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To think there is something wrong with my bowels?

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WildPoo · 13/06/2026 19:09

In times when the world seems to be falling apart this may seem trivial, but it’s becoming an important issue for me! Have name changed for obvious reasons.

For the last maybe 18 months or so, every time I go to the supermarket, or any large shop eg IKEA or B&Q, within minutes of getting there I feel like I’m about to shit myself. It’s an urge that comes on suddenly and strongly, and I have to waddle off to the nearest toilet with a great degree of urgency. It’s not like I’m worried about it happening because I genuinely get taken by surprise by it each time, and it’s not like I find shopping a stressful experience. TMI warning - when I do get to the toilet, by god it’s Quite The Event, consistency is solid/normal, but when I walk out I must be about a stone lighter.

Anyway, that’s been a bit curious and annoying for a while, but easy enough to manage as there’s usually a toilet nearby. However, this seems to have extended to when I’m out walking. 3 times in the last 4 days, I’ve ended up having to have a wild poo when out with the dogs, which isn’t as handy as the supermarket thing as you can imagine. Similar feeling, comes out of nowhere and then within a few minutes it’s critical. This is more of a problem, because I’m out walking A LOT.

The shame of posting this on the World Wide Web, but I thought I’d see if anyone has any advice, do I need to see a doctor or is nearly shitting yourself on an almost daily basis just something that is part and parcel of middle age?

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SereneGoose · 13/06/2026 19:13

Voted YAB only because you honestly shouldn't be experiencing this so Go to your doctor.

bootsroots · 13/06/2026 19:12

This is weirdly normal! I had forgotten so I looked it up again and it’s called the Mariko Aoki phenomenon. Must be such a relief, so I would be tempted to head to Ikea more often!

Loulou4022 · 13/06/2026 19:12

I’d pop along to the GP and get it checked out.

SereneGoose · 13/06/2026 19:11

Time for the GP...