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To be annoyed partner is still not home?

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inkyspells · 11/06/2026 22:14

So my partner went out to meet his fellow area managers .
They met at 5pm (for apparently a couple of drinks and a meal )
They have met in a city that’s a hour away.
He didn’t take his key because he said he wouldn’t be late.
Hes just text asking for the bus timetable ,I sent it over and he replied saying he’s getting the midnight bus.
So he’s not getting home till after 1am
Hes got no key so I’m gonna have to stay up
He has work at 7am in the morning as well
He asked if I was Annoyed,I just said well you will be tired tomorrow at work (I now work from home and off till Tuesday)
Aibu ? Just take your key but tbh I wouldn’t sleep anyway till I knew he was home.

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tiramisugelato · 11/06/2026 22:16

I’d be annoyed he didn’t take his key but not about the time - he’s an adult not a teenager with a curfew.

Ablondiebutagoody · 11/06/2026 22:16

The football has only just finished. Leave the key under a rock and go to bed. No skin off your nose if he's tired tomorrow.