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AIBU to think USA has gone crazy - Karmelo Anthony is a murderer not a victim

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Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 14:32

From what I have read, Karmelo Anthony (who is black African American) took a concealed knife to a track event. When it started raining he ran to another team's tent to shelter. He was told to leave by a white athlete called Austin Metcalfe. KA refused saying ' 'Touch me and see what happens', According to one account I read he was repeatedly told to leave and replied the same way each time. Austin Metcalfe then pushed KA to get him to leave and KA pulled out the knife and stabbed AM in the chest, killing him.

Apparently sections of America are outraged that KA has now been convicted of murder. Possible sentence range in America is 5 to 99 years for this offence and he got 35 years.

I don't understand how this is not murder. In UK law if you can run away you must, and he didn't. In UK law if you kill someone when you could have run, you will be tried for murder.

KA took a knife. He could have left (even if he thought it was a dick move to ask him to leave when it was raining - you can't murder people for being dickish about their gazebo) but chose to not to, escalating the situation with threatening language and then stabbed a young man in the chest.

I just think something has gone terribly wrong in USA society where this man is treated as a victim, not the person who he killed, and this case is regarded as an injustice against him. I hope the UK does not go down this route.

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AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:03

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 19:57

No, you don’t have a leg to stand on here.
He was in his tent
He refused to leave
He was asked multiple times
He was the one carrying a knife

Nothing you say is going to swap the victim and the aggressor here.

I am not swapping them. So we are in agreement.

EasternStandard · 11/06/2026 20:02

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 19:55

Wait, so words are aggressive provocation, but physically shoving someone is perfectly ok? Not threatening at all?

You are welcome to your opinion, but under an equal justice system using physical violence is an escalation compared to verbal threats.

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Are you really equating a shove or push with murder?

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:01

Black boy saying words is more threatening, aggressive and scary than a white boy pushing and shoving.

That’s exactly the kind of racism we are highlighting.

Yes KA killed and should be punished, but the punishment should match the crime and when events are filtered through lens of racism that’s when you get punishments that do not match the crime. Certain criminals are let off easy and others have the book thrown at them and are made an example of.

Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 19:59

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 19:53

It’s also important to note that KA wasn’t under any physically threat. In fact Austin had said he would not fight him.

And saying I’m not fighting you while shoving a person reminds me a bit of the American police brutality tactic where someone is complying and calmly submitting to being arrested and they start beating the shit out of them while yelling Stop resisting! Stop resisting! (because they’re only supposed to use physical force if a suspect is violently resisting arrest)

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This comparison doesn’t apply at all. Because KA was not complying. He was being verbally aggressive and refusing to comply with them telling him to leave, instead provoking them with ‘touch me and see what happens’.

The account I read did not sound like Austin said ‘I won’t fight you’ whilst pushing him. But rather was saying ‘ I won’t fight you’ in response to KAs apparent invitation to a fight by saying ‘touch me and find out what happens’ .

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pinck · 11/06/2026 19:59

LilacOpal · 11/06/2026 16:39

The VAST majority of Americans don't know/care about this case, or if they do, think Karmelo Anthony deserved his sentence. You must be stumbling into some online black supremacist echo chambers and thinking they are more significant than they are. We've got other shit to worry about ... this is a nothing burger.

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Right… I mean, it’s on the national news so people definitely have heard of it, but that doesn’t mean normal people are treating it like some great reckoning. Half the country probably heard “Karmelo Anthony,” thought of Carmelo Anthony for two seconds, and then moved on with their lives.

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 19:58

Anyahyacinth · 11/06/2026 19:56

What worries me is how black children are seen as dangerous adults through the eyes of prejudice; things like Child Q in the UK whereas every benefit and excuse is applied to white offenders…like the man who drove into people in Liverpool who was described as a “family man”
There are complexities in the rape case you probably didn’t want to consider like 2 of the boys having very low i.q.s etc.. I don’t believe in children being handled by the justice system as if they are adults. Other countries have amazing detention schemes to actually rehabilitate child offenders.
There are many many rape cases where the perpetrators have evaded justice ..I care about them all..especially the series of ‘accidental’ strangulations

That’s funny because the Fordingbridge perpetrators are white and the public have been outraged by their ‘soft treatment’ to the extent they’re reviewing it..?

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 19:57

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 19:53

It’s also important to note that KA wasn’t under any physically threat. In fact Austin had said he would not fight him.

And saying I’m not fighting you while shoving a person reminds me a bit of the American police brutality tactic where someone is complying and calmly submitting to being arrested and they start beating the shit out of them while yelling Stop resisting! Stop resisting! (because they’re only supposed to use physical force if a suspect is violently resisting arrest)

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No, you don’t have a leg to stand on here.
He was in his tent
He refused to leave
He was asked multiple times
He was the one carrying a knife

Nothing you say is going to swap the victim and the aggressor here.

Anyahyacinth · 11/06/2026 19:56

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 19:49

So you agree with the Fordinbridge sentence on account of the age of the perpetrators?

What worries me is how black children are seen as dangerous adults through the eyes of prejudice; things like Child Q in the UK whereas every benefit and excuse is applied to white offenders…like the man who drove into people in Liverpool who was described as a “family man”
There are complexities in the rape case you probably didn’t want to consider like 2 of the boys having very low i.q.s etc.. I don’t believe in children being handled by the justice system as if they are adults. Other countries have amazing detention schemes to actually rehabilitate child offenders.
There are many many rape cases where the perpetrators have evaded justice ..I care about them all..especially the series of ‘accidental’ strangulations

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 19:55

Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 19:53

Being repeatedly told to leave to leave, being told ‘I won’t fight you’, yet still responding with aggressive, verbal provocation, in that context being pushed to get out of the faces of the people you are threatening, I don’t think can in regarded as a physical threat, rather than a physical ‘ go away and leave us alone’.

Wait, so words are aggressive provocation, but physically shoving someone is perfectly ok? Not threatening at all?

You are welcome to your opinion, but under an equal justice system using physical violence is an escalation compared to verbal threats.

Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 19:54

PistolPacker · 11/06/2026 19:53

KA was sent home pre trial wasn't he?

Yes he was.

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AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 19:53

It’s also important to note that KA wasn’t under any physically threat. In fact Austin had said he would not fight him.

And saying I’m not fighting you while shoving a person reminds me a bit of the American police brutality tactic where someone is complying and calmly submitting to being arrested and they start beating the shit out of them while yelling Stop resisting! Stop resisting! (because they’re only supposed to use physical force if a suspect is violently resisting arrest)

DavidStopActingLikeADisgruntledPelican · 11/06/2026 19:53

I knew nothing about this case until I googled it just now. It really is a terrible tragedy over something so apparently stupid and inane- leaving aside any accusations of racism, which as a white person who’s never been subjected to racism, I wouldn’t ever want to downplay that. I can understand why tensions are high on both sides right now. But either way, a boy is dead and multiple people including the perpetrator’s lives are ruined.

PistolPacker · 11/06/2026 19:53

Anyahyacinth · 11/06/2026 19:48

Totally agree…it’s the context and way a young black man was adultified whilst a white boy who raped and murdered his step sister is sent home pre trial

KA was sent home pre trial wasn't he?

Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 19:53

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 19:49

That’s not entirely true, if you’re being pushed/shoved you are being physically assaulted so some level of physical threat is acknowledged.

Being repeatedly told to leave to leave, being told ‘I won’t fight you’, yet still responding with aggressive, verbal provocation, in that context being pushed to get out of the faces of the people you are threatening, I don’t think can in regarded as a physical threat, rather than a physical ‘ go away and leave us alone’.

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Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 19:53

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 19:49

That’s not entirely true, if you’re being pushed/shoved you are being physically assaulted so some level of physical threat is acknowledged.

Being repeatedly told to leave to leave, being told ‘I won’t fight you’, yet still responding with aggressive, verbal provocation, in that context being pushed to get out of the faces of the people you are threatening, I don’t think can in regarded as a physical threat, rather than a physical ‘ go away and leave us alone’.

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Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 19:49

Anyahyacinth · 11/06/2026 19:48

Totally agree…it’s the context and way a young black man was adultified whilst a white boy who raped and murdered his step sister is sent home pre trial

So you agree with the Fordinbridge sentence on account of the age of the perpetrators?

Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 19:49

MyTwinklyMoose · 11/06/2026 19:47

You are repeatedly not listening and twisting what I am saying. And I am not interested in you ‘being generous’ to me. You have been rude and condescending and childish in your responses to me instead of having an adult debate, so I have no interest in replying to you any further.

Oh good.

Your not getting any more traction with anyone else I see though.

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AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 19:49

Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 19:45

It’s because you are refusing to see that being able to walk away makes a difference. I don’t know about the Ritten case, but as a general principle, yes, being able to get away makes all the difference.

It’s also important to note that KA wasn’t under any physically threat. In fact Austin had said he would not fight him.

Pretending these two factors are not relevant is so crazy that the only two explanations for it are ideology or intense stupidity. I’m being generous to you.

That’s not entirely true, if you’re being pushed/shoved you are being physically assaulted so some level of physical threat is acknowledged.

Anyahyacinth · 11/06/2026 19:48

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 19:16

It is my opinion that if the races had been reversed, Texas probably would have ruled it to be involuntary manslaughter rather than 1st degree premeditated and planned murder. This would have resulted in a much shorter sentence.

The protesters don’t believe KA is ‘the victim’ they are pointing out the negative racial bias against Black men that numerous sociological studies on the American justice system have uncovered.

Totally agree…it’s the context and way a young black man was adultified whilst a white boy who raped and murdered his step sister is sent home pre trial

MyTwinklyMoose · 11/06/2026 19:47

Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 19:45

It’s because you are refusing to see that being able to walk away makes a difference. I don’t know about the Ritten case, but as a general principle, yes, being able to get away makes all the difference.

It’s also important to note that KA wasn’t under any physically threat. In fact Austin had said he would not fight him.

Pretending these two factors are not relevant is so crazy that the only two explanations for it are ideology or intense stupidity. I’m being generous to you.

You are repeatedly not listening and twisting what I am saying. And I am not interested in you ‘being generous’ to me. You have been rude and condescending and childish in your responses to me instead of having an adult debate, so I have no interest in replying to you any further.

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 19:47

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 19:39

The white male privilege which means he’s now stabbed to death and his non white killer is strolling round a prison block in rude health?

Obviously not. Please reread and think about what is being said.

EasternStandard · 11/06/2026 19:47

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 19:39

The white male privilege which means he’s now stabbed to death and his non white killer is strolling round a prison block in rude health?

Yep. I’m glad the yanbu is convincingly a majority because some of the posts on this thread are bizarre.

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 19:46

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https://drive.google.com/file/d/1twIekbOTlto0wEtY0uAL_0IW__VV1Ity/view

MyTwinklyMoose · 11/06/2026 19:45

Doubledutchbuss · 11/06/2026 19:44

You also said ‘my point still stands’ meaning pushing someone you have asked to leave 15 times from a place he was not supposed to be is ok to result in your death from a knife through the heart

Except I have said repeatedly that he should have been convicted and jailed for murder, so please don’t put words in my mouth. My point is that both he and Rittenhouse should have been jailed for murder. Certain rolls on this thread are excusing one but condemning the other. That is why some people are kicking off, because of the lack of conviction for one. I think both should have been done for murder. And I don’t think 35 years for KA was enough, he stabbed that man with intent. So, please, don’t try and make out I feel differently when I have been repeatedly clear on that point.

Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 19:45

MyTwinklyMoose · 11/06/2026 19:33

You don’t know anything about my ideology at all, you’re simply making assumptions because I am calling you out on your points.
I have said, repeatedly, that they both should have been convicted of murder and jailed.

It’s because you are refusing to see that being able to walk away makes a difference. I don’t know about the Ritten case, but as a general principle, yes, being able to get away makes all the difference.

It’s also important to note that KA wasn’t under any physically threat. In fact Austin had said he would not fight him.

Pretending these two factors are not relevant is so crazy that the only two explanations for it are ideology or intense stupidity. I’m being generous to you.

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