AIBU to think that all men are…

You are definitely in the right place to have women queueing up to tell you how horrible 99% of the male population is, and that's a conservative estimate. 😏

I have lots of male friends and they are not like this. I hear about men like this, but I don’t know any.
My Dad, husband and brother are legends .My Father in law is a gorgeous bloke.

Hmmm. Father is good. Brother a complete abusive twat. Uncle good (but cheated on his wife). Work colleagues range from great to fucking terrible. As do the women TBF. Cousin, fucking cunt. DH is awesome. ExH twat.

What’s that? About 50% being generous.

Now I love DH and hope for the best but when I see the state of a lot of teenage boys around DD, my goodness what a shower. But her best mate is male and wonderful. Raised by 2 women though, just saying.

They also stink.

Obviously, I'm not joking

it's partially hormone driven, women in perimenopause experience this phenomena where the rose tinted glasses fall off.
and yes once you see it, you can't unsee it, and no hrt won't change that aspect of life.

Fuck yes!! My dad is a raging bell end, my brother is sweet but feckless and struggles with basic adulting on the regular, I have a couple of cousins who are very much the 'babysitting their own kids' types and a series of male relatives who think I'm 'soft' because I won't force feed my kids or insist that they cut their hair so they don't 'look like girls'.

I worked for years with a bloke who told his wife he worked until 7 to avoid the witching hour while he sat around waiting out the clock. One bloke who always volunteered for travel and told his wife he had to go or his job would be on the line. And one who used the immortal line 'she was a lesbian, but she was actually quite nice' and then got really shitty and threatened me with HR when I pointed out his flagrant homophobia!

And that's just common or garden misogyny and selfishness - actually not that bad in the scheme of things as they aren't violent thugs or casual sex offenders like so many men seem to be.

Almost every dickish man has a family - seeing them up close (more regularly than I'd ideally like) is one of the ways you can tell a man is an unevolved twat.

TBF, my husband is a legend, but we've been together since we were very young, and I suspect he would have been a full on lazy bastard if he'd met someone that would put up with it. Fortunately for him, he met me, and I wouldn't let him! 😇 (And fortunately for me, he wasn't one of those secret wankers that starts treating his partner like shit when kids come along - I've been 'lucky' in that respect!) 🙄

Been with my husband since 1983, still best of friends now
Guess I’m lucky!

I am very lucky. My DH is better quality than I am. Kind, patient, does half house work, lots of the mental load (possibly more than me), works hard. Obviously not perfect but better in lots of ways. My Dad is quite similar so hope DD will also find similar.

I did go through quite a few unsuitable twats but sacked them off pretty quickly.

Best hope for our children.Is to sack off shit men and find them quality role models to see what they should go for. A teach them being alone can be great and infinitely better than being with someone below par.

OP so your father, brother/s, uncles, work collegues, cousins all are useless?

Most men are cunts. Fact. Finding the good minority ones is a skill.