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Bloody sick of men. Oh it’s the immigrants raping and stabbing, NO it’s men. Always fucking men

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00K · 12/06/2026 19:02

That’s my Friday rant.
Far right men thinking they’re sorting everything out with their riots to protect the women. Maybe women should riot about just men.

also I know it’s not all men, but it is men.

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QuintadosMalvados · 13/06/2026 14:23

I wonder where @00K is.

Having enlightened us all that is it is men who are responsible for the vast majority of horrible crimes (shock horror. I had no clue. Sarcasm obviously) with her self - stated rant.

Maybe the fact that not everybody agrees (well only a quarter but still) with her has deflated her hubris a bit.

Oh OP, we had no idea it is the men. We bow down to your superior insight on this topic. Just like, you know, some have thought about it a bit further.

QuintadosMalvados · 13/06/2026 14:00

LittleJustice · 13/06/2026 12:04

Bit of a sweeping statement and I would love to see your proof of this.

Just because men are from lower income backgrounds, and have the usual lower level criminal convictions (often relating to poverty such as shoplifting or drugs) doesn't always correlate with abuse of the women in their lives.

Agree. I think I'd rather take my chances with the average British bloke-at least he won't be able to claim that he thought that rape was just 'normal' sexual activity and that it was part of British culture.

QuintadosMalvados · 13/06/2026 13:53

@LuckyHazelFox I agree.
There's more to it than that, though.
I think that some women believe they can save even the worst specimens of men with their love.
Having maybe failed with a few native British men, they want to try with another set of men.
Seen it a lot of times.

And no I am not being sexist here as I say some women.
Some men may be like this too.

Also, it's very trendy to be left-wing about this.

LittleJustice · 13/06/2026 12:04

EnterQueene · 13/06/2026 11:56

The horrible thugs rioting generally have convictions for domestic abuse and violence against women. They don't care about women, they just want a bit of violence. They are more of a threat to women than your average immigrant.

Bit of a sweeping statement and I would love to see your proof of this.

Just because men are from lower income backgrounds, and have the usual lower level criminal convictions (often relating to poverty such as shoplifting or drugs) doesn't always correlate with abuse of the women in their lives.

EnterQueene · 13/06/2026 11:56

The horrible thugs rioting generally have convictions for domestic abuse and violence against women. They don't care about women, they just want a bit of violence. They are more of a threat to women than your average immigrant.

LuckyHazelFox · 13/06/2026 11:54

LittleJustice · 13/06/2026 11:53

Another point really is that of course domestic abuse happens in other countries but women don't have the rights we Western women have to call it out.

Source: National Institutes of Health (.gov) https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10009496/

"It is also well established in the literature that VAW in the form of DV, family violence, female genital mutilation, forced/child marriages, and honor killings are common throughout North Africa and the Middle East, and despite the high prevalence rates, DV continues to be an underreported problem across this region"

Those poor women and girls will never know the meaning of a normal life. 😢

LuckyHazelFox · 13/06/2026 11:53

QuintadosMalvados · 13/06/2026 11:51

As it is obviously lilogical to import even more men who hail from cultures that treat women appallingly when we already have an issue with 'native' British men-
You don't poke a hole in your bedroom's roof when you've got water coming in through the living room's ceiling - what is it, if not logic, behind some women's insistence that it is OK to let these men in?

Because whatever it's based on, it's not logic.

No, it's based on emotional guilt.

LittleJustice · 13/06/2026 11:53

Another point really is that of course domestic abuse happens in other countries but women don't have the rights we Western women have to call it out.

Source: National Institutes of Health (.gov) https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10009496/

"It is also well established in the literature that VAW in the form of DV, family violence, female genital mutilation, forced/child marriages, and honor killings are common throughout North Africa and the Middle East, and despite the high prevalence rates, DV continues to be an underreported problem across this region"

Domestic Violence Against Women in North African and Middle Eastern Countries: A Scoping Review - PMC

This scoping review aimed to identify the scope of the current literature on the prevalence, consequences, and risk factors of domestic violence (DV) against women by their husbands or male partners in North African and Middle Eastern countries. The .....

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10009496/

QuintadosMalvados · 13/06/2026 11:51

As it is obviously lilogical to import even more men who hail from cultures that treat women appallingly when we already have an issue with 'native' British men-
You don't poke a hole in your bedroom's roof when you've got water coming in through the living room's ceiling - what is it, if not logic, behind some women's insistence that it is OK to let these men in?

Because whatever it's based on, it's not logic.

LuckyHazelFox · 13/06/2026 11:47

@EarthlyNightshade Maybe for similar reasons to the Brixton and Toxteth riots. Different eras, different political and policing strategies but still the same discontent.

Edated - forgot to quote

ginasevern · 13/06/2026 11:46

@NotAnotherScarf "Two names Rose West, Myra Hindely. Both orchestras of abuse. Then add those nazi female camp guards.Overall men are much more likely to commit murder but women also can be culprits"

Yes and by the law of averages there will always be some women that commit awful crimes. It doesn't negate the fact that 98% of all rapes, violent sexual assaults, murders, paedophilia and animal torture is perpetrated by men. So "much more likely" is something of an understatement.

EarthlyNightshade · 13/06/2026 11:42

LuckyHazelFox · 13/06/2026 11:20

Ah so they are all racist and anyone who doesn't see it the same way is also racist. They dont care about women and are just rioting to show their racism. I don't think there's anything to comprehend with that bigotry.

Why do you think they are rioting?

LuckyHazelFox · 13/06/2026 11:42

Womanofcustard · 13/06/2026 11:39

Meanwhile in Afghanistan, the Taliban opened fire, and killed, men protesting against the treatment of women. Loads of women had been arrested for not being covered up sufficiently.

We are importing that mentality here. Still the stark contrast between cultures is ignored to save being called racist.

Womanofcustard · 13/06/2026 11:39

Meanwhile in Afghanistan, the Taliban opened fire, and killed, men protesting against the treatment of women. Loads of women had been arrested for not being covered up sufficiently.

SwirlyGates · 13/06/2026 11:37

NotAnotherScarf · 12/06/2026 22:58

Two names Rose West, Myra Hindely. Both orchestras of abuse. Then add those nazi female camp guards.

Overall men are much more likely to commit murder but women also can be culprits

Rose West and Myra Hindley - I'm not diminishing what they did, but neither acted alone. They both acted with men, and probably to please those men rather than being the orchestrators of the crimes.

ginasevern · 13/06/2026 11:35

@Fillies4DeclanRice "The proportion of asylum seekers carrying out seriously violent and / or sexual crimes is significantly higher than the proportion of men who do the same"

It would be interesting to see the statistics on this. But either way, I can't imagine why any woman would be joyous about the importation of unchecked and undocumented men en masse. And that goes for the UK and any other country on the planet.

SisterTeatime · 13/06/2026 11:30

GeneralPeter · 13/06/2026 11:15

But are you saying that any country or race is not worse?

As in, you think there are no patterns and all countries/ cultures are the same?

Because to me it does at the moment feel like you want to be the teller of hard truths (that everyone agrees with — it’s men), but when it comes to a truth you find uncomfortable (and some men much more than others) then suddenly not so brave.

I just want proper data on this for the UK. Data from European countries shows a stark disparity in sexual offending rate by country of origin. Men rightly have to face facts: we commit the vast majority of sexual crime. But we shouldn’t be drawing the veil over any offending patterns for reasons of politeness or politics.

I agree with this.

Re Henry Nowak, the point is that it appears to be a tragic example of two-tier policing, a total failure of police training and culture. It’s not just about race. We can’t know for sure whether it really was two-tier policing, but the point is that it was an avoidable tragedy that looks very much like the natural result of a lot of EDI training and thinking.

ValueofNothing · 13/06/2026 11:28

LuckyHazelFox · 13/06/2026 11:20

Ah so they are all racist and anyone who doesn't see it the same way is also racist. They dont care about women and are just rioting to show their racism. I don't think there's anything to comprehend with that bigotry.

Continuing with the lack of reading comprehension, eh? How bizarre.

LuckyHazelFox · 13/06/2026 11:24

Thirteenblackcats · 13/06/2026 11:22

You can’t pretend that men committing DV is the same as some of these crimes committed by undocumented migrants.

I fear for my daughters and don’t want them to leave the house.

it’s just not. Both awful nonetheless

One is a personal threat the other is a societal threat, to describe it in its barest terms. I hope all these outraged women were equally as outraged at the very racist grooming rapes.

ilovebrie8 · 13/06/2026 11:24

Trinity65 · 13/06/2026 11:10

Goading. OP is a goader

Not only is she a goader she got my post removed for telling the truth about Afghans.

Thirteenblackcats · 13/06/2026 11:22

You can’t pretend that men committing DV is the same as some of these crimes committed by undocumented migrants.

I fear for my daughters and don’t want them to leave the house.

it’s just not. Both awful nonetheless

LuckyHazelFox · 13/06/2026 11:20

ValueofNothing · 13/06/2026 11:16

Hmm, lack of reading comprehension? Nowhere did I say that or not say that. What I actually think in case you're genuinely interested is there are unfortunately men of all races and ethnicities who see women as property. No culture is free of it. If the racists get their way and we remove all non-whites from the UK, it will still not fix the problem of male violence against women. And what's worse is the far right simply don't care. They have shown they have no genuine interest in women's safety except in that they can use it to further their racist agenda.

Ah so they are all racist and anyone who doesn't see it the same way is also racist. They dont care about women and are just rioting to show their racism. I don't think there's anything to comprehend with that bigotry.

LuckyHazelFox · 13/06/2026 11:17

HobGobblynne · 13/06/2026 10:13

Of course I can. The situation was unique.

There are lots of situations where the police have failed to carry out their duties and let down a member of the public that didn’t result in violent disorder though.

and the differentiator here is the attackers skin colour. Despite the judge, and the family, saying race played no part in the killing

Let down a member of the public is a massive understatement! You're kidding yourself if you think this was just about the murderer being a different skin colour.

ValueofNothing · 13/06/2026 11:16

LuckyHazelFox · 13/06/2026 10:54

I didn't realise only white men see women as chattels. I don't really think you wanting to be opening that can of worms.

Hmm, lack of reading comprehension? Nowhere did I say that or not say that. What I actually think in case you're genuinely interested is there are unfortunately men of all races and ethnicities who see women as property. No culture is free of it. If the racists get their way and we remove all non-whites from the UK, it will still not fix the problem of male violence against women. And what's worse is the far right simply don't care. They have shown they have no genuine interest in women's safety except in that they can use it to further their racist agenda.