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To despair at this government??

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IllTakeACheapSeatPlease · 11/06/2026 20:43

This shambolic government - its utter chaos, the Tories were bad but Christ this lot are on another level.
Im really worried about where we’re heading, riots breaking out everywhere, the armed forces imploding, the police untrustworthy, we’re a laughing stock on the international stage.
Id say to call an early GE but I’m not a fan or reform either. At this point - I’d take the Tories back.
WTF is going on? I’m approaching 50 and I’ve never known the country in such a state.

AIBU to think we’re literally on the edge now? And what can actually be done to save it??

I am prone to anxiety so feel free to tell me on catastrophising

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Pastelpug · 12/06/2026 13:14

Blightfitting · 12/06/2026 06:55

Another thread like this, wildly overstating the apparently uniquely terrible state of our country.

Stop reading the internet and look out the window.

Things are not great. There are lots of big issues. But is this a uniquely terrible time for us, or are we a uniquely incompetent nation? Or course not. God, look around. Every western nation is struggling in various ways. To suggest that we are aj international laughing stock is absurd. Not only are we not anywhere near bad enough for that, but nobody else cares because they have their own problems.

The problems are easy to point out. Easy solutions are not, and we should be very wary of those who suggest differently. It's dead easy for any politician to just point to problems. But am legitimate complaint about labour is that they came in by doing that and without having done the hard work to come up with a workable alternative. Yet they are making slow progress in many places. People calling for them to go need to point to a better alternative. Depressingly I don't think there is an obvious one.

That's exactly where I'm at with my thinking
Labour are definitely not fantastic,and he seems determined to give our jobs to overseas people and determined to make it easy for employers to employ overseas people..and he seems determined to give our money overseas
And I'm sure he gets the thing about free speech in this country..or he does ,but only when it suits his agenda.
But ..is there a better alternative..right now ? This minute?
And if there was ..why were they not elected at the last election

BruceGrobbelaar · 12/06/2026 11:56

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ByGraptharsHammer · 12/06/2026 11:43

TheKittenswithMittens · 12/06/2026 11:40

I saw a report that came out at the end of the last government. State pension is around 30 per cent of mean income. The triple lock is being used to bring this figure up to about 33 per cent. Then it will be a single lock on mean earnings.

No my point is not that you can’t change it. You could. But no party will yet. The reason is that older people are core voters and the reason the thing was invented was to get the OAP vote.

All benefits uprating needs looking at. Labour are so unpopular they might as well do it. It will never be reversed.

TheKittenswithMittens · 12/06/2026 11:40

ByGraptharsHammer · 12/06/2026 11:38

No they wouldn’t. Anyway, it will end up being imposed on pensions and working benefits, so it’s a false choice.

TBH Labour are timid. They are horrifically unpopular for what? I mean, that is the joke. If you are going to be horrifically unpopular you may as well legislate and push forward a strong agenda. They don’t even do that!

I saw a report that came out at the end of the last government. State pension is around 30 per cent of mean income. The triple lock is being used to bring this figure up to about 33 per cent. Then it will be a single lock on mean earnings.

MulberryBrandy · 12/06/2026 11:39

HRTQueen · 12/06/2026 11:26

Its often said that the public have short memories when it comes to politics

This thread shows this to be very true

op I suggest you stop reading/listening/watching the news as you are obviously struggling with taking on new news and recalling correct information of the past maybe its overload for you and you are getting confused which is leading to a state of high anxiety

Definitely short memories. 30,000 in one demonstration in Trafalgar Sq against Mrs Thatcher's poll tax The OP was a teenager then but it was huge. That was just one of the 'riots' - the poll tax was done away with by John Major.

ByGraptharsHammer · 12/06/2026 11:38

TheKittenswithMittens · 12/06/2026 11:21

OAPS might accept scrapping the triple lock, if working age benefits were also cut, particularly to foreign born people.

No they wouldn’t. Anyway, it will end up being imposed on pensions and working benefits, so it’s a false choice.

TBH Labour are timid. They are horrifically unpopular for what? I mean, that is the joke. If you are going to be horrifically unpopular you may as well legislate and push forward a strong agenda. They don’t even do that!

TheKeatingFive · 12/06/2026 11:31

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 12/06/2026 11:28

Then they shouldn’t have done it! They capitulated to the masses, much like what’s happening right now with everything that’s running the country into the ground. Where are the strong politicians?!

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So what are you saying, no lockdown?

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 12/06/2026 11:30

HRTQueen · 12/06/2026 11:26

Its often said that the public have short memories when it comes to politics

This thread shows this to be very true

op I suggest you stop reading/listening/watching the news as you are obviously struggling with taking on new news and recalling correct information of the past maybe its overload for you and you are getting confused which is leading to a state of high anxiety

Please everyone place your heads collectively into the sand. Thank you.

EasternStandard · 12/06/2026 11:29

HRTQueen · 12/06/2026 11:26

Its often said that the public have short memories when it comes to politics

This thread shows this to be very true

op I suggest you stop reading/listening/watching the news as you are obviously struggling with taking on new news and recalling correct information of the past maybe its overload for you and you are getting confused which is leading to a state of high anxiety

It’s more about not deflecting and denying what Labour are doing rn as some do.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 12/06/2026 11:28

TheKeatingFive · 12/06/2026 11:23

To be fair, if you're going to shut down people's businesses and livelihood, there had to be compensation for that.

Then they shouldn’t have done it! They capitulated to the masses, much like what’s happening right now with everything that’s running the country into the ground. Where are the strong politicians?!

HRTQueen · 12/06/2026 11:26

Its often said that the public have short memories when it comes to politics

This thread shows this to be very true

op I suggest you stop reading/listening/watching the news as you are obviously struggling with taking on new news and recalling correct information of the past maybe its overload for you and you are getting confused which is leading to a state of high anxiety

Honeyhonay · 12/06/2026 11:24

TheKittenswithMittens · 12/06/2026 11:19

Furlough introduced people to the idea of free money from the government. It should have been loans similar to student loans that people paid back when their incomes recovered.

I mean the government mandated the industries closed, why on earth should the workers need to take a loan due to the government policy?

TheKeatingFive · 12/06/2026 11:23

TheKittenswithMittens · 12/06/2026 11:19

Furlough introduced people to the idea of free money from the government. It should have been loans similar to student loans that people paid back when their incomes recovered.

To be fair, if you're going to shut down people's businesses and livelihood, there had to be compensation for that.

concertinacornflake · 12/06/2026 11:23

TheKittenswithMittens · 12/06/2026 11:19

Furlough introduced people to the idea of free money from the government. It should have been loans similar to student loans that people paid back when their incomes recovered.

Personal loans! Absolutely ridiculous, and politically impossible.

TheKittenswithMittens · 12/06/2026 11:21

OAPS might accept scrapping the triple lock, if working age benefits were also cut, particularly to foreign born people.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 12/06/2026 11:21

Furlough was absolutely rinsed by the fraudsters.

TheKittenswithMittens · 12/06/2026 11:19

Furlough introduced people to the idea of free money from the government. It should have been loans similar to student loans that people paid back when their incomes recovered.

Marmalademorning · 12/06/2026 11:14

PropertyD · 12/06/2026 11:07

I thought that too. Public sector and people relying on benefits perhaps?

Well I’m public sector and I’m a life long Tory voter. We aren’t all cut from the same cloth.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 12/06/2026 11:12

PropertyD · 12/06/2026 11:07

I thought that too. Public sector and people relying on benefits perhaps?

Public sector are starting to get laid off under this government. When it reaches critical mass expect a surge to the right.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 12/06/2026 11:11

ByGraptharsHammer · 12/06/2026 11:04

Well you won’t hear me disagree on benefits, that was incoherent. Labour got a large majority because it offered a centrist position, and the implication for finances was cuts and taxes. Not just taxes

The government got in because the leader fronting the party seemed reasonable and John Major beige. The reality unfortunately was behind him was a party full of activists and so nothing sensible was ever going to be passed.

PropertyD · 12/06/2026 11:07

Marmalademorning · 12/06/2026 10:45

Absolutely staggered that 42% of voters actually think this Labour government is doing a good job! 😂

I thought that too. Public sector and people relying on benefits perhaps?

hattie43 · 12/06/2026 11:06

soddingspiderseason · 12/06/2026 08:45

Yeah because the Tories did so well? There would have been far less corruption if Labour had been in power during covid, and at least Starmer would not have been partying whilst the rest of us were in lockdown. But let’s face it, whatever they do will be wrong for some people.

Just as whatever they do will be right for others .

ByGraptharsHammer · 12/06/2026 11:04

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 12/06/2026 10:58

Actually it is a plan as if it wasn’t they would be actively trying to work against that model, and they are not.

They have the ability to bring in legislation to counteract pinch points and what they have done instead is drive growth down by making it more difficult to operate businesses and more expensive to employ staff whilst simultaneously adding billions to the welfare bill - any savings they had planned were u-turned on due to back bencher opposition.

Well you won’t hear me disagree on benefits, that was incoherent. Labour got a large majority because it offered a centrist position, and the implication for finances was cuts and taxes. Not just taxes

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 12/06/2026 10:58

ByGraptharsHammer · 12/06/2026 10:45

Well I don’t actually think it’s a plan. But it is what we have.

Growth agenda is??

Actually it is a plan as if it wasn’t they would be actively trying to work against that model, and they are not.

They have the ability to bring in legislation to counteract pinch points and what they have done instead is drive growth down by making it more difficult to operate businesses and more expensive to employ staff whilst simultaneously adding billions to the welfare bill - any savings they had planned were u-turned on due to back bencher opposition.

TheKeatingFive · 12/06/2026 10:58

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 12/06/2026 10:42

I thought Ireland had a huge problem with housing due to the influx of workers when the American tech bros used it for tax avoidance. I might be remembering wrong though.

They have a huge problem with housing yes, but not for that reason specifically.