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AIBU to think parents will break the social media rules for summerborn children’s GCSE revision?

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SummerAutumnborn · 15/06/2026 21:27

So as a parent of a September born child my child will be able to access YouTube educational videos before their GCSEs start. Some of these resources are excellent.

Their best friend (August born) will not be able to access any videos before the GCSEs start unless their parents break the rules.

At A-Level my child will have unlimited access their best friend won’t - a problem for kids who access sports clubs in the evening and want to revise before bed.

Summer borns have an educational disadvantage anyway - will this widen the gap further? Here is a BBC article from a few years ago.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-23435439

Am I being unreasonable thinking parents who agree with the SM ban will break the rules if it disadvantages their summer born child?

Out of interest for those of you who do support the social media ban are you going to say to your child that they cannot access exam resources on YouTube and X even if they are better than school and BBC resources? Or when it comes to an educational advantage will you find it acceptable to break the rules and allow access?

I disagree with the ban btw so would have no issue if it affected my child.

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SerendipityJane · 17/06/2026 16:05

PomplaMouse · 17/06/2026 15:51

What's your point?

I too am dubious that X/Twitter was ever a particularly good resource for revision (and to the extent it hosted good resources, I'm sure they can be published elsewhere).

Why does everyone have to have a point ? Or even "point" ?

Why can't someone provide the smallest piece of reportage with the aim of facilitating discussion and unbderstanding ?:

PomplaMouse · 17/06/2026 15:51

SerendipityJane · 17/06/2026 12:11

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What's your point?

I too am dubious that X/Twitter was ever a particularly good resource for revision (and to the extent it hosted good resources, I'm sure they can be published elsewhere).

SerendipityJane · 17/06/2026 12:11

Mourningmorningsleep · 17/06/2026 09:48

OP: "they cannot access exam resources on YouTube and X"

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AIBU to think parents will break the social media rules for summerborn children’s GCSE revision?
Mourningmorningsleep · 17/06/2026 09:48

BananaPeels · 15/06/2026 22:57

No one is talking about x. The content is on you tube and that is covered by the ban

OP: "they cannot access exam resources on YouTube and X"

Nangula · 17/06/2026 07:41

It’s a non-issue. I need to body double for a lot is DS’s revision as he has ADHD and dyspraxia (so struggle to write much down and needs to practice using a scribe.) We find YouTube videos quite helpful and he accesses them using my or his laptop. Why would that change?

Twoflowertourist · 16/06/2026 21:47

It never ceases to surprise me how black and white some people’s thinking is. Of course you can still allow revision videos on YouTube. The ban will hopefully start to normalise not doomscrolling for hours on end on teens phones. I am pleased they’re at least trying to limit social media for kids. If it even helps to break habits just a little it’s better than not trying.

IdaFlowers · 16/06/2026 20:51

PomplaMouse · 15/06/2026 21:51

Surely they'll just be moved onto the YouTube kids app, which won't be banned?

Yes that's what I thought

ApplesAreNotRaspberries · 16/06/2026 20:48

The problem is not with kids watching the odd educational video under their parents' supervision. I let my primary aged kids watch craft YouTube videos. I watch with them. I don't see a problem with that. The problem is giving kids unfettered, unlimited and unsupervised access to watch mindless or harmful nonsense to the extent that they stop engaging in the real world.

waterrat · 16/06/2026 20:43

This is all so ludicrous.

the truth is - independent reading - which is a HUGE indicator of academic success - had rapidly declined due to screens across the whole of British childhood. Young people are barely at all now reading for pleasure or for their on learning. That is a statistical truth not disproved by a single kid still reading.

Your teen can watch youtube on an adult log in obviously.

The ban is there to make it clear that it is not good for kids to be using these sites day to day and on their own

Like smoking - bans don't stop every young person - they make it culturally known its unhealthy and they make it harder for it to be used by those who are too young.

so much handwringing

MargaretThursday · 16/06/2026 20:38

It will make as much difference as when they moved the WhatsApp age from 13yo to 16yo around about 2016.

ie A few parents decided their dc wouldn't have WhatsApp unil they were 16yo. Some of those dc got it anyway, either on their "spare" phone (often bought off a friend) or kept quiet in various ways. And the children who didn't have it stuck out and found they were missing out on a lot of interaction with their peers making it harder for them to make friends.

Gizzaeycon · 16/06/2026 20:29

ClairDeLaLune · 15/06/2026 23:27

Mother of DC who got A*AA here. DC found videos extremely good for revision.

Snap - same grades and all.

loulouljh · 16/06/2026 18:13

The rules will be broken all over!

Bakerposs · 16/06/2026 18:04

tbf when I first saw TikTok I thought it would be great for revision- catchy little videos that you could use in a similar way to flash cards to practise key concepts, vocab etc.
I thought about creating something but I’m glad I didn’t now 😆

Deadleaves77 · 16/06/2026 18:04

Ponoka7 · 15/06/2026 23:59

As I've said on another thread. We've recently rewatched, an idiot abroad, with my 11 year old GC. She watches educational stuff on YouTube, as well as tutorials. My adult DD fixed her toilet watching YTube. My youngest GC loves misheard lyrics, we watch animal videos and she has sensory issues, so watches funny kitten videos while her hair is being done. If someone can explain the harm, I'd consider sticking to the ban. But then we parent, we are in charge. We don't need government intervention, so we'll follow the 'rules are for the obedience of fools and the guidance of the wise'.

Literally no one is trying to stop you showing your GD kitten videos in a supervised manner

In the same way as parents can show their child 18 films, or let them have a glass of wine. Their isn't going to be police swooping in because you show your child YouTube on occasion

What will be hopefully stopped or at least reduced is unrestricted access to social media, which is undoubtedly harmful to children. As a teen who grew up in the early days of social media I watched ED content on YouTube, me and my friends used Facebook to message and meet older men. Things like tiktok algorithm promote incredibly harm/misogynistic views to young boys. No one gives a shiny shit about an animal video which will probably be on YouTube kids anyway

SerendipityJane · 16/06/2026 17:11

igelkott2026 · 16/06/2026 16:59

All will be revealed when they release the draft regulations. As ever the devil will be in the detail.

At the moment the press release says "Because we want to ensure the ban doesn’t include educational services, e-commerce platforms or music streaming, there will be a narrowly defined list of exemptions to the definitions which will be kept under review."

Edited

So as long as you call your website "educational" it's exempt ?

Or (as I suspect) will we have to have "approved" educational websites ?

So who approves ?

"Quis custodiet custodes ?" as I learned from an educational site.

I mean what about sites that teach human sex is biological from birth ? Can't have our kids exposed to such poison, surely ?

(This post has been ranked "moderate" on the humour scale for anyone who wants to report it).

Thisisnotthelifeisignedupfor · 16/06/2026 17:11

I’m a teacher, I would never recommend a resource on social media. You argument is irrelevant. I recommend resources on You Tube etc that I can check and verify.

igelkott2026 · 16/06/2026 16:59

SerendipityJane · 16/06/2026 16:57

I would be curious to read the (legal) definition of educational content ...

All will be revealed when they release the draft regulations. As ever the devil will be in the detail.

At the moment the press release says "Because we want to ensure the ban doesn’t include educational services, e-commerce platforms or music streaming, there will be a narrowly defined list of exemptions to the definitions which will be kept under review."

SerendipityJane · 16/06/2026 16:57

igelkott2026 · 16/06/2026 16:11

Educational content will specifically be exempt from the ban.

I would be curious to read the (legal) definition of educational content ...

cuberoot · 16/06/2026 16:28

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 15/06/2026 22:15

They can use BBC Bitesize, and what’s wrong with the masses of revision guide publications that are available in almost any bookshop?

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Glittertwins · 16/06/2026 16:27

nam3c4ang3 · 16/06/2026 15:00

WTF - TikTok for GCSEs? Are you being serious or taking the piss? Or just looking for loopholes for your teen?

There is some surprisingly good exam content on there. I was also sceptical until I was shown. Just need to know where to look.
People have different learning styles and worked through video examples have been very useful in maths and physics.

TheGreatDownandOut · 16/06/2026 16:15

This is just silly. No need to be so black and white about it. I largely support the ban… but if my child wants to watch a YouTube tutorial on how to play a song on the piano I’m not going to ban them from doing so! It’s like people don’t understand why the ban was brought in in the first place! Education content, played on the main TV while parents are probably in the same room/close by is world’s away from scrolling through shite on TikTok for hours and hours on their own, in their rooms when they should be sleeping

igelkott2026 · 16/06/2026 16:11

Educational content will specifically be exempt from the ban.

SerendipityJane · 16/06/2026 16:09

Needmorelego · 16/06/2026 16:07

TikTok is short videos.
Someone could use them to show how to solve a maths equation or snippets of whatever Shakespeare play is being studied.
I don't know if anyone does...but they could.

The current trend in life is for something that can be explained in 5 seconds to be padded to take about 30 minutes.

You can't blame the internet though. The BBC were are this well over 20 years ago.

I find the more there is on YouTube, the less I watch.

Needmorelego · 16/06/2026 16:07

nam3c4ang3 · 16/06/2026 15:00

WTF - TikTok for GCSEs? Are you being serious or taking the piss? Or just looking for loopholes for your teen?

TikTok is short videos.
Someone could use them to show how to solve a maths equation or snippets of whatever Shakespeare play is being studied.
I don't know if anyone does...but they could.

BananaPeels · 16/06/2026 15:11

Gettingaggy · 16/06/2026 11:49

The ban is on children having a YouTube account. The ban isn’t on watching YouTube videos, which anyone can do without an account. I don’t have a YouTube account and I can watch videos on YouTube.
The reason for the ban on having an account is that is prevents children from engaging with strangers on YouTube and also stops them being fed content due to potentially harmful algorithms.
The ban isn’t there to stop people watching videos on YouTube.

Then it’s not a ban. Not sure why it’s framed as such. I have been hearing lots about having to use a ID in order to access these things but I’ve got the wrong end of the stick!

bit baffled that the government Would prefer parents not to able to monitor what their children are watching on YouTube via parent controls as they can now but would prefer them to view things the parents can’t easily track because it won’t be linked to the family account.