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Decluttering inspiration

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pollyhilly · 12/06/2026 08:31

Ive really lost control of the stuff in my house. It’s surface level tidy but every drawer and cupboard is full of stuff. There is so much I could get rid of - clothes, toys, books, things that haven’t been used in years. But it’s so overwhelming. It’s not even the thought of getting it all out, it’s getting it out and having to decide what to keep, what to bin, what to sell and so on. It feels insurmountable because literally every room (mine, kids, kitchen, living room) is the same.

I have very little free time between work and kids as well. I watch videos on social media of people in perfect small family homes that are just super organised and only seem to be full of useful stuff. Our house is quite big but that’s not necessarily a good thing because it’s more space to fill. I’ve always struggled with this sort of thing and dream of a small cosy home where everything is kept on top of and nothing is junky.

I need some tips and motivation to get going with this. Dd is unwell and just chilling on the sofa this morning so this could be a perfect time to make a start.

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B0D · 12/06/2026 08:37

Medication not meditation!

needagoodnightsleep1 · 12/06/2026 08:37

I felt like this in January. Made it my new years resolution to get on top of it. I only did a couple of drawer's on my the days off. Made my way upstairs and did one wardrobe/chest of drawers at a time. It took me about 2 months to go through the whole house. I booked a weekly tip run on my days off to get rid of the rubbish. Im glad it is now done and wasn’t so bad once i started

B0D · 12/06/2026 08:37

I started with a cupboard with decorating things in, there were lots of dried up paints and brushes etc I could chuck. Likewise meditation (out of date). It helped me feel I’d achieved something without having to make decisions

Cheesecakeismeesecake · 12/06/2026 08:35

Social media is full of lies op- they'll have a Monica room or closet off screen but meanwhile the 'gram cupboard is rainbow organised tins and alphabetical spices

I'm still figuring out how to declutter and getting it wrong a lot

I am on a low buy year so I'm trying to stem the flow of stuff in while taking a bag of recycling or donations once a week

Specialagentblond · 12/06/2026 08:32

Also. Just done cupboard at a time. And stop buying stuff.

Specialagentblond · 12/06/2026 08:32

I’m always inspired after those hoarder type programmes. The Stacey Solomon one is kind and non judgmental.