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AIBU to think parents will break the social media rules for summerborn children’s GCSE revision?

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SummerAutumnborn · 15/06/2026 21:27

So as a parent of a September born child my child will be able to access YouTube educational videos before their GCSEs start. Some of these resources are excellent.

Their best friend (August born) will not be able to access any videos before the GCSEs start unless their parents break the rules.

At A-Level my child will have unlimited access their best friend won’t - a problem for kids who access sports clubs in the evening and want to revise before bed.

Summer borns have an educational disadvantage anyway - will this widen the gap further? Here is a BBC article from a few years ago.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-23435439

Am I being unreasonable thinking parents who agree with the SM ban will break the rules if it disadvantages their summer born child?

Out of interest for those of you who do support the social media ban are you going to say to your child that they cannot access exam resources on YouTube and X even if they are better than school and BBC resources? Or when it comes to an educational advantage will you find it acceptable to break the rules and allow access?

I disagree with the ban btw so would have no issue if it affected my child.

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YourAquaLion · 15/06/2026 22:44

Honeyhonay · 15/06/2026 22:12

The point of YouTube it to comment and engage with videos both long and short form, in what way would TikTok or Instagram be classed as social media but not YouTube?

Because to me YT seems much less personal and more like telly for niche subjects or mash ups of actual telly. The others are all just about setting up your own profile and telling people about what you had for dinner or what an ace life you personally have etc. YT just seems different to what I’d call
social media.

Tauranga · 15/06/2026 22:43

You may notice I am cross at the dismissivness of the responses to revising using videos.

I am mother to a child with dyslexia. Yes, we use videos. Yes, some videos explain answers step by step. No, it's not the only part of revision.

However, kids without dyslexia also use these videos; people are selling revision books which are like brand new as their kids used only online resources. No one is buying books to revise from anymore.

I'm glad to hear You Tube is still going to be available.

Pessismistic · 15/06/2026 22:40

How does Keir plan to police the ban. He can’t even stop humans crossing the border even though he’s paying out for security he couldn’t fight his way out of a paper bag. I’m just curious no kids at the age of banning so not bothered either way. but so much stuff is illegal and people still get around the law. It’s a pity he doesn’t make under age sex a priority.

Tauranga · 15/06/2026 22:40

Mapletree1985 · 15/06/2026 22:39

God forbid these kids use book to revise from

You don't have dyslexic children do you!

Tauranga · 15/06/2026 22:39

ToffeeCrabApple · 15/06/2026 22:38

Really good revision isn't really just watching stuff or reading it.

Its more effective if combined with less passive methods like testing yourself or memory exercises.

I don't think anyone mentioned videos being the only revision they would do?
Good lord.

Mapletree1985 · 15/06/2026 22:39

God forbid these kids use book to revise from

ToffeeCrabApple · 15/06/2026 22:38

Tauranga · 15/06/2026 22:24

Unless you are dyslexic.
Or prefer videos.

What a ridiculous conclusion!

Really good revision isn't really just watching stuff or reading it.

Its more effective if combined with less passive methods like testing yourself or memory exercises.

PenelopeJoanSterling · 15/06/2026 22:37

BananaPeels · 15/06/2026 22:36

I thought the whole point was you will have to verify your age so the government will prevent anyone from accessing any social media unless this has been done. The go around can’t be as simple as just don’t log in surely? most teens don’t actually create content nor comment on videos I expect. If they are anything like mine they just watch. My daughter came in earlier to show us fart videos. That is the level we are operating at. And no, she’s not young.

depends on the browser, most companies are based abroad, so if you use eg opera browser and set the vpn to europe etc then from a computer perspective you can use eg youtube

BananaPeels · 15/06/2026 22:36

I thought the whole point was you will have to verify your age so the government will prevent anyone from accessing any social media unless this has been done. The go around can’t be as simple as just don’t log in surely? most teens don’t actually create content nor comment on videos I expect. If they are anything like mine they just watch. My daughter came in earlier to show us fart videos. That is the level we are operating at. And no, she’s not young.

dannyufcfan · 15/06/2026 22:36

You're overthinking this one. Just use your account or don't sign in.

Loub1987 · 15/06/2026 22:36

If I wanted my children to watch specific YouTube educational videos (or they did) surely I could just put them on the TV. Or I would just get them via other sources.

I am comforted by this ban, I would have tried to keep my kids off social media but it’s easier when everyone else is as well!

Shoola · 15/06/2026 22:36

ProudCat · 15/06/2026 21:30

Teacher here. Videos aren't very good for revision.

There are some really great teachers on you tube. You are missing a trick.

ToffeeCrabApple · 15/06/2026 22:35

StraightTalkingTina · 15/06/2026 22:31

I support the ban.

And will continue to enable supervised access to meaningful and educational content, via my controlled accounts and devices.

This. Young people don't need personal access or accounts on unsupervised phones & tablets. If there's valuable educational material their parents will happily allow them to access it via their own devices.

StraightTalkingTina · 15/06/2026 22:34

Anarchy99 · 15/06/2026 22:28

YABU if you think for a single minute the ban will last, Either the parents will still allow it or the kids will circumvent it.

The law wouldn’t be necessary if parents were willing or able to control their children’s use of social media in these days of smartphones.

At the moment it is the social media firms themselves who will be targets by any new legislation.

a parent can provide controlled access, and the child can still be presented with inappropriate content.

the only people who can stop that is the platform owners, or the makers of smartphones.

we’ll have to see what they come up with.

Tauranga · 15/06/2026 22:34

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 15/06/2026 22:15

They can use BBC Bitesize, and what’s wrong with the masses of revision guide publications that are available in almost any bookshop?

People are all different. Do you think there would be so many revision videos os they were not popular?

ToffeeCrabApple · 15/06/2026 22:33

My niece is on track for fab gcses and hasn't been revising on screens.

Besides if there's really essential material, other sites will pop up that are education focused which will host the content & aren't hit by the ban as likely won't:

  • be driven by algorithms designed to hook kids in
  • be geared to maximise profit by making your child spend as long as possible on there
  • be trying to drive traffic by offering more extreme content to young people like anorexia kids & inappropriate sexual stuff.
Gladystheimpaler · 15/06/2026 22:32

BBC bitesize for all subjects, or Khan academy for maths, are both free. Social media is bad for kids' mental health. There are so many resources you do not need to give kids access to social media, regardless of when in tne year they were born.

StraightTalkingTina · 15/06/2026 22:31

I support the ban.

And will continue to enable supervised access to meaningful and educational content, via my controlled accounts and devices.

Actnaturally · 15/06/2026 22:30

BBC bitesize was exciting 28 years ago, but have you looked on there lately? It’s dire compared to some of the other stuff I’ve seen on SM.

Of course you can get through a GCSE course without watching a video if you want, but if you’re dismissing all video content, you haven’t understood what’s available. In the subject I teach, for example, video walkthroughs of past papers is an invaluable revision resource. And there’s some great TikTok videos explaining concepts in really engaging ways. YouTube and TikTok act as platforms bringing lots of creators together, and allowing students to find what works for them. It’s so short sighted to completely dismiss such a huge technological advance.

AlcoholicAntibiotic · 15/06/2026 22:29

Needmorelego · 15/06/2026 22:28

I didn't know you had to sign in to watch YouTube.
If I just type in something to Google that I want to watch a video of sometimes the video is a YouTube one so I just click on it and watch.
🤷

You don’t at the moment.

I’m not sure how it will work after the ban comes in. There seems to be remarkably little actual detail (at least not that I’ve been able to find).

Tauranga · 15/06/2026 22:28

Octavia64 · 15/06/2026 21:57

Watching videos is not a useful revision strategy.

in the same way that reading the textbook is not a good revision strategy.

what works is;

knowing what topics you need to revise and which ones you are secure on (mostly comes from end of year 10 exams and mocks analysis).

there is no benefit to watching a video in a topic you can already do and get full marks in any question on it.

good revision is focused on topics you are less secure on and usually involves actively doing stuff - doing questions, writing answers, and then checking them against the markscheme.

not watching videos.

Crikey. Another pile of rubbish spouted with such confidence.

Needmorelego · 15/06/2026 22:28

I didn't know you had to sign in to watch YouTube.
If I just type in something to Google that I want to watch a video of sometimes the video is a YouTube one so I just click on it and watch.
🤷

Anarchy99 · 15/06/2026 22:28

YABU if you think for a single minute the ban will last, Either the parents will still allow it or the kids will circumvent it.

The law wouldn’t be necessary if parents were willing or able to control their children’s use of social media in these days of smartphones.

Tauranga · 15/06/2026 22:26

Calmestofallthechickens · 15/06/2026 21:47

I’d be really surprised if YouTube revision videos actually confer a statistically significant competitive advantage in exams. I suspect the negative effects on attention span would more than even the playing field!

I have two summer born children and I think the fact they will potentially have 11 months more social-media-free studying and revision time than their peers is a massive positive. Nothing to stop me showing them videos on YouTube if it was actually a brilliant educational resource, but it is not.

It is, for many kids, with dyslexia especially.

But you don't think so, so assume you are correct.

I can't believe the confidence of these posters.

Gettingaggy · 15/06/2026 22:25

Tauranga · 15/06/2026 22:24

Unless you are dyslexic.
Or prefer videos.

What a ridiculous conclusion!

And they will still be able to watch the videos. There is no ban on watching YouTube videos. The ban is on having their own account. You don’t need an account to access revision videos. So dyslexic people and people who prefer videos don’t need to worry!