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What is going on with Brooklyn/Harper Beckham?

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IberianLynx · 14/06/2026 13:20

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/harper-beckhams-devastating-gesture-after-37292907.amp

AIBU to feel sorry for Harper? If BB has an issue with his parents it shouldn’t mean that he also stops talking to his siblings. It’s equally as sad if the parents did choreographed the letter/visit.

Brooklyn Beckham accuses parents of using Harper for 'choreographed' house visit

Harper Beckham was spotted making a failed attempt to reunite with her brother Brooklyn, with a spokesperson dismissing the visit as another stunt from 'brand Beckham'

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/harper-beckhams-devastating-gesture-after-37292907.amp

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EvenAnxiousPupsNeedTheMoon · 16/06/2026 22:37

Letsgetreadytorhumble · 16/06/2026 21:24

Correction, all this awareness of how we can walk away from dysfunction and toxicity is to be applauded.

Exactly. I’ve found that in general people who dismiss it are often pretty toxic and dysfunctional themselves and they hate that they’re made to face up to their own issues by people in their lives saying enough is enough.

Letsgetreadytorhumble · 16/06/2026 21:24

likelysuspect · 16/06/2026 20:46

All this modern 'no contact' stuff is utter bullshit unless there has been outright abuse, harm, physical or sexual abuse/neglect.

Correction, all this awareness of how we can walk away from dysfunction and toxicity is to be applauded.

BeardySchnauzer · 16/06/2026 21:11

I always wonder if DB was disappointed that Brooklyn couldn’t make it as a footballer and made that felt, but didn’t have the same expectations of the other boys because he’d dealt with it by then.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 16/06/2026 21:08

I remember seeing this photo when the rift story first broke and it still blows my mind somewhat.

1: Who takes a toddler into the West End, presumably well past their bedtime to see Mamma Mia?

2: Why is there no car seat?

3: Why have they ensured that Brooklyn is right by the window where the paps have full access to take his photo?

4: Brooklyn's poor distressed expression 💔. And for what? So Brand Beckham could get themselves in the paper.

Waiting for photo approval.

What is going on with Brooklyn/Harper Beckham?
Tableforjoan · 16/06/2026 20:53

It’s not modern is it really. People used to just move and disappear before emails and mobile phones. Before we could track everyone’s locations.

Hell some soldiers used to let their loved ones often wives even think they were dead while living with a brand new family else where.

It’s just you know about it now in the world of everyone being contactable 24/7. People can’t just ops lost contact lost my address book anymore. Sorry didn’t receive your letter and some never spoke again. But now with online you can find everyone to remind them hey I emailed you! I texted you!

likelysuspect · 16/06/2026 20:46

All this modern 'no contact' stuff is utter bullshit unless there has been outright abuse, harm, physical or sexual abuse/neglect.

BeardySchnauzer · 16/06/2026 20:28

Yes. But double barrel names can be a pain!

I know a couple that merged their name

Beltz?Peckham?

Tableforjoan · 16/06/2026 20:25

Brooklyn peltz beckham according to his instagram.

I actually like these men taking their wives name very new very not becoming man’s property. Very respecting of their wives.

Everyone just adding a second surname.

Peaty Ramsay as well.

TheAutumnCrow · 16/06/2026 20:12

EvenAnxiousPupsNeedTheMoon · 16/06/2026 19:48

Why should he drop his own name? It is his, not just theirs.

It’s all VD’s PR seem to have left to work with lately - ‘Ooooh, Brooklyn should drop his surname / name, yadayadayada’ - and it’s all sounding a little bit desperate.

Everyone is entitled to use the name on their birth certificate, or change it, to suit themselves.

Why not argue that Victoria should drop the Beckham name and separate herself from her errant son? It’s a really lame argument , right? They’re not like royal titles or styles fgs.

Anyway I think he’s Beckham-Peltz now. It’s very low stakes stuff really.

BeardySchnauzer · 16/06/2026 20:05

Cruz Beckham's girlfriend, Jackie Apostel, is known for her fashion sense, while Romeo Beckham's girlfriend, Kim Turnbull, is a model and DJ who blends various music genres and has performed internationally. Both are often seen accompanying the Beckham brothers at events.

this is what AI told me 🤣

BeardySchnauzer · 16/06/2026 20:03

Tableforjoan · 16/06/2026 20:01

I’ve no idea. But being his “manager” and his gf plus the age just stinks. Surprised they like that.

Also how is his music earning enough for a manager who can afford to only be his manager and have such free time.

Indeed!

I assume they make some money through sm and some brand endorsements

Tableforjoan · 16/06/2026 20:01

I’ve no idea. But being his “manager” and his gf plus the age just stinks. Surprised they like that.

Also how is his music earning enough for a manager who can afford to only be his manager and have such free time.

TheAutumnCrow · 16/06/2026 20:00

Letsgetreadytorhumble · 16/06/2026 19:18

Living with this type of dysfunction totally messes with your nervous system.

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It really does. Children grow up being made to feel responsible for whether or not dad loses his temper and/or mum has an emotional meltdown. The same children are then assigned roles and tasks to ‘fix’ things, as if they (the kids) were responsible for it in the first place.

And the family mantra is ever present: don’t discuss this outside of the immediate family. Don’t tell anyone.

Brooklyn broke the code.

BeardySchnauzer · 16/06/2026 19:58

Isn’t Cruz’s girlfriend his manager? For his music career I mean. I find the age gap a bit much - if it was the other way round I think people would be a lot more critical

and Romeo’s girlfriend is a model and dj? Which is very vague and I guess has mixed time commitments

Tableforjoan · 16/06/2026 19:55

It’s strange these girlfriends don’t have jobs or friends or family commitments of their own that stop them saying how high the second they shout jump.

The pay must be good 😅

BeardySchnauzer · 16/06/2026 19:52

Yes I find the ‘drop the name’ odd - or do we think VD have successfully trademarked themselves🙄

and tbh even if he did become Brooklyn Peltz it’s not like people wouldn’t go on about ‘he only met his wife because of his parents’.

would people only be happy if he married Sonia from the mini mart and got a job as an electrician?

ShadesOfPemberley · 16/06/2026 19:52

Maybe slightly off-topic but I think the posed group photos are starting to look very strange now. I don’t know if it’s since BB dropped his bombshell earlier in the year so now it’s more open and obvious how strained and fake those posed ‘perfect family’ shots are. Or if it’s before that, since they’ve added girlfriends (who look scarily like Victoria 😳) which somehow just looks a bit gruesome, these two young women being blended into the family and made to turn up and pose…

I mean I’m sure they’re happy to be on the payroll (!) but there’s something so controlling and odd about two young women being co-opted into big family photo sessions to mark yet another of David’s marvellous achievements! I have a close family and in-laws who’ve been welcomed as part of the whole family so you could say it’s nice and it’s no more than that… but the impression given is that these two women have nothing better to do with their lives than put on their future mother-in-law’s nighties, pose on a staircase looking pouty and miserable and then go and have yet another evening of saluting David’s amazingness.

It is very strange.

BatsInHibernation · 16/06/2026 19:50

Pabbel · 14/06/2026 13:35

To cut off siblings and other family members when your problems are with your parents is childish and hurtful

Family estrangement is never this simple.

EvenAnxiousPupsNeedTheMoon · 16/06/2026 19:48

Youdontseehow · 16/06/2026 19:23

Same but I find myself musing over it.

I think BB is a twat. I do have some sympathy for him if he believes his parents did put “the brand” before him.

But I can’t get past him still cashing in on the Beckham name and doing a H&M privacy world tour sort of thing. He’d not have met/married NP if he wasn’t their son nor would he have the personal wealth he does.

if he hates brand Beckham so much, he should drop the name, rename his Cloud 23 shit (DB’s shirt number) and all things tied to his parents. See how far he gets then.

Why should he drop his own name? It is his, not just theirs.

Tableforjoan · 16/06/2026 19:47

I mean Beckham is his name it’s weird to say he should give it up.

He clearly hated himself being used by his parent to promote themselves, the constant roll call to appear at yet another event to show themselves as such a wholesome family. On top of an upbringing that’s clearly caused him some issues.

He tried to ask them to follow and respect his boundaries then had to ask legally then had to publicly do so and yet they still keep fishing and poking.

He wants his name, face and financial opportunities to be controlled by himself rather than his mum and dad and that’s completely normal as an adult.

Tableforjoan · 16/06/2026 19:43

JulietteHasAGun · 16/06/2026 18:15

Oh that’s probably very true. But the family feud has been going on for longer. So the whole “why aren’t I at the World Cup, it’s a long story” angle I think refers to the family feud regardless of the most recent shitshow.

i think it said to be continued so no doubt the next instalment will come up with a “reason” why he wasn’t there which has nothing to do with his parents.

Would be funny if the next one announced a pregnancy or something tbh 😅

Twatalert · 16/06/2026 19:27

Youdontseehow · 16/06/2026 19:23

Same but I find myself musing over it.

I think BB is a twat. I do have some sympathy for him if he believes his parents did put “the brand” before him.

But I can’t get past him still cashing in on the Beckham name and doing a H&M privacy world tour sort of thing. He’d not have met/married NP if he wasn’t their son nor would he have the personal wealth he does.

if he hates brand Beckham so much, he should drop the name, rename his Cloud 23 shit (DB’s shirt number) and all things tied to his parents. See how far he gets then.

He can't help being a Beckham. I dont actually think he hates the brand. His issue is that the brand came before and above everything and he had no say for 18 or 21 years and they didn't like when he wanted to go and live his own life. As an adult. As far as I can see he isn't calling paps or buying a star.

GingerBeverage · 16/06/2026 19:25

BeardySchnauzer · 16/06/2026 19:19

Yes - although I really hope the relationship works out for his sake (not financial!)

Sadly the rumours about NP from years ago are not flattering and involve being nasty to their house staff. Perhaps she’s grown out of it.

Youdontseehow · 16/06/2026 19:23

IdentifyingAsAWoollyMammoth · 14/06/2026 13:47

Apparently he wasn't even in the city, so even if he wanted to see her he couldn't.

Can't believe I'm commenting on this when I really don't give a shit 😂

Same but I find myself musing over it.

I think BB is a twat. I do have some sympathy for him if he believes his parents did put “the brand” before him.

But I can’t get past him still cashing in on the Beckham name and doing a H&M privacy world tour sort of thing. He’d not have met/married NP if he wasn’t their son nor would he have the personal wealth he does.

if he hates brand Beckham so much, he should drop the name, rename his Cloud 23 shit (DB’s shirt number) and all things tied to his parents. See how far he gets then.

BeardySchnauzer · 16/06/2026 19:19

GingerBeverage · 16/06/2026 19:15

I do think he will need his own money. It’s not unlikely he’ll find himself outside of the Peltz protection at some stage.

Yes - although I really hope the relationship works out for his sake (not financial!)