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AIBU to think banning social media for under-16s is a good idea?

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LizardLore · 15/06/2026 08:18

Just being announced now - social media banned for under-16s.

My instinct is it’s great, but I am interested in other views. My kids are very small so not an issue here yet.

YABU - the ban is bad
YANBU - the ban is good

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RhiannonEMumsnet · 22/06/2026 10:34

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FlappyDappyDoo · 18/06/2026 18:46

Badbadbunny · 18/06/2026 15:38

You already have digital ID if you drive or holiday abroad via photo driving licences and passports.

If you're a company director, then you now have to have digital ID proof, with your identification validated against your passport and/or driving licence.

If you've recently bought a house, rented a house, appointed a solicitor or accountant, opened a bank account, your ID will have needed to be checked, almost certainly via a digital ID checking service.

The point is we are not routinely giving up this information to, in all likelihood, the cheapest bidder of the government contract for them to lose/sell our personal data.

The government and tech should be kept far apart. Anybody remember the Post Office Horizon scandal? And they were supposedly a well regarded IT company.

There are plenty of ways to deal with the issue of social media use in children. They do not need to go down the digital IT road.

Rather than the gov saying "you can't post on this site without proving who you are", they are putting it as "we were unable to verify that aren't under the age of 16, please upload your ID to prove that you are". Spot the difference? Those on here thinking this does not affect them are badly mistaken. All of us will have to upload their ID to post on forums and social media, because if you don't they we can't prove you're not a kid, and we can't have that because its 'illegal',

Changingplace · 18/06/2026 16:37

shinypen · 18/06/2026 16:31

Oh ok that's new, must be due to all the backlash they're getting. Ok so they need to also ban whatsapp, Internet tv, crunchyroll, Google and bacon. OR they can put pdfs and rapists in jail, which they are not doing. They let them out to put whatever disgusting material online they want.

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Maybe they’ll ban MN, and in the age old words of Why don’t you… we can all go and do something less boring instead 😁

shinypen · 18/06/2026 16:31

Changingplace · 18/06/2026 16:22

BlueSky is included, that’s already been announced.

Nobody is really anonymous on SM now, there’s plenty of ways you can be traced if they really need to, the concept that is entirely anonymous is very naive.

Oh ok that's new, must be due to all the backlash they're getting. Ok so they need to also ban whatsapp, Internet tv, crunchyroll, Google and bacon. OR they can put pdfs and rapists in jail, which they are not doing. They let them out to put whatever disgusting material online they want.

ArabellaScott · 18/06/2026 16:27

Changingplace · 18/06/2026 16:18

If you’re using a platform to earn a living you’ll already have shared banking and personal ID details with that company, they have to verify who they’re paying.

And if it’s your sole income you’ll also be submitting a tax return as a sole trader, so HMRC will know that’s who’s paying you, I don’t see what difference this makes?

You clearly have absolutely no idea what you're talking about.

shinypen · 18/06/2026 16:26

Changingplace · 18/06/2026 16:22

BlueSky is included, that’s already been announced.

Nobody is really anonymous on SM now, there’s plenty of ways you can be traced if they really need to, the concept that is entirely anonymous is very naive.

So you're saying it should be made even less so? If you're tired of spam now, just wait until someone hacks the system, uses AI, and creates scams are even harder to tell are fake.

shinypen · 18/06/2026 16:24

Changingplace · 18/06/2026 16:18

If you’re using a platform to earn a living you’ll already have shared banking and personal ID details with that company, they have to verify who they’re paying.

And if it’s your sole income you’ll also be submitting a tax return as a sole trader, so HMRC will know that’s who’s paying you, I don’t see what difference this makes?

The people opposed are thinking not just of what is being proposed, (of course they'll make it sound lovely) but what could easily be implemented AFTER. Once they have your details what's stopping them putting more and more restrictions in "in the name of good"?

The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

Changingplace · 18/06/2026 16:22

shinypen · 18/06/2026 16:17

I think adults do have a right to free speech though. We've seen how mainstream media often do not report accurately. SM bridges this gap. If we start putting ID for adults, we're reducing certain cohorts of adults who are worried about anonymity (eg for their own safety). People will start self-censoring political opinions because they're worried the state will be watching. This is a slippery slope. The Internet is an adult space. Parents should supervise and teach their kids, simple as that. Just like they would when walking down a road.

That Labour left out banning Bluesky (lots of inappropriate/pdf material there) should tell you something.

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BlueSky is included, that’s already been announced.

Nobody is really anonymous on SM now, there’s plenty of ways you can be traced if they really need to, the concept that is entirely anonymous is very naive.

Changingplace · 18/06/2026 16:18

ArabellaScott · 18/06/2026 15:52

For many people social media is an essential part of earning a living.

If you’re using a platform to earn a living you’ll already have shared banking and personal ID details with that company, they have to verify who they’re paying.

And if it’s your sole income you’ll also be submitting a tax return as a sole trader, so HMRC will know that’s who’s paying you, I don’t see what difference this makes?

shinypen · 18/06/2026 16:17

Changingplace · 18/06/2026 15:12

You make it sound like social media is the be all and and end all of life for everyone 😂

That’s my point, it’s not compulsory and hopefully doing this will make kids realise this and move away from this incessant obsession with over sharing every last detail of our lives online which so many adults currently have.

I think adults do have a right to free speech though. We've seen how mainstream media often do not report accurately. SM bridges this gap. If we start putting ID for adults, we're reducing certain cohorts of adults who are worried about anonymity (eg for their own safety). People will start self-censoring political opinions because they're worried the state will be watching. This is a slippery slope. The Internet is an adult space. Parents should supervise and teach their kids, simple as that. Just like they would when walking down a road.

That Labour left out banning Bluesky (lots of inappropriate/pdf material there) should tell you something.

ArabellaScott · 18/06/2026 15:52

Changingplace · 18/06/2026 15:12

You make it sound like social media is the be all and and end all of life for everyone 😂

That’s my point, it’s not compulsory and hopefully doing this will make kids realise this and move away from this incessant obsession with over sharing every last detail of our lives online which so many adults currently have.

For many people social media is an essential part of earning a living.

Badbadbunny · 18/06/2026 15:38

FlappyDappyDoo · 17/06/2026 14:55

You are missing the point.

None of those restrictions make it necessary for UK adults to subsribe to digital ID and to share this ID with any social media platform they want to access.

The reason for the backlash is because this is about Digital ID through the back door using child 'mental health' as an excuse to push it through.

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You already have digital ID if you drive or holiday abroad via photo driving licences and passports.

If you're a company director, then you now have to have digital ID proof, with your identification validated against your passport and/or driving licence.

If you've recently bought a house, rented a house, appointed a solicitor or accountant, opened a bank account, your ID will have needed to be checked, almost certainly via a digital ID checking service.

Changingplace · 18/06/2026 15:13

shinypen · 18/06/2026 14:56

Lock up your daughters!!

So instead of actually prosecuting pdfs, we're restricting kids and making ALL adults give up sensitive information to who knows where.

Edited

Nobody is being ‘made’ to do anything, I must’ve missed the memo where having social media accounts was mandated by the government by law 😂

Changingplace · 18/06/2026 15:12

ArabellaScott · 18/06/2026 13:55

Thank you. Here we have it clearly laid out.

If anyone wants to use social media, they should be prepared to hand over ID to tech companies and/or the government in order to do so.

Every success, every achievement, every victory, every scientific discovery, all knowledge, all wisdom, all happiness, all virtue, are held to issue directly from his leadership and inspiration.

You make it sound like social media is the be all and and end all of life for everyone 😂

That’s my point, it’s not compulsory and hopefully doing this will make kids realise this and move away from this incessant obsession with over sharing every last detail of our lives online which so many adults currently have.

shinypen · 18/06/2026 14:56

Lock up your daughters!!

So instead of actually prosecuting pdfs, we're restricting kids and making ALL adults give up sensitive information to who knows where.

ArabellaScott · 18/06/2026 13:55

Changingplace · 18/06/2026 07:15

Social media usage isn’t compulsory, nobody is going to be forced to hand over any details to anyone.

Maybe it’ll be good for adults as well to make them really think not only about whether they want to share personal info to access it but the level of personal information they’ve already shared online without thought of who can access it and what they do with it.

Thank you. Here we have it clearly laid out.

If anyone wants to use social media, they should be prepared to hand over ID to tech companies and/or the government in order to do so.

Every success, every achievement, every victory, every scientific discovery, all knowledge, all wisdom, all happiness, all virtue, are held to issue directly from his leadership and inspiration.

ChubbyPuffling · 18/06/2026 13:35

Tiddlywinks63 · 18/06/2026 09:38

I couldn’t agree more. Seeing children waiting for their school bus all on their phones, ignoring each other, walking along the pavement not taking their eyes off their phone, is utterly depressing.
Friends who are teachers are battling with children who can’t concentrate on their work because their used to mindlessly scrolling, mothers pushing buggies focusing on their phone in their hand…..
There’s a generation of children who can’t amuse themselves unless they’re on screens.
The arguments on here that pp are fully capable of monitoring what their children watch? Well, bully for you. You’re probably the exception.
It’s going to be interesting to see how kids manage without social media.

But most savvy kids will not be without social media.

No social media does not mean no smart phones.

"No" social media having a proscribed list leaves the door wide open for non social apps to fill the vacuum .

are forums considered social media?
online gaming via consoles?

The devil is in the detail. As a former IT professional , this is window dressing for digital ID.

Changingplace · 18/06/2026 10:49

Whatafustercluck · 18/06/2026 07:47

I agree with the ban. I well remember the constant arguments with ds because all of his friends were allowed various platforms from a young age, but we insisted on sticking to the age restrictions. It was literally every night and we had "i don't care what your friends' parents do, our priority is you" on repeat for months on end. Even now, I have so many conversations with him about how just because he's seen something on TikTok it doesn't make it factual.

Dd watches YouTube (lots of research and 'how to' craft videos - she's very much a visual learner) which I gather she'll still be able to do, she just can't have an account. She creates content (craft videos, no face/ body shots), but she does this on my account under supervision. I have absolutely no problem with her not having access to all the other platforms. It'll make it far easier to say 'no it's against the law' this time around.

YouTube kids won’t be banned, YouTube need to work out how they stop access without an account at all and ringfence educational content better.

Tiddlywinks63 · 18/06/2026 09:38

InOverMyHead84 · 15/06/2026 21:16

This can only be a great thing. Children deserve a proper childhood and a chance to grow without the appalling influence this brings to them. They need space to grow and develop without this.

I couldn’t agree more. Seeing children waiting for their school bus all on their phones, ignoring each other, walking along the pavement not taking their eyes off their phone, is utterly depressing.
Friends who are teachers are battling with children who can’t concentrate on their work because their used to mindlessly scrolling, mothers pushing buggies focusing on their phone in their hand…..
There’s a generation of children who can’t amuse themselves unless they’re on screens.
The arguments on here that pp are fully capable of monitoring what their children watch? Well, bully for you. You’re probably the exception.
It’s going to be interesting to see how kids manage without social media.

CandiedPrincess · 18/06/2026 09:33

FlappyDappyDoo · 18/06/2026 08:01

I have not shared any personal information online and I wish to keep it that way.

I do not think every post a person makes on every social media platform should include a signature that includes the users photograph, address, name and date of birth. This is essentially what this new mandate will be doing. Because that information will be held by whichever data company the government goes with.

The joke of it all most socia media bullying is attributed to whatsapp and they will not be subject to this new restriction.

The ignorance to what is really going on here is astounding!

This is not a "ban" this is pushing through digital ID.

Edited

Absolutely agree!

I'm not against the ban but I am against digital ID being introduced through the backdoor.

And agree re WhatsApp too, that's where the worst of it happens.

Whatafustercluck · 18/06/2026 09:14

herewegoagainonwednesday · 18/06/2026 08:59

The problem with them not having an account is that you can’t log it down. They seem to be able to watch everything, but without the chance of limiting what they watch to specific channels? So the chance of them watching inappropriate stuff actually increases?
As said above, completely agree with tiktok, instagram etc, but youtube works differently from these.
You can’t not allow them youtube either as so much educational stuff is hosted on them.
What is needed for youtube is child accounts that allow only specific approved channels (Corbett maths etc) not a ban. So kids have to ask for each channel to be authorised.

I've had similar thoughts, and conversations with dd. There's YouTube Kids, but as a tween, dd says the content is now too young for her. We control the content she watches via Family Link.

herewegoagainonwednesday · 18/06/2026 08:59

Whatafustercluck · 18/06/2026 07:47

I agree with the ban. I well remember the constant arguments with ds because all of his friends were allowed various platforms from a young age, but we insisted on sticking to the age restrictions. It was literally every night and we had "i don't care what your friends' parents do, our priority is you" on repeat for months on end. Even now, I have so many conversations with him about how just because he's seen something on TikTok it doesn't make it factual.

Dd watches YouTube (lots of research and 'how to' craft videos - she's very much a visual learner) which I gather she'll still be able to do, she just can't have an account. She creates content (craft videos, no face/ body shots), but she does this on my account under supervision. I have absolutely no problem with her not having access to all the other platforms. It'll make it far easier to say 'no it's against the law' this time around.

The problem with them not having an account is that you can’t log it down. They seem to be able to watch everything, but without the chance of limiting what they watch to specific channels? So the chance of them watching inappropriate stuff actually increases?
As said above, completely agree with tiktok, instagram etc, but youtube works differently from these.
You can’t not allow them youtube either as so much educational stuff is hosted on them.
What is needed for youtube is child accounts that allow only specific approved channels (Corbett maths etc) not a ban. So kids have to ask for each channel to be authorised.

FlappyDappyDoo · 18/06/2026 08:01

K0hlrabi · 18/06/2026 06:55

I’m staggered this isn’t happening already and that you’d prefer to throw vulnerable children under the bus to protect adults!

I have not shared any personal information online and I wish to keep it that way.

I do not think every post a person makes on every social media platform should include a signature that includes the users photograph, address, name and date of birth. This is essentially what this new mandate will be doing. Because that information will be held by whichever data company the government goes with.

The joke of it all most socia media bullying is attributed to whatsapp and they will not be subject to this new restriction.

The ignorance to what is really going on here is astounding!

This is not a "ban" this is pushing through digital ID.

Whatafustercluck · 18/06/2026 07:47

I agree with the ban. I well remember the constant arguments with ds because all of his friends were allowed various platforms from a young age, but we insisted on sticking to the age restrictions. It was literally every night and we had "i don't care what your friends' parents do, our priority is you" on repeat for months on end. Even now, I have so many conversations with him about how just because he's seen something on TikTok it doesn't make it factual.

Dd watches YouTube (lots of research and 'how to' craft videos - she's very much a visual learner) which I gather she'll still be able to do, she just can't have an account. She creates content (craft videos, no face/ body shots), but she does this on my account under supervision. I have absolutely no problem with her not having access to all the other platforms. It'll make it far easier to say 'no it's against the law' this time around.

Changingplace · 18/06/2026 07:15

Dbank · 17/06/2026 11:55

I agree, adding Social Media to the list sounds fairly innocuous, but it's the impact on other users that concerns me.

Any adult who wishes to continue to access SM on the restricted list, will have to do an age check that will include personal information that identifies you, and according to the AI and Technology minister may include having to share your passport details.

Are you prepared to share this data with companies that have repeatedly been fined hundreds of millions of pounds for breaches to personal data protection legislation?

Social media usage isn’t compulsory, nobody is going to be forced to hand over any details to anyone.

Maybe it’ll be good for adults as well to make them really think not only about whether they want to share personal info to access it but the level of personal information they’ve already shared online without thought of who can access it and what they do with it.