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Is my bathroom wall art ‘tacky’

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Kelzzinsouth · 11/06/2026 18:42

Please settle a light hearted disagreement…Hubster says the new photo/poster I’ve put up in the downstairs loo will be considered ‘tacky’ by any visitors.

It’s the Mona Lisa but she’s holding her nose - you can see it on Google.

YABU - I agree with your Hubster
YANBU - it’s harmless

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Shoola · 14/06/2026 19:15

It is meant to be tacky. That is the whole point.

flagpolesitta · 14/06/2026 19:13

dudsville · 14/06/2026 12:30

OP, I think you need to go with your gut. You like these things. Put them up! Being "tasteful", "timeless", "elegant", "quite luxury", etc., all are in order to be seen in a particular kind of way or to live a particular kind of lifestyle. It's not the BEST lifestyle, it's just one option out of so, so many. Everyone needs to focus in on what they really like, and anyone who might be judgemental needs to keep it to themselves. It's boring.

This!

Anarchy99 · 14/06/2026 16:35

SwankyPants · 14/06/2026 13:48

IYKYK 🤣😉

🤣🤣🤣🤣

SwankyPants · 14/06/2026 13:48

Anarchy99 · 14/06/2026 13:20

Yeah but that’s class 😁 Do you also put cheese in the toilet tank?

IYKYK 🤣😉

Anarchy99 · 14/06/2026 13:20

SwankyPants · 14/06/2026 12:32

I got this in mine 🤷‍♀️

Yeah but that’s class 😁 Do you also put cheese in the toilet tank?

SwankyPants · 14/06/2026 12:32

I got this in mine 🤷‍♀️

Is my bathroom wall art ‘tacky’
dudsville · 14/06/2026 12:30

OP, I think you need to go with your gut. You like these things. Put them up! Being "tasteful", "timeless", "elegant", "quite luxury", etc., all are in order to be seen in a particular kind of way or to live a particular kind of lifestyle. It's not the BEST lifestyle, it's just one option out of so, so many. Everyone needs to focus in on what they really like, and anyone who might be judgemental needs to keep it to themselves. It's boring.

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · 14/06/2026 12:21

Anarchy99 · 14/06/2026 11:19

Baffled at how many have toilets upstairs and downstairs…

We have one halfway up the stairs - we converted stairs number 5-9 to make it, and it's really difficult to get around the side; as well as a slightly cramped one inside the larder fridge.

MrsShawnHatosy · 14/06/2026 11:24

omghereistrouble · 12/06/2026 11:19

Better not come in my bathroom then. I have a chihuahua sat on the loo reading a paper I find it always makes people smile its just harmless bit of fun

Oh I’d like that! I’m addicted to AI chihuahua videos on FB. 🫪

Anarchy99 · 14/06/2026 11:19

Baffled at how many have toilets upstairs and downstairs…

SaySomethingMan · 13/06/2026 20:33

ElenOfTheWays · 12/06/2026 15:21

We refer to our downstairs loo as "The Depository"
Must get a sign made. Grin

That made me chuckle. Love it. 😅😅

ElenOfTheWays · 12/06/2026 15:21

SaySomethingMan · 12/06/2026 00:38

I bought a sign that says ‘VIP ROOM’ for the downstairs loo but I chickened out when I got home.

We refer to our downstairs loo as "The Depository"
Must get a sign made. Grin

OrdinaryGirl · 12/06/2026 14:44

50Balesofgrey · 11/06/2026 18:48

Tacky, but not as bad as 'hubster'

Amen and amen.

Girlking · 12/06/2026 14:03

Couldn’t get past Hubster 😬

TheBlueKoala · 12/06/2026 13:22

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · 12/06/2026 09:34

I get that the pong is probably difficult to abide in his case, but I feel really sorry for your DH, as that's his life and he can't change it. You might as well make him wear a bell around his neck and shout "Unclean" when he comes near.

Nah, he's clean and proper so no need for that. And he's not miserable- he doesn't admit to his sins but claims that we are all bonkers.

TorroFerney · 12/06/2026 12:04

I’d say puerile rather than tacky.

tingalings · 12/06/2026 11:45

Off topic but when did the word 'hubster' start being used?

Never heard of it.

And as OP gave it an UPPER case for H I thought it was something like Reddit -some forum or online style guide.

I've only heard 'hubbie'.

omghereistrouble · 12/06/2026 11:19

Better not come in my bathroom then. I have a chihuahua sat on the loo reading a paper I find it always makes people smile its just harmless bit of fun

Canonlythinkofthisone · 12/06/2026 10:45

Good lord it's awful. Your poor hubster🤨
Also YABU to make everyone Google it rather than just post a picture.

ThatLilacTiger · 12/06/2026 10:42

Kelzzinsouth · 11/06/2026 18:52

He’s accepted it’s staying..he gets little say in decor options, not that he’s usually interested. He gets to decide on the more manly decisions around DIY etc.

Are there certain things you can only build with your dick?

SnowFrogJelly · 12/06/2026 10:40

Kelzzinsouth · 11/06/2026 18:42

Please settle a light hearted disagreement…Hubster says the new photo/poster I’ve put up in the downstairs loo will be considered ‘tacky’ by any visitors.

It’s the Mona Lisa but she’s holding her nose - you can see it on Google.

YABU - I agree with your Hubster
YANBU - it’s harmless

Tacky

as is calling DH ‘Hubster’

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 12/06/2026 10:40

I am not a big fan of mass-produced art anyway and particularly on bathroom walls. But my very much loved sister-in-law is a huge lover of having things like 'Eat' in the kitchen and 'Live Laugh Love' in the living room so I've learned to just not look. Their wall, their style, so you do you, OP. It shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks.

Calliopespa · 12/06/2026 10:38

Just googled the spray out of curiosity and there is one called Poo Be Gone @TheBlueKoala

Calliopespa · 12/06/2026 10:36

MrsShawnHatosy · 12/06/2026 10:27

Has he tried one of those sprays you spray on the water before pooing? V I Poo I think it’s called. I’ve also heard that striking a match quickly gets rid of poo smells.

I’ve also heard that striking a match quickly gets rid of poo smells.

Oh by the sound of the scale of this problem I wouldn't be trying that @TheBlueKoala! There might be more to ignite than you expect. House fire .... 😬

MrsShawnHatosy · 12/06/2026 10:27

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · 12/06/2026 09:34

I get that the pong is probably difficult to abide in his case, but I feel really sorry for your DH, as that's his life and he can't change it. You might as well make him wear a bell around his neck and shout "Unclean" when he comes near.

Has he tried one of those sprays you spray on the water before pooing? V I Poo I think it’s called. I’ve also heard that striking a match quickly gets rid of poo smells.