s only business’?
As I say, I’m not asking for your details only the name of a publicly available business. If they’re not doing anything dodgy then there’s nothing to hide. I suspect from your wriggling that you know it’s underhand and possibly illegal.

IfWhippetsRuledTheWorld · 16/06/2026 14:50

It can be a risky strategy. Fine if you're not fussed on the house and happy to wait for another property you like to come up. It can backfire though if you do want the property. When we last sold we had 3 offers, 2 sensible and one really low. We asked the agents for best and final from the 2 sensible offers but not the third, we figured if they'd wanted the house (and would therefore be reasonable buyers) they'd have made a sensible offer to begin with. We weren't interested in whether they'd offer more.

Gettingaggy · 16/06/2026 14:45

coulditbeme2323 · 16/06/2026 11:35

I don't mean either, you gave two extreme options.

But always start very very low.

So… offering £50k on a £200k house, for example?

coulditbeme2323 · 16/06/2026 14:43

Cosimarocks · 16/06/2026 14:39

Ah, so you admit you’re a crook and so are the estate agents.

Or I don't want to hand out personal information on a website that could well identify myself, my family, and our business name!

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Cosimarocks · 16/06/2026 14:39

coulditbeme2323 · 16/06/2026 14:35

😂

Ah, so you admit you’re a crook and so are the estate agents.

coulditbeme2323 · 16/06/2026 14:35

Cosimarocks · 16/06/2026 14:34

Trading standards. If you’re right and it’s not dodgy, to quote you, ‘the worst they can do is say no’.

😂

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Cosimarocks · 16/06/2026 14:34

coulditbeme2323 · 16/06/2026 14:32

Why an earth would you want it?

Trading standards. If you’re right and it’s not dodgy, to quote you, ‘the worst they can do is say no’.

coulditbeme2323 · 16/06/2026 14:32

Cosimarocks · 16/06/2026 14:31

You can PM it to me.

Why an earth would you want it?

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Cosimarocks · 16/06/2026 14:31

coulditbeme2323 · 16/06/2026 14:17

That sounds sensible,so a load of lunatics from MN can call them up!

You can PM it to me.

SunnyRedSnail · 16/06/2026 14:27

coulditbeme2323 · 16/06/2026 10:55

Why do low house offers annoy Mumsnetters so much?

Surely a cheeky offer is always wort it.

To answer your question "surely a cheeky offer is always worth it", then answer is NO.

We priced our 3 bed semi sensibly to sell. £225k. It needed a bit of updating but nothing major, but we wanted to move as we'd seen a house we liked. It was in a fab location. Not many houses up for sale.

It went on the market and we had quite a lot of viewings. This one couple offered £180k. Bearing in mind £225k was a very competitive price and already reflected the bits of work that needed doing... Their offer felt like a p*ss take and we didn't see them as serious buyers.

Two days later we accepted £220k from someone else as we liked the couple and they were in a good position to move. This first couple were furious, offered £221k then £225k and were really pissed off when we refused it. The EA told us they kept asking if the sale had fallen through!

As it happened the house we wanted sold a couple of days before we sold ours, so we ended up not having a house to buy. The couple buying it then upped their offer to £225k if we would move into rented, so we did.

So it doesn't ALWAYS pay to offer low. You need to do your homework first e.g. how long it's been on the market, what other properties have sold for.

coulditbeme2323 · 16/06/2026 14:24

wherearethesnacks · 16/06/2026 14:19

I'm guessing you're quite young and live in an area where the market is dead? If nothing is selling, then fire away. But making low ball offers in an area where the market is buoyant is pointless and just makes you look inexperienced.

A friend recently rejected an offer of £650k on her house priced at £750k. She sold shortly after for £790k. That would be standard in her area. The buyer offering £650k just looked like the type of fool who thought they were clever and would try to reduce the agreed price again before closing.

early 40s, and no not dead - but like everywhere it's not what it was.

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BrownBookshelf · 16/06/2026 14:20

HRTQueen · 16/06/2026 14:11

That is down to the family not preparing better, maybe there was not chance to but in most cases there is (taking equity out of a property for example)

It is not down to buyer to take responsibility for the sellers and their families situation

messing about and pulling out at the last miniute is a different issue that some have mentioned on here and laws should change that but offering less and that is accepted is down to a seller accepting the offer or not

Part of it as well is that a house that has been on the market for several months is now in a very different climate to the one that existed when first offered. In the example given, if the fees are racking up then it's likely been listed a while. Yet apparently the valuation is what it's 'worth' despite no other buyer offering it during this time. Some people think they can moralise their way out of market forces.

wherearethesnacks · 16/06/2026 14:19

I'm guessing you're quite young and live in an area where the market is dead? If nothing is selling, then fire away. But making low ball offers in an area where the market is buoyant is pointless and just makes you look inexperienced.

A friend recently rejected an offer of £650k on her house priced at £750k. She sold shortly after for £790k. That would be standard in her area. The buyer offering £650k just looked like the type of fool who thought they were clever and would try to reduce the agreed price again before closing.

coulditbeme2323 · 16/06/2026 14:17

Cosimarocks · 16/06/2026 14:16

So presumably if you’re so sure the Estate Agency is doing nothing wrong, you’d be willing to share their details? (Wouldn’t count as a data breach as they’re a business)

That sounds sensible,so a load of lunatics from MN can call them up!

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MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 16/06/2026 14:17

I agree that there is an emotional element to it. Part of the reason our seller accepted our "cheeky offer" was apparently the fact that she really liked us and wanted us to have the house.

The point is, it was her decision. Nobody forced her and she could have said no. Luckily for us, she decided to say yes.

Cosimarocks · 16/06/2026 14:16

coulditbeme2323 · 16/06/2026 13:24

Agents care about commission, this is choppy waters for agent - and it doesn't look to be turning a corner anytime soon.

So presumably if you’re so sure the Estate Agency is doing nothing wrong, you’d be willing to share their details? (Wouldn’t count as a data breach as they’re a business)

MandemChickenShop · 16/06/2026 14:14

Bit naive to simply say it's a business transaction, not emotional etc.

The concept of an offer being "cheeky" is generally a bit silly.

An offer that reasonably balances the circumstances of the parties has the best chance of success. This might be lower than the asking price, it might not.

The concept of a cheeky offer is a bit jack the lad, wheeler dealer identity, not really a serious approach

coulditbeme2323 · 16/06/2026 14:13

HRTQueen · 16/06/2026 14:11

That is down to the family not preparing better, maybe there was not chance to but in most cases there is (taking equity out of a property for example)

It is not down to buyer to take responsibility for the sellers and their families situation

messing about and pulling out at the last miniute is a different issue that some have mentioned on here and laws should change that but offering less and that is accepted is down to a seller accepting the offer or not

and if 25% off asking was the best offer on the table, you really do have to wonder if it was fairly priced.

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HRTQueen · 16/06/2026 14:11

TheHateUGive · 16/06/2026 13:45

Let me give you an example which actually fits what youre talking about.

House for sale for 800k. It's worth 800k in its current state. It belonged to an elderly woman who has now gone into a care home. She brought it for a few thousand decades ago.
.her family cannot afford her care home fees so they need to sell a London property which needs a fair amount of work to get it to modern standards for a family home. As I said, 800k is about standard for a period family house pre renovation these days. But it is going to take someone who has the time and money to renovate.

Meanwhile, the care home fees are creeping up and savings etc are running out. The agent is aware of this and tells a potential buyer that the family are in desperation and also grief, frankly. Agent tells them to just offer 600k and due to the families currebt fragility, they'll likely take it.

It doesnt cover much of their debt. Does cover their care home fees as long as they dont live too long and certainly doesnt leave any inheritance.

But well done, you got a bargain.

That is down to the family not preparing better, maybe there was not chance to but in most cases there is (taking equity out of a property for example)

It is not down to buyer to take responsibility for the sellers and their families situation

messing about and pulling out at the last miniute is a different issue that some have mentioned on here and laws should change that but offering less and that is accepted is down to a seller accepting the offer or not

AnotherForumUser · 16/06/2026 14:08

KateSixer · 16/06/2026 13:52

But there is another thread running where an unsolicited low ball offer to an elderly couple in a large house is being seen as tantamount to fraud and the consensus view is that it should be reported to the police!

Talk about twisting the facts. You omit the useful information that that couple received a letter addressed to them personally, telling them that the house was too large for a couple with an 'offer ' less than the house value and informing this elderly couple that the sender of the letter would be visiting them on Thursday to 'discuss' this unasked for offer. This bears little resemblance to the OP of this thread.

CraftandGlamour · 16/06/2026 14:07

FourSevenThree · 16/06/2026 12:01

The England's home buying/selling process is fragile and annoying.
In the end, selecting the buyer is lead by trust to some extent. Trust, or maybe hope, that both sides will behave reasonably.

The attitude "it's just a business" represented by starting very low will make some sellers unwilling to deal with you if they have any choice, because they can't trust you that you won't pull other tricks later.

Exactly this. I would be very wary of dealing with a buyer like this.

BIossomtoes · 16/06/2026 14:07

It depends on the market. I’ve only ever sold in a sellers’ market and was offered asking price every time. The current market is very soft so I’d expect offers under. I’d also expect them to be realistic and fair.

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