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AIBU to think parents will break the social media rules for summerborn children’s GCSE revision?

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SummerAutumnborn · 15/06/2026 21:27

So as a parent of a September born child my child will be able to access YouTube educational videos before their GCSEs start. Some of these resources are excellent.

Their best friend (August born) will not be able to access any videos before the GCSEs start unless their parents break the rules.

At A-Level my child will have unlimited access their best friend won’t - a problem for kids who access sports clubs in the evening and want to revise before bed.

Summer borns have an educational disadvantage anyway - will this widen the gap further? Here is a BBC article from a few years ago.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-23435439

Am I being unreasonable thinking parents who agree with the SM ban will break the rules if it disadvantages their summer born child?

Out of interest for those of you who do support the social media ban are you going to say to your child that they cannot access exam resources on YouTube and X even if they are better than school and BBC resources? Or when it comes to an educational advantage will you find it acceptable to break the rules and allow access?

I disagree with the ban btw so would have no issue if it affected my child.

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ClairDeLaLune · 15/06/2026 23:27

ProudCat · 15/06/2026 21:30

Teacher here. Videos aren't very good for revision.

Mother of DC who got A*AA here. DC found videos extremely good for revision.

RavenclawWitchy · 15/06/2026 23:18

I would imagine the videos would just be posted to YouTube Kids instead

mrsbowes · 15/06/2026 23:17

BananaPeels · 15/06/2026 23:06

How? I don’t have an iPad to give them to use it. The whole issue of the ban was supposed to be that in order to use any social media we have to do an Id check. So I’m going to have to do that on their phone logged in as me? In which case they have unfettered access anyway. What am I missing if it is as simple to get around the ban as that?

Put it on the TV?

Honeyhonay · 15/06/2026 23:15

BananaPeels · 15/06/2026 23:06

How? I don’t have an iPad to give them to use it. The whole issue of the ban was supposed to be that in order to use any social media we have to do an Id check. So I’m going to have to do that on their phone logged in as me? In which case they have unfettered access anyway. What am I missing if it is as simple to get around the ban as that?

It’s literally an online version of traditional media age ratings.

If you really want to buy your 9 year old grand theft auto you can, the same obviously applies to this.
What on earth does you not having an iPad have to do with social media not being for under 16s??

sittingonabeach · 15/06/2026 23:08

@BananaPeels what are you using to post on MN?

BananaPeels · 15/06/2026 23:08

Honeyhonay · 15/06/2026 23:04

Parents can clearly let their children use YouTube if they want though. People moaning that their child will miss out educationally because they’re 15 during exam season? I mean come on, some people need to engage their brain a bit here.

Also just to add my children play musical instruments and you tube is essential. It has all the tunes played perfectly which they use to play along to. They also use it to learn new chords and videos which break down songs. Many of the songs they play are learnt from watching you tube.

sittingonabeach · 15/06/2026 23:07

What can happen is that parents can give limited access to their kids when revising. What this ban will hopefully stop is kids being able to look at it for hours at a time. What it will hopefully lead to, and it might take some time and probably relate to younger children that social media will not consume their lives. Who knows. As schools have found banning phones in school has led to children actually talking to each other, playing games like cards. It is broadening their lives in different ways. Yes some will flout the ban, but hopefully younger generation will see there are other ways to spend some of their leisure time

BananaPeels · 15/06/2026 23:06

Honeyhonay · 15/06/2026 23:04

Parents can clearly let their children use YouTube if they want though. People moaning that their child will miss out educationally because they’re 15 during exam season? I mean come on, some people need to engage their brain a bit here.

How? I don’t have an iPad to give them to use it. The whole issue of the ban was supposed to be that in order to use any social media we have to do an Id check. So I’m going to have to do that on their phone logged in as me? In which case they have unfettered access anyway. What am I missing if it is as simple to get around the ban as that?

SummerAutumnborn · 15/06/2026 23:05

I am surprised by some of the comments about YouTube material. My child teaches themselves so much maths and science using YT videos.

We don’t use TikTok but I have been sent some good videos that my child would like. (I thought I was sent some ones on X and Facebook too but looking back at my messages I can only see TikTok) I won’t allow TikTok, Snapchat, Roblox or online gaming etc at all - I’m actually stricter than most of their friends parents but have no desire for the government to parent my child’s social media use. In fact i do wonder if it maybe unhelpful for some parents if the government ‘approve’ of certain apps for U16 and the parents don’t?

Parents who are lax will just log in for them. Or their older cousins will log in for them etc.

I am really surprised that people think YT is rubbish for maths / physics etc and only use revision guides, revision books are great for practice but not if you need a refresher with a person explaining at 10am on a Saturday morning. Or if you want to learn a bit more about a topic. The maths teacher sometimes mentions a future topic that my child chooses to research at home. These are never shorts always videos 5-30/40 mins long depending on the topic.

They watch a video, practise the technique and remember the technique. They absorb it like a sponge. It’s clearly working as the maths and science teachers are very pleased with progress and end of year exam results.

I am not concerned in the slightest about YT. I just wondered if those who agree with the SM ban, agree with it being banned fully for all U16s. It’s clear many on here don’t fully agree with the ban as they say they will allow access to YT without an account or allow some YT programmes on their account.

Many of you have said kids will be able to watch YT without logging in so it is irrelevant really.

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Honeyhonay · 15/06/2026 23:04

BananaPeels · 15/06/2026 22:55

How? Pretty much thing is on you tube? Unless, as people seem to saying, this isn’t actually a ban in any way as kids can just ignore it.

Parents can clearly let their children use YouTube if they want though. People moaning that their child will miss out educationally because they’re 15 during exam season? I mean come on, some people need to engage their brain a bit here.

Gizzaeycon · 15/06/2026 22:59

Calmestofallthechickens · 15/06/2026 21:47

I’d be really surprised if YouTube revision videos actually confer a statistically significant competitive advantage in exams. I suspect the negative effects on attention span would more than even the playing field!

I have two summer born children and I think the fact they will potentially have 11 months more social-media-free studying and revision time than their peers is a massive positive. Nothing to stop me showing them videos on YouTube if it was actually a brilliant educational resource, but it is not.

It is a brilliant educational resource.

BananaPeels · 15/06/2026 22:57

Mourningmorningsleep · 15/06/2026 22:57

I'm pleased with the ban. Also, revising on X? REALLY?

No one is talking about x. The content is on you tube and that is covered by the ban

Mourningmorningsleep · 15/06/2026 22:57

I'm pleased with the ban. Also, revising on X? REALLY?

BananaPeels · 15/06/2026 22:55

Honeyhonay · 15/06/2026 22:52

Are there really this many dense people in the uk?
Your teen will be able to use revision resources online. FGS!

How? Pretty much thing is on you tube? Unless, as people seem to saying, this isn’t actually a ban in any way as kids can just ignore it.

Anarchy99 · 15/06/2026 22:54

Ponoka7 · 15/06/2026 22:47

Not really ground breaking. Those of us who were caring for children during Covid and the taping off of playgrounds didn't make sense, broke the rules, by just climbing over the railings etc. The government doesn't always get things right.

And that’s why it won’t work. If you can’t keep your kids off SM now, you will probably delight in giving them access after the ban starts.

PrettyBigThings · 15/06/2026 22:53

I think the social media ban is great but any chance it can apply somehow to those in year 10 below (ie must be 15 on 31 August 2026). Just feels divisive given how much educational stuff is on social media and there will some on Snapchat etc and others not, all in the same year.

Honeyhonay · 15/06/2026 22:52

Are there really this many dense people in the uk?
Your teen will be able to use revision resources online. FGS!

Ponderingwindow · 15/06/2026 22:50

Some of the best maths and science content is on YouTube. Teachers explaining concepts in simple straightforward ways. Most importantly, they may be explaining it using a different method than the classroom teacher and that might be the explanation that clicks for the student.

Ponoka7 · 15/06/2026 22:49

@ToffeeCrabApple I'd say school refusal and poor MH in the ND community is because of a lack of appropriate teaching, environment etc.

Tauranga · 15/06/2026 22:49

ToffeeCrabApple · 15/06/2026 22:47

Yes and its been quite bad for their brains.

These young people have terrible rates of screen addiction, school refusal and mental health issues. The fact that they like revising via videos does not make access good for them in the long term.

What a load of old rubbish.
You have no idea what the kids are doing when no looking at a maths video!

mrsbowes · 15/06/2026 22:48

No one is going to stop you playing youtube videos for your kid 😂

Ponoka7 · 15/06/2026 22:47

ScratchyPants · 15/06/2026 21:52

This ground breaking, child saving measure went from restricting children to adults 'breaking rules' in less than a day. Can't wait to see what the future holds!

Not really ground breaking. Those of us who were caring for children during Covid and the taping off of playgrounds didn't make sense, broke the rules, by just climbing over the railings etc. The government doesn't always get things right.

ToffeeCrabApple · 15/06/2026 22:47

Tauranga · 15/06/2026 22:43

You may notice I am cross at the dismissivness of the responses to revising using videos.

I am mother to a child with dyslexia. Yes, we use videos. Yes, some videos explain answers step by step. No, it's not the only part of revision.

However, kids without dyslexia also use these videos; people are selling revision books which are like brand new as their kids used only online resources. No one is buying books to revise from anymore.

I'm glad to hear You Tube is still going to be available.

Yes and its been quite bad for their brains.

These young people have terrible rates of screen addiction, school refusal and mental health issues. The fact that they like revising via videos does not make access good for them in the long term.

ToffeeCrabApple · 15/06/2026 22:44

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 15/06/2026 22:14

I think the bigger issue will be summer borns being sidelined by friends as they aren’t on the SM for contact. Parents will sign up for them I think. It should be by year group at school, not age. Summer borns are last to drive, last to drink and last to vote. We are a totally summer born family and in August no e comes to your party either!

WhatsApp and signal are apparently not included in the ban.

This is about limiting young people's exposure to constant doomscrolling through addictive short videos, algorithms pushing ever more intense content etc.

Not about stopping 15 year olds watching educational videos or texting mates.

It won't disadvantage kids. The opposite. It will improve their attention spans, mental health and wellbeing.

Bakerposs · 15/06/2026 22:44

My 14 year old doesn’t have (or want) Snapchat, Instagram or TikTok.
He does use YouTube to revise to great effect though. The maths videos on there are better than the ones sparx maths uses to explain concepts he doesn’t understand and there are some great science and history videos that he enjoys watching.
I’ve reassured him that he’ll still be able to watch these and if they introduce some sort of age verification I’ll sign in for him.

I think the ban is a good idea in principle but really it should be on the companies to stop it being so addictive and to clean up content